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How to be submissive in bed but not a starfish? 2017-03-18 05:54:21 Post No.18137034
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How to be submissive in bed but not a starfish?
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I don't think I "starfish" during sex with my bf but I'd like some tips just to improve anyways. To those of you who are completely submissive during sex, how do you stay active during it and not just lay there and take it? I am completely turned off by the idea of being in control or dominant sexually, and he likes to be the dominant one all the time as well. What do you guys do? And to people who like to take charge sexually, what do you like the person you're fucking to do?
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>>18137034
Need demo
You have cam?
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>>18137036
Of course...anonymous girls are ready for your cock...only 6.2 km away
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>>18137034
tell him you're happy to do whatever he wants and that he should instruct you.
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>In a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years
>We're perfect for each other, never had any problems until now
>I'm a moderate conservative, he's liberal
>We have healthy debates with each other all the time, no feelings hurt
>Some of his friends are a SJW degenerates who only get worse over time
>Bluehair nosering coke addict ultra slut is the worst of them all
>Lately he's started to spout ultra liberal rhetoric and is becoming more quick to upset
>He rolls his eyes whenever I debunk his arguments in favor of illegal immigrants
>Yesterday he told me "gender and sex are different" in complete seriousness
>He cries every other day
>mfw I can feel myself become less attracted to him, the man I love, every time something like this happens
What do I do? I know you can't change people and I don't want to, but is there some way I can discuss these problems with him without offending?
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How old are you guys?
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>>18136995
gender are sex are different tho... pretty sure there was a house episode about it. genotype vs phenotype. and this was before the xgender craze.
but anyway, your bf sounds lame, why the fuck do you love him?
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>>18136995
>the man I love
>the man
>man
Found your problem OP. Dump his ass.
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>people on /b/ and /r9k/ and now even my discord are saying I should see a councilor for depression/anxiety
Alright /adv/ what do I say? I'm in uni and I have 3 free appointments with my uni's psychiatrist. How do I accurately explain I literally can't talk to people beyond the internet and that I most likely abuse alcohol to even be able to do that? And not shut down while talking to them? I've honestly suspected for a while that I have some sort of aspergers but recently it's gotten beyond out of hand I can't remember the last time I freely talked to someone outside of being forced to in a class and even then it was extremely forced and I feared an anxiety attack coming on. I honestly don't want to kill myself but I fear it's an invincibility at this point. Anyone else ever been here what do I say/do?
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>>18136986
see a counselor and show him/her what you just showed us. they will know what to do
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>>18137009
But how doctors terrify me at this point I need to go in with a script prepared or else I'll just panic and say nothings wrong (like I do with my parents)
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>>18136986
Grow a garden or something.
Why worry about people's perception of you?
Maybe the real struggle is you have nothing to say.
That's why you're so distraught over lacking social feels.
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I'm getting a random breakout of itchy, white/red bumps all over my body for no damn reason right now
Haven't eaten anything for an hour...been doing nothing but vaping, which I've been doing for days anyway
WTF is happening? medfags help
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>been doing nothing but vaping
you deserve to die
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>>18136945
>vaping
Are you wearing a new brand of fedora? Perhaps that caused an allergic reaction.
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>>18136950
>Judging me for a hobby that has literally no effect on personality or character
Thanks for ignoring the main concern here anons
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Anxiety, depression, suicidal post drinking 2017-03-18 04:56:21 Post No.18136929
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Anxiety, depression, suicidal post drinking
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What do I do to stop this?
Whenever I drink or getting high or wasted I end up like that the next morning.
I feel like everyone is judging me all the things I do when I was drunk, I feel like a hoe, or wanted to kill myself such as.
I think about quitting drinking at all but I can't, it's how my social life goes.
Help me. What do I do to prevent it?
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>>18136929
Stop drinking. Get new friends if you have to. Mental decline while hungover is pretty normal. The times I most seriously contemplate killing myself are when I'm hungover. Switch to weed.
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Those are symptoms of alcohol withdrawl.
Could also just be you're regretting your life decisions right now and don't like how you're behaving as a person.
Don't get shitfaced with your friends all the time, get them to do other shit or find new ones. Stop drinking so much all the time.
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>>18136929
Hello OP,
The biggest thing I could suggest is that, because you say that your social life equates to drinking and getting fucked up, that you need to see about getting a new social circle.
It seems easier said than done, but understand that if things were easy then we wouldn't have any problems.
I recommend becoming involved in a club, some sort of volunteer group, make friends through that and shift your social time towards positive things. Get a new hobby or two you've really wanted to get involved in.
The drinking thing? That will pass. It's how you've associated your good times with. It's like.... you're not really having fun without drinking. Then drink! But realize that if your behavior is affected to an embarassing level then you need to avoid situations that make you want to drink that much.
