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>friend confesses her love to me, on her birthday
>say I don't feel the same and only see her as a friend
>she says she doesn't think she should talk to me anymore
>she's had feelings for a year
>two weeks later, she texts me saying hi

Wew lads what do I do, I really like her as a friend and I don't want to lead her on unintentionally. Is two weeks enough time? Also, I didn't buy her a birthday present (long story) but I lied and said it was on its way. Then we stopped talking
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You should probably get her something desu. I get over crushes fairly easily but some girls just can't let it go sometimes. Just be there as a friend for her but keep your distance.
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>>16517927
Yeah, I will do that. And she was definitely in love with me, to the point of disillusionment. For example she thought I was 6 feet tall when I'm only 5'9".
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There is no such thing as "enough time" in this situation. She went way past the line to the point of convincing herself that she's in love with you. That doesn't go away.

Let's just say that she completely gives up hope. What kind of influence do you think it'll have on her future romantic life to have this lingering presence in her life for whom she feels romantic love? Do you see that ending well?

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How do I make it so my teeth don't end up like this? Is it really as simple as brush 2 to 3 times a day and floss?

I don't smoke. Don't drink alcohol. Don't drink soda anymore (if I do it's very rare). I brush after every time I eat, or otherwise 3 times a day, and floss leisurely. Sometimes I clean my tongue. Not all the time. Yet my teeth are clean but yellower than beeswax. Do I have anything to worry about?
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Considering that is the mouth of someone who has repeatedly taken meth, I think the biggest thing you can do is not take meth.
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you don't get blazing white teeth just by flossing and shit, but it also doesn't mean that your teeth are fucked, judging by your post I guess you are fine

if you want giga white teeth just go to the dentist and the doctor will clean you up
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>>16517843
I LAUGHED. Check. Don't do meth

>>16517851
not terribly worried about the color just as long as they're healthy

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Apart from getting my degree in a subject of my choosing. How does one educate himself? I find much trouble searching for sources outside academic institutions to educate myself further.Such a privilege. Any ideas?
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Wikipedia? Idk, academic institutions provide structure to learning, give you opportunities to demonstrate what you've learnt, and you also have the wealth of knowledge that is your professors. It's part of the reason why being 'self-taught' a subject doesn't mean shit compared to having a degree in it (not the main reason, but somewhat of a significant reason)
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>>16517840
you just crushed my heart anon.Also , I don't mean to be an expert at everything, just knowing the basics of everything,it isn't a very bad idea,isn't it? Why do people this days know nothing outside their profession?
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Do you want to spend money on education or do you want it to be completely free?

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How do I go from a small town 3 hours from civilization to a big city like LA? I don't have any good skills from being out so I'll work low wages but that'll work if I live in a black neighborhood right? Like you can afford rooms in black neighborhoods as a min wage worker?
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>>16517656

The issue isn't going to be how crappy of a job you will be working, it is going to be whether you can find a job at all and if you will be making enough money to live.

Living in Los Angeles is fucking stupid if you're a poorfag. If you want to come here target one of the surrounding communities which has a cost of living half that of LA and take the metro into town if the inner city is the only place you can find a job.
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Don't come to LA. It's gotten waaaaaaaaaay too expensive for clueless people like you to just come here with no plan.

This isn't 1970 dude. Rent is expensive, getting a job is difficult and wages for low skilled jobs are really low relative to cost of living.
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>>16517656
Why are there so many threads like this in this section? Wouldn't it be better to live somewhere where everyone knows each other? What do you think to accomplish in a big city?

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Did I just catch herpes?

It all started about 4-6 months ago when my girlfriend and I broke up. I slept with this trashy chick on a one night stand, and I don't even remember her name.

But, anyway the girlfriend and I patched things up, and we started sleeping together, then coincidently at the same time I took a bath with some strange bath salt powder stuff and shortly (the next day or two) my penis became really dry and peeling dead skin.

Beneath the dead skin that I peeled revealed raw cracking skin on my penis. There was a spot on the shaft, and a small spot on the head, it all scabbed over with a yellowish crust, and the entire head was almost covered in it.

I peel during hot baths once in awhile, and it would come back overnight, or even with a few hours.

Eventually I started treating with neosporin, and it cleared up for the most part and things were back to normal after a month and a half.

I never got it checked, and I realize I should've but I couldn't get time off, and I didn't have money either. I'm planning on seeing a doctor about it this week, and hopefully getting some information. But, I saw a spot or two come back, almost look identical to a minor flea bite, honestly and they're in different spots of the penis head.


I've continue to sleep with my girlfriend during all of this, she didn't seem too bothered, and she has yet to show any signs of the herpes STD. So, that eases my mind a little, but the fact I just got another couple spots on my penis head alarms me all over again.
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Go get tested, how is anybody supposed to know whats wrong with your wang. This is a job for a doctor, hopefully you haven't already given something to your girlfriend.
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I would just get it checked out. It could be bad. Out it could just be a reaction. I'm not too sure of it is herpes but. I'm no professional
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>>16517630

>I've continue to sleep with my girlfriend during all of this, she didn't seem too bothered, and she has yet to show any signs of the herpes STD.

