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I look like shit in photos too, but have girls approach and make out with me and shit.

I'm curious about this as well.

meh i give up

>>18504505
I'm fp, but I've found that just being as natural as possible works best.

Pls someone respond

Do tell her about your anxieties. Tell her how you will react in case of a panic attack or breakdown so she can be there and help you.

There is no way around this. You either trust her to catch you when you are most vulnerable or you can forget the whole thing. You won't be able to hide it forever anyway.

On the plus side, it's only human and it might also appeal to her maternal instincts. And trusting her with this might actually help you too.

>>18504257
ironically thats a trait that probably worsens your issue: no patience

was monitoring this for a while so may as well respond now. in my opinion you need to talk to her. by talk to her i dont mean sit her down and tell her there is some kind of problem, you need to occasionally pick topics that touch the issue, i dont know "sometimes i overthink crap, like is the red shirt going to make my boss dislike me, it's silly really!". whatever the fuck would be honest in your case. make her get familiar with the mindset. you will probably begin to feel does she "get" you, you can draw your conclusions from there.

well basically being confident about a "plan", a way of actively affecting your surroundings is already head on fighting anxiety. in my opinion, personally i only gently touched on anxiety. oh yea also don't overuse that word, your personality isn't black and white, some aspects of you and your surroundings may bother you a certain degree, others not so much, a different amount. try to get that word out of your head and specifically target things that you arent cool with, and come up with that plan.

there you have a whatever-response, not a great and well thought-through one, because you forced me

>>18504154
Get real problems.

I could go into my "real" problems... But I already understand those.

>>18504154
Have you ever met him in person? If not then is that even in your immediate realm possibilities?

Communicate that you aren't satisfied with the relationship as it currently is, talk to him and really figure out what is lacking. If he can't provide it you're just wasting his and your time.

lol
dump him

"decent by anyone's standards" is boring

Relationships are not a transaction. You are allowed to pull out even if nobody does anything wrong, and being bored is as valid a reason as any to do so.

If he makes a fuss, which he will, you might get pulled back in with the way you look at relationships. Just remember that you owe eachother nothing, that is a fundamental misunderstanding of what a relationship is.

Maybe bring it up with him and see if there's anything you guys can do to save the relationship? If there isn't, then simply call it quits.

make fun of him
be entertained with pointing and laughing at him

When he is doing it, do the same thing. I can't guarantee it will work but it will be funny and if he gets pissed you still win since he was already gross?

>>18504022
>>18504024
idk, that seems rather mean. and i don't think it's healthy to not take your time time eating/chewing, so i don't want to start doing that...

is there a better way?

Trump really had no choice other than withdrawing completely from the country, Paris's Climate Agreement. Trump as the President of The United States Of America, abbreviated as the POTUS, was thinking of withdrawing when withdrawing from the Paris Climate Agreement.The Paris Climate Agreement is an agreement which is related to the United States Of America and Paris, a European country. Paris is known to have Eiffel Tower, a famous landmark known widely among lovers as a love sight. People come her for their honeymoon or ask their partner out. The Paris's Eiffel Tower was used as a tower in the WW2 and was planned to stripped down later but then the plan got cancelled, which then eventually became a love symbol. The second is the Taj Mahal in India. The Taj Mahal in India is also regarded as a love symbol because a king built it for his wife after her death and her corpse is buried inside it.

>>18503960
Working class Americans think that unemployment and immigration are bigger problems.

go listen to ben shapiro speak on the topic
he has a soundcloud

Are you retarded/autistic?

>>18503908
Are you asking me that because the answer is yes it's cheating?

>>18503905
it by itself is not cheating, but it usually precedes something further. just don't let it escalate and you're good. tickling isn't inherently sexual, it's just another form of interaction

I should also add that she has told me to kill myself before, and once when I tried, she guilt tripped me in the hospital, then went on to take me home and baby me for a few days before everything returned to normal. I'll give more information if it's needed.

>>18503862

Leave. She's emotionally manipulating you first by verbally abusing you and then by saying she wants to die when you try to leave. It will only escalate with time, so you need to ditch her while you can.

