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Lots of people with faith are gay. Is there someone with your type of experience that you could reach out to?

>>18708743
You need to get away from your religion in the long run. If they would "never treat you the same again" over falling in love, they are stopping your growth and you need to move on from them. More gradual change might be easier, but I personally think that getting a great boyfriend is also a good way to do that

>>18708758
I was thinking of going to my church for help but that won't be a unbiased answer. Problem is a lot of my college friends are all hyper liberal so they'll say yes anyway, it's hard to find someone who can help ya know?
>>18708842
I've had the moral teachings of the church ground and guide me for so long, it feels like a betrayal not only to God but also the people that helped bring me up make me a gentle, caring person. It's just a difficult situation that I'm stuck in the middle of I suppose.

>>18708506
I don't know if what I am going to say makes any sense, but you might look more attractive to serbian girls simply because you look serbian.
People in general tend to be attracted to people who look familiar to them. So if you have particularly strong slavic traits, a warmer skin tone, dark hair, etc. you might not be as attractive for german girls as you are to serbian girls.

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Nordic girls know that their market value is high. Men who was born or lived most of their lives in those countries are adjusted to it. Foreigners gets blown away.

I have this theory that the nordic countries pioneered gender equality because their women are so gorgeous. It has been scientifically proven time and time again that we treat attractive people better. Pretty big difference too. If we counciously try to treat everyone equal, the subconscious mind kicks in and guides your behaviour unfavourably to unattarctive people.

Might be some basal darwinism rooted into this nature.

>>18708506
>When I go to Serbia for vacation the girls there are all over me

Geee could have to do with the fact that you are from a foreign country that is off a lot better than Serbia? That increases your market value a lot.

>women
>seem something good but in reality they are insane

Nothing strange here. Try changing multiverse.

to be quite honest, there is no girl that is not in the slightest "crazy" and barely any that havent been in a traumatic relationship beforehand.
If they follow their instincts they will fall for Chad at least once, before they start to look out for a more caring partner.

But that doesnt mean you will have to accept especially controling or abusive behaviour.

There are girls out there, that can think logically like 90% of the time, and only if one of their emotions gets triggered(they are more sensitive than we men), she will need to talk it out with you, but will say sorry in hindsight for her emotions and make it up to you.

A woman that lets her emotions unchecked or is unable or unwilling to to control them is oftentimes controlling, envy and abusive, mad. They have strong reactions programmed into them to keep you from leaving them and their potential children and react with full force against it.

Women need a feeling of security and recurring affirment, that everything is still good between you, you are still interested in her and there is nothing seperating you two right now.

But your question is where to find a good girl.
The better her family is, the higher the chance, she will be of good quality aswell. You cant take a poor girl and adapt her to a rich lifestyle.
Also you are falling short in the age bracket, with 21 you are too young for many qomen, that like older men.
So get a good job and Income, be a good friend to your bosses, and maybe score one of their daughters. But you have lots of time, and girls will become more proactive in search for a good guy

>>18708489
>dating your boss's daughter
Sounds awful

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I happened to see your posts awhile back here and on /lgbt/ about thinking I was sexually frustrated and wondering what to do. I didn't say anything because I figured you'd either bring it up to me or stop worrying about it, but instead you've just slowly become more distant and completely stopped having sexual conversations. I have no idea how to approach you on this or really if it was even you. I enjoyed those conversations a lot, you shouldn't have overthought things so much if it was. Maybe I'm just crazy though. I'm definitely crazy about you, trying to see you in every post and constantly having you on my mind, yet barely being able to think of anything to say when we chat. Sometimes I almost wish you'd break up with me just so I could stop constantly freaking out about how you probably dislike me for some reason or that I'm not good enough or things won't work out. But I want things to work out, and I want to feel like I can ask you things directly

The only thing I want from you now is closure. Not through a website like 4chan, not through texts but in person. I want to see your stupid ass face one last time as you finally liberate me from my, what'd you call them, hallucinations? I want to be done with you so bad. Don't you want the same?

