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I've been with this girl about 4 months and we've been arguing all the time about stuff that I can't help like being nervous all the time like she even started an argument on my birthday. I mean I love her but I can't deal with it she's my first girlfriend and I don't know what to do
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Ask yourself: do you really love her, or you just don't want to fail your first relationship?
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I do love her I'm just sick of being treated bad but I can't deal with being alone
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>>18392368
Well, talk to her about it first. If that doesn't work - dump her. Just like that. I know this'll hurt a lot, but it's gonna be the right choice, an I know what I'm talking about.
My first relationship was shitty, to say the least. The worst part was that I found out she never had any feelings in return, and she just used me for favors and occasional money only a couple of months after we amicably decided to split up. Again, if talking about the problem isn't working - don't waste your time and feelings, and just walk away.

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Since I was a kid,I had this problem when I wouldn't like to eat certain food like dairy products, fruits, vegetables, fish etc.
Im right now 20 and I still have this problem. Through out the years, my parents forced me to eat different types of food but I would find every one of them disgusting. The only foods that I did like were meat (beef and chicken), potatoes, some pastries and fast food (except pizza).
Is there a way to force my body to accept other types of food or do I have some sort of rare autism?
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>>18392324
What the fuck, that's autism? I had the same "problem" but I just assumed I simply didn't enjoy those foods. I enjoy the same foods you mentioned and as for pizza I actually realized I only didn't like it because I only had shitty pizza. Go to a good pizzeria and get some actually good pizza, your mouth will start to get used to pizza in general.
Anyway, I don't think this is autism, why would you say it is? I've met a lot of people who have weird food taste these last few years all of a sudden.
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>>18392324
>>18392330
That is just being spolied dummy.

Everybody hates something. Tomatoes, tofu, meat, trump. You are normal.

Stay cool and eat whatever you want. Just make sure your diet is balanced and it contains enough sacharides, fats and protein. Buy multivitamin if you feel like you eat 1 piece of fruit / vegetable per year. You are probably missing vitamin D and B anyway.
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>>18392330
Most people around me would enjoy food that I would normally hate and my parents would always tell me that "I will never be able to survive in society by only eating (insert name of a food that I like)".
I just find this extremely weird and scary. Thats why I thought that it might be some mental shit that im dealing with.
Anyways, about the pizza thing. I dont like it because it got veggies in it. I did like (a little) Pepperoni pizza but thats like the only kind that I can eat.
>>18392339
Thanks for the advice, anon.
Might look into some cheap multivitamins if I can find any.

How often do you come across really good sex? I had my first time with a guy about half a year ago... we had sex twice and BOTH times it was so fucking good that I could barely control myself. We had to break up because of my dad (I'm 18 but he was 25 and that was a problem) but I've never forgotten how good it was.

I've been with two guys and three girls since and none of them even compare. They don't do the same kind of thing. They don't kiss as well, touch me as well, or just, you know, dominate me like he does. Maybe it's because he's older that he's so much better? Is it just rare to have that kind of sexual compatibility or what?

Thanks!
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>>18392269
Tldr you wanna brag about getting fucked. Move along everyone
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Slut.
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>>18392269
>They don't kiss as well, touch me as well, or just, you know, dominate me like he does. Maybe it's because he's older that he's so much better?
he is good from the ammount of girls he has fucked and kissed, thats why experience comes from age.

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How do I stop being skinnyfat?
How do I get muscular?
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>>18392234

>those smooth legs

show me that twinkilicious body.

that being said
you work out. you eat extra protien.
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>>18392234
Go to fit
Read the sticky
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>>/fit/

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A thread to discuss first dates with a girl/guy.

So I'm gonna have a date over lunch in two days with this really cute girl that seems interested in me.
My question is, should I go for a kiss?
I'm asking because it's gonna be the first time we're doing something together.

If yes, at what point in the date and how?
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No, absolutely do not unless she is somehow making OBVIOUS signs that she wants to

It's a fucking lunch date.
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>>18392210
I think you're right, I just don't know how often we'll be able to meet up :/
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>>18392213

Don't put all this pressure on yourself to impress just because it's a "date" - it will be obvious and make you seem desperate.

Just play it cool like you're having lunch with a friend. If she's into you, she's into you.

If not, who cares. Have lunch with someone else next time.

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I'm craving mad shit rn pizza and co. God I just wanna know how can I deny/resist these cravings.

Tell me.
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eat a pan pizza from papa john's. I tried that shit last night and couldn't stand it.
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>>18392194
what kind of diet? understand that your body burns a certain amount of calories just to function and to lose weight all you have to do is eat less calories than that. about 500 less.
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>>18392194
drink water

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So I got caught shoplifting from walmart.

