this is quite a long story, i dont know how to go back to my own thread so if ever i get lost ill just repost the whole story since im saving a draft
>Be me 29. at the office while writing this.. not thingking straight anymore
>browse and see many them feels stories
>thought maybe if i share mine i will feel less (whatever it is im feeling)
>No spagheti No dinosaurs here
>this is what really is happening to me now
>bit of background
>6/10 maybe 7/10 guy me.
>Confidence 9/10...so add it up roughly 8/10 me
>never remembered that i was a beta since i started liking girls
>can easily talk to them..like breathing
>Girl one
>(not main story but i think somehow someway she had an effect on how or what i am now)
>call her 'cool'
>cool is my first 'real girlfriend' (serious girlfriend)
>Me and the gang where always hanging out and somehow Cool ended up hanging out with us which is a bit odd since she is a grade older than us
>cant recall it really so fckit
>tomboyish , short hair, petite, 'one of them boyz type'
>but she's a cheer dancer of the school, and boy she can move!
>she's also a womens varsity player of the school, and boy she can move! (but of course not as good as my crossovers!)
>She's my first fck.. it was the best!
>ofcourse i thought it was by that time since it was my first!
>Im also hers so its quite tight (even though my "energizer bunny" is not that big lol!)
>yes i named it that but not because its that small but it can go on and on and on!...or maybe its that small? hahah fck it enough bout me
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>life is good, weekly f*ck at her place
>long story short thought she was the one
>i can trust this girl
>how dumb of me
>after 2 years she goes to college and me still on highschool
>one day thought about suprising her going to her place without telling her
>quietly sneaked at the backdoor
>slowly opened the door
>found her on top of a guy
>first thought was deymn she does have moves!
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should i continue?
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>how can i continue my thread? or should i continue it through reply?
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>guess ill just continue
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Girlfriend is way too skinny 2016-01-07 06:55:58 Post No.16654732
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Girlfriend is way too skinny
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Background: Technically she is within her BMI for her height and weight. whoopie... when we first started dating, she had the perfect ratio of muscle and fat, and sexy legs.
We been together for 3 years... and this last year.. she just shriveled up into a very skinny girl. No drugs, doesn't drink.
The bones are appearing around her shoulders and even on the front of her chest.. which is becoming turnoff.
When ever we go out with friends or family they dont exactly compliment her on being "soooo skinny".
To me I feel its like we look like we cant afford food to eat.. thats how bad its getting. It was a bit embarrassing around the holidays visiting family. "Is everything ok with you too? Hows work?"
She has some stomach issues with constipation so she is very picky on her food.. which is mostly veggies.. but she does eat fish and chicken.
How can I even have a positive discussion about her weight... I know this is an incredibly dangerous task. If she gained like 8 lbs things would back to normal.
She keeps saying "I like the way I look!"
Or should I just be thankful that my girl is not some obese fat fuck.
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>>16654732
>Technically she is within her BMI for her height and weight
Then don't say shit, because she's fine as she is. It'd be one thing if she was obese and destroying her health, but it sounds like she's actually taking care of her body.
>To me I feel its like we look like we cant afford food to eat..
Stop being an over-sensitive shit.
>It was a bit embarrassing around the holidays visiting family. "Is everything ok with you too? Hows work?"
Jesus Christ, this is just your average small talk.
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>>16654732
Tell her that your worried about her and tell her how you feel without being negative or making assumptions
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Those stomach issues might be related to something more serious, like Crohn's disease or something. Major gas, nausea, whatever.
Otherwise, just talk with her about it if you haven't already. It's her body, and presumably in your in your teens-twenties. She'll probably put on weight in a couple years without needing to be asked.
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It doesn't matter where I go on the internet, I manage to find these dumb feminist and racist posts everywhere I go. Fuck, I had to stop using tumble because that's all the site was. I'm not a pro-misogynist or a racist, but it's like when you point out the logical and empathetic inconsistencies with these groups and suggest rhetoric that actually is consistent and fair (so therefore not their fashion of reverse racism/ sexism), you're somehow in the wrong. These mindsets are really picking up traction and I think the liberal agenda is just as bad as the conservative narrative.
