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I have done lots of reading, not only internet but several encyclopedias too on history and politics. I have mostly advocated a sort of left-wing libertarian position my entire life, but I had a brief year where I was heavy into alt-right before I snapped out of it and now I am back to left-wing libertarian sort of position. I vaguely support Bernie and Corbyn, but I wouldn't go too far to argue about politics, it's not so much about the figures but the principles.
Before /pol/ sees and wants to turn this into +200 replies trolling thread, I want to ask you /adv/. How appropriate is it to make reference of my knowledge of history and certain philosophy/politics?
I know it's inapproriate to bring up politics in real life, I have learned this the hard way, but I think even more inappropriate is to pretend as if I don't have an opinion/knowledge on these topics when people vaguely comment on social issues in the conversation.
AGAIN I don't mean I want to convert them to my views or "correct" them, I just want to hint at them that I possess some factual knowledge and they could learn something from me when they are interested. Somehow find balance between not boring them and not making their shit flip so much that the mood of the evening will be ruined.
How much and when is socially accpetable?
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>>18506227
Grow up.
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>>18506227
When you're supposed to support your arguments during a discussion. Otherwise, you look like a douche.
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>>18506239
Fair enough.
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I was just bored looking distant contacts on my FB and it reveals that some people actually have interests in some social issues. To display that I know something about this topics could help me in social situations, make them trust me more when they see I care about some issues too. I was just wondering when is it appropriate to mention, and how?
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one of the employees that used to work in the office i work in accidentally left there amazon password saved in to chrome.
he was fired a week before i got interviewed to work here.
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>>18506220
You should log in then contact him through his email and let him know to change his password. Give it back Tyreese.
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>>18506222
by trips commandment
also i couldn't use it anyways amazon was asking for the security code
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1. Change the email address to yours, if possible (i dont know amazon well enough to know if you can do this)
2. Buy things using an IP that you are not known by, and ship them to a public/mutual address that you don't live at.
That's what to do if you want to buy shit with his card. Now, watch as the beta male "nice guys" and easily persuaded women on this board tell you not to do it.
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OK so I think I've been hit with a case of delayed universal karma. All this time on the 4chinz I've been laughing at autismos and the spectrum like it's some kinda joke but turns out I'm probably mildly autistic. Not that it affects my life in any real way but it annoys me that there's no real way to conclusively find out either.
>be me, 26 M
>always been kinda smart and detail oriented but also missing a few screws when it comes to basic shit like dealing with people
>liked puzzles and chess
>good at visualisation
>do weird hand exercises for dexterity when I'm bored
>stack things up for fun all the time like used cans and coffee cups
>have trouble looking at people in the eyes
>have trouble knowing when it's my turn to talk in conversations (interject a lot)
>have trouble with social norms at times because not sure how other people feel or why they might feel that way.
>used to talk to myself when i was younger and have recently imagined an alter-ego in my head who I speak to for advice. He's a pretty cool guy and doesn't afraid. This was mostly on drugs but I just talk to myself in my head sometimes too and it seems to respond.
Looking back on my life now, the signs were obvious when I was younger but I repressed/learnt to deal with the symptoms in my teen years. I was also bullied a lot so I had to learn how people interacted and just adopted a persona that helped me fit in.
The most damning evidence is that recently I was trying to figure out how something worked and I was so focussed on visualisation that I unknowingly put it to my ear/temple to try and hear it's inner workings and help me visualise it. When i heard it I found it much easier to visualise, snapped out of my trance once I did, and realised that I probably am mildly autistic.
Anyone else had any similar experiences? Also, Discuss things about autism in general.
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>>18506178
Cute cat!
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> I don't really have any genuine knowledge concerning autism, just what I've heard in passing and through a basic aderall driven evening years ago researching aimlessly however I will say this.
I think autism is entirely common. I think that it's the stem of social anxiety as a whole. I that everyone is autistic. It just depends on what level of the spectrum individuals are on.
A lot of what you just said, I have/do as well. Maybe not with the stacking of cans, but I definitely actively talk to myself in my head and thinking back when I was younger, definitely struggled with eye contact, excellent problem solving skills, just generally "socially awkward" but just like yourself, I overcame a lot of these "tendencies" which then makes me believe:
Maybe the spectrum of autism is one that isn't necessarily stagnant and is a moving scale?
What if through our environment and through our day to day interactions that we move progressively "more" or "less" on this scale?
Idk. I'm just full of shit and this is my two cents, thanks for listening.
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Sorry... Kinda new to 4chan, not super sure how to respond/reply/quote, etc. Hope you get this reply
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Should I visit a doctor? Is this anything serious or is it just strep thatlll subside in a few days? It's just getting worse.
