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>be me
>just turned 18 last week, started com. college
>virgin
>get like 2 tinder matches a week for the past 3 months
>all the girls are hambeasts who play hard to get
>every convo sputters out
>hear about anons in the same situation going on grindr and having multiple guys ready to fuck within a few hours
>hmmm.jpeg
I don't find guys attractive at all, but the idea gets me somewhat horny. As a straight guy I don't know how I'd feel when I'm older about my first sexual encounter being with a guy. I have a job, I go to school, I have car and I'm a likeabe enough guy that can carry on a conversation. Downloaded grindr a few months ago and set up plans but pussied out right before. What's my next move?
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Dude you're fucking gay
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Fag.
In all seriousness, just try it. If you don't like it, at least you can say you tried it and realized it wasn't for you.
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Yep, at least curious. This is the time to find out though. Not after you're married with 2 kids. Try it out. Either you'll like it or you won't. You're either bi or straight. Then go from there.
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Any doctors here? Or vets?
I'm studying medicine right now and am doing great, like really great. All my professors say I have a great future ahead of me, I could work at the university or basically anywhere if I keep this up, I'm in the top 5 of my generation... But... I don't know if I want to keep it up.
It's not like I can't, like I'm getting tired or anything, but I just look at the future and it's not what I want.
I want to be a doctor, but I also want to play games and read fantasy books and watch anime and spend all my free time on my computer, but that's the thing, you don't get, or you get very little free time once you graduate med school. You will have to work 8-10 hours a day, and then you will also have to study a few extra hours because medicine is advancing every day and as a doctor you need to be up to date. At least, that's what I heard, and that's why I'm posting this here. Any doctors or vets (since that's a similar profession) that can say it's really like that, or that it isn't?
I don't intend on ever having kids or settling down, so I won't lose time on that.
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>>18709541
wait till you start working. just finished med school and started working and i have enough time beside work. but i'm also quite the anti social outside of work. it might depend on where you live though.
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>>18709541
Head of a clinic lab here. Why not do lab work? It's basically the dream job. I'm still a medic in every sense of the word but I haven't seen the face on an actual patient besides my assistants in years, and all I do is play with high-tech equipment, 7-ish hours a day.
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Do you have to study outside of your work hours?
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>writing exams at uni tomorrow
>must read 1 billion pages of blocktexts today
>can't fucking concentrate
What are you doing to fight this shit? I literally can't concentrate on what I'm reading for over 5 mins at a time. Help me
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listen to lo-fi hip hop. helps me concentrate
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>>18709567
But I hate hip hop anon
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>>18709569
It's not the same as regular hiphop.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hX3j0sQ7ot8
Just put this on and get to work. It takes about 20 minutes of continuous work to get into the zone. Only way to do it is to start and get going. Put on rainymood too if that is your style.
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Going to a pool party wat do?
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Ok /adv/
I fucked up, I fucked up bad
I promised a hot girl and her friends I could get some wristbands for a 24hr pool party, I managed to scrape the cash to get wristbands.
BUT
I didn't really think I'd need to get in the pool or what ever, I kinda figured I could skirt the poolside and score a seat. But from what I can tell that's a very tall order.
I can't swim, I'm self conscious of my scars, I have a ton of surgery scars and some that were inflicted by bullies when I was 16 it's been a decade and they didn't age well. So I'm likely to keep my shirt on.
I'm confident I can control some of my anxiety by just being as hype and socialable as I usually am. What do I do to control and divert from the not swimming and t-shirt? Or am I overthinking this?
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>own your defects, don't let them own you
>if you think you have a problem then others will too
>just be yourself
...I don't know what other /adv/ gems to give you but try to be aware of your shortcoming but not get fazed by them. Like, if someone asks, say that you fought some tough knife-wielding motherfuckers, or better yet tell the damn truth and show that you are over it.
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>>18709549
>knife wielding mofo's
Not far off the truth. Thanks Anon
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>>18709529
>scraped together
Nigger
Take them back to the store, get your money back and if they ever confront you about it say you were fucking joking. Stop taking yourself so seriously
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>18yo
>qt gf
>after 7 months she fingers her girl bff
>gets drunk two weeks later and tells me
What should I do guys? I feel like shit right now, that counts as cheating right?
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They were in a relationship a couple years ago so idk
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>>18709506
Lol that's hot as fuck; try to get a threesome you idjit
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>>18709526
I'm not into her friend at all
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Please help me with girls because I'm clueless or simply a little slow.
>22 years old only had one gf
>Fucked it up when she once texted me how I don't text her enough
>I said I'm funnier and better in person
>She ghosted me
>This was two years ago
>Met her on an app
>No luck with apps anymore
>I get the urge to go to a club or bar, but I'm feeling too depressed, self esteem low and even a litte anxiety just from the thought.
>I'm obviously not Chad but honestly dont think I'm below a 5
>I'm not fat and most girls in my age group around my height
Should I pursuit fame? I practically was fatherless, Ive noticed most fatherless males usually are underachievers.
