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cant get an interview 2017-03-09 07:53:45 Post No.18113362
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I have applied to a job on 3 different occasions over the last 2 years via the internet, I am qualified to do it and would enjoy it most likely... but they never call ever not even for an interview what the fuck am I doing wrong? Could it be that I have been self employed the last 9 years?
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>>18113362
Maybe there's something off about your resume.
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>>18113372
Maybe it just list what ive been doing and relevant skills pretty basic
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>>18113362
You've only applied 3 times, it doesn't sound like you're putting much effort into it.
And yes, being self-employed is a big red flag. If you were successful at being self-employed, you wouldn't need to look for a job.
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How do I get good at math/physics?
I've always been terrible with everything involving numbers with the exception of (some parts of) chemistry, and now that I'm studying for college it seems I'm getting my ass beaten again (no, I'm not underage, I just stayed away from education for a few years). How do I get good at this shit? I NEED to get good at this, the entry grade for my course is pretty high and my proficiency in humanities and biological sciences aren't enough.
>inb4 exercise
I try to but I almost always get the answer wrong and can't manage to learn how to get to the results.
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Study, study, and more study. Watch YouTube videos, and ask help from your teacher.
>That's what I did.
>I'm mentally challenged.
> Still got 70%. Oh yeah baby.
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https://www.khanacademy.org/
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>>18113383
>This
Try to understand the concepts then solve some problems
I am convinced that I am getting stupider every day. I ll probably drop out, never had problems with learning before. Math (even things i done without any effort) are now impossible to solve. I don't remember anything when i am reading. I have to read one page more than 3 times, but i still can't tell what it was actually about. I am getting shy, my conversations are on a really bad level. I have no idea what to say, i am feeling awkward. Guys what should i do? I'm 19, I am pretty sure that i was actually smarter 5 years ago.
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>>18113340
That's weird see a doctor
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>>18113340
What is your life style like? How much sleep do you get?
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Same here
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So, last night, the girl I love replied to the message I sent her where I confessed my feelings. (We know each other in person, but I decided to go the text route - LiveJournal specifically - because I'm a coward.) Here's her response.
>Aaron...
>*hugs her dear, sweet Aaron tightly*
>Thank you for being honest with me. Your words and your feelings make me feel warm inside. I always feel happy whenever I get a new message from you. I love you.
>Let me get the painful clarification out of the way... I don't mean that romantically. If that hurts you to read, please believe me when I say it hurts even more to write. I don't want to linger on this any longer than I have to, so... let's move on, shall we?
>I love you, and I'll make sure we always share a deep bond. I can still hug you tight. I can still give you kisses on the cheek. I can still give you Christmas presents and talk to you every day. And, most importantly, we can be a part of each other's life forever. You don't have to be husband and wife to always play a role in someone's life.
>You make me feel warm. You make me feel happy. I love you. I'm sorry.
It... really hurts, and I kind of want to cut ties for a while to lick my wounds... but I don't want to punish her by canceling our friendship, especially when she tried so hard to be sweet in that message and spare my feelings as much as she could. She takes her friendships very seriously and never wants to break up with a friend no matter how damaged the relationship becomes. She really does have a pure heart.
What do?
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Cut your losses, you only wanted her in your life because you wanted to bone her.
I'd recommend slowly phasing her out, making sure she initiates contact, and you can find someone else to obsess over that might give you a chance.
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>>18113345
I don't think my feelings are that simple, though. She's reasonably attractive, but she gives me heartboners just as much as actual boners.
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>>18113347
Well when she's getting Chad's cum tipped dick wiped off on her lips, what kind of heart feels is she going to give you then?
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How do you deal with loneliness? I have plenty of hobbies and shit but I have absolutely no one to share everything with. I also have plenty of friends but I still feel lonely.
Is the answer simply to get a girlfriend?
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>>18113326
Short answer: yes.
Long answer: work on becoming the type of person who has a girlfriend, rather than the type posting on message boards for relief of loneliness. Cultivate interests that girls will share. Find places and activities that put you in cooperation with females, like volunteer for things you believe will help people (there will be women there). Exercise. Work on your mental health. Practice being more comfortable socializing.
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>>18113335
I am most of those things though. I exercise almost every day, I'm partly running the local running club, am pretty comfortable in a social setting.
The only thing I'm not is comfortable being on my own. It's such a void. I used to love being alone but now I dread it.
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>>18113326
no. if you feel lonely with socializing and hobbies a girlfriend doesn't cure that.
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So Im studying a Science degree, majoring in Physics, and I have the opportunity to change to Engineering. Doing so would add two years of study to my uni, and Ive been in for 2 already, but having a BE would be better for jobs than a BSc, right?
What do?
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Yes, physics is worthless to employers.
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If it were me, I would stick with physics and work in the public sector or finance
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>>18113581
HA. That's hilarious. If OP wants to do that route he better be at a stunning university.
Otherwise OP, a bachelor's in physics won't do much for you. If you don't intend to continue with the degree engineering is a better option.
