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Some background. Back a few years ago, I was living with my dad, his fiance and step sisters. For the longest time, the oldest step sister constantly wanted me to be her boyfriend and other stuff. I wasn't about that and wasn't interested. She tried to break me off with my current girlfriend (failed, but I ended it some months after on my own volition). Sometime later, she went and told her step mom and friends that we has been dating for months and she broke up with me. I denied it, obviously. She took it an extra step and went on some tangent that I was sexually harassing her and other crazy nonsense. This went on for weeks. So from what I understood, her mom, her sister, and possibly her friends heard all of this. It became such an ordeal that I moved out fairly swiftly. After sometime it was clearly bullshit and everyone left it be.

So now my current girlfriend asked me about the situation. I was never comfortable talking about it for various reasons. But I finally opened up after she asked. Problem is after I told her, she abruptly ended our Skype session a few minutes after saying good night, no "I love you" or anything. So now I'm wondering if she thinks negatively of me now, aka taking the step sisters side even though she had stated she doesn't like her. Or am I making a big deal out of nothing? I'm hoping it's the latter. What do you all think? Am I being a faggot?
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>>18707734
Dude have sex with ur step sister
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>>18707734
When this episode with your gf happened?
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>>18707863
This happened a couple hours ago.

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What's the best way to kill yourself with Xanax? What other shit do I take?
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Protip: Kill someone else before you kill yourself.
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>>18707718
Drink a lot of alcohol with it

Whitney Houston it
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>>18707718
they'll find you passed out and puking long before you die, best combine it with a suicide method as the pharmacological ease calms you down...
or, y'know go get some help for your urges. What is hurting you anon?

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I used to be happy alone.

Then I spent years on /pol/ and bought into white nationalist ideology which I realize now is bullshit. But I feel like a loser because I'm 26 without a wife and 8 white kids. I know that's wrong. I'm working on it.

But how do I get back to the meaning I had as a youngster that I should be happy living life alone, and if I happen to get to start a family along the way it's a bonus. A bonus, not the meaning itself. I can't love a wife or kids if I can't love myself first. And I want to have a wife and kids one day because I want to be a great father and husband, not because I am "supposed" to for "whites".

Pls help.
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You cult'd yourself with troll content? the digital age is weird. Quit those parts of the internet and live life like normal. Don't get married for at least 5 years (you're very similar to that Norwegian terrorist that slaughtered all those kids, you need time). If you live a normal life you'll get over it, just try to focus on the change and not dwell on how it feels better or you'll just spiral.
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>>18707715
What's your career like?
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>>18707715
Find strength and happiness in pursuing your goals. It's hard I know. Love yourself because you're willing to be beaten down by life for those pursuits. We all need to cut ourselves some slack. That's an admirable trait to have. As a man you should set having a family as your goal. Humans need that hierarchy to have that meaning sensation. You're young. You have a lot of time. It isn't even close to being over. I have faith in you.
And don't fall for their (((tricks))).

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Today I went out with my gf. We went to the movies and I paid for both of our tickets. Later, we went to go grab a bite, and I insisted that I were to pay for her food. She said that she thinks it's annoying when I keep insisting to pay for things. She also said that it's weird that I think boys are the ones that should be paying. What does this mean?
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You sound like you haven't been dating long enough to call her your girlfriend.
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>>18707681
It's been 3 months
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>>18707686
And you're still paying for every date?

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What is the reality of single life at 25 and beyond?

I am 23, a confirmed bachelor MGTOW from here on out, and I want to know what I'm in for.
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>>18707658
A downward spiral of misery until the end. Better dive into video games and anime to take the edge off the lonliness.
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>>18707658
Lack of drama irl. No kids to waste money on.
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How are we supposed to tell you how you are going to feel about something? I suspect you will have a long life of asking dumb questions ahead of you.

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I feel incredibly sad and lonely at all times and I can't stop thinking about wanting to cry or die

I've spent my life alone. I've never had a single real friend in my life. This isn't an exaggeration because I have aspergers and ADHD at the same time.. which basically is like living having had an anvil dropped on your head. Or living having 9 retarded little brains screaming and screaming and screaming. rather then one big brain with a fairly consistent sense of self, reality, and purpose.

Do I an hero?
Cry in a ditch?
Phone my mom?

I've spent my entire life trying to improve myself. I've tried and tried. It's all I've ever done. It's all I've ever thought about. Not because I wanted to, it's all I could think about. I like people. I consider myself a people person even though I've never felt a genuine interaction in my entire life. Reality is a blurr for me rather than a journey. I'm simple person at heart.. deep down I'm devoid of character.. only wanting what's best.. entirely crafted by my environment. Im very fucked and it's incredibly rare that I even realize it. I'm the weird asshole no one likes. I'm The jerry or literally anyone terrible you can think of. I don't choose to be this way. It's born entirely from confusion and total obviousness to quintessential aspects of reality.

Please comment
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>>18707599
kill someone before you go. I know i will
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>>18707599
Are you taking medications for any of this? Phone your mom if it will make you feel better. Or suicide hotline?
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>>18707599
Smoke some weed and go for a walk in the forest

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Is there any non-really-fucking-creepy way to ask to do stuff with someones feet? I realize it's a common fetish but I feel like no matter how I phrase that question it seems really awkward and weird.
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Are you extremely attractive?
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>>18707567
Are we talking strangers here or your gf. Because if you're talking about strangers you might be the reason people hate footfags
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>>18707567
I think this image answers your question

Keep your foot fetish to yourself

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Just watched It, got really disturbed after seeing Georgie die. What should I do?
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>>18707566
keep on watching it get worse
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Did he even say you'll float too?