Story: I found my old ps3 in my closet yesterday and wanted to play it. But lo and behold, I didn't have any games. So what does my stupid ass do?

I stroll on over to the local walmart, and try to steal a $19.99 copy of Skyrim.

Of course two guys stop me before I get to the door and take me to the security room. Immediately as they handcuff me, they say "Nothing's going to happen, we're just going to take down some stuff and you can leave."

They take me there and take down my SSN, my DOB, and my address because I didn't have my ID. I talk to them and they're really friendly and everything, saying things like I'm just a kid (I'm 18) and seemed nice and I didn't need to be doing this kind of stuff. And of course I know that. Lesson Learned. Got off with a ban, I suppose.

But as I'm reading up, I'm hearing about letters in the mail asking for court dates, or misdemeanor charges and whatnot for little items. They said nothing was going to happen, but I really don't need to have letters sent to my old folk's.

Does anyone know what's going to happen? I know I deserve whatever will come, but I'm a little shaken up.
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>>18392114
>Does anyone know what's going to happen? I know I deserve whatever will come, but I'm a little shaken up.

Hopefully you'll learn not to shoplift unless you need to
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>>18392114
Eh since you're a kid and it isn't a major offense they'll likely put you on a Ban Board for the local store or maybe globally. Sucks but nothing threatening.
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Talk to your parents?
Why /adv/ for fuck's sake?

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Was offered a job today. I start tomorrow. Haven't signed a contract and very afraid.

I want to discuss benefits with the person who hired me as well as a vacation I had previously bought tickets for. When should I do this tomorrow?

Also I'm scared as fuck
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>>18392089
you can do it anon, don't let your dreams be dreams!
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>>18392089

before you sign. when you go in bring it up, and try to phrase it as a 'i can definitely cancel this trip, i just wasn't expecting a job so soon, but i already booked it for the XX through the YY, any chance id still be able to get that off?

and if no, do what you think is best either cancel trip or work until then and up and quit.
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You'll be fine anon, just relax! What kind of work is it? And how far in the future is this vacation of yours?

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Hey /adv/! How could I win a girl's heart over the Internet? She is american and im hungarian and we can only communicate on fb and skype (i know she is not some scam)
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>>18391949
>(i know she is not some scam)
An US girl wouldn't have to scam a poor af hungarian anyhow.
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>>18391949
Ask her to be your internet gf. Then exchange nudes and masturbate to each other on webcam. Then fly out to meer her.
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>>18391971
Nah. Im thinking of flying out to her but i dont want to creep her out or anyth8ng

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I have had a few relationships in the past, I have always been less than satisfied and I've never felt love for any of them, there was attraction and sometimes I was just in the relationship because I felt lonely. However, recently I started speaking to a girl who has continuously rocked my world every time we speak, however she said she told me there is something that if a guy ever speaks about his ex, then she immediately gets unattracted to him. She says this is based on the fact that she does not want to become a replacement for that guys ex. She is currently dating another guy, who has spoken about his ex to her, and it has made her question what she thinks of him. However, she flirts a lot with me, (stuff like how would you handle oral whilst playing a video game) and I am falling for her harder and faster than I ever have with anyone before. I made a joke that I was a virgin, and that she would have to teach me and she said she didn't believe me, so I never corrected her. (I'm not a virgin) A few weeks pass and we just get along great, flirting, texting every day, playing vidya, having a laugh. She lives 400 miles from me and I suggest hey lets meet up, after she is really depressed one night and this seems to really cheer her up, so I book a bus ticket and this was on sunday this week.

We hung out, got pizza, I caught her staring at me a lot. We walked about, went to a museum, had fun, made jokes, I asked her why she was staring so much, no answer, we went to a bar, had a few drinks, she started stroking my arms, really going for affection. So we started kissing, she was super into it, like grabbing my head, biting my lip, then she started asking me questions, one of which was if we slept together would she be my. First, because of the joke I made about being a virgin. I said no and all affection just immediately stopped. We left and went to go get the train, she started being really cold, accusing me of lying to her. cont;
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cont;

So we part ways, I get on my bus to get home, I started franticly texting her, asking her to give me a chance, apologising, saying im sorry if she felt i deceived her. Then she starts saying she only ever saw me as a friend, and that she could be that way with anyone (intimate). I started losing my mind, crying like a little bitch. I feel like she is genuinely the one and I lost my chance because of this. But now i'm pretending to myself that i can just be her friend, and keep how i feel quiet. I've never been friendzoned, but I can feel it right now. I'm still just checking my phone constantly, waiting to see if she speaks to me, hoping she does.

