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Should I spend 50 bucks on alcohol and cigs or 50 bucks on a new pair of headphones?
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>>18142013
One can only damage your hearing if you're retarded and the other two won't last I'm guessing more than a few days for you. Suck it up and buy the headphones you nigger.
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>>18142016
a few days of heaven

vs

a long time of decent happiness


this decision is more difficult than you think
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booze. give in to your addictions.

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Cause simply asking doesn't work
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have kickass chick friends who overhear that you split with your ex who cheated on you all the time, and give you revenge noods to get over your ex.

literally only way I got newds without asking. 10/10
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>>18141976
if she's not sending nudes without asking she's not trust u nor loves u
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Use google, nudes are no different, if not objectively worse than other porn

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My gf broke up with me about 2 months ago.
We have been fucking until two weeks ago, but then she said we should stop because she felt I had stronger feelings for her then she had about me.
I doubt it and I think this is an excuse for something else. But whatever.

For the last three weeks I have not been contacting her in any way, but on friday she contacted me on facebook and asked how I was doing. We just talked about how she was really busy with school and work... normal stuff.

She is really focused on school and work, really got it all figured out. I dont.

Tomorrow I start a new job and start exercising, should I send her snaps or someting to maybe get her more interested in me?

I want to continue having sex and talk with her. Should I tell her? Or just wait and see if she contacts me?
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Why can't you fuck other people ?
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>>18141974
If you want to start fucking her again, don't talk to her until she contacts you. When she does, keep the conversations short. You want her to get the impression that you're having fun without her. The only choice you really have is if you'll actually have fun or not.
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>>18142485
Should i try to make her jealous, not by contacting her, but by posting images om Facebook and Snapchat of me having fun with other girls? Or would this make her get over me faster and want to do the same? Maybe find other guys?

How the fuck do I flirt? This question has probably been asked a million times on here but i feel literally retarded when it comes to this shit. Do I just ask about her interest and shit? I'm not sure how to do it without looking like a creep.
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>>18141923
Practice. Literally. Lots of it is nonverbal so practice in person. Use lots of subtle innuendo.
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>>18141923
Things one type of girl finds creepy, others find ok. You need practice so you can learn when what you're saying seems weird to them and you can shift the conversation. Until then, you'll fail and be awkward every time.

But that's okay, even if you were great at flirting you'd still get rejected a lot, it's very common for guys to get rejected. So get used to it, and jump back into the fray after each defeat, learning more about what to do each time. That's manliness, by Jove.
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Still here OP? Don't want to spend the time to write this shit down if you're not monitoring anymore.

Is it creepy to call a guy "daddy"?

My boyfriend said that's some weird ass freudian shit. I called my other boyfriends daddy before and didn't see an issue. So he asked how I'd feel if he called me "mommy" and I said that's a little different.
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>So he asked how I'd feel if he called me "mommy" and I said that's a little different.

Why?
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Why is 4chan obsessed with making women look like they have daddy issues?
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>>18141927
The "daddy" thing is kind of like the woman submitting to an authorative figure. "Mommy" is just weird.

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How do I get a girl to "take the hint" that I don't like her? I basically ignore the fuck out of her and give her one worded responses and she still bugs me and stares at me whenever she sees me and tries to flirt.

The funny part is I do this with other girls and know when to take the hint myself. All the time...
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>>18141901
People who can't take hints are stupid. There's no sugar coating it. You're going to have to tell her that you don't like her/have no interest in being her friend and that you want her to leave you alone. Idiots need things explained to them or they'll never get it.

I worked with some dumb bitch who couldn't take a hint. She thought I was her friend, but I actually hated her. Unfortunately, she was too stupid to understand hints.
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>>18141916
God damn it. She must really just like me for my looks then since I present her with the most boring personality imaginable. She'll even say "hi" to me and I'll just look away without even looking at her, how the fuck does she not hate me?
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You can't make a girl leave you alone by ignoring or being mean to her. Women love chasing guys of value.

When you want a girl to fuck off, just act clingy and beta as fuck. Hit her full force with "Nice Guy" behavior and she'll run for the hills.

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Best health insurance options?
American anon here. Was laid off in January and was given the option to continue my coverage through COBRA. The first month was free but the next premium payment was $750. I paid it just to get my annual doctor and dentist appointments in (which I haven't yet, because the idiot I am lost track of time just looking for a new job). I need to pay the next premium by the end of this month, but since $750 is pricey, I'm debating if I should just stay with COBRA or look for a new health insurance plan.

What's my best option? Should I go for a low-premium plan or low-deductible plan?
I should also mention I'm on birth control which I need to be refilled every 3 months. I have also thought about going to a Gastroenterologist as I've been having a lot of stomach problems lately, and I'm worried the next time I see the dentist, that I'll have to go for oral surgery to remove my wisdom teeth (I haven't gone to the dentist in almost 5 years due to losing track of time while busy at work, but my wisdom teeth have grew in and every 4 months is hurts around that area)

What should I do? What would you do? I'm hoping I'll get a new job before the end of this month so I don't have to worry about this.
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What's the source of your pic? I need one.
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>>18141914
imgur
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>>18141942
Dammit.

Anyways, if $750 is pricey to you then you should opt for the Low deductable instead of the HDHP.

It's the most sensible thing to do in your situation. Also, once you find a job they should offer you a healthcare plan, and explain your options to you in depth. Hopefully that helps.

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I'm currently dating a 19 year old girl, who has a pretty bad reputation. She used to easily put out to guys she just met, make out with random dude's at parties and stuff like that. But now she is not the same girl (at least I think so), she doesn't party that much anymore and is a genuinely nice, caring person.

