I've been with this girl about 4 months and we've been arguing all the time about stuff that I can't help like being nervous all the time like she even started an argument on my birthday. I mean I love her but I can't deal with it she's my first girlfriend and I don't know what to do
Ask yourself: do you really love her, or you just don't want to fail your first relationship?
I do love her I'm just sick of being treated bad but I can't deal with being alone
>>18392368
Well, talk to her about it first. If that doesn't work - dump her. Just like that. I know this'll hurt a lot, but it's gonna be the right choice, an I know what I'm talking about.
My first relationship was shitty, to say the least. The worst part was that I found out she never had any feelings in return, and she just used me for favors and occasional money only a couple of months after we amicably decided to split up. Again, if talking about the problem isn't working - don't waste your time and feelings, and just walk away.
I've tried talking but she starts crying when we argue so I apologise an I act like nothing's up
>>18392387
Still, just fucking do it. Otherwise this is gonna be an emotional trainwreck for you and probably for her too.
You're right, thanks
>>18392335
>about 4 months
>arguing all the time
Yeah nah, it's time to go