Is there anyway I can desensitise myself to vomit?
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Watch a lot of vomit porn
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>>18113316
Why??
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>>18113451
Emetaphobia's very common.
t. former emetaphobe. confronted my fear head-on and unintentionally after a drinking contest. more specifically, a gallon of mtn dew challenge for 50 bucks.
Since one of our buddies was an alcoholic, we couldn't drink the big boy drinks.
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Should I see a doctor? 2017-03-09 07:01:01 Post No.18113256
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Last night, I slipped and fell flat on my back. Now my back and neck hurt. I can still walk and shit, but the pain is probably a 6.5/10. I normally have lower back pain, but now I am experiencing it in my upper back and neck as well. Should I go see a doctor? Should I call out sick from my job and get some rest, or tough it like a warrior?
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Do you feel any pain, burning or tingling in your shoulder, arm or hand? How about down your butt into your hamstring?
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>>18113274
My shoulder hurts a little too, but not in a burning or tingling way. My butt is a little sore, but no burning or tingling. Hamstrings feel fine.
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>>18113280
Can you afford medical bills right now because they will probably run expensive scans on you to make sure you haven't fractured anything and to possibly looked for a bulging disc. It will be a just in case thing.
That isn't to say that you didn't slip a disc or fracture something and the symptoms might show up later. They will probably check you out for worst case scenario and give you a script for 800mg ibuprofen.
If I were you I would just take it easy for a week and see how you feel then but it is your body.
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My girlfriend is upset I don't like sex 2017-03-09 06:52:50 Post No.18113239
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My girlfriend is upset I don't like sex
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I'm a total artificial heart recipient and on countless meds to keep me somewhat functioning. I'm always tired and extremely depressed with a low libido because of my lexapro. She gets really upset and thinks that I'm not attracted to her and don't like having sex with her, honestly it is exhausting, I have no sex drive to initiate, and I can't cum anymore. I love her so much and she's extremely attractive and sexy but I just can't fuck. What do I do.
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>>18113239
These troll threads get dumber and dumber every day.
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>>18113246
How is this a troll
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>>18113239
She has sexual needs and if you are unable to provide then you either open the relationship up for her or let her go. If the role was reversed you would deep down inside want her to give you the same.
Guilt and ego are what is keeping her with you right now. She doesn't want to feel like a bad person for leaving you when you are down but she is secretly hoping you either fuck her or let her go.
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Hey /adv/, I've seen some of these similar threads b4 so I might as well try to make one and ask for advice
Recently I got sued by bank of america for not paying my 2-3 years old credit card, the debt isn't monumentally big (2700 dollars) but I'm unemployed so I can't really pay them (or you could say not wanting to too).
So I've been doing some researching around and know the best course of action is hiring a lawyer but since im broke as fuck, I'm trying to find other alternative ways to solve this problem. Some people say you can just let it go to default since I don't really own anything expensive to my name so they won't have anything to take away from me anyway, but that doesn't sound like a good idea for the future.
I know I have to make a response to the court to avoid a default judgement, but I'm not so sure what gonna happen next after that, which is what im hesitate to write a response on my own and thinking of just hiring a lawyer.
Anybody who has experience from that can share your stories or give some advice?
Also not sure if this helped but I really didn't expect BoA themselves to do the suing since im pretty sure they sold my information to a debt collection agency which is why i ignore them in the first place.
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If you can just pay it off now.
You're going to end up having to pay 10 times as much when they're done with you, with all the fees and what not.
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Just ignore it and default. Dont even go to court. What's the worse that can happen? They garnish your wages youre not even making because youre a fuckup with no job or assets?
Your credit is going to tank, but it's probably terrible already so it wouldnt matter.
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I have observed in many instances women treating their husbands like shit. My boyfriend's dad is such a nice, sweet guy. However his mom is consistently a horrible bitch to her husband, berating him and talking down on him for things he didn't manage to accomplish in life on a daily basis. She's never truly had to work to support herself in her life. I like many people have witnessed this kind of behavior a lot, and it makes me so mad but mostly confused.
Men why would you put up with that shit? Especially when it's coming from someone who is weaker than you it must be so hard to resist just decking them for treating you like that.
I personally couldn't be with someone like that. It isn't tough love. It's abusive.
I was raised by my dad and never really grew up much around women, so maybe I'm missing something. Everything I cherish the most I owe to the men in my life. Men are, with a few exceptions, the hardest working among us. I love my boyfriend more than life itself and shiver at the thought of ever treating him like that. If I ever felt that I was going to become that way I would rather just end the relationship immediately rather than let it pan out to be a long hurt-filled and toxic experience for him.
I know there are men out there who treat their women poorly too but that is a topic for another day.
TL;DR
Why are so many women comfortable with treating you like shit and most importantly why do you guys put up with it? I'm sure many people will say "sex" but is it really worth being with someone who doesn't respect and love you?