How do I not fucking kill myself reading this crap? Pic of some tumblr feminist.
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If you don't like extreme opinions against a particular group, you're better off not on 4chan. Literally everything you hate exists here too, just in relation to other groups.
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>>16654750
Been browsing for years and never had a problem with it, by and by. Tumblr, Buzzfeed, and other mediums are like cess pools of hypocrisy and half-baked reasoning.
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>>16654726
Keep walking, we hate niggers, gays, feminazis, libtards, Cucks, genderequality cunts, safe spaces, newfags, cripples, Muslims, kikes, spics and everything else. You'll find where you belong, but it ain't here.
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Why does every chick that looks like pic related turns out to be a lesbian?!
This is the 4th time I met a girl like this.
Short hair, skinny, short, likes cartoons, anime, games, etc.
AND IT TURNS OUT SHE'S A GODDAMN LESBIAN
Although she hasn't been one for too long. Only about 2 years.
Is there any way to put her on the straight path again?
I'm fucking tired of being let down again and again.
This is my last chance.
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I don't think you can change her mind and attempting to do so is rude as hell and transparent as fuck. I can only suggest moving on.
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I don't like to stereotype and shit but most girls I've seen like the one in the OP haven't ever not been into girls. That doesn't mean they're lesbian (as you've qualified them), but I think it's easier to validate since women in general seem to be way more open-minded in their sexual orientation than men. It would be reasonable to claim that these women don't dress this way because they're lesbian but because they're women, they're more likely to be into same-sex things and their appearance is just by coincidence.
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>>16654749
no no no i mean, from personal experience, every girl I've ever met that fits this archetype turns out to be gay
but it turns out this one is a recently turned lesbian
not to insult >>16654714 ,
but do people turn gay just like that?
one moment you've lived your whole life as straight, then you go "eh why not" and turn?
that's some comedy movie-tier shit right there
Is it safe for a black person to move into suburban Minnesota?
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Of course.
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>>16654654
I keep hearing that people would try to murder me if I was anywhere outside the twin cities.
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Minnesota is liberal central, practically the most ethnically friendly state in the Midwest. Big immigrant population, the Twin Cities are a huge metro area altogether. Whereabouts are you going?
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Jehovah's Witnesses practice shunning (which at this point in time I believe is a known form of psychological torture.)
A person I know and love is going to be disfellowshipped and consequently shunned. Resulting in losing their family, friends, and livelihood. All for loving me (an "otherwordly person" a.k.a non-believer)
This person is being blackmailed and given an ultimatum that if they don't cease contact with me they will be shunned/exiled from everything, and everyone
How can I fight this?
If at all? Can I take this to court? Is shunning/torture illegal? if not why not? and what are the legalities?
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Of course it's not illegal. Just help the person with a place to stay, shoulder to cry on, etc.
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>>16654636
Unless your a confessed satanist or athiest or whatever, her parents are doing all this because they don't want her to date you/they don't like you.
My wife is/was (once you're baptized J-Ho, you're never really out) and her parents chose to stand by and support her while we dated. Sure, some in the church chose to "shun", but those were really just the assholes anyway.
Just like when a cop gives you speeding ticket for going 7mph over. He probably could have given you a warning, but he didn't like you so he gave you a ticket.
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>>16654636
the Jehovah's witnesses have been practicing exploitative persecutor and isolating strategies for decades
it's not illegal, and the government won't act
you have to leave the Jehovah witnesses, it's hard but after you leave everything gets easier and you can take a normal life back
that's how it ends, everyone leaves one by one, and the more people leave the easier it gets
you learn that the org isn't the same as your faith, your family and your community, it's seperate and you don't have to loose all of them; it's them that take it from you
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Is female orgasm a myth? 2016-01-07 06:14:44 Post No.16654587
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Is female orgasm a myth? Male orgasm has a purpose - to make it extremely hard for the male to pull out, and to ensure that he inseminates the female.
But what's the purpose of a female orgasm? Does it have its own function, such as easing the sperm in? No. In reality the vaginal canal is acidic and kills sperm..