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Go see a doctor WTF
I assume you're in america and don't want to drop the money for it. I understand but that doesn't look good
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>>18506163
I live in America and have the best health insurance around and I've never had to drop money for seeing a doctor. Shit, I didn't have to pay a cent when I had surgery earlier this year.
Where does this American healthcare is bad meme originate from?
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WTF am I looking at? Go visit a doctor, for fuck's sake.
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What should you have in place in your life before even attempting to build an intimate romantic relationship?
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Self-esteem, job, friends, hobbies, fulfillment.
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>>18506112
House for sure.
Ya know, unless you like mummy and daddy walking in on you while you fuck on a bed of rose petals surrounded by candlelight Casanova.
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Work out all of your jealosy and dependence issues. Don't bring back shit that has happened to you from previous relationships into a new one.
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I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months and we've known each other for around 8 years.
We are a good couple. We dont argue, have plenty in common but have different traits which compliment each other's shortcomings. He is my best friend and the person who knows the most about me. We have an open and honest relationship.
More recently, the dynamics of our relationship has changed slightly. Due to some hormonal issues (his) which began around six months ago and directly impacted on his libido. It caused some issues, as we had an amazing sex life prior to this, but we worked through it.
Sex is still a rarity and in my opinion, it is affecting our otherwise wonderful relationship. I feel as though sex has become an awkward issue between us and even when we do have sex, it's so simple and vanilla (probably due to the lack of intimacy for such a long period) that all the passion is gone. It's still enjoyable, just a bit mechanical.
When I bring this up, he is understandably very defensive and slightly in denial about how much it is affecting us. I can't keep having the same conversation because it is losing its impact and I don't want to stress him out for no reason.
How can I discuss this with him, or make actions towards improving intimacy, without repeating myself?
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>>18506094
Bump
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>>18506094
I can't really speak from a point of view like a doctor. But as a guy, if I'm not pleasing my woman, I'm doing something wrong. If sex seems mechanical, tell him you want to spice things up again, and maybe recommend viagra or something to help his libido. How does this conversation regularly go between you and him about this subject?
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why are you calling a relationship good when you have to avoid a major issue
you are fooling yourself, its not a good relationship when you dont want to fuck, its not a good relationship when you cant speak about problems
so what is your plan? do nothing and accidentaly cheat on him unless he magically changes by himself?
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Why do I feel more empty and depressed after masturbating?
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Why do I feel more empty and depressed after masturbating? because I take zoloft 50 mg for year ?
or because finally my mind start to sees that I might have an imaginary lover and knows that it just isn’t REAL anymore ? I fap to furry porn since i was a kid
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>>18506083
You over did it and now it has no value. Your guilty because now you know how it feels and its very difficult to reset that.
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>>18506086
Are you in the same boat ?
Tell me how to solve this please
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>>18506083
>empty and depressed after masturbating
>I fap to furry porn
>furry porn
>furry
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How do I stop being a "nice "guy"? 2017-07-11 08:12:00 Post No.18506046
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How do I stop being a "nice "guy"?
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Basically my ex is a giant slut and cucked me, which I recently realized that has made me very hateful and bitter, I personally never liked the attitude of most men, hookup culture and promiscuity in women (and men too actually, but I'm interested in women, not men) but after we broke up and she instantly started fucking several guys it just made me snap, there's not many bi/gay girls in my area so it's understandable that nobody is attracted to me (other than "bisexuals" with boyfriends) but it makes me so fucking bitter that I feel like I'm such a nice catch excluding the bitterness, I'm honest, I'm not ugly, I'm friendly, fun to be around and funny, generous and above all loyal, etc, but still nobody wants to have a relationship with me, which is "nice guy" behavior and that's fucking me up, I don't want to be like this, I want to be a genuinely nice and interesting girl that girls can approach, but instead I have this huge resentment towards women that sleep with men (specially bisexuals), women in GENERAL for not being attracted to me, etc... I know this is not ok or normal, how do I stop this? I don't think I'll ever change my views on hookup culture, promiscuous women and how dating has gone to shit in these past years, but I don't want to be so bitter about it.
PS: Forgive me if my English isn't that good.
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>>18506046
Play mario kart
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Women like drama
Women don't like nice, normal, honest guys
It's boring and they need excitement, whether it's irl or online
Guys like you who wear their heart on a sleeve don't do well because of it, people don't appreciate it because they don't value those virtues
You need to stop caring and just interact more selfishly I think, sadly it's always a game with women
Starting to see why men turn into fags
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>>18506066
Words of a warrior
Just to be safe, how can one know if they will be meeting a kidnapper?
