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Hi, someone with social skills help me pls!

Just wanted to write that I hate my 'friends' (they're a group) for their liberal/communist ideas. All the men in the group are cucked to fuck. I can't stand them. They're quite well off, go on about 'ethnic minorities' and 'feminism/wagegap' problems, activism etc. it's just all so fucking fake to me.

I don't know if I'm a bit autistic and lack social skills but sometimes they have banter on my expense and I fucking hate it. They make fun of me for not drinking, for being cheap and not spending money on stupid shit clubs/bars/restaurants. I just wish that they'd be straight, obvious, say it to my face. NON CRYPTIC! Am I overreacting?

Is making friends with a group of friends a bad idea? Am I a retarded fuckwit with 0 social skills? HELP!
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>>18139804
If they're a little clique, that explains all of it. That kind of politics flourishes in an environment like that, and they'll make fun of you because you're an outsider.

Some groups are welcoming to newcomers, this isn't one of them.
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Thank you, I thought I was going mad. I have felt this way on several social gatherings with them. I will quietly discontinue.

Thank you so much!
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>>18139835
>they'll make fun of you because you're an outsider.
This. It's a basic concept that humans have since our tribal years. It's best that you scurry off from that crap, especially if they are making you feel bad. For me, all my past friends really become annoyingly liberal after the election... Sometimes you just got to find "your" kind of tribe elsewhere.

My friend was recently in Stockholm and posted this picture.
I am going there next week and would love to recreate this picture.
The problem is I could not find this exact location after hours in google maps and street view.
It looks like it could be near Gamla Stan. The bridge and what looks like a Church in the backround could help locating the area.
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Try /int/.
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thought it was a fat black guy at first
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Nah this doesnt belong to /int/

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I've never owned a credit card. I'm 25, living with parents, and one semester away from graduating university.
Parents tell me I should get a credit card to start building my credit. How do I know which card to get? Will I be able to apply for the one I want?
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get the discover it card
no annual fee, 0% intro APR for at least a year
just use it for gas and pay it off after the statement posts, but before the payment due date

you want to start with a no annual fee card so that it's your longest line of credit and you don't need to cancel it later (part of your credit score depends on your longest line of credit)

nerdwallet has some explanations too if you need more help
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Credit cards are very bad ideas. Just save up 10% of a loan you want and they'll give it to you
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>>18139761
I mean, if you pay it off responsibly, you'll be fine. Also, many give you rewards and extra cash just for having the card.

With the card I mentioned above, they match all your spending over a year and give it back in the form of cash. So if you spend $1,000 on the card over a course of a year, they'll give you $1,000 back. That's a pretty good deal.

If you're responsible, OP, credit cards are easy mode.

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>23 going on 24M
>Still a virgin
>never had a serious girlfriend

What's wrong with me? It's not the fact that I'm a virgin that bothers me. I don't want to have sex and get it over with. I want to have sex and keep having sex. It's always on my mind and I hate it.

I've tried so hard to get a girl both online and in real life. I've yet to have a girl agree to go out with me after asking them irl and I must have tried about 10 times now. All my options at work are exhausted. I'm not a clubbing guy so that's not an option.

Masturbating is a fucking chore at this point. I cum maybe a fucking large drop and the orgasm is weak. I masturbate once a day.
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I remember bitching about this issue when I was around 20. I was told to get a hobby. I've done that. I must have spent around 2000 dollars into the hobby since and I love it. It takes up a major chunk of my life. But it's very difficult to fight biology, especially in this culture.
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Stop being so desperate
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99% chance that the issue is about your life style.
If you don't like your life, then you give off a vibe of desperation which will repel all women, even the ugly ones.

You need to take a step back, evaluate areas of your life (health, career, life experiences, relationships, hobbies). Once you're genuinely happy and content/ taking steps towards your ideal life, you'll attract high quality girls.

Even if you had a gf right now, I'll bet my entire savings that you'd cuck it up due to insecurities and lack of confidence. You have to think that you're awesome and believe it before anyone else would anon.