This is fucking killing me, I don't even care about sex as much as I just want a cute girl to be mine. I have no game obviously wtf do I do?
>I masturbate to porn because the visuals of a girl almost gives me company.
I know need to stop but it's hard when cumming also gives me the dopamine I need to feel good and escape my shit life.
It's hurts so much because it's not like I'm some boring fuck.
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>>18709485
Your father has nothing to do with it.
You're not an underachiver because some golddigger whore ghosted you.
We all have this problem once in a while.
You need to stop puting girls on a pedestal. You should respect them as human beings but they're no angels, just regular idiots of the world, like you and me, and you should see them as such.
Next time you get a girl on the hook, dont do any game, don't pursur her. Just be a bro, and when its 1 am and youre both drunk, you flirt. Then you go to her house and watch a damn move, dont drink to much. Then when you both get bored you just kiss her, and then you make out and then you undress her and then you have sex. Done.
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>>18709510
>Next time you get a girl on the hook
How? I can talk and be funny but for the most part I'm introverted and barely have any friends.
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>>18709517
Some times people just come to you. Put yourself out here.
I have a forum which i post on regularly, and girls take contact with me there, or i take contact with them. Most of these just go away, but occasionally you meet someone who you click with and then you share numbers.
I've had sex with a girl i met on omegle. It's definable doable.
What i did then was chatting with about 100 "girls", maybe getting 20-30 "girls" on kik and then sorting out the homos. Most of them ghosted me, even after sending nudes..
But one, was someone that i eventually met.
Another time was on a dating site, i was highj and drunkand i asked a girl if she had hairy legs. We had sex 2 weeks later at a hotel.
Then we had sex again at my place.
Then it ended for reasons..
But just giving you some ideas, what you can do, just over the internet, without even going outside.
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>>18709456
so true lol
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That's because those are the symptoms, not the cause
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I don't do any of those and I am still depressed.
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How to stop procrastinating 2017-09-10 06:58:12 Post No.18709390
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How to stop procrastinating
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I am a law student with a future that could be bright if I actually put effort into what I am doing.
I'm also smarter than average since I can put lower effort than most people into studies and get a higher grade than them.
But studying and concentrating overall is incredibly difficult for me. I easily lose interest after a few minutes and end up going to vidya.
The fun part is that I also don't have motivation to play vidya so I end up browsing social media and 4chan all day thinking about what I could be doing.
It's not depression since I'm quite happy. But I'm getting desperate. Why can't I control myself and force myself into doing things I don't want to do? That's basic discipline.
I already tried meds and I've been trying meditation but it does not seem to be working.
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>>18709390
It's not possible to give up drugs while they are right in front of your nose. Same goes for internet browsing, gaming, anime, movies and similar.
We're not all the same, and someone will tell you "lol bro just organise urself like tell urself REALLY HARD you won't browse internets and it'll work" because it worked for them, but truth is you're not retarded, I'm willing to bet you've tried that.
What you need to do is completely obliterate any possibility of a distraction. That means getting rid of your phone (swap it for a cheaper one, one that doesn't have internet), getting rid of your PC (or using it only when what you have to study is digital), and just leave studying to be the only thing to do.
Or, you could go to study in a public library too. That'll help. The pressure of a dozen people sitting around you and studying and thinking what a retard you are for looking at your phone all day long really does the trick. And then reward yourself with an hour of PC when you get back home late before sleep.
tldr Don't kid yourself by saying there is a way to resist the temptation, if you haven't a way by now you won't ever, you need to get rid of the temptation.
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>>18709434
*If you haven't found a way by now-
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>>18709390
Are you me?
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My mother has stopped acting like an intellectual with morality and responsibility and became an ego-driven sociopath obsessed with her gullible standardless garbage.
She's been spouting stereotypical garbage and changing her vocabulary to sound more like a redneck. I blame it on the pills, her degenerating mental health/going insane because teachers go mad from too much mental pressure. Not liking this in the least.
But I'm blaming this on her age and her father's sociopathic genes inherited to her more than her environment. Which is sad because she has recessive genes from her grandparents, I thought those would become dominant, not just co-dominant, but less /sci/ and more /adv/. What the fuck do I do now and what will happen?
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You fuck your mom
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>>18709344
You live at home? Get out!
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>>18709361
Vikings everyone, no sense of right or wrong.
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/adv/, why do people keep lying about how important money is ? 2017-09-10 06:22:11 Post No.18709319
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/adv/, why do people keep lying about how important money is ?
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Let's be serious about this:
The vast majority of us need money to get fresh food.
We need money to pay our (water, electricity, internet, rent) bills.
We'll need it to buy a house, car, clothes, traveling and much more.
We need it for better healthcare and treatment when/if we become terribly ill.
It even helps us attract mates.
