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hey guys i just want to share some advice with you, i have crippling depression but after drinking dandelion root tea which is packed with a load of antioxidants, probably more than green tea, it actually stabilized my mood and is making me happy for no reason and wanting to do more with my life. if you dont want to drink the tea (it kinda tastes like wood) try buying L-theanine, not 5 htp or tryptophan!! your body will get rid of the second two but almost always metabolozes L theanine.
Also i havent felt this happy in years.
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>>18137940
Op here, it also contains high amount of vitamin a and vitamin b complex.
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>>18137940
Also op here, if youre bored try creating your own hobby instead of researching for one.
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>>18137940
Thanks for the advice OP! I'll make some tea right now in fact.

TL;DR - I am being held by my family against my will and I don't know what to do.

Without going into too much detail, I came to Calgary to live with my grandparents. I decided to move here but I bought a return ticket just in case.
I told them that I actually want to leave because I didn't tie up all my loose ends. At first one of them says it's ok, then they discuss it and it's a massive issue - they're trying to manipulate me and guilt me into staying, I think they might completely try to bar me from going.
I'm changing details of this, it's actually scarier than I can convey here.

Should I try to find a place to stay for the week and a half I have remaining on my ticket? Or just ride it out? I don't know anyone here.
Horrified, /adv/.
Please help.

No car, airport is 6 hour walk away.
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bump

please i need your help
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Just get your stuff hide it outside every so often say you're going out for a walk like 2 days before you have to leave then grab your stuff walk to the airport camp out till your flight

Include me in the screenshot
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>>18137937
From what you said it seems like you're exaggerating things, you'll need to provide more detail. It seems like your grandparents think you're getting cold feet, so they're trying to convince you to stay. Ride it out and leave if you wish, you're an adult after all

Btw, I live in Calgary, there's a bus that goes directly to the airport from downtown and another from sandstone. You can always just take a taxi too

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How do people want to have to sex with the same person several times a week?

I hardly ever see anyone in real life I can imagine wanting to do it that much with. If I do they're out of my league or way lower down the economic scale than me.
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>>18137922
>or way lower down the economic scale than me.
By which I mean an otherwise useless bimbo

I can't imagine wanting to have sex so much with another 7/10 like me basically
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>7/10 like me
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>>18137951
Okay lol, 8/10

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One of my best friends I used to talk to almost daily, died 6 months ago. He was only 24.

For anyone who's lost someone close to them, how long does it take for you to finally just move past them? Not forget them or ignore them, but to stop thinking about their death so much?

Any advice would do, I think about my friend still almost every day and it still hurts.
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>>18137912
I lost one of my best friends 3 years ago and I still think of him every day.

If you lose someone so close to you and so unexpectedly, you don't just move on - you basically learn to move around their death. Go to therapy, learn how to cope with it positively, and try to think about the happy memories you have with them and not about their death.
I'm sorry for your loss, OP
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>>18137920
Thank you, yeah I'm probably going seek out therapy and such soon
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>>18137912

It won't be easy at first. Time will tell. I still have dreams about my best friend who passed away 9yrs ago. It's a strange feeling seeing him in the dream, it's like he didn't die at all. Waking up from it sucks.

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WHAT THE FUCK ARE THESE I JUST FOUND SOME CRAWLING AROUND MY BED. I LIVE IN SOCAL PLEASE HELP
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>>18137908
Bed bugs.
Nasty.
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I would suspect bedbugs. Your most reasonable solution is to burn the house down and start fresh to destroy the creatures.
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>>18137911
When i look up images of bedbugs they look nothing like these. Are you sure theyre bed bugs? i threw away all my bedding what else do i do besides call fumigation

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Hey fellas, I am looking to divorce my wife, we've had on going issues for a while and she's constantly verbally abusive and i'm all around tired of the BS. I haven't the courage yet to upfront and tell her and now we have a child this is putting a huge strain on my mental state. I don't know if i'll be able to afford leaving her or not, how much will I be paying in child support/alimony when this is over do you think? Are there any lawyers or people savvy in this type of situation who can help me out? I'm in dire need of help and any assistance would be grateful.
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Don't you have advisors / counselors in the military you can talk this through and they can seek the information to help you?
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>>18137932
I suppose I could, everytime I think about it I haven't the balls to really go through with it, is the problem. That's a good idea though, maybe i'll go to them. thanks man
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>>18137935
No maybe, do go and see them. It's their job to help you.

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Hows my pizza look? It's in the oven right now!
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Call me mr lagansa cause I made a keen pissa
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I work at a pizza place and this is the worst pizza I have ever seen
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I work in an oven company and that is a microwave

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What way of getting laid at college requires the least amount of talking possible?

Without transactions
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>>18137868
sexual assault
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Max your charisma stat.
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Rohypnol.

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Met this girl online about a week ago. Been chatting and texting and the convo has been really good.

Hit her up earlier in the week asking if she'd want to catch a movie some time later in the week. She says 'Sure.' I ask her on Thursday if she's available Saturday evening. Her response is "Maybe. I was invited to something, but I'm not sure if I'm going or not lol." Says she'll get back to me. Haven't heard from her all day so ask her yesterday evening "So whats Saturday evening looking like?" She calls me a few hours later while in her car, makes some small talk about her work day and how she's on the way to a friend's house and makes no mention of Saturday. I tell her I'm still waiting to know what we're doing, she sort of dodges it and tells me she'll call me later.

It's Saturday morning. I don't have shit going on today and my evening is certainly free, but at this point I feel that if she hits me up in the next few hours saying she's up to get together tonight that I'd just be delivering the message that it is appropriate to string me along and not give me any real notice until the last minute like I have nothing better to do.

