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I didn't do a project for school, should I skip class or face the consequences?
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Face it, don't make the habbit of not. The other part is much more shittier in the long run.
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>>18110320
Skipping it might provide you short-time relief, but it'll affect you in long run.

The more consequences you've faced, the more stronger you. The more you skipped, the weaker you are.
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Face it

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How to cause high profile bullying and relationship friction between a group of assholes,Im bored and I need to see shit start.
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fucking bump
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>>18110287
bump
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>>18110287
What did they do to you? If anything at all?

No one who isnt a literal psychopath would want to cause problems to "assholes" (or, people who are more popular than you).

Do you guys think forcing us to go outside, maybe a park or a mall, would help us? no interacting, just sitting somewhere and watch the occasional ass and tits passing.
I thought about dropping the internet as a whole and start living based on going outside to meet our biological social needs and single player videogames, also to escape all these failed normies which invaded us and not wanting to kill myself trying to get to bed time.
I'm so fucking scared...will I die? Have you done this?
I know girls do this all the time, you just see them alone doing nothing or reading.
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Stop being a faggot and shut the fuck up.
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>>18110260
any advices?
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>>18110258
>no interacting, just sitting somewhere and watch the occasional ass and tits passing.

Dude, duuude. Come on, man. You can't live looking at life through the window. You can't live only thinking about girls. Specially not like this.

GO outside, but do SHIT. Meet people. Form part of society.

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I'm responsible for the development of several core tools for the current company I work at. The person whom I directly report to does not know the language these tools are written in but insists on going in to the source to add "fixes" which result in him absolutely clobbering the design and, inadvertently, the logical flow of these programs. He claims that the code "shouldn't be this hard to edit" and blames me every time with an inexplicable conviction that it's my fault that the tools no longer work properly when he introduces his changes.
It's gotten to the point where I have to review every single commit he makes to our repo to verify if his code is going to shit the bed or not which is ridiculous as reviewing code and giving the green light for moving to production is literally his job. Any time there's an issue he makes sure to pin it on me in every company meeting which we hold once a week so all the employees know how great he is and how I clearly don't know what I'm doing because bugs just keep appearing.
This guy is the CTO of the company. The CEO and I get along great and every time the CEO asks me to perform some new task, my boss is quick to come up with an excuse why that isn't a good use of my time and reassigns it to an unrelated coworker who has no knowledge of the specific problem leaving me with significantly less than full-time work hours.

How do I work around this? Should I bring complaints up with the CEO or is that inappropriate as the CTO is in charge of the technical aspects of the company and isn't something the CEO should be worrying about (despite the CEO having final say in direction of the company as a whole).
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if you have a good connection with the ceo, Tell him in all honesty after getting his vow that your words are just between the two of you. Also make sure to tell him, that you are not malevolent about your boss or want to stab his back. but this hinders the forthcoming of the company by wasting time and resources.
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>>18110254
document document document

record your code working. record it shitting the bed on his commit. keep all emails and make sure you are clear that these issues are his in your emails

have evidence so that when he tries to say things are your fault you can prove that's not the case
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>>18110420
I agree with this OP. Also sounds like your boss is fearful of allowing you to succeed by intervening on the ceo's assignments to you. Missing those assignments is costing you hours and money, his making you look bad in meetings is also damaging your reputation and possibility of promotion and more work which is also costing you money. He is stealing from you and the company by destroying productivity. He is a liability and you need to take care of this, leave the company or needlessly languish in a bad spot. This guy is standing between you and your potential future success. You know what to do. Time to do it. Good luck and Godspeed.

Divorced, ex wrecked me financially ,no friends, pull 10hr graves at $13 hourly because I enjoy the solitude anyway. Was planning on using my gi Bill for training and doing OTR. I know 75k as a first year is a meme, but it doesn't seem like I'd be making less than I am now.
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>>18110233
Because you are alone and feeling unsocial you are drawn to a job that would be solitary and unsocial.

