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what were you hoping to see?

cities, landmarks, natural treasures?

>>16657373

It's all pretty good here man. Just depends on what type of scenery you like.

Another britbong on a sex tour of the USA.
http://www.vice.com/read/i-went-out-with-british-dudes-who-tour-america-in-search-of-sex

Having an unhealthy start could mean that the baby won't stick to the womb in time for the stable period. Be ready for it to abort itself.

>>16657328
Why were you still on drunks and drink when trying for a child?

>>16657328

Abort and start over, this time without the chemical smorgasbord. Don't take a chance on a potentially fucked up baby.

That's just my lay advice, ask the doctor if you want a better idea of the risk. But I wouldn't chance it.

>>16657238

Chat for a few months? Nigga, you are not interesting enough to keep taking to.

Just ask if she wants to hit up a party, get some booze in her, man up and kiss her. Feel a titty or two, then drop contact for 2 days.

She'll be begging for the dick.

>>16657250
Don't listen to this guy. That's how you pull sluts.


Next time you see her in person tell her how you feel. If she feels the same way she'll be glad you spoke up and tell you. If she doesn't like you that say then there isn't a combination of words in the English languagd that can make her fall for you.

>>16657250
That sounds really rude, to be honest. I don't drink and she either. You know I really love her, I can't put that in words. She means everything to me that's why I thought its good to go slow.

>>16657163

She still cares for you a bit, but she's romantically done with you.

All you could really do is give her some space and hope she changes her mind on her own, but you can't force it.

Just let it go and worry about taking care of your kid. Better to have amicable relations with your child's mother than to go fucking it up trying to rekindle a pile of ashes.

>>16657163
That means she's in love with someone else.

>>16657163
She's sick of you because there is no spark anymore. The best thing you can do is give her some distance. She will come back when she realizes how comfortable her life was with you.

Do you think she may have cheated on you? I'm not saying she absolutely did, but one time I told my boyfriend this same excuse when I was interested in someone else

>>16657108
Lose 40 more pounds.

>>16657108

Stop playing video games. Stop eating shit food. Stop talking to the same people.

Educate yourself about fitness, join a gym, FORCE yourself to meet new people and develop your social skills, become an active participant of your life.

Pick a personality to aspire to. Pick a look to aspire to. Pick a lifestyle to aspire to. Commit to all that shit, forever.

No more games, bro. That shit is over.

>>16657108
Lose another 40. Then lose 40 more. Stop jerking off every day.

Stop measuring your worth by women who've played with your balls. Didn't lose my virginity until 21. Focus on smarting up and earning money. Ladies love money.

You could try directing her so she could please you better. It sounds like you'd always be wondering though so I say break up and fuck around.

You have absolutely no "valid reason" to cheat.

>>16657094

Why is it always 'break up then fuck around'?

OP, get your girl used to the idea of the both of you fucking other women. Pimp shit.

you're not missing much.

it it feels good that's all there is to it. some girls will do more crazy stuff in bed than others but if you're good with what your girl dies for you now, quit thinking about what you're missing, cause you aren't missing anything.

if your girl is cool and you love her then keep her. you'll regret fucking around with another pussy just to get your dick wet for 15 minutes of lust before busting and having it all be over.

>>16657009
Yeah. Some people do it almost constantly.

>>16657009
It's doable, but every person is different. Maybe you can't pull it off. How habe you fared with little sleep before?

>>16657009
It's not doable. Please sleep
Especially if you have to drive. It's not safe to drive when you've been awake longer than 15 hours

>>16656917
>eat less food
>wash your face twice daily
>wash your pillow case weekly
You're getting there, kid.

>>16656917

>160cm

your dating pool is really limited son, good luck

>>16656958
Oh yeah, living is pain but hey, a lot of celebrities are manlets and get good looking wives so, I don't know

break up with him and go ride a sea of dicks

Date a black man

>>16656891
this.

you'll get tired of getting dicked down soon enough.

I'm in the same situation bud.

because you know that all this is temporary

>>16656831
>have a gf
>just started college

let's see how long that lasts

so OP is a faggot like always..

>>16656736
Stop it. Please.

I'm angry.

Have you considered the possibility that you did it ironically, because you were drunk ? I don't know what kinda of drunkard you are, but a friend of mine who is straight used to grab a guy's junk when drunk, just to make people self-conscious.

How long did it take for you to get to the flat state? Because it's been like two weeks for me and sometime I'll think I'm fine and then I'll randomly burst into tears and feel absolutely worthless and like I can never trust another human being again.

>>16656665
It didn't take me too long. As soon as I left her to head home, I started crying and just delved into that feeling. I cried on and off for about four hours, getting it all out. And then the next day, I woke up like this. It's only been two days since then, but that's probably because it was about as good a rejection as it could be. We respected each other and were able to talk about all that needed to be talked about.

I want to clarify, my situation is trivial compared with most of the stuff I've seen on here, but I find that all this stuff is relative to personal experience and it's the worst I've felt it.

I'm sorry that you're going through what you're going through.

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Oh, anon. I know these feels. I know them so well. Dated a guy for 4 years, almost got back together, he chose another girl over me. It's been 11 months since we broke up and my heart aches when I see a picture of him. He even texted me last weekened, and we talked last night. He's still torn up over her...

I tried casual sex. It's okay, but it will not help heal your heart. I've even tried committing to another person, but it ended in disaster. I just couldn't do it.

Fill your time with trustworthy friends who don't mind you venting, or seeing you cry. Get a new hobby, preferably some kind of physical activity. Try to become social and meet new people. Do not use dating apps. Do not casually hook up because your friends recommended it.

Maybe you won't ever be 100% okay with the break up, and -that's okay-. I'm here to tell you that the pain becomes less and less over time. Just stay busy, and respect yourself. Here's to hoping everyone's heart ache becomes a distant memory.

>>16656566

lol.


people keep tarantulas more so as "specimens", not as pets. they're cool to have and observe. they're very alien and strange and, in a way, keeps you feeling amazed about the world that insect life like that is going on silently all over the world.

tarantulas are completely mindless and will never bond, most aren't even supposed to be held. and most also have sharp urticating hairs that will cause your throat to close and suffocate if you kiss them.

they are obviously not for everyone.

>>16656566
From a guy who owned a Mexican Red Knee tarantula... this is a stupid post.

>>16656587
I didn't know about the kissing part. Source on that? You're wrong about the bonding part. They can bond to some extent. Not as much as a dog obviously. But they can.

>>16656495
>I'm crushing hard on this girl
You lost there. Move on.

>>16656495

>/adv/ please give me advice I will be too scared to follow.

>>16656495
Like in the other thread, I sincerely doubt she's a 7/10.

Yeah it's a great idea

Camwhores love getting doxxed

>>16656476
It's not doxing if it doesnt include social security numbers

>>16656485
>people really believe this
shiggy