The thing is, most of my friends give me shit because of this. They say "dont date this whore!", "she will cheat on you", "you deserve better, anon!", etc.

I believe that people change and I don't look at their past. I see them as they are today, not how they were years ago. So my question is, am I stupid for dating a girl like this? Should I ignore her past or not?
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>>18141835
seems a legit way to feel more comfortable with sluts
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Don't be this guy.
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If being with her makes you happy, be with her. Not every relationship has to be forever and not every action defines one as a person. Have some fun and don't just pull the plug because it might be bad.

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tl;dr Fiance and I got into a huge argument about pre-nups and she's refusing to talk to me now

>Come from a very rich family, parents died when I was young
>Grew up with uncle and aunt, pushed me to study and get a job rather than live off wealth
>went to uni, met this girl and we hit it off
>never mention my wealth to anyone, not even her or close friends
>date for 7 years, both have good jobs but she's really bad with her money
>spends it on clothes and shoes that she wears once and then doesn't touch for months
>despite that she's perfect and I proposed a few months ago
>planning the wedding and mention that I'd want a pre-nup
>get the usual "So you're betting on the marriage not lasting"
>Reply that I'm not but I want to be prepared just in case
>comes out that I have money
>turns into a screaming match where she claims I'm hiding things from her
>she ends up leaving, apparently is spending the time at her close (guy) friend's house

She's been ignoring my texts and calls now for a week, haven't heard anything from her and her friends are ignoring me. What do I do?
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>>18141825
It feels like you don't really trust her. You didn't tell her about the money and you don't want to get married without a prenup. It seems like you're convinced she'd screw you over.
It might be a bit insulting for her.

It seems like she doesn't want anything to do with you.
Either go to her work/her friend's house and try to talk to her, or just move on with your life.

In my opinion, you fucked up.
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>i just dodged a bullet
>what do?

Celebrate, my man.
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>>18141825
#whitepplproblems

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Hi /adv/. i know its a classic situation but lets see. Im about to end a 10 year relashionship w my gf. She's a 7/10 32 yo. Im 31. I grew tired of almost every single thing about her... She's pretty but Im not able to see it anymore. Theres this girl iv been talking to in the past 6 years, a 9/10 24 yo shy girl, sexually inexperienced, i know her irl. Been hanging around a few times and ended up kissing.kept talking and we have feelings towards each other. She says she wants to discover sexuality through me. Do i dump my gf right away? Or should i fuck the younger one before, Just in case anything wrong with her show up? Neither ?
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You are going to regret this.
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>>18141819
Have the decency to dump your girl ASAP. You've already cheated on her and there's no going back.
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Cheating asshole

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Do any of you feel paranoid about some part of your body failing somehow?

>eyes are shit
>recently got them checked out and they became worse
>new glasses make eyes look smaller than they are
>whole area around eyes looks odd due to "reverse" magnification
>can barely see without glasses

I'm afraid I'll be useless without glasses in my 30s or 40s.
I'm afraid I'll be completely blind many years before I die.
I'm afraid my future glasses will make me look even stranger.
I'm afraid this stuff is going to be a dealbreaker for future romances.
I'm afraid I won't ever be able to participate in a martial art if I wanted to.
I'm afraid...

How do you deal with this fear/paranoia?
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I'm paranoid my anal sphincter will fail and I'll never be able to hold a poop in again. I just live in terror.
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get contacts?
get laser eye surgery?
become blind kungfu master like in my chinese cartoons?
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>>18141755
Is it already failing and do you need some artificial device to keep it functioning? If so, then my condolences. How do you live with the pressure?

>>18141756
>contacts
Tried and never got used to them.

>laser eye surgery
That only works for mildly shitty eyes, not eyes that are as bad as mine.

>blind kungfu master
Good one.

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It's just GONE??? Where???
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Someone explain how or why that happened plz??
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>>18141680
probably gone cause no tits
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I'm serious!

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Hey /adv/,
Been crushing on girl for this whole semester and see that she has a boyfriend that she really likes and cares about. She tells me everything about their relationship and all the nasty shit they do. What do?
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Ahahahhahaha I was in this situation

Either convince her to cheat on him

Or fuck that guy and make them split then fuck her

Or have a three way

Or be a pussy and stop being """ friends """
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>>18141666
That isn't what cucking is.
You are not currently in a relationship with her, and thus cannot be cucked by her.
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>>18141681
You forgot the best option.

Act like a mature adult, respect their relationship and find your own woman.

I get upset when my boyfriend wants to spend the weekend alone (and thus not see me for almost two weeks), even when he has legitimate reasons for wanting to do so, like his intense depression. How do I stop getting upset when this happens?
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>>18141629
get a bf with no mental illness
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>>18141629
Because you should realize even if he spend the weekend alone, he still loves you. Depression can be shitty too, put yourself in his shoes.
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>>18141629
Stop taking everything personal

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I got a message on OkCupid on Friday from a girl, and she looked cute in her first two pics, so I went ahead and replied. We had a decent conversation, but I went back to look at her profile and saw she was way chubbier than I like.

I feel bad that we talked for a couple of days and now I'm too shallow be into her... But that's how I feel.

How do I break contact without being mean?

Pic not related.
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Just stop talking to her and block her. You've been speaking to her online for a few days, it's not like you've been on a date and are official.

Yeah it's mean but she probably has men queuing up to meet her - I guarantee ghosting her will be better for her than telling her "you're too fat".
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>>18141494
Post pics
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>>18142178
Nah, not gonna post someone's pics.

But this seems similar.

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