Wouldn't it be healthier to find a job that would put you among people and help you get through your depression?
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>>18110233
Should make around 50k first year. Buthe you can find a whole lot of trucker blogs that can help you out much better than 4chan. Do you pay child support? What I am actually asking is will your ex be getting a pay raise?
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>>18111634
Nah, no alimony or kids

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My girlfriend is stunningly hot, a model, and a 26 year old virgin. Or was until I took her virginity last week. On a scale of 1-10 how attached will she be to me now? Is it true chicks go all weird and obsessive on the dudes that pop their cherry?
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26 year old virgins are usually mentally Ill anyways, who knows what's going to happen next.
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It all depends on how happy you can make a girl and how secure and comfortable she is with you. Being the first person to stick your dick in her does not ensure more than perhaps temporary loyalty and affection, you have to put in effort.
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>>18110119
>stunning hot model
>virgin at 26

Is it lame to congratulate woman's day to someone bellow 30?
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>Is it lame to congratulate woman's day
Pretty much
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the fuck is womens day.
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>>18110091

If you have a gf/a girl you want to impress and you celebrate Women's Day and make her feel special you are guaranteed to get laid today and probably quite spectacularly so. My girlfriend is already so horny from the affection I've shown her today that just an hour ago she was humping my leg and begging for sex. Now she's passed out after cumming hard.

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Whenever I feel like I've done something that I know is wrong and doesn't fit in the behaviour pattern I recognize as my own, I feel the dire need to ask the person I wronged (most of the time either my gf or my parents) for forgiveness constantly.

If they say it doesn't matter, I still will always have the feeling eating me alive in the back of my head, telling me how they secretly hate me and they're only playing nice because they pity me, which will lead me to keep insisting in my apology, what most of the times (if not always) leads to them actually being mad, but not for the thing I had originally done, but for how I behaved after doing said thing.

This of course I realize instantly, and since I can see how stupid I've been I feel even more regretful, and feel the need to keep apologising endlessly, until either they straight out tell me to fuck off or I suck it up with tremendous internal pain,

How can I prevent this? Pershaps most importantly, how do I STOP it once I see it coming? What can I do?

I usually just blast some extreme metal on my speakers or headphones to wash my feelings and thoughts away entirely, but I don't think suppression is really the best solution for this "problem".

Any help or thoughts will be appreciated. Thanks in /adv/ance.
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Do you have any depressive disorder or anxiety disorder?
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>>18110235
Not that's been diagnosed, no.
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PLEASE HELP ME

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Im 18 now and Ive been going outside and staying late after 1am on week ands. Do I Have to listen to my parents if they want me home and they say that you have to be home no questions ask. Do I have to listen to them? Sure they have some restrictions on me but not all of it. I just want to enjoy my life and also im on my way to adult hood? Whats your take?
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>>18110010
>18
>adult
>am I old enough to cripple my body in the long run?

I know dudes who are just children in 20+ bodies. Your brain is still developing (until 25?) so neglecting sleep is bad for you. Abusing legal and illegal drugs and catching sexual transmitted diseases is part of average puberty struggle, but don't overdo it.

The best part of living with parents is
>no rent and bills.
So even with shitty job you can save money for car / pc / heroin / gf / 4chan pass easily. Listen to your parents. You can be drunken and be home before midnight.
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You're living with your parents, living under their roof, eating their food and probably driving a car they bought you. The kicker? They most likely want you home at a reasonable hour because they care about you and want to know that you're safe. Don't be an ungrateful little shit. Also you're nowhere near an adult at 18.
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Take it from someone who was kicked out at 18. (Conservative folk) I have no money, nearly homeless and working a shitty min. wage job due to lack of education. I would do anything to live rent free and get free food. So, I could finally afford an education. Being home by a certain hour? You've got it fucking easy.

