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You don't know what to do about what? You are already in a relationship with him so he obviously likes you.

Honestly I am not seeing the problem here.

>>18112402
I'm incredibly insecure and crying 20% of the time because I can't handle being with someone who is out of my league

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>>18112398
Just consider that an awkward autistic guy who looks like a sack of potatoes would NEVER EVER get a girl who is "sweet and considerate", "way out of my league", "fit and a social butterfly". In fact he will probably never get anyone ever and die alone! Hope that helps!

I would highly caution against initiating a long-distance relationship. They are nothing but heartbreak and misery.

But if you must, I would suggest using the Internet.

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>>18112385
>How can I start talking to someone long distance?

We're doing it right now anon.

Doesn't sound like she takes your relationship seriously at all senpai, when she gets to pick (for the second time) between two work schedule and chooses the one that eats almost all of your together time - all without a word to you.

It's not a good sign no matter how you look at it. She doesn't value you and what you have together, at the very least as much as she should after 2.5 years together, I'd be pissed as well.

Do you have any problems in your relationship, that she could be trying to get away from? How good is your communication in general? It's hard for me to see it as anything other than a deliberate decision on her end to spend as little time with you as possible, the question is why that might be.

What I am wondering is what she seems to be hiding. There has to be a reason she is taking those extreme and unnecessary hours when living in a free house and already with savings. It does not seem like she is saving money for anything. And what makes it worse is that you said she was super defensive and angry over you complaining that she spends too much time at work. You are awake 16 hours a day, that is only 4 hours a day out of working for her, and that is without subtracting for travel and getting ready before work. Why is she so defensive and persistent on taking these major hours? Is she even at work for 12 hours? It sounds like she is just making up being at work for 12 hours and is spending 4 hours elsewhere. She won't talk to you at a lazy job, spends an extremely large amount of hours there, gets super defensive, has no defense to why she does it, and has no reason to spend that long there financially. Man up and ask her what is up and why is she taking such an extremely large amount of extra hours, and if she says "Do you think I'd really rather be at work, having to cancel dates than with you?" again, say "If not, then what reason would you take the extra hours? What reason is more important at work than spending time with your own boyfriend?". Find out what the fuck she is hiding.

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>>18112421
>Do you have any problems in your relationship
Nah, things have actually been great. If anything, it's maybe her anxiety towards the future - moving out of her parents, marriage, etc.

>How good is your communication in general?
It's...okay for most things, not great I'd say in the sense that she really does not take criticism well, ESPECIALLY not from me. When we fight, she'll ignore my messages for days. I've told her that that's really not cool, but she continues to do it. We fight very infrequently though so I don't see it as a huge problem at the moment.

>>18112424
Yeah, she works in a weird industry. She's a background actress, so these film companies hire her for the day, and she literally has no idea how long she'll be working that day, or how frequently they'll be using her in scenes. This specific show she's working on now is a bit different than most TV/Movies she does since it's 4 months of solid work, but most of the time she doesn't even get the work request until the night before, which makes trying to schedule things a nightmare. To be honest, I think it's the shittiest working situation ever and I'd never do it, but it doesn't seem to bother her.

>Man up and ask her what is up and why is she taking such an extremely large amount of extra hours
This is basically what our argument was about last year. It's really strange to me as well, but it's like she has this mindset that she can't turn down working hours. I think the problem is that her job is literally just sitting there talking to her work friends, reading, or playing boardgames for 90% of the day, so it's not shitty enough of a time to motivate her to choose to turn down some extra money, even if it ruins 30% of the year.

Do nothing, you did well.
Fuck bottle-flips

>>18112379
You're both fucking retarded. Apologize or something.

>>18112379
What is bottle flipping?

And what are you - about 12?

>>18112378
Real question: How is your family life right now?

If it is cancer, you can still get treated. Experimental treatments today have overwhelmingly large success rates, so you may be safe in the cancer department. As for the rest, just try to make a list of things you want to do to become better, write it on paper, and post it on your door/wall and try to follow it. Start it easy and get started. You can always make new friends and there are millions of women out there, and I am sure another one will look attractive to you.

>>18112404
Well my father died from cancer when I was 9.
My grandparents (his parents) aren't doing well in regards to health, she probably has dementia or Alzheimer's or something similar and he has heart issues. We used to get along really well but they have both changed drastically over the last few years, we still visit them but it's more of a chore than anything else really.
My other grandparents, well she is abusive and has been her whole life (to her husband and her kids). He doesn't really care anymore and just lives for his dog. I get along fairly well with them for some reason.
I see my mother regularly and I love her but lately it's been exhausting talking to her. Again, it feels like a chore.
I have 2 sisters, we get along great.
I don't see the rest of my family.

>>18112287
You and me both.
Male, 31.
I see people investing their money on fortune 500 companies, going self employed, all that nice stuff. I can't even begin to save up enough to invest in a small business, it's always something, and I'm always broke.

I look everywhere for an escape, power washing company? no, make sandals and sell them on ebay...no, invest the money on a soldering kit and start building circuits and sell stuff online..no, save..save! aw shit, wasted another 20$ on burger king..

meh. sometimes I wish I was a farmer out there not worrying about all this.

>>18112287
Like it or not, a degree, any degree, gives you an amount of flexibility that people without can never have. Tons of jobs don't even care what your degree is, only that you have one. I'd say stick it out man. You're halfway there.

>>18112287
Shoulda picked STEM faggot.

No really, I'm in a similar boat. I'm 32 and I have never had a job above "minimum wage" (no such thing in my country, but I've always been poor af and basically a bottom feeder). But I started a STEM degree at university (tuition costs and part gime wage greatly cut my standard of living) 4.5 years ago and now I'm almost through. I can see light at the end of the tunnel.