Are there any signs to look out for? How can I tell before I see them?
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>>18505894
you will not know. Make sure to meet somewhere public. Cue in on red flags. For instance, if they insist on meeting you in a private place or going the their house, going on a trip, etc.
Use your head. Tell someone who and where you're meeting.
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1. If they want you both to be alone and expresses any sort of reluctance at meeting in a public place.
2. If they give off "creep" vibes.
3. If you have to make this thread before meeting them.
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Meet in a public place
Make sure he doesn't give any "wrong" vibes
Ask for his picture before you meet him
let someone else know where you are and what you're doing
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Confused -____- af and need help 2017-07-11 07:04:22 Post No.18505887
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Confused -____- af and need help
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> Meet Girl at store
>Great convo with girl at store
> Phone about to die gets girls number
> She saves her name in my phone as some cute future girlfriend or something
>Next day
>Spend all day doing nothing
> Text girl at 9pm saying hey (xxxx)
>Girl calls back hour later askes why I didnt text her yesterday or or in the morning
> Im like -____- thats a long story i'll telll you later
> Says before we actually get into talking or getting to know eachother etc. what are my intentions
>I freka out basically and avoid the question
>Says she'll text me later
> Doesnt text
Idk how to respond the intentions questions because i just want to fuck her.....and I dont wanna lie . but help me idk what im doing
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Have you tried a kitchen knife to the wrist? Remember to go down the road.
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>>18505900
This isn't r9k
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>>18505887
Just be honest, OP.
>I was intending to maybe talk with you a bit, and get to know you. (Compliment, e.i. Your eyes were a beautiful blue) And I wanted to see if we could hit it off.
If you worry you might fuck it up further down the road, say something like
>Sorry if that came out wrong, I can get a bit anxious
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>just found out that my ex lost her virginity to some guy while we were separated
Fuck. I honestly don't know what to feel robots. At first I felt like crying. Then I was angry. Now I don't feel anything.
>be me
>meet said ex 2yrs ago
>enter LDR with her because she's moving away
>literally only like an hour or two away
>everything is fine but we struggle because of distance (regardless of how short)
>I used to be a broke ass NEET so no money to visist
>she went to school and worked a shitty part time waitress gig so no money or time to come visit me either
>barely any "sexual" shit because she gives shitty excuses
>care about her feelings so I don't ever cheat
>recently felt like it just wasn't going to work out because she just isn't willing to put in any effort
>usually winds up when her not being able to admit when she's wrong about anything
>she has POTS, so I try to be understanding when she's sick but she uses that shit as an excuse for literally everything
>kinda just say fuck it a month ago
>try to talk to her here and there
>basically just ignore my texts and shit
>just want to make sure she's okay
>hit her sister up on snapchat to ask her how she is
>basically blows me off and tells me to talk to her myself
>tell her she doesn't answer my texts
>oh yeah she's talking to some guy now...she's all about him
>next day finally get a response out of her
>says she was talking to some dude
>says that they're supposed to hang out friday night
>friday night comes
>she says they didn't hang out because of schedules
>say good
>wtf do you mean good
>try to play it off
>saturday night comes
>message her again
>her family is out of the country and her cousin came over with wine so they're drinking
>bring up how she wants to see me and how she still cares about me, etc etc
>i bring up the guy
>says that she's probably only talking to the guy because of sex
>like the beta cuck i am tell her just do her it's whatever at this point
CONT.
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>still saying she doesn't know what she wants
>ask her how long her parents are gone for
>she replies for 2 weeks
>asks me if i'm going to come see her
>ask her if she's done anything with this guy
>she claims it shouldn't matter
>ask her again
>she says they had sex
Now at this point, prior to this convo, she said before that she was busy having sex like 2 or 3 times...but then replied with a just kidding. So at this point I'm thinking she was just fucking with me to get a reaction out of me since I didn't react any of the times she said it before.
>ask her if she really slept with him
>says she seriously slept with someone
>constantly asking if i'm mad
>refuse to give her the satisfaction
>tell her it is what it is
>gets mad and stop replying
I honestly don't even know what to do at this point /r9k/. I mean I know she was definitely drinking, so I'm not sure if she was fucking with me or not but I honestly think she really lost her virginity to this dude and has been fucking him. I care about her but as soon as I heard that I just instantly lost any desire to be with her. I honestly don't know what to feel but I can't stop thinking about the whole thing.
TL,DR I got cucked and I don't even know how to feel. The worst part is she's still trying to get me to come see her.
