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>>18708420
Are you happy? With that attitude you might as well become neet.

If you really don't give a shit about money, prove it by burning ten grand cash, and post the video.

Also, to answer your question, you are probably depressed. Pay for a good therapist.

Commit to something for the sake of it because at the very least you will discover what you don't want to do which will lead you towards making decisions which are what you want to do.

Doing nothing and stagnating is the absolute worst thing you can do for yourself.

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>>18708416
Sex with condom < masturbation.
Best condom there is? Sex with partner you trust so you need no condom aka monogamy meme.

>>18708429

A little young for babies and pull out is a meme

>>18708432
Almost all girls are on hormone anticonceptions just to minimize period pain. You should start by asking her about it. And honestly you shouldnt stick your dick into person you dont trust in the first place, should you?

>>18708401
i should make this my dating profile

Cool story, bro.

I have a near identical situation, except I'm 2 years ahead of you. I stuck it out, attended community college, and just transferred to my local four year.

If you're willing to rack up debt, then feel free to apply to universities anywhere across the country. If you don't have community college credits, then you will need to have taken an SAT and decent high school grades.

Are you getting a lump sum in a year's time, by any chance? You could possibly use that to buy a mobile home somewhere, so you can retain privacy, whilst warding off homelessness.

If you don't care about being homeless, then look into the van dwelling community. There's some asian girl who vlogs about it.

here is a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jfbhG0fQlzs

This can be you, broseph. I'm too chicken shit to leave the nest though, and rough it out, out in the elements.

>>18708424
my nest is no more in less than a month

i did very well on my GED does that count lmao?
i already got and blew my arrears if that's what you're referring to (this situation was very unexpected) unless this other thing goes thru

maybe i'll do the van thing, i have to do something that's for sure

>>18708353
he drugged you.
if you find him or at least beat him senseless and then never talk about it again

im not the biggest bloke out but i do have is adress

should i send/do some shit to his house or is the some way to alert the police without ever getting involved?

>why do people who love me disagree that I am a horrible person

>>18708343
>get invited to a wedding
>don't get a +1 invite
>don't even get my own invite, I'm lumped into my parents one
>I'm 27

>>18708343
You should've said your mother in law could not get children or she is still a virgin. Something along those lines. It confuses people and if they have a sense of humor they laugh and 99% of the time you derailed the convo from that topic.

>>18708318
You're going at it backwards. Put out feelers to find the job first, then move to where the job is.

>>18708336
The kind of job that I want is at those cities. They're non qualified jobs such as front desk receptionist, waiter or even a mcdonalds, if necessary.

I want opinions about those cities mainly because I've done my homework and selected a few based on my preferences.

I ain't going near London though, that bloody city costs many shiny pennies.

bump?

Have you owned dogs before? Where'd you get her from? How old is she?

You need to teach these right away:
>basic obedience
>bite inhibition
>socialization

I'll respond with more in a moment.

>>18708367
Back. I had to relocate the sleeping kitten on my lap so I could type better. Here goes:

>basic obedience
Rottweilers are highly intelligent, eager learners, and can be very cooperative, however, their respect must be earned and their rank within the family established as soon as they get home. They are confident, natural born leaders, and feel no anxiety about stepping into a leadership role if they think there's a vacuum. You need to carry yourself with confidence, speak firmly, and be certain in your decisions.

Coinciding with bite inhibition, you should set the rules with your pup with "enforceable statements" (might be called something else, honestly). Basically, this means instead of telling your dog not to bite (or do whatever other undesirable behavior), you end the situation that they bite in, such as during play. Basically, play time ends if she bites you, rather than you chastising her then continuing to play with her despite her putting teeth on you. Strong-willed dogs like Rottweilers will challenge your authority by defying you when you tell them not to do things, so you're basically just removing the option to defy you and only letting them do things they want to do if they follow the rules.

She also needs to do something you want of her (like a trick) before she gets anything she wants, like food or a toy. Do not allow her to dictate what you do. Don't let her bolt out the door when you two go outside together. You go first, and she follows. She must walk at your side at all times, not lead you around from in front.

Here are the most essential commands. I promise she can learn these, even if young:
>sit
>down (don't teach this from a sitting position; lure her into a bowing pose... ass goes on the ground last; they lay down faster this way so it's better in case of an emergency)
>heel
>stay (do not call her to you to end the stay, you must walk back to her or else she'll anticipate exiting a stay while you're far away)
>drop it

>>18708397
You can use a clicker, but it's not necessary.

You can supposedly get faster reaction times from commands if you follow them with a visual cue (for example, you say "down" and then point at the ground). This is because dogs communicate more with body language than sounds. She'll associate the word with the gesture, which makes more sense to her as a physical communicator.

>socialization
Rottweilers are prone to aggression. This is fine and can be a useful trait, but it can't be allowed to run wild.