She has said she is gonna keep dating this other guy, and said I was never the guy for her the first time she asked me if my ex was pretty and I replied with, (i thought she was).

TL;DR

Have I fucked up big time with the girl of my dreams? Because I joked about being a virgin when i'm not?

should i just give up and an hero? I really don't want to lose this girl and I don't think i'm ever gonna be able to not feel what i feel for her.

Or is it possible if i just be her friend, after a while, things might go my way and we could eventually be an item? (she seems really eager to still speak to me and talk all the time)
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shameful bump
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Stay the fuck away from this girl. She's trouble man. She's got you by the balls so you can't see this situation for what it is. This girl is not the one. Far from it.

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This might seem like a stupid question but I'm clueless in this department.
My normie friends are going travelling and they've invited me to tag along, likely in early 2018 or even late this year.
The issue is that I'm single (always have been) and I'm unsure if I should bother with trying to get a gf in the months leading up to our trip, since it'd either involve leaving her here in the UK while I'm halfway across the world, or trying to throw a brand new person into our travel plans in the last minute.
Would I just be better off trying to meet someone after/during travelling instead?
We're considering both American continents as places to go.
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>>18391824
Find one yes . Take her no. Go hoe around first see if you find better pussy.
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>>18391824
How long are you going to stay away?
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>I'm unsure if I should bother with trying to get a gf in the months leading up to our trip

Why do people think like this? "Getting a gf" isn't like going to the store for bread. You should only be dating someone because you both like each other and enjoy spending time together. Going out "looking for a gf" is such a silly, naive concept

You aren't going to get one anyway, so don't worry about it and enjoy your trip

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What branch of the military can a lanky-er gut with a decent brain get the most medals and freedom in?

I just want to kill some enemies and feel like I'm doing something for my country. I'm 18, just out of high school, and I don't want to go to clearly biased recruiters.
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>>18391746
Try sniper and you can take out couple extra for the hell of it once u get out there in action. It's totally cool we all do it but you can't get medals on some of the extras . It was a rumor Chris Kyle had 200 plus extras unaccounted for. Rumor lol
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>>18391746
realistically it doesn't matter which branch you go in if your goal is to see combat, because you're most likely never going to see it. If you've got a brain I highly recommend either the navy or air force.
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>>18391773
What would I be doing at the airforce involving "brains?" Not to say I think the airforce is stupid, but rather I don't exactly have the knowledge of an elite mechanic or an engineer. Should I just go off to college first (paid by the military)?
>>18391768
Neat. Best branch for sniping in general? Asking that sounds like I'm a fucking child but it is a good idea it seems.

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Does any of you guys have experience sending flowers via delivery to your girl?

>be me
>living somewhere else in the world
>gf studies in aussie
>she likes flower
>thinking of making surprise by sending flowers to her

I was thinking of using some online flower shop for the delivery. But I'm afraid it will never come to her.
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Why are you sending this girl flowers OP?
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>tfw no ldr to surprise with flowers mid week before I fly in that weekend.

mate, if you can't figure out how to send flowers, and make sure they get delivered when you want them delivered to her, where you want them delivered, I don't think I can help you with anything.
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>>18391572
he said, it's his gf, she likes flowers, and he wants to "make surprise"

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I've got two job opportunities for the summer

1. event security guard (interview required), 1 hr + commute by bus depending on event location

2. light general labour at a sunglasses factory, (no interview req.) night, 30-40 minute commute by bus

pay rate about the same, and I'm only there for ~3 months. Which one do you believe is better?
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>>18391511
the event security one might be difficult if the bus has set routes and one of the events isn't on a route.
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>>18391517
That is true, 2bh. They didn't specify that I needed a drivers license though.

I'm just on the fence because they advertised having positions for entry level and getting my foot in that industry would be nice for the future.

On the other hand, the other job is stable shift and location wise and I'm really only looking for a job for money and not necessarily for experience.
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night shifts suck.

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How do I control/regulate/stop myself from falling in love with a new girl every other month?

As an example of how easy I fall in love:

A few weeks ago I had a dream about an old classmate that I've never spoken to nor did I ever have any interest in her while we went to school together, in the dream we went on some kind of romantic adventure and when I woke up I felt like I've been machine gunned by fucking Cupid and felt a massive overwhelming dread that I let "the one" get away.


I was hoping that this would stop after I left puberty and the hormones went all over the place, now I'm 24, still no change

I'd appreciate any advice
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first and last bump
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>>18391431
just don't do it goofball.
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>>18391525
Amazing advice you fucking retard

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