If she wants to go, tell her "I've already made other plans", or let it slide?
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>>18137789
You should tell her you made other plans if she tries to fuck with you with that last minute bullshit
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>>18137789
It's time to give up on this girl.

Playing too many games and clearly doesn't respect you enough to give a firm answer. If she was truly interested in you, she'd wanna meet you asap or set up plans for a different day where she knows she's available.
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>>18137789
So many red flags. Plus I bet if she makes a plan with ya she's pretty much gonna flake. She doesn't have a gut to meet you in real life but also don't want to let you go. I call bullshit. Forget it and find another one

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>18
>virgin
>foreigner
>be friends with a couple of guys who speak in english
>they're in the english speaking social circle of the city
>they're all degenerate junkies who do nothing but fuck, do drugs and drink
>feel absolutely uncomfortable around them
>feel like a complete loser around them
>dislike 90% of them
>girls literally disgust me with their stupidity and lifestyle

What the fuck am I supposed to do? I'd love to move back to my country but I don't have enough money and my parents won't let me. I've been trying to move back for 2 years now.

>inb4 moralfag

I'm not a fucking moralfag. I do drugs, drink a lot and party. But this shit is fucking terrifying, stressful and just NOT FUN. My sex drive literally died, I don't even feel like talking to girls that get fucked by 20 dudes a week. And I can't have fun, because even though I know english I don't feel fully comfortable speaking in it.
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You're like reverse Fez

Just a shitty environment to not be a wastoid. It happens. You were thrown in a vortex of the worst of Western culture. Can't be expected to thrive but it's not telling of the rest of the country as I'm sure you know.
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>>18137762
Where you at, US? And if so, where are you originally from?
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>>18137762
where do you live bot. You can learn to make friends outside of that shitty social circle, you know?

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I have been going on a few day time dates with a girl and although she might poke me or touch my face. I really want to escalate with her. How do I know what ques to take so I could kiss her?
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>what ques to take
When she pokes you or touches your face
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>>18137610
I hope she's poking ur dck OP
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>>18137626
Like im pretty sure she likes me I'm just not sure where or how to initiate a kiss

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Hey 4chan,

I have been going for a walk with one girl for a few months. We kiss in the lips, she embraces me first. Assuming that she does not talk to other boys, is she my girlfriend?
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Why don't you just ask her dumbass
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Because she is kinda weird/special. I can't ask, it would like I am an idiot.
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No but much like marriage labels aren't necessary to have something special. You just have to trust she isn't doing this with other guys. With your trust and comfortability she can go one of two ways but there's no way of knowing. Just live with your "special" relationship for a while. Show that you can be happy with what you have.

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No idea if these are a thing already.

Stories about and advice on substance abuse issues, fighting a SA problem, helping someone close to you suffering of one, successfully recovery, etc. Peer support encouraged.

Please keep it civil, constructive, and helpful, don't come in just to dole out gratuitous judgements.
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>>18137495
>SA problem
been using hard drugs for 12 years. mostly uppers like meth and RCs. lots of psychedelics and of course pot.

i don't regret getting into or doing drugs, maybe i will one day, idk.
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On and off abuser of dissociatives, hallucinogens and even deliriants. Heavy smoker. Frequent binge drinker. Getting to the point where it's heavily affecting my mental state, so I'm cutting back.
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I know this isn't the hardest thing to come off of, but has anyone here successfully tapered off of vyvanse? I have been on 30 mg for a year and want to stop taking them everyday

I'm on day 2 of 20 mg and feel tired af, I plan on dropping down to 10 mg on Friday and 0 next Saturday.

My question is, is this to aggressive or will it be beneficial in the long term

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>Be me
>always targeting for tomboys since 12
>finally date a tomboy
>when said tomboy carry me and spin me 360 degrees like it was nothing
>I have been questioning my masculinity almost every single day since then
>finally i told myself it was normal
>until /a/ fag, who is my friend in real life, told me it wasn't normal
>questioning intensifies
>parents add in salt to wound, they started questioning my sexuality
>2 years since i last dated a tomboy
>I am still targeting for tomboys
>Am I a masochist?
Also, should I stop questioning my masculinity if I date a tomboy again?
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>>18137491
Who the fuck cares. If you were an actual faggot you'd want to get fucked in the ass by men. If you like manly girls then go for it.
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>>18137497
Thank you, anon. Now I felt a huge surge of confidence in me, maybe I should try to go at it again.
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>>18137491
>i like X
>everybody around me is jealous as fuck that i like X so they try to question my very identity
>am i normal?

No you are not normal, but why should you or we care?

And if you ever question your masculinity, check if you have a penis and balls. Until she breaks your penis and or balls off, you are as much male as you can be.

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Is it worthwhile, or is it an opiate for the masses, for people that have nothing better to engage themselves in? I do it occasionally and while it can be fun in the moment, I find that you pay a debt the following day with a hangover. I also don't feel like I bring much with me from the experience, nothing memorable about it.
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Drink water and you will never have a hangover again
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Drinking is only worth the few hours you can remember having a fucking great time. All that shit the next morning is just your certificate of having that fucking great time last night. Just eat some bacon, drink lots of water, you will be good by lunchtime. Tip: don't mix drinks if you want to seriously get fucked up. Just stay with 1 or 2 of the same drinks to feel smooth. You always can fuck yourself up whenever you want by drinking 1 shot at the very end. Have fun!
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>>18137454

Most of the best times of my life have been while partying. It's something about that youthful expression of freedom that really kicks in the endorphins for me.

If you do it right (eat before bed, drink water), you won't be hungover.

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