Deal w/ your shitty life choices or change the direction yourlife is going.

mouth washer.
but be warned, it'll also kill good bacteria in your mouth and strip away your mucus shield.

>>18112281
What exactly do you dislike about brushing your teeth? Like does it hurt or what precisely is it?
I would say there is no alternative to brushing them, it's necessary. And things like mouth wash won't really remove residues on your teeth. Big things sure, but not the smaller things that will turn your teeth yellow.

I use AVG antivirus.

>>18112188
Avast Free if it's a virus or Malwarebytes if it's malware and then I use CCleaner for good measure to fix any registry problems that may have resulted from a virus or malware

format and prevention is the best way to get rid of viruses.
Anti-viruses are somewhat unreliable, they can only catch older viruses. And some serious exploits like buffer overflow attack aren't really caught by AV.

ALSO I GET HEAVY PERIODS

Coat hangers

If you want to keep losing weight, exercise more and eat at a calorie deficit. Your birth control is not going to make a significant difference in your weight loss, your diet and exercise will

A dick is like a slave on a man's body that lives an awful life, but is on good terms with the owner. It spends the majority of its time in a cramped, hot, humid, and dark place. Taken out only to use the restroom, to be cleaned, to be beaten, or to be thrust into another cramped, hot, humid, slippery, dark place until it vomits. As a slave it has a mind of its own, and occasionally will stand up and try to look around. The owner has no control over this, but does have control over whether or not to put it to work since it's already up. This happens whether the owner is awake or not, and is completely involuntary. Sometimes it wants to look around at inopportune times, such as just before giving a business presentation or just prior to hugging Grandma. Other times the owner sees something and the owner's interest alerts the slave to get up. But a variety of reasons such as age or nerves can cause the slave to refuse to stand even though the owner is very interested in what he sees. There's no rhyme or reason to the slave's actions as only the slave knows why it does what it does

>>18112160

men are like women in the sense that they can be aroused and not need to get off, or that they can get ready for just about any occassion if pressured into it.

morning wood tends to be non sexual, its just the way the blood flows at night. i have an erection for a lot of the night i notice.

also even if he is horny morning sex is just exhausting. even if they do all the work , your orgasm is more numb than usual and kinda uncomfortable.

like when someoen you dont like tickles you.

>>18112160
hell I always loved the morning fuck. You see, I have a slightly different impression from those other anons.I found out there indeed is a kind of boner that works... strangely. It may happen in the morning, after cumming or ocasionally at some other time as well.
This type of boner is not numb in a strict sense - it just doesn't "charge" with pleasure, meaning you can fuck for hours at an end (tho more likely it's going to be shorter) before you finally cum.
This of course may lead to some really nice sex if you happen to be the kind of guy who likes to pleasure a woman.
There are also other types. If I don't cum for an extended period of time, the head grows to it's maximum size giwing me a centimeter or even two more. Of course ejaculation will come faster in this case.

Get a phone with a better camera

Is your phone a potato? All it takes is a recent-ish model and decent lighting

>>18112157
>>18112155
I don't know where to begin. I had a Samsung Galaxy but it still looked bad in quality. What's a better phone for pictures?

>>18112145
Maybe it's your diet. Do you eat heavy meals right before you go sleep? Like spaghetti with a lot of tomato sauce? Just things that would make your stomach go on a heartburn attack(?)

>>18112145
This is totally normal. Eating a large spicy, salty, acidic, or cheesy supper contributes. HR Giger gave himself nightmares by this method to inspire his iconic art!

Even so, all REM phases (your dreaming state) involve highly negative/aversive content. Dr. Domhoff and others have basically proven this is a combined mechanism of memory consolidation and learning that would have been adaptive to pre-verbal organisms. For instance; you see sabre-tooth cat. Fortunately, it doesnt notice you. In your dreams, you prepare repeatedly for situations where it DOES notice you and you have to act.

>>18112208
Posts like this are why I love 4chan

>>18112137

they can apparently reduce the symptoms of eppilepsy by slicing your brain right down the center.

this apparently has very few negative side effects because the brain is technically two separate organs, two separate entities, who just happen to have a few bridges between them. they still function fine when separated, but it means your brains dont talk to each other anymore.

so they started doing some basic experiments on people who had this procedure done, namely asking them questions like 'pick up the block that is your favorite color'

surprisingly, each hand would pick up a different block. the human would seem confused by this, and then try to rationalize it with a story like 'oh this looked blue when i saw it, then i realized it wasnt blue so grabbed the blue one with my other hand' or 'oh i used to love this one, but then i saw this oen and realized ITS my favorite'

but what sicentist believe is that the brains have two seperate personalities, and since each half of your brain controls a different part of your body, they chose different colors, and the part that talks, which is limited to only one side of the brian makes up a story to rationalize.

it turns out your brain is actually having a debate iwth itself anytime a question is asked, and they have to form a consensus in your head.

science.

>>18112137
>>18112237

ive heard that talking to yourself out loud helps your other brain hear whats going on and keeps you on the same page, so try that,

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>>18112113
>Infantry
Probably a surprise field training exercise.

Of all fields, why infantry?

>>18112133
When they say surprise I guess they arnt fucking around.
>>18112140
I says it sounded exciting and likely to see action. In my opinion I don't think he was in a really good place when he chose it.

Something in the second measure sounds off but I don't know enough about music theory to tell why. What are you going for? It sounds like chase scene music

>>18112103
I make music and this sounds like poo poo, my man.