why does everyone i know think i have a shitty personality? i

If everyone thinks you have a shitty personality, then you probably have a shitty personality. The fact that you don't even realise this and think they're the problem just proves it.

>>18139743
ive seen assholes having tons of friends though

>>18139774
The fact that you think that you're better than them is another sign you have a shitty personality

>>18139779
literally anyone is better than an asshole though

>>18139803
Everyone except you, evidently. Says a lot about you.

>>18139774
Maybe they aren't actually assholes, but you merely see what you want to see. If everyone around you is an asshole... it's because you're the asshole.

>>18139731
Well, you're just going to have to come to terms with the fact that you are completely socially inept/retarded.

You obviously have no idea how to gauge people - as a matter of fact I'm sure it's a completely foreign concept to you. People you meet have to warm up to you - get to know what you're all about. You can't just unleash your "quirky personality" on people and expect it to go well. You work up to that shit after you establish rapport with them. That's when they'll be primed and ready to understand your sense of humor.

You know how you do that? By paying attention to people, and what they're communicating to you (both verbal and non-verbal cues), and reacting accordingly. That's what is referred to as "being social." This is how you get people to like you and become friendly with you.

But I'm sure all of this "establishing relationships" nonsense is all completely over your head. Your confusion about the situation says it all. You clearly think that you can act a certain way and get a consistent positive result of people automatically accepting you. Don't know if you've noticed, but nothing is working, is it?

You know why? Because that's not how it works. That's not how any of this works. You're trying to completely circumvent the awkward "getting to know each other" phase of relationships and go straight to the good, "now we're pals" part. That's lack of effort.

This is why no one likes you.

>>18139731
Based off what you said about being annoying/racist. I am willing to bet you are hella insensitive. I bet you are the type to make really offhand jokes to people of other races, and then when they dislike you because you disrespect them, you get super butthurt and ask why. Yeah steer clear of jokes that make fun of someone's identity, especially someone who you are trying to be friends with because jokes on someone's identity are the fastest sure fire way to get someone to dislike you.

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>>18139731
Only people on 4chan appreciate when you are being random, retarded and say racist jokes