Like, drink a 6 pack and then tell yourself that the drinking is not over, but take a couple of hours to chill and be social. Don't put your focus on the drinking.
It should help.
Don't kill yourself. There are billions of people on the planet and you will find your special place. Gotta respect yourself before others can respect you.
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>I need closure with an ex
About a year ago I was cheated on and walled off by her, and her friend group (her friend group had also happened to be my friend group; long story short I have no friends). I want to go out to lunch with her, just to talk about where things went wrong, what I could have done better, etc.
The advice I seek follows suit
>I need a way to confidentially contact her that can't be recorded, or used against me (already deal enough with bullys)
>How to get her to agree to go to lunch (If at first she is not so inclined)
>A good lunch restaurant that's not too expensive
Any help is greatly appreciated
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Why try so hard and reconnect with scum?
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>>18136879
I'm not so sure that she full scum. At first I thought she was, though, I couldn't bring myself to love her any less. Then, very recently, I had a very important thought cross my mind. You see, after she had admitted to what had happened I still treated her as good as gold, this made her guilt grow. Later the friend group built a wall around her and started rumors about my, false of course. I believe now, that she wanted to do something more, but couldn't given her circumstances. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'd still like to find out which one it is.
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>>18136876
holy fuck. you're obviously still in high school. once a girl start acting like a dumb, useless slut there's no going back. stop being a pussy. its just hard for you because you have to see her everyday. try to fuck someone else or hang out with friends ffs. all girls are dumb sluts and the sooner you realize that the better.
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How does a producer get into the industry? 2017-03-18 04:16:37 Post No.18136872
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How does a producer get into the industry?
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I produce music, still amateur and got 100+ followers on Soundcloud. It's pretty much the only thing i'm interested in and i'm just looking for a way to profit off of it some way.
I literally don't know jack shit about business nor the music industry. Don't know if record labels are worth it, don't know who to contact, don't know how to spread the word of my music other than Soundcloud threads in /mu/.
My idea was to start off by contacting a Youtuber and getting them to feature my song somehow, preferably in the outro/endcard.
My hopes are to become a videogame music producer the like of Hideki Naganuma, but i also want to produce music like Nujabes. I know this is a bit spoonfeed-ey, i'd appreciate any and all advice.
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Why not podcasts? They are always looking for theme songs,and some will even pay a little bit.
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>>18136913
Wow. I never thought of that! Thanks! There's one option.
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>>18136917
I might be into paying for a theme song myself, though I'm a long way off from actually producing my project.
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If I was a hermit in middle and high school does that mean that I'm probably going to be a hermit in college?
Because it's not like I'm going to suddenly be interested in or like others by going to a college
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>>18136868
You never know, you may change your life completly. Your still developing.
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>>18136868
you do get to reinvent yourself to an extent though
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its all up to you my man
if you want your life to change, you have to make the changes to it
PS alcohol helps
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Is wrong if I feel more relaxed during work? I act like myself around colleagues and drop my "work frame" pretty much altogether
I still continue to work but I've noticed some other people who remain tense and avoidant and only speak in their "work voice"
Who's in the wrong here?
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Is it wrong*
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>>18136833
"Chinese Chicken Salad"
That's life
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>>18136833
you're really bored tonight huh.
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Am I going fucking bald? Or is that a hairline?
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>>18136830
Looks pretty wide to be just a hairline.
Go see your doctor they'll tell you. If you want to save it get on some fin sooner rather than letter.
Source: a bald guy
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It's not your hairline, but I doubt you're going bald. Maybe your hair is thinning, but that doesn't automatically equal bald.
And honestly, it COULD just be the hairline, but it's damn wide.
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>>18136835
Thinning is the first stages of balding right? Or is thinning just something that happens, then goes away?
>enter freshman year of college, no major selected
>choose mechanical engineering end of freshman year, which put me on track to graduate after 5 years total due to choosing major late
>currently in fourth year, 1 year left of college after this and I'm free from this hell hole known as school
>apply to a few amount of summer internships and 1 coop
>only hear back from the coop, they want me to work from may to december taking time off from school
>this will cause me to take an extra year to graduate
>six years total
>if I had applied to more internships, I could have gotten one that only lasts for three months so I don't have to take a semester off
The pay is 28 dollars an hour, do I take the coop and graduate after 6 years when I'm 24, or do I go back to my last internship from last summer which paid 20 dollars an hour but I graduate a year earlier? I suppose the better option is the coop because it's at a very well known company but holy fuck nigga i just want to get my degree and get the FUCK outta here
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Experience is experience. Keep working with your current internship and just finish school. Pay shouldn't even be a factor at this point.
It may be a good idea to talk to some alumni and professors to see what they think.