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im being forced to move out of my house, and i have 3 options that appeal to me.
1 find a place for myself and be broke as fuck because bills will cripple me but ill probably be able to get by, and it'd be easier to find grill.
2 find a place with my current roomate whos also being forced to move and split bills and make shit easier
3 i also have the option of quitting my current job, running away and living out in the woods for months and to make a decent amount of money at the same time that i could have put away.

wat do /adv/?
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how are you making money out in the woods
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>>18109875
Go with option 1, my nigga. Life at it's finest, in my experience.
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>>18109893
use your imagination
>>18109898
im kinda feelin this too, but the downside is i'd have to sell my car (which is broken down) for moving expenses. id still have my motorcycle, but it rains here so fucking much.

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Hey /adv/ I bumped into another car in my campus parking lot while backing out of a weird spot. I have 0 damage on my car and left the tiniest bump on his, but it was pouring rain so leaving a paper note would be no use. I got his license plate number and left, and am now wondering what the best way to proceed is. I feel the bump is so small you would have to know where it is to notice it, but I still feel I should probably try to get in touch with the guy. What should I do from here?

>cruise around tomorrow trying to find him and leave a note then?

>try and use license plate to find and contact him?

>keep quiet about the whole thing?

>do nothing and shitpost on 4chan?

I feel like such a dumbass for not seeing that he was parked farther back than the rest of the row
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>>18109856
Just keep quiet about the whole thing. There's not much you can do in this situation, and it's not significant damage so there's no point in tracking him down.
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>>18109859
Can any other anons weigh in on this?
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>>18109856
it could be a member of the opposite sex and you could have a nice relationship with them

Go be a good person and something good might happen to you man

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I have general anxiety around situations that I can't control and I'm going to be in a situation a few days from now where I have to experience it for almost a full day. I've realized it stems from my fear of death, since I'm mostly afraid of dying in these situations that I can't control.

I had a time where I fully accepted death but it happened when I was tripping and watching a movie about life. I felt so calm and at peace when I realized everything was gonna be ok and that death was a natural part of life. That was years ago before this anxiety started.

Can you guys guide me towards ways of reaching this calm accepting state? Things to reassure me about death or help me get over this fear of lack of control? I'm tired of living in fear.
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>>18109523
everyone fears death. That's because the grave is a cold dark place... and you could die at any moment.
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>>18109523
The thing that helped me was realizing that being dead would be exactly as terrifying for me as it was before I was born. It would be nothing. And realizing that the atoms inside me will live on, and possibly retain some semblance of the consciousness i stained them with helps me as well.
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>>18109523
Do you fear the act of dying? or the state of being dead?

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18 year old here. how do I become more organized? how do I become more hardworking? how do I not procrastinate even mundane things? how do I not be a failure?
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>>18108939
also, thanks to my wishy washiness, delusions, and laziness, I missed my prom, missed a potential SAT sign up missed my chance to vote, and most of all missed two college application deadlines, forcing me into a gap year.
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>>18108939
bump
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>>18108939
r u me

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How does one pull his friends into tabletop rpgs, specifically Vampire: The Masquerade? It doesn't help that I have no prior experience with tabletop rpgs, but I'm eager to learn so I can provide a genuine experience that my friends will have fun with. I plan to make a session during the summer, probably mid July and need advice on pretty much everything concerning the game and managing it.

Thanks in advance, /adv/.
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>>18107923
Wew. V:tM:B is a great game. Always wanted to get into the table top version
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>>18108186
It's a good example of what a flawed masterpiece is. Thanks for the bump, I guess.
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Try with something more simple first numbnut

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can someone talk to me for 20 minutes
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>>18112135
Yup!
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>>18112143
i want to premise its because i havent talked to someone in what seems like a month now. my sanity spins out of control the longer i go without contact.
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>>18112143
i need affection anon, i dont really care about friends or being alone, i just need affection from one person, just so i can function normally

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