Get tested, you fucking idiot. It's quick, easy, and in a lot of areas you can find clinics that do it for free.

It's kind of mind-blowing that you could be so callous about this, though. Herpes is a life sentence. You really don't care that you might be giving it to your girlfriend? Just because you're too lazy to go in for a test? Examine your priorities, man

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What's a good way to make money in college?
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getting a part time job
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>>16517597
>getting a part time job

Not OP, but this is a waste of time. I had a part time job at Fred Meyer when I was in my freshman year. The amount of energy it takes to juggle college and a part time job, especially when assigned hours conflict with your already busy schedule, is exhausting. That being said, I don't have any advice for ya, OP.
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>>16517594

Easy, start selling weed.

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>19
>Have BF who is 21
>Been together 11 months now
>We mostly spend our weekends together, because were both students working full time, some times we get together in the middle of the week
>I get flirted with by other dudes a lot
>Mostly over my phone and social media
>Me and BF share a FB, was my idea, and he agreed
>Yesterday an old friend of mine started flirting with me
>Told him to talk to me when he wasn't horny
>Talk to him later that day
>Ask him if he wants to hang on skype
>Is all like "yeah, but I'm naked all you'd see is my junk"
>"No thanks"
>"What? It isn't like you wouldn't like it lmao"
>BF happens to see it, right as I was deleting the messages
>Gets upset
>Tell him he used to be a very good friend, and he is just horny right now
>Tells me he doesn't care and that shit doesn't fly with him, and asked why I was making excuses for him and deleting his messages
>Told him I deleted them because I didn't want him to see that and get upset

So he told me it was more suspicious I was trying to hide it, and deleting the messages. But I told him he always gets super upset when this stuff happens, which is why I delete them.

Now my BF is basically ignoring me since he dropped me off yesterday. I've never cheated on him, and I don't understand why he is so upset about this. What do I do?
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>>16517346
It IS suspicious as fuck when you delete messages for shit like that. Personally I'd prefer seeing that my gf gave the guy a firm "fuck off with this shit", without budging or flirting back or anything like it. Plus, how can he from his perspective trust you if you remove the evidence and try to cover something up? The account is shared for a reason, and that is so both know what happens and stuff, right?
Bottom line, you caused a breach of trust between you two, and there's not much that can be done. Trust is hard to build but easy to break. Give him some space and talk it out after a day or so.

And more importantly; learn from this. Hiding the truth is just another way to tell a lie in the eyes of many.
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>>16517346
It's obviously he doesn't trust you, and gets jelly rather easily. Either he controls you/who you talk with, or no one does..... Ditch him/10, find a better man.
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>>16517360
He doesn't really get jelly too easily, just mostly upset when I deleted the messages of dudes flirting with me. He tells me it makes me look really shady.

>>16517357
>Hiding the truth is just another way to tell a lie in the eyes of many.

I guess. I'll try to talk to him later today.

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When I sit down to study, I can't memorize anything. Sometimes I've cried because I just felt stupid.

However, now that I'm in college I do research that really amazes my professors. I'm usually inventing and creating. But I couldn't tell you how to factor polynomials, and I still can't despite hours of studying math, resulting in really poor test scores. I synthesize information really well and started school early because of testing I'd been administered and did really well on (at least that's what my parents said... did all of that when i was three or four so i don't remember the specifics much at all).

How do I improve my performance at school? I have been diagnosed with autism (aspergers before they changed the criteria), but I can't afford therapy, even that even is the problem [is it?]. idk. pls help, I'm tired of this.
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>>16517281
Check if you have add or some variation of it. I do and i recognize the whole "can't memorize, can't into math" and so on. If you can handle the meds, use them. I almost can't, since i am unlucky enough to get hit with depression as a side effect... But go do a test for it senpai.
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>>16517281
I'm the exact same way. A doctor would say we have ADHD. I take adderall for it. If you don't want to take meds for it then I don't know what to tell you. Studying or doing homework for a subject that I don't care about is nearly impossible without it.
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>>16517289
Poster above. I take concerta. Does adderall help? Do you get depressive symptoms too?

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My bf of four years was emotionally involved with someone else. I saw his texts and confronted him and he admitted to kissing her several times. At the time he wasn't apologetic, he didn't think it was a big deal, so I couldn't forgive him. After a few days, maybe it hit him? but he started apologising, he started accepting that he had wronged me. But because I was so hurt, so angry and scared to let myself back in I was torn between forgiving him or moving on in a different direction, so I took sometime off from him, and had a one night stand.
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cont.
I didnt want to have sex with this guy. But I was drunk and basically let him have his way with me. I didn't say yes to him but I didnt say no either. He took his condom off when I wasn't looking and by the time I realised I didn't know how long he had been doing it without the condom, I am so worried cause he has exposed me to all sorts of risks. I could have said no to sex after that happened but I carried on and asked him to put one on. which he did but took it off again a little later. A week later my bf had been apologising, trying to make it right so I went to see him and old emotions just came back and we ended up being together, the next day I told him about what happened, and hes been asking me all these questions about where the douchebag touched me, what he did, light on or off. This is hurting me so much and I know its hurting him to be wth a girl with such low self esteem. I just feel completey destroyed.
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>>16517244
break up with him
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Now it has turned from me being angry at him to me consoling him for what I have done... The best decision is to move away from everything. But we love each other so much

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Think im in boys.