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why does everyone i know think i have a shitty personality? i dont have a problem with being attactive, but when i start talking to people they either think im boring or shy or racist or annoying,ive even had one person think i sound forced when i try to be funny(second person to tell me that, first one called me a try hard after saying some jokes). if i stop doing any of those it ends up being another trait. if i just say hi how are you to people and try not to offend them, thats no way for me to live because i enjoy being random and retarded, why cant people appreciate that? theyll call me boring if i talk about elevator conversations. meanwhile with their own friends they talk more retarded than i do. its just not fair.
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If everyone thinks you have a shitty personality, then you probably have a shitty personality. The fact that you don't even realise this and think they're the problem just proves it.
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>>18139743
ive seen assholes having tons of friends though
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>>18139774
The fact that you think that you're better than them is another sign you have a shitty personality

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Am i being friendzone because I am gross and unattractive, or is she legit looking out for me because she knows she is this impulsive person that doesn't want to hurt me?

background:
- start talking to her online
- meet her at her city, we live very far apart
- she called it a date
- we hanged out for 6 hours straight, the original plan was an hour. the date ended with a kiss on the cheek (i thought it was friendly, platonic like)
- miss bus because we were both high so i had to like stay at the terminal all night until the next bus arrived, she didn't return to the bus terminal to hang out more.

over the next month:
- we constantly talk
- she constantly xo, or xx when she goes to sleep
- i start reciprocating those type of responses
- she is a flawed human being
- she insinuate how fun it would be to live together, how fun it would be to travel
- she sends nudes, so do i but we never are sexting or anything. when i told her i had a crush on her, she laughed.
- she mentioned how we are healthy for each other in context of having relationships with people for bpd
- i don't mind the friendzone but she keeps making it confusing.
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She isn't interested

Someone /thread me
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Sounds like she won't date, but might hook up.
But she also sounds unstable and unsure what she wants. So she might be leading you on.
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>>18139740
She also sounds like a stupid bitch not worth wasting time on.

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Grew up Muslim.But the religion itself never attracted me beyond the "Help thy neighbor and be good to everyone" part. Doesn't help that I beat the shit out of degenerates who owned the Mosque (rich kids in my neighborhoods) for messing with my dogs.

I was half way atheist by the time I was 14, and at this age I don't believe the Abrahamic God exists. When people talk about religion to me I pretend to be very interested but inside I roll my eyes and want to get the fuck out.

That being said, when I look at pictures of women online, being naked and being jizzed on, with cum on their faces. I feel really disgusted. But I keep looking at pictures like that, because I feel like it shows me reality (I don't even know why I look at those pictures, but it makes me cringe).


I want to know if me being disgusted by these pictures just means that I am still somewhat muslim. Because apparently stuff like this is what the rift between islam and the west stems from. In a way I feel like my controlling mother raised me to put women on a pedastal, so seeing women do shit like this mentally enables me to treat them like an equal (or worse if they are bitches).

But lately I wonder if I am just a hypocrite who internally clings to islamic values.
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It may be helpful spiritually to not be sexual since smart people will say "sexuality is normal" - it is but not spiritually normal.

You're either sexual or not and people who aren't are spiritual, they don't get erections when they look at women, don't masturbate, this helps them with their practices or getting closer to God (I think)
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>>18139725

>Is me being disgusted by nudes of women getting fucked / masturbating, just the "Muslim" part of me

Firstly, there is a 75% chance this is bait.

Secondly, who cares? If you don't want to look, don't look. If you do want to look then find a way to get over it.

Thirdly, asking strangers to help analyze deep seeded introspective questions you have about yourself is pointless. We don't know anything about you so any thing we say would just be a wild guess.
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>>18139725
>That being said, when I look at pictures of women online, being naked and being jizzed on, with cum on their faces. I feel really disgusted.
So don't, you fucktard. What the actual fuck is wrong with you?

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>Boyfriend friended one of my high school enemies on Face Book.

What does this mean?
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>>18139705
Well you see op it probably means absolutely nothing, unless you like to make a big fucking deal about it then it means absolutely everything.
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It means he's going to cheat and leave you for her.