>>18708461
Of course I want closure... And I tried days ago.

>>18707547
Use your tongue.

>>18707547
>>18707588
Up his asshole
Tongue it out real good

>>18707547
Just suck his dick and swallow his load.
I've only know one women who has done this and I literally loved her for it.
I've had 12 partners btw so this isn't speaking from inexperience

>>18707352
Fuck you you pedophile piece of shit. Die in a fire. Your fucking thirsty ass has no excuse for abusing some poor slut like that. Her life is bad enough without you taking advantage of her mental illness you piece of shit.

No obviously its not worth it. The sex offenders registry probably already has your name on it cause there's no way she's real.

Look up pedo hunters on YouTube

>>18707358
Didn't expect that lol. I don't really think of it as pedophilia I'm not much older. Thoughts? Let's refrain from language and have a discussion

>lube while fapping
Do other guys actually do this? I thought it was an American Pie meme.

>>18707124
Passion lube, stick with the regular kind, the warming kind gets gunky after a while.

>>18707127
Sometimes I use lube while masturbating, just to get started. I like to use warming lube.

There's no mountains, it's all flat land.

It's all green grass.

>>18707126
>>18707129
Just the shape, friends. The terraforming of the land itself is another matter.

>>18705310
I'm am a sexually healthy 28 year old who was circumcised at birth. Maybe the tip is slightly less sensitive than it would be with the foreskin, but it's literally a meaningless issue, I can and do have sex just fine without it.

>>18705310
>I haven't found out much on the subject, but does circumcision have any effect on sexual performance, and if so, what exactly is it and by how much?
Statistically speaking, circumcised men last more in bed but they make their partner come less.

>>18705310
Circumsized cocks are less sensitive, and they are less fun to perform fellatio on. They also look worse. Otherwise, nothing.

>>18704889
Bump

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Literally get more compliments on this then anything Iv ever gotten, plus its comfy af.

https://valvestore.welovefine.com/csgo-hyperbeast-zip-hoodie-12177.html

My advice: ask in /fa/ or possibly /out/ if that's your style.

pls respond 4chan dot net i need your help!!

>>18710795
I don't know how to help you on that one, but I can provide a better idea about how to not being homeless, if you dare to explain the story.

>>18710811
i daren't anon

>>18710618
Yeah, but if you're autistic, who cares?
You might get some liberal girls feeling sorry for you and asking questions.
Or you might get some nigs or dickheads trying to fuck with you.
Ultimately, who cares. You're a grown adult.

Yeah, but it's community college so fuck it.
Why don't you just wear regular headphones and play white noise?

>>18710722
I was worried the sound might be distracting to me. Plus I dont be able to listen to music during the exams and I dont want to change my study environment too much

Go talk to people at shows or record stores. Talk to people outaide art house cinemas, etc for any interest.

You're just looking in the wrong places. It's rare(nonexistent) for you to find people that like music the way you do unless you are in a place that people of similar interest are also there for (in this case its a show).

Are you allowed to make your own club?

>>18710570
chileno acá... quizás tienes muchos prejucios contra los niñitos ricos?
sí, la gente que se quiere hacer rica fácilmente suckea...
dónde vives? quizás podrías ir a recitales y tratar de conocer gente ahí? te cuesta mucho conocer gente?

>>18710605
btw, en qué U estás?

>>18710526
If you want to divorce, you should divorce.

>>18710533
Yeah, but what if I'm not seeing the big thing? What if I regret and all, after all I've been with her for 10 years and she's a nice girl.

>>18710526
You'll regret this one day if you cared enough about her to marry.

>>18710509
exit bag is the way to go.

don't do it though. you will be happy you didn't later.

>>18710509
What are your troubles?

i have too many problems
i have no other choices
can you help me choosing a method?