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>>18137459
You're doing everything fine, but it looks like your washing machine is a bit dirty.
Wash the filter, wash the soap compartment, buy one of those washing machine cleaners.
Then try again.

|| is the right one. As you observed yourself, | is for prewash, and requires a different detergent. I've never used that in my life.

Either you're using the wrong program, or the machine is broken. You can put detergent tablets directly into the machine, preferably in a small net, so it doesn't get entangled in your clothes and doesn't dissolve.

Post pics of your program chooser. Also, what are you washing. For normal cotton clothes, set it to 40 degrees instead.

I don't see any traces of washing powder in the pic OP, but you're supposed to put washing powder in the centre compartment and fabric softener in the first/left compartment I believe.

>>18137351
On nights when you aren't sleeping with a person, sleep with a heavy blanket on you, or tuck your sheets into your bed and squirm your way into the pocket it makes. Anything that'll hold you down really. Also assuming you wear pajama pants you could put a large thing in your pocket to train you not to roll around.

Do this enough and you'll start to naturally sleep through the night with minimal movement.

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>>18137351
Spoon. Place your right arm under his/her head under the pillow with your forearm inbetween his/her head and shoulder with the other wrapped around under his/her arm, your hand holding your wrist, at her thigh or cupping her breast. Interlocking your legs prevents you from wanting to flop around in the middle of the night as well.

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>>18137370
not OP but i need help on the right arm, i cant do your way without having my face too close to her hair, my right arm has no place to go and its put in front of myself. where else can i put my right arm?

>Dumped into sink.
>I'm sure that smelled.
>no one is saying anything... British people are too nice!

Bring it up. If they already know it's more of a social stigma for you to seem like you're trying to hide it away. If you bring it up and laugh about it, chances are they all will too.
A friend of mine got so fucked up on Four Loko and vodka he passed out and shit himself. We laughed about it. It doesn't get brought up and we don't think any less of him. If we did, we wouldn't really be friends now would we?

>out of house all day
>get home
>go to washroom
>look in mirror
>huge white pimple growing on side of nose
>wasn't there in the morning before I left
>no idea how long it has been there for
>if someone just said something I could have popped it and nobody else would have to see it

At what point is it acceptable to be rude for pointing shit out like this if its for the persons own good?

Any place can double as a study area as long as you have the material and they allow you to stay there for extended periods of time

Try to go someplace to have fun sometimes though if you can. Stress yourself too much mentally and physically and you'll be wanting to throw yourself out a window all the time.

Unless studying is fun for you then more power to ya

Find a late night coffeeshop.

Note that when I say coffeeshop I mean a small quiet place and not starbucks.

>>18137354
I suppose anywhere quiet with a light would be alright. I live near the equator so indoors would stop my from getting sweat all over my books

((By the way it's legal in their country))

>>18137307
Pictures are always illegal until 18. It'd be illegal no matter how old you were, since the image is technically a pornographic depiction of a minor. However no one is likely to give a fuck.

>>18137340
What are the chances of someone giving a fuck

kys junkie

Answer my question fag

>>18137299

wat, son?

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>>18137280
btw by "calm down" I don't mean suppress your emotions. I mean like if you feel like trolling someone, think how it makes them feel, don't do to them what you wouldn' tdo to ioyiorihfgohjA;LDVLBCWnvab ;IO/

No it isnt cause no thing that cant proved to exist exists. And even that isnt certain

I think, so I might be

>>18137280
and
>your body protects you from the torment of OTHERS destructive / aggressive / trolly thoughts

if you control yourself and get to heaven, your problems literally disappear because hellish ideas are on a different frequency, they cannot reach you and your torments (which are all mental, created by the mind, housed by this physical body)

I had only been cheated on once before and I had mentioned it to her and how important being faithful was to me. At this point my ability to keep my mind off of things was destroyed. When we're in the car I'm not very talkative and sometimes I seem distant.
Like an idiot, I stay with her. Less than a month later she asks to use my car to go to her mothers. She drops me off at a friends on the way and we kiss and exchange I love you's. That night she barely texts and when she does it's not very convincing. She picks me up the next day and something doesn't feel right. I try to block it out and go get ready for work and she asks if she can use the car again. I say I'd rather use it for the day and later on she texts me saying she got a ride and is at friends. At this point I know there's something she isn't telling me. I text her mother asking when they were last together and it hadn't been for a while. At this point it's 10PM but I still try to contact her through text and she still insists on being with her friend. She comes home at 4AM and all of her things are packed in the trunk of her car which has yet to be repo'd. That was it for the relationship. She moves to her girl friends nearby and we still saw eachother constantly and continued to hook up. I couldn't say no to this girl. I've never been in love but I can say without a doubt this was the closest I had been.
Anyway, a few months pass of us still hooking up and doing things and she sends me a picture of herself with evidence of another man being there. It was her old ex. She admits to using my car to pick him up from jail and being sexually involved for about 4-5 months, all the while we were too. I'm destroyed. I was still very, very in "love" with her. I'm left with a decision, drop it all from my life and never look back or do the right thing and tell him she's been lying to us both. I shouldn't have told him, shouldn't have bothered with it at all anymore but I couldn't not do it. cont-