Nah, just kidding. It means you're immature for holding on to high school bullshit and not letting this shit go.
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>>18139705
>caring this much about what your bf does on zuckerbook
>still caring about high school
>considering people as your enemy

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what combination of pills could someone take to make sure they never woke up again?

i often hear sleeping pills can be crushed into powder and inserted anally? via enema . could i just crush into powder and ingest the water orally?
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>>18139704
Just ingest literally everything. Your liver is guaranteed to fail
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Tylenol. Just Tylenol / acetaminophen / paracetamol.

Take a whole bottle of them or at least 6-8grams of the stuff, don't tell anyone, wait 1-3 days, your liver will fail, you will die (albeit not quickly)
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Please don't

How do I get girls in a club?
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wat
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You advertise a 'Ladies' Night' with free admission for women until 02:00.
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>>18139625

No I mean how do I actually get a girl to fuck me from a club?

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Does jelqing your penis actually work?
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>>18139604
only if you do it correctly
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>>18139607

got any good websites to guide me?
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>>18139612
nah i'll come over and guide you myself, be there in like 15

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How do I avoid unhealthy shit? Like every mainstream brand and everything in the store is gmo with all that soy and corn oil shit. What does someone do to avoid that? Every brand does it every resteraunt does. Everyone's house has it it's like everything is the same
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>>18139594
>gmos
>bad
christ
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>>18139594
Eat whole foods instead of packaged crap.
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>>18139594
Don't buy unhealthy food. DO NOT bring it into the house(no chips, soda, candy, ice cream, etc.).

Track calories. Being aware of what you're eating will reduce your calorie intake greatly. I suggest using MyFitnessPal.

Don't buy fast food. It's unhealthy and not filling. Just simply BAN yourself from going to them. Don't buy out at all. It's more expensive. You will save money

Look up some healthy recipes that use lots of vegetables (aren't fried). Eat salads, don't drink your calories (never drink juice). Take small bites, drink LOTS of water, avoid sugar (& carbs like rice), avoid eating too much meat, etc.

Losing weight is like 90% diet

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Is it weird that sometimes I feel embarrassed by reactions to what I post on this site, even though it's all anonymous?
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Autistic people can't pick up on that
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>>18139563
Yea, but fuck it.
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It's the norm on imageboards to post the worst reaction you can think of at the moment.

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I am not sure what to buy
I think I will get amd build
but it's 150£ more expensive
and intel build is better for gaming right ?
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Look at the reviews for the CPU you want and go by that.

In my experience AMD cause house fires and are usually overclocked to shit from the factory
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AMD is cheaper, Intel has better benchmarks.

Google cpubenchmark to learn more.
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8 core is curently useless for gaming. intel may be pricey, but its worth it. quad core is where its at

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Okay I'm going to make this quick:

I study martial arts. I take it pretty seriously and have won local tournaments. One of the biggest lessons I've been taught by my teacher is to avoid unnecessary conflict and to avoid fighting no matter the cost.

However because I'm a naturally reserved and quiet person, a certain adult individual I see fairly regularly who I don't particularly know or speak to has taken upon himself to attempt to verbally bully/abuse me whenever he gets the chance.

What should I do about this? I don't particularly enjoy being verbally insulted, but at the same time this is the type of man who will only stop if I goad him into a fight and beat him up; yet that would be going against the morale code passed down to me by my teachers.

If I just suck it up and deal with it, I feel as though I'm weak and worthless because I won't defend myself. But if I defend myself, I feel like a pussy for not being able to just ignore stupid verbal insults. Anyone have any idea how I should handle this? I really have no interest in compromising with this guy - I just want him to leave me alone and not speak to me again.
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Don't look at it as "suck it up and deal with it". You have your training and your confidence; how would it look if someone threw a rock at a tank and the tank shot back? You're the giant and he's chucking rocks that if you don't pay attention to, aren't even there.

When he makes some sort of comment or insult, just laugh, think your response and don't say it. It's bait, the first lesson this website tries to teach you? DO NOT RESPOND.
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You're being a pussy by letting him do this shit. The next time he says something really get up in his space, stare him deep in the eyes and dare him to say it again. If he says it beat the crap out of him. If not, say thought so faggot, walk away a bit, make him flinch, then really walk away.
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>>18139549
This is a rock; you are a tank.

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