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I worked 16 hour shifts at 711 when people would call out and their would be no other workers. If you have a real goal with your money then that should keep you motivated. If your doing this just to live and not saving up for somthing your not going to last. Fuck school. Open a janitorial buisness youl make more money working for your self and its cheap to do. Then once you get enough accounts you can have employees and you chill and delegate those employees instead of working

>>18140122
Thats a bad idea. Dont do one shift right after the other. You have zero time to take a shit in privacy or shower before the next. Go with one full and one part time. None can be customer service orientated youl be to groggy to interact with them and that will piss off your boss

>>18140122
If your super desperate for cash you can live on a cruis ship like acl for 6 months work 12 hours everyday and come back with 8grand

Either talk about something you are knowledgeable in or become knowledgeable in something common.

Talk about food. Everyone like to talk about food they like.
Ask them questions about themselves and talk about the things you relate with them.
Find a group of people. Then you can mainly listen and just chime in from time to time.

>>18140113
talk about your life and experiences, chances are you might find some common ground there. A lot of people like to talk about themselves, So if they tell you about experience ask them questions about it. Either make a comment about their experiences expressing what you think or if you relate tell them how you relate.

>>18140125
Yes I'll try to become more knowledgeable thanks. AAAA food is aaaaalll most people talk about its incredibly annoying to me. I'll k do is ask questions about them but I've realized the more I do it the less they want to talk to me about mutual interest but instead about their interests. Alright , thank you so much ill try it! Have a good day

>>18140099

>Does anyone here have or have had generalized anxiety disorder?

Yup. Go see a doctor. He/She will help you out.

>I'm trying to figure out If I have an anxiety disorder but I am skeptical of self diagnoses.

You should be skeptical because you have absolutely no medical training. Go see a doctor, you know, the people that have gone to school for years to learn how to diagnose people.

>>18140104
I just wanted to be sure before investing time and money into it, I sometimes go to the doctor with something and its usually nothing. I get it in my head that I might have something bad and go just to be sure. Like a hypochondriac, but I'm not super bad. I'm more skeptical of my fears because I think there is a degree of irrationality to them.

>>18140099
I have GAD and what you say sounds similar to what I experience, however mine is more rooted in social situations and things just going wrong than violent encounters.

>>dont sleep well and engage in distracting activities all day and night

Get this under control ASAP. I've seen a psychiatrist and they gave me pretty basic information to go with the drugs but basically sleep regulates your hormones and thus your emotional stability. Pick a time to be in bed by and get at least 7-8 hours of sleep at night, and have a meal when you wake up. Keep this up and absolutely keep a structured routine and really pay attention to caffeine intake, sugar, and exposure to bright screens before sleeping. Getting up and moving around and not sitting, and only laying down in your bed to sleep or for sex will help you fall asleep easier since you're releasing some adrenaline by moving and making your body associate your bed with it being time to sleep. If none of that helps you should definitely seek out a psychologist to up root anything that's bottling up and making you anxious.

>>18140084

>Advice pls.

You don't have a girlfriend anymore. Congrats.

>>18140088
She hasn't been online for anyone... Her best friend (female) can't call her aw

>>18140084
She decided to ghost on you.

That or she's dead.

>>18140026
What are you addicted to? Heroin?

>>18140030
No, I'm an alcoholic

>>18140036
Do you have friends you can reach out to? Family? If not, seek help. :(

>>18140021
Hit her with some stats, namely:
>20% of smokers will develop COPD
>IIRC it's like 80% of lifetime smokers develop COPD
The 1 in 5 chance of a horrible disease hit me heavy when I heard of it. Now I'm in the process of quitting myself.

>>18140021
Buy that bitch a vape and some juice. Bitches love vape and some juice

>>18140021
Ask that she not smoke around you or in your house and that kind of thing. Limit the spaces where she can do it so that ultimately she has to pick between you or her smoking.

No op it's just blackmail.
Teach your dumb bitch that what ever gets sent through an electronic device has the potential to be seen by everybody

She's a dumb ass drop her.