After telling him he explained that he's not seeing her anymore and how much of a liar she is, how she would tell him how I couldn't please her sexually (when I'd make her scream every night and not to boast but my head game is ridic) just like she told me how he couldn't please her anymore when we first started talking. After some time since she blew up my phone threatening me for snitching she calls crying her eyes out, begging for me to pick her up somewhere. Even to this point I still have feelings for her. I'd never felt this way looking into another persons eyes, being with a person before. Like an idiot I go to her. To make a long story short we start hooking up again but it turned out she was still hooking up with her ex, again. I dropped her from my life at that point but this entire year of stress has left me without a job due to depression, debt to multiple sources, no money whatsoever, no contact with my family because I can't stand to be around anyone and noone can stand to be around me when I get into a mood. I just sit in my room all day, every day watching streams on Twitch of people I wish I had the luck to know in real life. I break down and weep on a daily basis. I contemplate suicide almost constantly, all while having the thought of her in my head. I don't know if I can ever trust someone of the opposite sex they way I put so much trust into her. I'm an attractive guy but I have literally no self worth. I find that meeting someone will ultimately be a waste of time because I'm a shell of who I once was and I just bring people down. How do I cope? My friends don't care anymore. Nobody does.

I didn't explain earlier, she had revealed that she was a cam model but told me she only did solo shows and she didn't enjoy it. All lies. She didn't tell me any of this because she wanted me to stay and I understand the thought process.

I don't even know what I'm doing here. I think to myself why I'm even still alive. Why it's worth it. What possible events could turn the tide and if said events showed face how could I possibly resist the urge to just buckle and return to the thought process I've adopted for almost a year now

>>18137229
So many questions can be answered by putting yourself in their shoes. If you had feelings for someone, would you dump them and disappear?

Now to go back to your perspective. If, in the unlikely event that she still likes you, would you take someone back that disappears from your life and treats you like you're being treated now?

>>18137229

Sounds like two desperate people trying to grasp at something that just isn't there. Move on. Contacting her will just open up old wounds.

>>18137303
Well everyone keeps saying that she thinks i just hate her guts, but it's the opposite. How could i go from loving someone too being their friend?

Going through the same stuff, OP. Boyfriend left me saying "its for the best", and straight up told me he'd much rather we didn't talk for "my good". No idea how to respond to that, and can't seem to move on.

>>18137173
She was 14 there? Some killer tits growing there m8

>>18137173

You can absolutely find someone to love you again, it happened to me after closing a 4 yrs relationship which I though was perfect, two years ago. Now I have an amazing girlfriend and I couldn't be happier. Take some time to be alone, work out, try some new hobbies and sports, start playing an instrument, learn about yourself.

Then the next big step as soon as you feel ready is to fool around: party, make out with other girls, date, nothing too serious but it will be a huge boost to your self confidence. Then add a bit of luck and you will find someone else who will make you feel great again. Don't get discouraged.

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You shouldn't have any issue past 36 hours (I doubt you'd have any issues past 18), but I wouldn't push it. I've smoked the night before a random test at my job and passed fine.

>>18137169
What is it with you fucking people?

How long THC is detectable in your saliva depends on several factors, including how frequently you smoke, your metabolism, the THC concentration of the marijuana, and the sensitivity of the test itself. Yes, you'll *probably* be fine. However, people certainly have tested positive between 48-72 hours after smoking, and in some (admittedly quite rare) cases even longer.

If it's your job on the line, is "probably fine" enough? I don't understand why you can't just fucking put it off until after the test, but it's your call.

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>>18137169

>Taking a saliva drug test Monday morning
>smoking weed tonight
>may hit it tomorrow morning

>>18137168
What is the half-life of Strontium90?

>>18137168
What happened

>>18137168
Who promoted Peress?

>>18137124

not really. everyones got different tolerances, and a lot of people who seem low tolerance are only faking it because they think there's a morality to it.

It's just the Universe's way of telling you to go into Pathology as a career path.

People are sensitive to different stuff. Bodies don't bother me, but the smell of fermaldahide makes me dizzy to the point where I have to ease my way near it or I'll overheat and nearly pass out.

>>18137101

>I was really in love

no you werent, grow the fuck up

there are billions of fish in the sea.
the end.

>>18137104
How do you know?

Everytime you slip up slap yourself in face while saying 'praise kek'

Should be cured in a week

>>18137056
Continually question yourself. A lot. If you feel yourself about to say something, let a voice in your head ask you "Is this a nice thing to say?"

If you've said something already, you can at least learn a little more and by understanding the potential for emotional pain behind your words, you may wire yourself to avoid saying similar things in the future. Ask yourself often "Why did this hurt their feelings? Why am I doing this?" You should be challenging the thoughts that crop up which compel you to say these things, and soon it'll become second nature. The more you understand the problem, the better you can solve it, which is why the first step is to ask a lot of questions and understand YOURSELF. Look at your past, the type of person you are, all of it.

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dont be a simon dempsey.

you are a dick because you just are. there is only one way to stop
>you just stop
what will happen is karma catches up to you and is a dick to you.
>you get what you give and is multiplied back.
thats why you cant get further in your job because
>the toes you step on today maybe the ass you have to kiss tomorrow.
>hard to soar like eagle: when you are a turkey.
sinking in yet? your whole life has been a dick move.