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>>18136824
Yeah either way I would have experience on my resume. It's just I don't want to work at the place I did last summer, and I sure as hell wouldn't want to work there full time when I graduate. Going to the co op would let me get my foot in the door of a company I may want to be at when I graduate
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28 dollars is not worth paying for an extra year in college, finish your degree before you join the workforce and then make sure that you get paid fairly
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32 years old. Virgin. Should I buy an escort? 2017-03-18 03:23:59 Post No.18136766
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32 years old. Virgin. Should I buy an escort?
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Long story short, I grew up in a strict religious family and it took me a long time to start thinking for myself. The farthest I've gone is 2nd Base. I told people I've had girlfriends in the past but that's a lie. I never had anything serious. Nobody knows about this except me obviously. How consider myself an attractive person maybe like a 6 out of 10.
Honestly think a lot of it has to do with years of watching porn and has damage me mentally
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it won't help with whatever problems you think you have
it won't change anything about you
you probably won't enjoy it
if you still really feel like it go for it, it's your life man
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>>18136766
If you want but I think you'll be surprised at how little your life will change after you get laid.
If it will make you feel better go for it, it's a service. Don't tell anyone obviously and don't make it a habit.
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OP here.
since I've waited this long maybe I should just wait it out.
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So the Sex shop down the road from me is hiring a new cashier/stocker and I desperately need a job. The only problem is i'm kinda shy/uncomfortable in certain situations.
I'm sure i'll get used to it after a few weeks or so, but how do I survive the interview? I don't wanna go in looking like some pervert but I also need to be semi-knowledgeable of the products they sell.
Please halp, interview is tomorrow afternoon
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Just say you frequent these places and that you need a job and you're willing to do the work that is required
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>I don't wanna go in looking like some pervert
why?
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It's a retail job like any other job. Treat it that way, act professional, and you should be fine.
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I was walking my dog earlier today, as I walked passed a certain house I notice their front gate was open. A bulldog comes running at my dog barking. I really didn't know what to do so I fucking curb stomped it with my boot.
I feel pretty bad but the guy shouldn't have left his gates open when he wasn't home. The dog ran back inside but it was kinda limping.
Who's fault was it?
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God
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>>18136739
Listen friend, being a decent human being isn't a hard thing to do.
Regardless of who's fault it was, you should get a cheap bone, cow hoof, or some other inexpensive chewable and walk over to the guy's house. Simply tell him you were walking your dog, his dog ran out of the gate and charged you so you didn't know what to do. Express that you feel bad and give him the chewable. Avoid edibles because some owners are picky about what their dogs eat and poisoning animals is common enough for people to be wary about.
Go about your day, problem solved
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>>18136829
>poison dog
>go about my day
Got it!
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I am a welder at a super rich company that uses robots to make industrial materials.
I make better money than 90% of the 150+ employees that work there because I am certified and there's only a few welders. Most people do sheet metal work or assembly, which pays shit: around 10-12$
I work with a lot of hardworking people who are struggling to get by but remain positive. Most are age 30-50, a few 18-twenties.
I'm in my early twenties. I feel super grateful to have my job and pay, especially for a first full time gig.
The thing is the company can afford to pay the employees way more than they're getting. We had a meeting last week where the President and executives arranged all of us on 1st shift and told us that they might make 10$ million this month and they want us to work harder and do more overtime. It was a slap in the face. These people are struggling to pay their bills and you're telling them you're going to make 10$ million dollars this month? Raises go out once a year, everyone tells me they never got more than a 50 cent raise....even the 10+ year vets.
At the meeting the president and executives were smiling and joking around trying to keep things light, but every single employee was upset. We didn't get paid when the shop closed one day this week and people were asking if the 10 million will affect their raises. They just responded with "well we're giving you time and a half overtime we think that's enough."
I feel like I should get people riled up and force the company to pay them more. Seeing the President smile and laugh telling us to bust our ass so they can get their 10 million was disgusting. Since the meeting, everybody has been working LESS hard. I don't blame them.
What would you do in this situation?
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>>18136732
This is why unions are a good thing. How dare worker's organize! Yea union's aren't perfect but neither is the alternative.
Good luck, my advice take your skills elsewhere and find a better job. That's how I get a +%20 raise every few years, but I'm in tech.
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You're not in a position to get upset on their behalf. I'd be annoyed if someone making twice as much as me tried talking about how sorry he was about my paycheck.
Besides, you're probably not in a position to make demands from the execs anyway. It's a good idea to see what you can actually do with where you are in the company, but don't try to be the people's champion okay
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>>18136732
They need to find other jobs. Just because the company can afford to pay more doesn't mean they need/have to. They're not doing anything illegal.
This doesn't qualify as "corrupt" either, just assholes. Stop throwing that word around.