>>18140013
Molestation is physical sexual abuse of a minor.
This is blackmail, also if he still has them then he owns child pornography. He can't do shit with them without risking jail.

>>18139991
buy good quality zinc. and do sports

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>>18139991
this

>>18139991
i had acne for about all of high school now, and the only thing that has worked out of the four years of medication, if you have it bad and it isn't related to not washing your face or anything like that, is accutane, but its pretty hardcore shit and has some not so good side effects, but hey, it gets the job done

>>18139982
can someone please help me?

Uncle finally made his move?

>>18139982
I was 14 when I had mine. shirt and sweet. I felt good but weird. how old is op?

>>18139977
>I'm also not 100% mentally stable.

Are we talking about a little bit emotionally unstable or bad shit crazy unstable.

>>18139990

Not super bat shit crazy like I would kill anyone or gravely injure them but enough that I might, say, scratch them, or other light injuries

>>18140003
Well then gather the best of your self control and do it when you think its OK.

Worst case scenario... Rejection is usually easier to deal with than regret.

Depends on the attitude of the people you're dating on the matter, not anons on 4chan.

Git

>>18139964
I don't really know about dating desu
I'm a late as heck bloomer

>>18139960
It's good and it's perfectly feasible just as long as you understand that dating isn't the same as being exclusive, or in other words, being girlfriend and boyfriend. Dating is just a test period where you're trying to see who really gets you going.

I don't recommend bragging about it but if someone you're dating ever gets on your ass about it just ask them if they want to become exclusive. Should shut them up pretty nicely.

People will lie and say it gets better but it won't. Time is a flat circle. These feelings return and consume you over and over. People like to think these down times are worth living for but they aren't. Either you endure a painful existence or expedite the process.

>>18139925
I feel like this a lot too, OP. Unfortunately for you, I'm not a khv, I had a gf for a year and a half when I was 17-18. Not going to lie, it felt like all my problems had been solved.

For a while.

Then I gradually slipped back into my old ways of thinking. I still felt unsatisfied (although somewhat less unsatisfied), as though something was missing.

I still feel that way. I give the same impression as you; I do alright in my studies, all my friends think that I am largely happy, and when I do see them I do enjoy my time with them. But deep down I feel that there must be more.

I continue on because I feel that it must get better in the future. I really want to get married and have children. That's pretty much all I hang on for. If I found out I was sterile, I suspect that I would kill myself pretty much immediately. I also plan on doing it if I'm unmarried at 40 because I consider that to be a failure of life.

I wish I could help you but I really can't. I'm in pretty much the same boat.

I hope something I said was valuable to you.

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>>18139925
Seems like you're struggling with some sort of existential crisis, trying to find meaning in life and failing. That sure can get you down and depress you. Why don't you read Feeling Good by David Burns? It delineates coping strategies for being unhappy, in every possible situation. It's a great book. What do you have to lose?

I'd try moving. Or, try a different type of woman. I hear East Asian women are pretty good.

Are you white?

Date a white women and have a white family.

>>18139888

I am black. I also have an extreme preference for hispanic women. Particularly, puerto rican females from the bronx. But they are... something else. A bit rough for me. and more often than not.. super fucking ghetto which I don't dig so much.

>>18139825
Two days is not enough to do sit. That's basically flying to, and back again. Do you not understand travel time and prep time? Waiting in security, and lines. Jesus you are stupid.

>>18139828
>Do you not understand travel time and prep time?

Not OP but a late night flight on friday and late night flight on sunday doesn't sound impossible at all. Friday night party, saturday and sunday club bounce, visit nature, and sunday night go to the airport.

Also, it's commonsense that domestic flights are less of a hassle than international and you only need to be there 2 hours in advance.

Don't call someone stupid if you're just going to give easily refutable points.

>>18139828
You're rude lol

>>18139817
Do it with strangers that are not in your circle of friends.

Take a trip abroad. There you can hook up all you want with no strings attached and it won't follow you back home.

>>18139817
Chastity belt. Give the key to your dad.