Yeah, no more info needed. Leave and never look back. When you get at the point that one partner has to threaten with suicide to keep the other one in the relationship you know it's dead and buried.

Fixing the relationship would mean rewiring your girlfriends whole mentality (and a lot of yours too). That's nearly impossible. If it is possible you're not the guy who can do it. Even if you were the guy who could do it it would take too long and it wouldn't be worth it. The only thing this relationship is achieving is wasting your time, causing you sorrow, dragging you deeper into this rotten mentality and making it even harder for you to end it.

Leave now. Stop letting yourself be manipulated.

I'm assuming you already spoke to a doctor about this. What did they say?

Getting UTIs constantly could be a symptom of something else. Either way, it isn't normal and you need to find a way to treat it.

>>18503831
As far as i know urinal tract infections are treatable and you should be able to identify what is causing them with a solid doctor.

Tried going to specialists yet? Changing docotr? Do you know what causes them? Because healthy girls dont get these under normal circumstances.
>do you pee after every sex session?
>does your doctor know you decided to stop taking medication?
>do you have aids?
>tried to ask you mum about it? Isnt it heritable problem?
>arent you washing your vagina with soup?

>>18503831
Have your cheap ass nasty bf buy a new condom. Turning them inside out is not working for you.

>>18503724

well now you dont have to. just put on your 'please be patient i have autism' hat and do whatever the fuck you want.

>tfw no qt autistic bf

i was seeing this guy named jordan, just the perfect amount of autism

>mme: id kill to fuck that ass
>him: wait... do you mean you'd kill me in order to fuck my ass, or kill someone else in order to be allowed to fuck my ass?

top kek

>>18503731
But the issue is, I see what few friends I have going out to parties, getting mad girls, and I find myself with a massive desire to live that sort of life, at least for a little while. But it's something I don't think I'll ever have.

>>18503739
That is very lame excuse. Autism means that what others feel and see without trying (body language, social norms, communication, empathy, ability to process emotions and inhibiting them when needed) you will have to learn yourself first.

If you want gf, just jump into online dating and aim at ugly girls. Practice makes perfect.
http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation

Always presume they want to talk to you and enjoy your company. Having autism means you MUST NEVER BE YOURSELF. If your brain tells you something regarding society interaction, probably do the opposite.

With enough trial and error you can easily immitate normies behavior. Now go and ask girl on date to dinner.

Or kill yourself if you feel like loser, your choice.

if it's a dance club ask them to dance. usually they say yes. after dancing / while dancing ask her if she wants to get some drinks and move to the quietest part of the club/bar and proceed to get drunk with her.

You don't approach them, they approach you.

>>18504445
false. you have to take the initiative. women are pussies

for some reason you aren't serious relationship material.
it's very hard to tell what it is that makes you fall trough the mesh, so tell a bit more about yourself.

>>18503672
You have to think you're the shit and in control at all times. Be a dick but in a playful way. Treat them like trash. Shit like I hate you, I love you. I don't know if blue is your color, you look sexy in blue. Women are so retarded these days, this is what gets them off they like to be confused because that's how they were raised.

>>18503681
that's how you can keep an idiot around, yes. if you want the actual good stuff, shit like that will only get you as far as op got. they see right behind that act.

It's an average "decent gaming" laptop.

It's a pretty good processor with a pretty good videocard as far as laptops go. There are probably more powerful ones out there but not worth the money.

>>18503675
Yeah thats what I was thinking, Im not willing to blow 12 hundred on a razorblade so I think I can make do with this one.

thanks for the input btw

>>18503684

No problem

Space program.

>>18503608
Did you try casting Cure?

take it to the vet to get it euthanized.
if you want to spare the money, google "human ways to kill a small animal".

i know that for fishes it's best to put them into water and into the freezer. they just slowly paralize until they die. maybe there's a similar methode for squirrels.

>>18503606

She has blocked you. Block her too and ignore her. Avoid all contact with her in person.

>>18503611
The problem is that, well, I actually still like and love her.

>>18503614
So what? Bitch treats you like shit. Going no-contact will hurt for a while, but trust me on this as I speak from experience, staying in touch with an obviously toxic bitch will hurt a lot more in the long-run.