I saw a video of that scene and he didnt say it and I was dissapointed but then later I say a movie poster thing and it said "you'll float too" on the poster and had a picture of Georgie so I was getting kinda pissed off because they removed an iconic scene and then put it in the poster anyways despite it not being there.

Go read the book now.
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>>18707566
it's just a movie nigga. it isn't real just close your eyes and go to sleep lmao. just turn of ur brain

tl:dr
>ex gf weasels her way back into my life after i kick her out of my place
>she has her own place
>invite her over for netflix n chill
>start touching her and kissing
>she tells me to stop
>ask her why and she tells me it's disgusting

Shall i proceed to ghost this bitch?
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>>18707551
Act like nothing happened. Shes ex for a reason. If she's down for a casual fug time then do it. If she's not then tell her that you're not interested in being friends.
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>>18707602
What does telling her my non-interest in friendship accomplish? How is that better than ghosting?
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>>18707551
What's that photo?

I have two options to buy a car:

1. 2004 Camry that costs 5.5k out the door with 117k miles
2. 2017 Camry that costs 21.6k out the door - new

Lately I've been contemplating about which one to get. I'm torn since I feel I don't deserve to spend 21.6k on myself. I am a loner and the only places I go to is my office (15 miles away) and ocassionally to my bro's city (350 miles away). I was always depressed and making this decision is too hard for me for some reason. Any advice?
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Buying a new car is never a savvy position.. but 2004 @ 5.5k w/117k miles is a bad deal. Talk them down or look for like a 2015 Camry.
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what condition is the 2004 camry? if it good...and you like to save money to buy another car in another year...
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>>18707518
Option 1. Unless the car has obvious catastrophic damage to it. It is never a good idea to buy directly off a lot. Seek the help of an automotive savvy friend. Ask him the cost of repairs, and maintenance- if that number is less the 21.6k, buy the vehicle.

The only reason to buy a new car off the lot is to peacock your willingness to squander money.

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I think I'm starting to like erotica. Anyone know a good place online to find sexy stories to get off to?

Anyone else into reading stuff rather than just watching porn? Is this weird?
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>>18707517

literotica.com

There was this one story called "Ashley" by an author named "ShiggyMoto" or something, that got me diamonds.


Not sure of the actual name because i read it years ago; too lazy to confirm.
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I'm definitely more into erotica than porn. Genitalia just doesn't work for me, and I get way too distracted wondering if anyone is even enjoying themselves.

Erotica is nice, you get into the head of the person. It's more of a mental game, and that's what excites me, much more than visuals.
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Yeah erotica really gets me going, too. I should probably read it more often, given that so many times I feel disappointed with porn. The thing about porn is you know 99% of these women are pretty much just acting. There's just something missing, even if they are technically aroused. It's pleasing eye candy but it leaves me feeling empty psychologically.

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How would someone without any money, who's just sick of everyone's shit, blow off some steam? I know someone with money might ride their motorcycle into the sunset, shoot some guns, or maybe just buy dope. What would you do if you didn't have the money for any of that, not even a car? If I don't put on my nice little shirt and suck some dick come Monday, I'm not going to be able to survive. It would be nice to mentally get away from that for a moment.
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Take up a martial art.
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>>18707507
$1 admission to the junk yard, you can do anything you want to any car. bring a bat
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For 300-400$ you could build a lawn mower 4x4. Save up and buy frame first, get it ready for motor mounts and shit. I'm too fucked up to go into detail. Or motorized bicycle

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Any advice on breaking out of the cycle of self destructive habits. I constantly procrastinate on things that I NEED to get done and engage in obsessive spending and other bad choices.

How do I stop this? I know that I need to stop and that it's making my life worse but I can't seem to quit it.

What the fuck is wrong with me
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literally just enslave a nigger! That way you can beat someone else and to you.:)
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I was able to beat most of my bad habits by replacing them with excessive drinking and smoking

So uh, not the best of routes. I'd recommend therapy, in hindsight.
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>>18707506
Luckily, smoking and drinking are part of my bad habits and I'm pretty opposed to them.

As far as therapy goes I'm a poorfag and can't afford that. And all a therapist is going to do is charge me a shitload of money and throw some anti-depressants at me

Basically a girl that I met online a couple of months ago has gone cold on me. We've chatted for ages on messenger and snapchat after we got off the dating site but all of a sudden she's just stopped replying.

I'm kinda pissed cos the last thing I sent her was just asking how she was and she just viewed it and didn't reply. What's a snappy/clever thing to send her now? I don't even care if it ruins the relationship, I've had enough.
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Don't send her anything. She most likely won't care, you won't feel any better, there's really just no point.
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>>18707482
This. Any attempt to 'get the last word' will just be screenshotted and sent to her friends.
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>>18707468
You sound like one bitter mother fucker. Move on.

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> had female friend I used orbit, drove away, then made up with later
>deletes all her social media, cuts off even her closest friends
>she keeps sending people I know to tell me she said hello
What could she mean by this?
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>>18707428
She misses your company. Be straight with her? If you're going to ghost out at least let her know. Not in text, but rather in front of her face. If you're gonna do it in text don't bother. She'll send them to the friends she asked to say hello, if she's a cunt though
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>>18707428
She's not into you. She fucked someone good and your just not what she wants.
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>>18707428

>What could she mean by this?

Why are you asking a bunch of strangers on the internet what a girl they never met is thinking? Talk to her yourself, numbnuts.

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