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>>18531892
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Nobody interested in the hardsports life?

>>18531864
Also I pulled out

>>18531867
based on the circumstances, 50%. it either happens or it doesn't.

>>18531864
Bump

>>18531771
bump

>>18531771
Well which one is bugging you the most?

Fuck those korean bastards btw

>>18532251
Its all of them, like im thinking about being overweight and gross and then I start to work on it a little then feel alone emotionally then lose the will to workout and do shit, then I think about my future and money wise and stop doing everything to think of possible career choices then all back to physical. Its just a horrible circle i cant get out of.

So why don't you tell her exactly that?
You'd rather want to have the opportunity to get to know her and do something together, rather than just stare at a screen when there's more pressing issues.
In a way, it even sounds like a compliment.

>>18531716
If you dont have a place to go afterward to fool around after the movie then that'd be the mistake anf 4 the next time u should. Also u dont have to stay quiet. U can add little comments without being awekward like "that scene was awesome" etc. Also a set up date is basically an alley ooo. She prob already likes you. Isolate het and escalate physicaly and u should be good to go

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>>18531716
>>18531716
>sister sets me up...

You clearly have some issues so just go with it and if you don't like her after the meal/ movie move on. Movie dates can be good to gauge certain things like attention span/focus (during) and comprehension (talking about said movie after) if you are multiple dates in and you only go to the cinema then it may be an issue.

Sounds like an incest kink, ask her about it and explore how to have fun with it if it is.

>>18531587
It may mean nothing more than she feels very close to you... why don't you ask her?

>>18531587
"What? Do you fuck your brother? Your brother is 7, that's pretty creepy"

>>18531489

>be 30 years old
>16 year old dates girl for 8 years
>breaks up at 24
>8 years later complete hermit
>24 + 8 = 32
>30 years old

somethings not adding up here.

>>18531489
Travel and find some purpose or get some charity work.

At the moment you don't need money, you need social interaction and a reason to live. Find something you're passionate in and do something related to that.

Travel did it for me.
Conservation work has helped other people I know.

>>18531500

I am actually almost 32 but I usually just say I am 30.

I couldn't post cause 4chan on Arch was giving me some "Connection error".

Looks like you changed, but she did not. It's a really sticky situation. I don't know what to tell you other than that you really need to spend some time talking to her and discuss about how to make this work or how to keep going on about this.

I mean, it's sad that this kid will grow up without a father, but I think what is even worse for the kid is to have a set of parents who despise one another. If you can make this work, it's great, but if you can't, then something has to change.

>>18531441
Classical persuasion worked through three avenues: Authority, emotion, and logic. Logical persuasion requires that someone be open minded and for you to truly be in the right. If you haven't done so already you could get someone else to talk to about the problems she's creating. It could be a relationship therapist, but it depends on who she perceives as actually being an authority on these matters. The emotional approach is fundamentally manipulative, requires an understanding of your target's psyche, and is generally best used to enable the other methods of persuasion, because emotional persuasion inevitably breaks down over time.

I don't know how your wife is justifying this shit so I can't really advise you more than that.

She sounds awful. Best thing would be communicating your concerns. If that doesn't work divorce her.

>>18531418
She's leading you on, and if you stay friends she'll keep doing it on and off.

Not worth it, she's also proving she won't be the most faithful either.

>>18531418
Sounds to me that you cannot handle your alcohol very well. You really did a number there when you spilled those beans. You need to learn your lesson now that you shouldn't overwhelm any woman with such excessive feelings, you were smothering her with it. I am not saying this to mock you, it's just that being honest with the fact that your overbearing feelings got the best of you in this situation will save you from repeating the same mistake. Next time you feel like this, find another way to channel it. Hell, even walk to an empty road in the countryside with nobody in sight and scream for 5 seconds from the top of your lungs, if that's what it takes, but don't go all loaded with emotions at a girl, it will scare them, they don't know what's got you so pent up like this.

Also, don't call yourself cuck, it's a shitty /pol/ term you should forget about. Look up the definition of cuckold, you were not the one.

>>18531418
the situation is ether
A. the booze got to her head and she becomes destructive under the influence
B. she want's to test you , manipulate you or something of a similar nature
C. she genuenly thinks this
if A try to find out where this destructivenes came from
if B or C you should piss off / stay friends with benifits
>>18531447
you should be able to tell someone you closely know for three years that you feel that your life is shit and that you appreciate her

The thing I don't mind about them having sex but it feel bad that Pepe has done this behind my back since he's one of my best friends

He has already been around girls that I had something before with and although none of them were serious I think it's just low

We're around 25

If you have no feelings for her then what is your problem?

so you fucked a girl once who you kinda liked but not really, left the country for a few months, and recently found out one of your friends fucked her at some point since?

he was doing it behind your back, yeah--probably just playing it safe. if you don't care about this girl, tell him you don't care about her so he doesn't need to be sneaky about it.