All I want to know is why a lot of people (rich, middle class and poor) keep lying about how money isn't the most crucial thing nowadays.
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Because if you're poor and stupid you are easier to control, duh. Why do you think socialism is so popular with college age students? Social conditioning from (((them)))
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I've always been saying that money+face is the shit.
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>>18709319
money is definitely important. it is also important to remember that money is a tool, not a goal.
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I have a problem, /adv/. Namely, I'm dissatisfied with my life to the point of panic.
I'm 24, introvert, finished decent studies this summer. I live with my dad. Recently I started working as a translator from home, but it's a sort of an intermediary period so I don't get enough commissions and therefore money to make a living. I'm not sure if they will take me full-time after this. My goal is to be financially independent and move out.
I tried a few times and I can't pass my driving test. It's another important thing to me and I just don't know what to do. Should I just buy more lessons with an instructor? I can only drive on the parking lot with my dad so it's only developing my parking lot skills. I absolutely need to pass that.
Another thing is that I'm a virgin. This wasn't that big of a deal, people say I'm good looking, but I'm balding and I'm afraid I only have limited time before I lose my looks. Sure I look fine with no hair but it's just not the same and I have low confidence as it is. I don't want to waste the time when I'm still attractive.
I feel like life's passing before my eyes and I'm panicking.
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Why don't you join the fuckin Marines anon?
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>>18709303
Try a bit of online dating just to get some social experience. Don't give up on the driving licence. I see ugly couples on the street every single day if that's any comfort. Don't concentrate on your goals so much as on the first small step you can take to eventually get there.
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>>18709303
Go to >>>/biz/ and start over.
Suicide is a good option too, just remember to kill everyone who sabotaged you and your parents before you do it or else you're a coward for not doing something before you die.
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What do you do after 30? Can you still be on 4chan then? Where do people go when they're too old for the internet?
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>>18709295
Cafe's on a regular basis reading something or talking it up. Orrrr dog park if you have a dog. Ooorrrr bicycling orrrr church
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>>18709295
im one month away from being 31. i still shitpost like a baws
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Being a basement dwelling trogladite is not an age thing but a choice. You will still be here until the day you die OP.
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Had a girl come over my place last night. we ended up just watching random stuff on netflix
she was fine to talk to and i enjoyed her company but I dont think she'd be compatible as a gf based on how it was so far...
+ she didnt super catfish me or anything, but her pictures were pretty misleading. She had a TON of acne all over her face which took me by surprise, my mind was going "wtf" when i saw her for the first time... her pictures either had makeup or were taken far away :/
now she wants to hang out this next week, which im ok with I guess but I don't think I want anything romantical anymore from her, thats for sure... what should I do?
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What would an alpha do? What would you do?
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>>18709235
Why does what I do need to be compared with your alpha social concept
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Tell her that you don't think you will work out as a couple but could possibly still be friends.
Maybe she just had a breakout of acne that day and the picture was taken when she didn't have one.
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My girlfriend split up with me today. This is my first serious relationship and unsurprisingly it hit me pretty damn hard. We had a lot of things together and i planned to do so much more for the future and keep the promises i made when we first met.
How do i deal with this situation? we've yet to meet to discuss this and i feel disrespected as she's done all this through whatsapp. It feels like i just can't cope with anything and a simple conversation just fucking kills me each time.
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If she didn't have the balls to do it in person, then she wasnt worth your time.
Best thing you can do is move on and not worry about her anymore.
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Why are you having conversations with her? Work out the logistics (E. G. Moving out, getting your shit from her house, whatever, work out what to do with hokjdays you've booked etc) and keep it business. Then go no contact until you're sure that even if she came begging for you to take her back, you'd probably say no.
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>>18709215
You will be ok. You're going to cry a lot for a while but you will move on.
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How do I fuck the shit out of my boyfriend? 2017-09-10 05:33:45 Post No.18709203
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How do I fuck the shit out of my boyfriend?
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We started dating about a month ago. We have a lot in common, and I've never felt this connected to anyone this fast. I think he feels the same way, judging by how affectionate he is towards me, and the general chemistry between us.
Before him, I only had sex with my ex, but it didn't last long, so I feel quite inexperienced. He on the other hand, seems to know his way around. He started dropping hints for me during sex, how to position myself, etc. and it feels so good every time.
But, I feel like I'm only laying there, doing what he tells me and get fucked. When I'm on top, he doesn't seem to be enjoying it that much.
How do I make this as enjoyable for him as possible? I want him to feel as good as me.
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Buy strapon
Tie him down while he sleep
Fuck his shitter
P ez
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- Deep throat
- Anal stimulation.
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Try reverse cowgirl, lean back on him etc. Figure out what feels good for you, too. But I think the easiest way to do most of the pounding is to have him kind of sitting up in bed or on the couch or whatever and you on top, facing forward or away depending on your preferences. You can hold onto him or the back of the chair or whatever, tell him to grab your ass etc.