What now?
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>your

Delete.
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>>16517084
What is the issue with your?
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Lemme crack ur pussy up bby

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I'll greentext the situation

>September, me and bf going to my hometown to catch up with my family
>meet my friend from highschool times, bf and her get along very well
>October, she comes to our city for concert and stays at our place for night (me and bf live together)
>we show her around the city, bf and her talk a lot, I feel a bit left behind
>we find out we are planning to go to the same place for New Year, bf who wasn't very fond of the idea now is excited
>fast forward to now. they text a lot, write long elaborates via FB
>ask bf what they are talking about, he replies with short topic-around answers
>ask her what they are talking about, she says it's nothing intimate like she already knew I'm jealous
>can't hold my curiousness and jealousy, spot a moment when he leaves his FB open, read what they are talking about
>he suggested they write "letters", very intimate talks about philosophy, literature, music, feelings, he compliments her all the time
>tell bf I asked her what they are talking about, he goes crazy and why the hell I check his messages
>tell him I didn't and I'm not an idiot and all I know is from her cause she's my friend

Some facts: she is living 200km from us, has a bf and they get along well too. Me and her didn't have a good contact for couple of past years because we moved to different cities.
I feel miserable for controlling him but at the same time... I could have these interesting talks with him as well, we used to talk a lot but when they met we stopped. In fact I wanted to share letters like this with him much sooner than they met, but he never wanted to.
I wish we didn't go there for the New Year because I know he's going to spend all the time with her and I'm gonna just drink myself unconscious so that I don't have to watch them falling in love. Too bad accommodation is already paid.
It's not I'm afraid to lose him, just why he doesn't pay this much attention to me, why he doesn't want to have this deep connection with me?
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>>16517018

Flirt with her boyfriend and see how he reacts, if he go all crazy and jealous it's because he has some guilt, it's a red flag about what he is doing with your friend.
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>>16517041
I already know he feels guilty about talking with her - he wouldn't be that secret with them and so crazy about his privacy. You have a point anyway, I guess if he flirts with her on the New Year party I'm gonna have good time with all boys except him.
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>>16517041
Whoa man if he reacts its becuz thats normal not guilt. Theres some better way. Two wrong dont make a right u kno

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Maybe a faggy question by 4chan standards, but I have never posted on this board.

Is it normal to not feel as "in love" with a more recent girlfriend than I did with my first love?

I can't tell if it's my brains just playing tricks on me because my ex was my first for literally everything in relationships, or if I'm just not as much "in love" with my more recent gf.
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>>16517000
How long have you been together? How long were you with your ex for? How did your relationship with your ex end? And how long ago?
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>>16517005
New gf: Getting close to 2 years in terms of how we "get along" with each other, but "Facebook official" about 6 months or so. We don't live together.

Ex gf: 4 years and we lived together. She dumped me out of the blue one day.
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>>16517013
You're probably never going to love her the same if it's been 2 years. You can learn to live with it though.
If old girlfriend came back now & said she wanted you back, what would you do?

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>Own Hitachi magic wand
>Use it almost every day
>Sensitivity goes down
>Move to Australia
>Can't use it
>Stuck with my less powerful shibari battery powered one
>Sensitivity went way up
>Cum in 60 seconds
>Yesterday I masturbated like 10 consecutive times
>Still the same level of sensitivity
>I do not stop until it literally exhausts me

How the fuck? What is this?
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>>16516960
The solution to your problem is my dick.
Nah, but that's just how nerves n shit work.
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>I have a vagina, give me attention. The thread
How about you and your thirsty betas take this shit to /soc/
This isn't advice
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>>16516970
We're probably too far away in the first place

Also I tried having sex with one of my fwbs, it took ages to get me off. Didn't help that he teased me a lot. Then another fwb tried to properly get me off and then I had to use a vibrator to finish the job.

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What's the easiest way to kill myself. Just please tell me. None of that counseling bullshit please.
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By calling a suicide hotline
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Get drunk, cut veins upwords your arm. Don't cut across your wrist as that can be fix'd, cut up from your wrist to your elbow and then there's no fixing that. It won't hurt at all, the more you're bleed the sleepier you'll get. You won't feel any pain and then you'll just go to sleep

Good luck!
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Blow your brains out, that's how I'd do it

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What is a good way to make ~400 euros in a few months? I really need some money to pay off debts and buy a cheap ass car. Any advice appreciated.
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Steady employment.
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>>16516864
Honestly, sucking cock.
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>>16516866
Impossible. I'm stil in school, but will graduate in half a year.

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