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because they settled. maybe have the notion that the bitch is the best they got (at the time) and don't want to start over. divorce is costly and kids make it more difficult, so some just stick it out. or their parents were divorced and have this idea as a kid that they won't end up like them.
friends wife is like this. when she gets uppity and ive had a few drinks already, its fucking game on. I berate her into last week while my buddies face is ashen. then i pour another drink while she's fuming that someone would have the gall to backtalk to the queen bitch. surprised I still get invited back over there still.
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>>18113182
the only reason i can see is "for the kids". personally, i dont tolerate anyone treating me like that, much less a gf or wife.
>it must be so hard to resist just decking them for treating you like that.
it is, but then you think of the incarceration and social consequences and realize its not worth it. but it is definitely tempting.
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>>18113182
>most importantly why do you guys put up with it?
It's never like that in the beginning. It gets like that AFTER you sign the lifetime legal contract that says she gets half of your money if you ever lay a finger on her or yell at her too loud. It gets like that when you've got children together, and you want to be able to stay around them and be a good father without a judge ordering you away from them.
Basically, it gets like that when she realizes she's got you completely trapped. Then she turns into a torturer.
It's like that Stanford prison experiment, where they took a bunch of normal kids and told some of them to role-play "prison guards," and others to role-play "prisoners." The "guards" pretty quickly revealed some nasty tendencies for sadism and authoritarianism. Absolute power isn't good for anyone.
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How should I feel about this? Am I over reacting again? 2017-03-09 06:29:22 Post No.18113166
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How should I feel about this? Am I over reacting again?
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My girlfriend has just confessed to having a crush on yet another guy... We have been together for 2 years and this happened before after our 1st year and she kept it behind my back from the beginning. Isn't confessing to a crush something you bring up doing to your partner BEFORE doing it? to see what their reaction would be? no, lest time she did it and tried to keep it behind my back until i found out she spent a whole day at his house. In the end i found out nothing happened and yadayada somehow ending up my fault in the end and shit. but now its happening again, she talks to this dude all day everyday sending cutesy pictures on snapchat and stuff. i just thought, "eh, they are just good friends." she says all the time, but i just recently discovered that she confessed to having a crush on him and he confessed back. I found out on my own again in some not very proud of ways (saw her freak out about it to her friends on a facebook chat) and when i brought it up and asked why she didnt bring up doing it BEFORE it happened she just flipped on me for knowing and sent me home. The first thing she did was mumble "damn" under her breathe before waiting a while and blowing up at me like its 100% my fault... I think im just overreacting seeing as how the dude used to live close and now lives in california, but i want to solve this issue fast because the dude plans to come up for visits and im like no... then she blew up even more saying its not fair when I'm not even allowed to TALK with somewhere i tell her i like let alone hang out with them.
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Bang her one last time and dump the shit out of her pathetic ass. Don't be a cuck.
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>>18113166
Dude, it's over as soon as she's sneaking around and hiding things like that. Just leave her, while you've still got a few scraps of dignity left
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Leave her, you deserve better
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i am becoming extremely depressed thinking about the future, and all the things we are going to miss, in 2100, 2200, 2300 etc... i feel like its not fair and it makes me feel like crying.. wtf is wrong with me
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What things exactly?
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>>18113192
technological advancements...if in 1990 we had pagers and HUGE phones which only the rich could afford and in 2007 we got a device which you can do everything on, keep notes, check the time, listen to music, watch videos, play games, take pictures, browse the web... imagine what there will be in 300 years time or even 1000. another is rising sea levels could wipe some countries out, which i would love to see. and just possible other things like proof of life outside of earth etc
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>>18113219
don't worry buddy, CRISPR tech will cure aging in 50 years tops
Ok, /adv/, i have a question that isn't really /adv/ related since much of the content here is related with depression, but whatever
>be 12
>masturbate for first time
>cum
>best feeling in the world, whole body feel incredible
>be in year 2017
>masturbate
>cum
>barely get any feeling, i just feel sperm flowing out and a tiny bit of pleasure
It's not even like i masturbate too much, i only do it once every 3 days or so
Is it normal ? how do i get old feeling ?
would nofap for 2 months or so help me ?
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You need to find new fetishes and spend more time masturbating before you cum. I like to read erotic stories and look at pics for quite a while, sometimes an hour or more edging myself the whole time. When I finally do push myself over the edge it's always so much better than if I did it quickly.
What kind of kinks do you like anon? I think you should experiment looking at new types of stuff. I used to be very vanilla but I had this gf who was kinda chubby and now I'm super attracted to that body type. A while ago I just started randomly browsing /d/ and later /trash/ and found some... Unusual things I really enjoyed.
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Probably, even just 2 weeks of nofap is enough to get that old excitement back.Or you can just fap less, like once a week.
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fapping more or finding new fetishes won't help
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How do I stop the feeling of having no girlfriend?
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Masturbate.
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Join the party (stuffs face with Cheetos).
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PM me if you do find out