I have had a few relationships in the past, I have always been less than satisfied and I've never felt love for any of them, there was attraction and sometimes I was just in the relationship because I felt lonely. However, recently I started speaking to a girl who has continuously rocked my world every time we speak, however she said she told me there is something that if a guy ever speaks about his ex, then she immediately gets unattracted to him. She says this is based on the fact that she does not want to become a replacement for that guys ex. She is currently dating another guy, who has spoken about his ex to her, and it has made her question what she thinks of him. However, she flirts a lot with me, (stuff like how would you handle oral whilst playing a video game) and I am falling for her harder and faster than I ever have with anyone before. I made a joke that I was a virgin, and that she would have to teach me and she said she didn't believe me, so I never corrected her. (I'm not a virgin) A few weeks pass and we just get along great, flirting, texting every day, playing vidya, having a laugh. She lives 400 miles from me and I suggest hey lets meet up, after she is really depressed one night and this seems to really cheer her up, so I book a bus ticket and this was on sunday this week.
We hung out, got pizza, I caught her staring at me a lot. We walked about, went to a museum, had fun, made jokes, I asked her why she was staring so much, no answer, we went to a bar, had a few drinks, she started stroking my arms, really going for affection. So we started kissing, she was super into it, like grabbing my head, biting my lip, then she started asking me questions, one of which was if we slept together would she be my. First, because of the joke I made about being a virgin. I said no and all affection just immediately stopped. We left and went to go get the train, she started being really cold, accusing me of lying to her. cont;
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So we part ways, I get on my bus to get home, I started franticly texting her, asking her to give me a chance, apologising, saying im sorry if she felt i deceived her. Then she starts saying she only ever saw me as a friend, and that she could be that way with anyone (intimate). I started losing my mind, crying like a little bitch. I feel like she is genuinely the one and I lost my chance because of this. But now i'm pretending to myself that i can just be her friend, and keep how i feel quiet. I've never been friendzoned, but I can feel it right now. I'm still just checking my phone constantly, waiting to see if she speaks to me, hoping she does.
She has said she is gonna keep dating this other guy, and said I was never the guy for her the first time she asked me if my ex was pretty and I replied with, (i thought she was).
TL;DR
Have I fucked up big time with the girl of my dreams? Because I joked about being a virgin when i'm not?
should i just give up and an hero? I really don't want to lose this girl and I don't think i'm ever gonna be able to not feel what i feel for her.
Or is it possible if i just be her friend, after a while, things might go my way and we could eventually be an item? (she seems really eager to still speak to me and talk all the time)
shameful bump
Stay the fuck away from this girl. She's trouble man. She's got you by the balls so you can't see this situation for what it is. This girl is not the one. Far from it.
>>18392008
So just completely cut off all contact? Block and delete and never look back?
>>18392035
Absolutely. She's a snake it sounds like. Manipulative and tried to use you as a sex toy until she found out you weren't to her liking.