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>>18505844
This all happened 2 days ago. So within those 2 days I've pretty much confirmed she has a FWB with some dude and they're fucking. From all the conversations we've had during that time she's pretty much chalked it off as "it's just sex".
To add some context she claimed that it was mostly because she wanted me there, although I made attempts to visit her she'd always blow me off and then whenever it was convenient for her she'd beg me to come see her knowing I couldn't.
I don't even know what I expect to get from posting here...there's not really much advice to be had. I've been through similar situations before twice...once IRL and once a LDR as well. Once she admitted that she lost her virginity and is in a FWB with some dude I immediately knew there's no way I'd ever be able to date her now, but for some reason I can't stop thinking about her. She posted pics of her with the dude on snapchat today and I guess she was expecting me to view them or say something to her but I didn't bother. It's weird because I'm not even mad....I can't even properly put into words how I feel. Confused I guess is one way to put it.
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I'm not reading all this. fucking forget about her.
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Can a late bloomer really catch up with their peers? Or learn to have a decent love/sex life in time to enjoy their youth? I feel like I'm always going to be behind everybody else.
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>>18505711
How late are we talking?
I was a wreck in high school, and in hindsight I was far less cool in college than I thought.
I really developed in my year of service that I did after undergrad--physically and mentally. I worked intentionally on my body and my worldview.
Now I'm in grad school and I've never been happier. I very much feel like I have as much agency over my own fate as anyone could.
What's yer status?
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>>18505711
It's not a race mate. Never too late to get your shit together
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>>18505729
Sophomore in college atm, transferring in the fall after leaving my previous school a year ago. I recently got on Lexapro for social anxiety (which works fucking amazing btw) but I still feel like I won't make it
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Getting back with ex after slut phase
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Long story short after two great years of dating me (20m) and my ex (21f) break up mutually after deciding we both have some growing up to do. We still keep in contact but I find out shes had 3 one night stands 6 months into the breakup (whilst I have had one). After finding this out I flip out on her and ask why she would even bother keeping in contact if all she wants is to go to clubs and bang strangers. Friend says she doesn't want a relationship at all at this stage and just wants to go out and have fun. We both go no contact and have a number of casual sexual partners over the next few months. Even after all of this part of me feels she is worth going back to and maybe after both experiencing other people we will have a more mature outlook on our relationship. She seems to be able to forgive my sexual experiences with other girls fairly easily however the thought of her banging other random strangers she met out is weighing on me. Anyone been able to successfully forgive their ex for similar behavior and get back together? Am I being hypocritical for not forgiving her?
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It will eat you.
I got the feeling that you make yourself equal to her by saying "oh yeah she fucked some guys but I fucked some girls as well". This is wrong, what you need to think about here is YOU, not her, right? And you clearly do not like that the girl you used to care about turned out to be slut. Now I do not need to dig deep into the biological reasons the difference between sexual behaviour of men and women - I'm sure you know them.
That's a weight you do not need to carry in a relationship. Every time you have an argument this will pop up and will make you bitter. Which you will turn onto her. For which she will hate you and surely take revenge. Not a pleasant situation - trust me.
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>>18505610
You basically cucked each other... you'll never get over all the other guys busting nuts inside of her and she will just become an even bigger slut...move on.
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grow up kid, you actually do have some growing up to do
you are lucky the girl even talks to you
dont mishmash, you havent mutually broken up, she broke up with you to be single and ride dicks, she can do that
if you think this is someone who is worth going back to thats up to you, but flipping your shit over because she sucked dick in 6 months is stupid
you are in the wrong, not her
hey /adv/ i doubt most of you have any info on the army but i only need a key few to answer my question.
What are some military bases that an army personnel could be stationed at?
my girlfriend is currently starting a specialty training and has a great opportunity to possibly be stationed somewhere outside the USA once she finishes.
I want to send here scenery pics of places she could be stationed every morning to motivate her in her studies. The only problem is the only places i can think of are germany and korea as those are the only two she's really mentioned. I tried googling it but nothing specific pops up.
added info, shes in infantry. thanks in advance
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>gf in the military
You know she is fucking dudes left and right behind your back?
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>>18505831
She would never do that, she likes soft and emotional men, not hard and muscular jarheads who can fuck for hours on end.
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>>18505838
Whatever helps you sleep at night
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How do I get into a LTR with a guy like this.
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>>18505468
just go to some raggedy bar
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Meaning?
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Pretty dumb question. Do you think hot guys all have the exact same criteria for what they consider gf material is? And if average guys wouldn't consider you gf material, you can straight up give up your hopes for hot guys because they are choosers, not beggers like average guys.