Dogs are particularly aggressive with unfamiliar things/things that they fear, so you need to expose her to lots of things while she's still young to prevent fearfulness. She has until about 4 months to soak up new experiences, and after that, it's difficult to get them to accept new things. Make sure these experiences are always positive.

She needs to meet other dogs, children, men, women, old people, black people, white people, people in wheelchairs, people wearing hats, etc. She needs to be exposed to as many textures, sounds, scents, and places as possible. Take her out in public. Take her on a hike. Let her splash in a lake. Bring her into a dog-friendly store, like Lowes or Home Depot. Have a friend of yours she hasn't met yet ring your doorbell and then come inside. She should be waiting patiently in her "place" (does not necessarily have to be her crate; it can be a mat near the door so she can watch). Make sure these experiences are always positive and immediately remove her from the situation if they're not.

I advise against dog parks because the dogs are rarely well-behaved, play-fighting primes them for actual fighting, and there's a risk of disease.

Enroll her in a a puppy obedience class. She can still get sick from this, but it's less likely. This will expose her to lots of different dogs.

>>18708241
You stop talking about it online, for starters.

>>18708241
use the time you use in the digital world to do something in the analog world

>>18708241
start a list of things that you want to do .
expand it until it can fill atleast 3 pages of paper.

Then get off your computer and start working on fulfilling it , slowly if you get bored of something move onto the next, and return to it later.

use the internet to help yourself fulfill the list.

and don't go online for any reason other than that .

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>>18708178
well OP you must be lonely to post this fucking bait

sage

Well you already friendzoned him. If you want him to leave that friend just become his GF if you are as attractive you say you are.

>>18708178
That means for some reason he doesn't like you THAT way, or he dropped some hints that you didn't get and eventually got tired of trying, or she reached out to him faster than you did. Many podsible reasons indeed. Best way to know is to talk about it

How about you get out of white lands, darkie?

>>18708151
Do you know how much a major city costs

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>>18708146

I assume you're in the US

Perhaps train for and get a concealed carry gun? That's standard procedure in burgerland, no?

Apart from that, I'd look into martial arts. Probably Krav Maga - a fighting style literally engineered to kill. Seriously, humans are weak, but the kind of shit you can do with proper moves is fucking scary

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhbtCIQuGv4

And yes, I mean since I was 9

>>18708138
>is thinking I'm going to get married naive
that depends on whether not you have the resources (mentally and materially) to build a home

>>18708176
>depends if you have the resources
I think I understand that, but thing is us (this girl and I) getting married at some point

>>18708090
What's the problem with that exactly

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>>18708090
?? ??? ? ??

Are you having a life crisis over Marilyn Manson???

>>18708090
There's not a lot of stuff out there that's edgy and accessible. The only other thing I can think of is Nine Inch Nails. It's not really a big deal, all considered.

You probably won't be able to get any pussy anyway so your opinion on whether or not you should doesn't matter

>>18708061
Take a guess.

>>18708068
>>18708069
What's with the shitposts?

>>18708030
I'm a male in the same boat, maybe we're meant for each other

this faggot here is just trying to get his dick sucked.

>>18708030
>trauma
Explain.

>>18708006
>>18706731
>>>18705599 (You)
>>Do you substitute any other activities, foods, or purchases in place of buying or using drugs?

I read, work, take care of my dog and workout. I also go to school 3 days a week. I think the current job I have is bad for me because everyone does drugs and sells them. I'm looking for a different one asap. I won't spend any money that goes towards my savings/puppy or necessary expenses on drugs, but that little extra cash I get from tips is always enough to get a few pills or stock up when I get bulk pricing.

>>Do you ever prioritize spending time with people who cannot supply drugs over spending time with people who do supply drugs?

My main problem there is my drug use has led only being surrounded by drug users. I've been alienated from non drug users due to my reputation, but I'm not really a bad person like they think, that's mostly because of drug stereotypes. I will try and find someone who doesn't do drugs to befriend.


>>18708006

>>How effective have any of these alternative choices been for you?

I'm too functional on drugs for it to have any real impact, it's mostly in my head that I know I need to quit just for my own good but then there's 5he days where I'm like "fuck it a benzo/opiate will take all this away for a couple hours. I also have depression and have had it for 7-8 years ever since I was 12. My step father dying definitely was a turning point in drug use turning it into a damn near daily thing for 2-3 years. I'm off weed now thank god and only take benzos if I really need it, but that's still too often as I get stressed in my life situation


>Anything else you can think to add?

I think the lack of a relationship now and shitty childhood deaths/ abuse has led to me getting bad with them. All I want is a girl that I vibe with and can be together through whatever comes, but my latest attempt at one of my crushes left me confused as to if it has potential or not. I'm not really attracted to many people but she is pretty much as perfect as you can be in my eyes.


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>>18706731
I

Anyone? I just want a little guidance and 4chin pretty much my last resort. I'm going to try to get a find a cheap clinic with a psych but I live in a small town with shit medical.