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My girlfriend who's been searching for a job or 6 months now and has put out over 100 applicatons got an interview at Victoria's Secret at 4pm today. She was all prepped and ready to go, left an hour early ready for a public bus (Ottawa City Transpo) which would arrive at 3:05, 3:15 and 3:25. It was 30 minutes late and ultimately led to my girlfriend being 2 minutes late to the interview. The interviewer refused to interview her and she was turned away despite her situation. She then cried in a mall bathroom for about an hour. She really needed that job.

Obviously I can't take on a whole shitty bus company, but how do I ruin this manager cunt's life from the inside?

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I want to major in computer science but the anons here say it's a lot of math. In high school I was never that good at math

>Is it a IQ thing
>Am I just not smart enough

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I'm a 20 y/o bisexual female and I've recently realised that I only truly fall for guys that are my height, and I'm 5'5". Not that I ignore or dislike tall guys (5'11" is the average height for men in my country, for women it's 5'6"), I like everyone who is funny, smart and that i click with, but something about people being as tall as you makes them so much more special. Am I weird for this mindset? Is there some underlying character trait that shows that I'm a narcisstic freak or something?

Another thing is that I like girls that are just a few inches taller than I am a bit more that those of the same height as I am. I don't prefere someone to be shorter than me but I don't mind it or think about it then and there.

These questions have been roaming my head for days and these realizations haven't helped much, especially seeing that, in my head, the "rules" on what's considered to be attractive about male and female height are switched and it's been bothering me a lot, to say the least.

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So, there's this girl I liked, we would talk on the phone for several hours every single day. One day because of the circumstances I confessed that I liked her and she said she liked me too and was interested in me, which was great and led to me creating expectations and getting attached to her.

This Monday she was inviting me out and we had a lot of fun. The day after, Tuesday, she didn't want anything else with me. I asked why and she said she still liked me and I hadn't done anything wrong, but that she was very bad at dealing with breakups and with getting hurt, she was afraid that if we kept going further we would eventually get hurt and it would hurt much more than if we just ended it now or something. So basically she is afraid that we wouldn't work out like her last relationships didn't work out and wants to end it early despite still liking me.

I told her that I wouldn't insist and that she should think about it, and if she changes her mind she should tell me today. But I'm thinking if it wouldn't be worth actually trying to insist and talk this out with her, or if that would be just annoying and clingy. The problem is that I had underestimated how much I would miss talking with her over the phone, life was so much better with her and now I feel like there is a giant hole, it doesn't help that she still likes me so I feel like this is all just a huge mistake

What would you do? Is it worth insisting? What do I tell her?

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I'm jealous of my girlfriend, no not because she has guys taking to her. but it's because she's literally above me as a responsible person:
>she fully decided to go to prom earlier. For more complex reasons, I didnt and count go.
>she registered to vote on time
>she may have missed the first College application time, but she somehow learned from her mistake and is in college now
what makes it even more biting is that she's taking psychology on her first semester, which means SHE of all people will understand people better now.
I'm not used to her being better than me. she presents herself as unassumming abd nothing special, yet she's more capable in things than I thought. for the longest in high school I saw myself above her, not even wanting to officially date her to save my reputation. but now this is happening.
am I immature? and if so, what's my solution? if changing makes me feel less petty I'd do it

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So I stopped jerking off, got /fit/ and got a decent job. Then I got a starter gf, basically average looking 6/10 with big tits, she's shy/quiet and very clingy, but loves to cook and clean and take care of me :O. I like her, she's a good person but she really 'loves' me.

Now I want to upgrade, met a very cute girl recently who is interested in me, but I don't know how to break up because the relationship is going perfectly fine, every day is good, no arguments, sex is good, everything is jolly…If I break up with her I imagine she'd be really devastated for a long time, confused and alone, she's not outgoing or social. And while I really like her and want her to be happy, I dunno if I "love love" her..

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> female mid 20s, above average, career driven, a little sheltered, and more than likely undiagnosed aspie.
> decide to start dating
> same feedback: cold, robotic, not affectionate, bad conversationalist and communicator, competitive, arrogant.
> I want to change without too much compromise to my real self.

I want to be normal. any tips, resources anything would be highly appreciated.

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Is there any remaining man stuff that men are even allowed to do anymore?

Everything is so fucking metrosexual. In fact the entire world just feels like the rich 1% of men at the top are laughing at the rest of us, who have to put up with feminism, and constant cucking on a daily fucking basis.

I want to become a man with a strong family and lots of babies. Is that a strange aspiration to have? NO, IT ISN'T - this is the EXACT aspiration that men have had for GENERATIONS (go back to even the 1950s and this is what would have been expected of young men then)

Is this an aspiration that I can even fulfil in today's world? How?

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.

>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, that guy who says monogamy is dead and fart guy
Fuck off

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I envy dudes who can just tell a woman to fuck off or say to hell with her and just leave her the fuck alone.

I have been stuck on a woman for like 5 years now. She told me she likes me and yet she never texts me and ignores my texts like all the time.

I would move on but I just have no other option. She is the first and only girl to give me any sort of attention. I just don't have the means to meet more women so I just go crawling back to this woman who I think likes me.

I am stuck unfortunately. It like being in a desert and the only water to drink is a few sips of dirty water a day so you just drink it because you need to live. I envy dudes who can drink the purest of water and tell dirty water to go fuck off.

How do I achieve such levels of hydration?

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So I accidentally invented something really revolutionary in the field of music.

I saw a big, big problem, for which all existing solutions were inadequate, and I looked for a solution, and I found it. It's perfect, and it is unlike everything else that exists. As a matter of fact, if it did exist... We would all know about it.

How do I bypass the shitty "start small" advice delegated by every fuck that invented a new Ramen cooker and get funding to go national ASAP, as is deserved by such a revolutionary product? I have a plan for monetization that is not compatible with starting small.

I can't tell you what it is unless you are directly and specifically in a position to assist me.

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So after masturbating to porn for years, I've finally made a promise to myself and stopped whacking it. I've gone cold turkey for a few weeks and I have absolutely no desire to view porn....

...but I also have no desire for real sexual contact with women. It's like my dick has completely stopped working. I am 28, fit, I workout regularly, not depressed or anything. I wake up with mini boners, sometimes semi-dreaming about women, but they quickly go away.

During the day I have no desire for women, when meeting women in real life I have no real desire for anything sexual. Its freaking bizarre.

When will my dick work again? Im kind of freaking out.

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About to dry my hair, any suggestions?

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Went today to read on a bench in a park. Hoping that a pretty girl will come an talk to me. Put a nice cover on my book(with pictures), because the original cover was boring. It didn't last even 30 mins because my lower back started to hurt. It seems that, that bench is nothing like my comfy chair from home. What should I do? Should I continue tomorrow ? I got nothing better to do anyway.

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What are you supposed to do when you are a boring piece of shit that nobody wants to ever hang out with?