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>>18708744

How old are you, friend?

>should I also take medication that makes my head calm down

Don't self medicate. If a doctor prescribed it, then take it as the doctor said. Don't take an extra dose to "calm down".

>>18708753
>you need to be at least 18 to post to thus site
Let's juust say 18 is close to 17 which is nearly 16.
I dont think this info matters but she is also 1 year older than me

>Dont self medicate....
Alright so no meds for me

>>18708761

Don't tell a girl you barely know you love her. As a matter of fact, don't tell people you are not dating that you love them.

You are over-investing on a person that, as far a I can tell, doesn't really know you, right?

My personal advice is: Don't do something that makes you feel bad. If you feel so nervous about approaching this girl, you probably know she will say "no". Go out with friends, and meet girls you actually feel comfortable with.

>>18708729
Younger fag here (18)
Fucking do it!
Unless she gets someone by then, or is against the idea of a relationship with you by then.

>>18708729
I don't see any obvious downside, do you?

>>18708767
Downside is what if I dont like living in her country, what if we end up falling apart anyway. I would have ended up giving up my one chance of living in Canada for a year and travelling around the world with my friends to live in a strange country with no friends.

>>18708723
Malpractice charges are not trivial things. They can take years to set up. If you think you have a case, see a lawyer. Since the lawyer will be taking a big risk - most such cases are no-win, no-pay - and so he'll only take it on if you seem to have a sure thing. Trust his judgment.

Tl;dr: pls reapond

>>18709114
Are there any places else I could consult?

Do you think it's Worte the risk? I'd at least like'd the doc to pay for the damage that has to be repaired. My specific case is about my teeth.

I went to the dentist bc my gums are bleeding and he only recommendes me to use a Special kind of floss. He told me nothing else and didn't mention anything about paradontitis specifically up until I had visible biofilm behind my front teeth. Then I was send to a clinic where they told me its' become aggressive and they need to regenerate the gums and teeth and roots up to the bones that have been damaged in the meanwhile. So I will have huge gaps, thin teeth and they also recommend me to wear sth like bridges behind my fron lower teeth so they don't shake unnecessarily while eating and such. All in all about 1k probably.

>>18708723
oh shit that roo got rekt. I wonder why people don't do this more often, like film kangaroos fighting it seems a lot more entertaining than dog fighting desu

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Well if the number is legit then go for it you don't really have anything to lose do you?

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>>18708700
Do it man! Have a great time and maybe something will come out of it.

>>18708700
Yes, but say it like "I'm going to a festival on Saturday, what time should I pick you up?" Girls like it when it seems like whether she shows up or not, you are still attending the event (doesn't matter whether it's true or not)

>>18708619

Time will help. Focus on distractions and building your life. It will hurt for a while, but it will pass eventually. Don't let yourself wallow in misery, keep busy with family and friends. But you're no way obligated to be friends with her while you're trying recover from the break up, even if she'd want it. Give yourself time to get over it.

>>18708639
i have a class with her and everything reminds me of her. don't have many friends bc i'm shy, not any that i can trust to tell them how i feel. i'm just confused on why we broke up, i'm trying to figure out what changed. i treated her with as much respect and care that i could. i'm trying to accept what happened but it hurts

It's part of life, only people to whom it doesn't happen are permavirgins.
Better now than late with kids.

>>18708612

Why'd the advice be any different whether you've dated or not? The same principles apply.

>>18708617

well wouldn't having experience matter or not?

>>18708641
Having no experience in your 20s or 30s is the same thing. In your 30s you will also get up to speed faster and find it easier.

>>18708606
Most people figure this out before the end of high school.

>>18708606

Thank you for your contribution, Captain Obvious.

In other news, the sun is hot.

Why did they choose your ex-gf over you?

Whatever the reason may be, if they really were your friends, they would have told you what you did wrong and what right (because real friends are honest with you, no matter what). After that real friends would still keep on hanging out with you, not with your ex.

Now: if they're not acting as friends to you.... why in the hell do you care so much about them? They are not your friends and probably never were.
You have new friends now, be a good friend to them and they'll be good to you

>They choose her. I got mad and had a discussion with everyone, even still I did nothing bad and I was the victim... I felt guilty of something, and now everyone hates me.

Seriously dude, that does not seem even remotely plausible. Stop being the victim, this happened 3 years ago. The people you have a beef with has moved on, they are no longer the persons they where. Are you going to stay at that point in time three years ago until you get redeemed? Then there's only a sad and bitter life waiting for you. Start creating a life for yourself.

Move on and build new great (greater) things, you are more than capable.

>>18708578
Doctors aren't generally know for just grabbing peoples junk without warning. What's your fear?

>>18708585
Idk, I just remember getting physicals in high school for sports and the doc would put his hand in my pants, grab my sac and tell me to cough, and it was really uncomfortable having his hand in my pants. I haven't had a physical since hs and a clinician recommended I get one when I saw her for an ear infection but I'm anxious about this (if you couldn't already guess, I'm a virgin and not comfortable with people inspecting my genitals)

What the doctor did was to inspect the development of your genitals and if there was any pathological sign (wider than normal canal).

If you have an ear infection, the doctor will check your ear, maybe listen to your chest during a very thorough examination

>/soc

On the off chance this isn't b8:
You're fine. Nice eyes. Don't be insecure.

qt

Your insecurity is the problem.

thank you very much.. So I guess it is really just me thinking bad of my look. What does b8 mean btw?

Just take your desktop, it's really not that much of a hassle.

where is OP from? so know what 1300€ stands for

>>18709442
It actually is since it's 400 kilometers away.

>>18709616
I'm a balkanfag, 1300€=1564.60$

Prepare, is there a script or are you supposed to write something? Rehearse, speak out like you would in church, first by yourself then preferably in front of a friend.

>>18708536

I'm going to receive the reading in a week or so beforehand

>>18708537
A week is plenty. Also remember that your heart palpitations, sweating and general anxiety isn't as obvious to others as it is to you. Also people probably care a lot less about your speach than you imagine.

Tell him if he doesn't have sex with you you'll tell the police he raped you

Find out what porn he likes and watchesif it's any fantasy stuff role play it it'll be easy if it's any dominant female stuff.

tell him you're horny and getting yourself off isn't satisfying enough and you need him to fuck you. have an actual discussion about it with him. tell him it makes you frustrated and feel like he's not attracted to you (if it does. just speaking from my own experience here)

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>>18708452
What do you have to offer except your genitals? Do you do any hobbies? Do you do anything interesting? I mean look at your thread: boring picture, 0 describtion, it is as boring as your life.

People make friends through shared hobbies / interests and that sort of die off anyway once you are out of school.

What do you do for fun? And where is your bf?

>>18708487
I don't have a bf. I like hiking and making music. I usually just partake in my hobbies when I'm bored.

Also what more description could I put? It was just general info. I wasn't aware there was a standard on pictures either. Keep the try-hard negging to yourself.

>>18708452
Make friends with girls.
Meet people through hobbies, volunteering, university, meet ups. Join a sports club, a gym, take a class for a new language.
Meet people there.

>>18708439
Are you the same moron that opened a thread with an anime picture, asking if you need the follow government recommendations for Irma?

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>>18708453
Fuck you, you bitch. You want another anime picture? Here's your fucking anime picture, ya cunt.

>>18708453
yeah thats me
>>18708456
this isn't me