>He has already been around girls that I had something before with and although none of them were serious I think it's just low

DO you care about these girls? or do you just feel jealous because your friend got them later?

Write letters defaming him for drug abuse to the colleges of his choice

>>18531410
Think about how dumb you are because
>you had less points than him
>you even care about some worthless points
>you wasted time by making this thread
>you cant just congratulate him and move on

>>18531445
We did congratulate him. Now his excuse for everything is "I almost got a perfect SAT score" or "I got a 5/5 on AP biology"

>>18531398
got any more details about your life in general? age, occupation, hobbies, any weird diets you are on, known physical and mental illnesses...

>>18531405
>Age
20

>Occupation
NEET

>Hobbies
Reading(novels, comics, webcomics) and watching anime. Also got into osu! recently.

>any weird diets you are on
Nothing weird I actually, I eat healthy since my mum is Asian and makes rice every day. And other Asian shit.

>known physical and mental illnesses...
I have dyspraxia which is basically being clinically clumsy.

Apart from that nothing but I feel like fucking shit and stressed even though I have a almost care free life.

>>18531417
Do weed or exercise.

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>>18531383
Same here. First and last time I had actual sex that was not just dryhumping was February 2012 with my first gf.

I don't think going around having sex all the time really matters, because I personally can dedicate all the time free from the woman-related dramas and stuff to developing my skills as a graphic designer, learning to code websites, and advance in my career. At one point I will be earning well enough money that I can sleep around and stuff.

Seriously OP I am the last person on earth to support MGTOW shit but don't buy into this normie meme that your self worth is determined by amount of sex you have. Better focus your efforts on slowly getting to know a worthwhile girl you'll eventually meet and build a long-term relationship. I think she will even regard this as positive that you have not been fucking sluts left and right.

>>18531409

This is the problem. I make a point of NOT determining self worth by the amount of sex I have and I am made to feel a weirdo by men for it. If that makes any sense?

But I don't focus on it. I like to go out and dance a lot in London and have fun making a lot of new friends. I don't even do that weird humpy dancing stuff. It's just basic dad-dancing.

But I like what you say about putting your time into learning code. I wanna learn that shit. I hear I could get a job in Sweden (I wanna move there) easy mode if I had that shit under my belt. I know a lot about tech etc. but I ain't got the piece of paper of the qualification to wipe my arse with unfortunately.

>>18531478
Programming is something you can learn on your own.

I started by learning C. People say it's needlessly hard, but it teaches how things work in the background that fancier languages like Java and Python automate, giving you greater understanding.

Just get some books and a compiler and start cracking

>>18531374
Some doctors are bad. Tell them you want scan of your head. Cancer of brain (or infection) is no joke.

And call to work and tell them you are sick. Take care of your health, doctors wont give a shit about you. You can drop dead in their office and they wont even get into legal trouble.

>>18531374
Some doctors are shitheads who won't give a fuck unless ur head is falling off.
If your surgery has a website they might have a form for complaints/feedback.

>>18531492
I have had an MRI and a CT scan, no sign of cancer.

I am almost positive it is a B12 deficiency; the symptoms are loss of balance, brain fog etc. I've read online that the most effective treatment is to inject b12 vitamins into your muscle.

My job knows I am sick I have taken a lot of time off as it is, I just need a note from my doctor excusing me from work so I don't have to keep calling out.

>>18531526
It's Kaiser Permanente, no surgery seems to be required at this time

>>18531350
IANAL, but you still have the right to promote and monetize the song on your own. I'd see if you can talk to anyone else they've worked with to see if they screw people over or not.

Seems like a standard contract for just playing your music legally. Doesnt seem like youre losing any rights.

>>18531365
>>18531365
thanks a lot guys. I checked the site, the social media and the artists featured on there and it seems legit. guess imma go for it, in case they are fucking me over I will just rerecord the song since the writing rights are indefinetly mine.
Still got scared since I had to google one word to many before feeling like i should ask, so thanks for lifting that off me.

It's a bit weird. I don't know any musicians who read scores without an instrument in their hands. Seems a little tryhard

>>18531317
Yeah that's what I was thinking.

Why the plural? Is this a gangbang kind of date?