Scientific findings tell us that there is no such thing as a "vaginal orgasm" or a "clitoral orgasm" or even a G-spout, but that the female can achieve orgasm via stimulation of the clitoris..
So what's the purpose of a female orgasm? A simultaneous orgasm hardly ever happens for most couples. A more logical explanation I'm willing to accept is that the female feels intense pleasure throughout the entire intercourse, but an orgasm seems pointless.
>inb4 hurr but females are just as greedy as males and are more likely to have sex when the end-reward is a 22-second orgasm durr
Help me brainstorm this subject, anons.
Here are my sources:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/vaginal-orgasms-are-a-myth-claim-researchers-9781706.html
(tried opening the actual scientific paper at https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=1&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=0ahUKEwiHxNqshZfKAhVJDywKHVrhBf0QFgghMAA&url=http%3A%2F%2Fonlinelibrary.wiley.com%2Fdoi%2F10.1002%2Fca.22471%2Fabstract&usg=AFQjCNHWuH9R-GAdELHTn9Ur8RIgO5q3vw but it won't load for me)
https://www.newscientist.com/article/dn26335-final-word-on-female-orgasm-is-an-anticlimax/
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>>16654587
I'm a female and I've orgasmed before
So, no. It's not a myth
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It functions to keep the females from growing bored with men and their stupid antics.
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>>16654587
>G-spout
kek
yeah they orgasm and some even squirt and no its not piss
however its much more unlikely for a girl to orgasm than a guy and about 2/3 of womyn have problems orgasming with their partner but thats because 2/3rds arent hot enough to get chad and/or are just gold / status-diggers who settle for unsexy men
but it is true that the female reproductive system is constructed in a way to genocide as many sperm as possible so only the healthiest one can make the baby
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I'm going crazy over my recent breakup, /adv/.
I've been having nightmares reliving the breakup every night for two weeks now (two weeks since it happened). I can't sleep, I can't concentrate, I'm overeating to a horrid extent. I've spent every day crying at least 3 or 4 times, sometimes many more.
I love that man with my whole heart and soul. he broke up with me over something really small, he found a (admittedly, flirty) text I'd sent to an old friend and thought I was cheating on him. I haven't even seen that friend since we started dating, and I don't know what possessed me to send it in the first place but when he showed it to me I was so apologetic and honestly didn't even remember sending it.
I've messed up my relationship with the love of my life. I'd do anything to get him back, even as a friend, to start building up trust between us again, but he won't talk to me. everyone says to "give it time," but I'm literally losing my mind and afraid I might do something drastic. I just need to talk to him and set things straight and see what we can get accomplished together instead of being angry and/or miserable apart.
what do /adv/? should I send a letter? is that too overwhelming, since he's blocked me? can't we meet halfway?
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>>16654553
No sympathy kekekekek
You're having nightmares because you did a shitty thing and you have to live with the consequences.
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>>16654563
you fuck right off
it was shitty but it wasn't unforgivably shitty.
I want advice, not jeering remarks. go back to /r9k/ you foul beast.
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Usually pot before bed helps stop the dreams
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Any high school teachers here? 2016-01-07 05:57:14 Post No.16654506
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Any high school teachers here?
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What is your job like? Am thinking about this career.
(Pic unrelated)
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Its great, just dont get caught fucking any of the elementary school students.
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>>16654657
How is this bait? I'm not asking a ridiculous question.
You are the one shitting up other people's threads.
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Soon to be hs teacher from germany here. In germany we dont exactly have hss, but the age should be the same at the edicational stage that I am in.
Its a grwat job. If you have a certain amount of self esteem and know how to present yourself then go for it. Teaching is 10% about knowing what ur talking about and 90% knowing how to talk about it.
Just dont get too attached to your studemts, and remember: you wont be able to save everyone.
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My sister is a nigger lover. I've tried to convince her what shes doing is wrong for years. Now she's a cliche single mother living off welfare. No self respecting man will go near her. She has been bouncing from groid to groid getting used or worse beaten. I want to rub it in her face that i was right. But shes so down. Should i?
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>>16654444
Checked.
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Checked?
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>>16654444
Quads confirm you must literally rub niggers in her face
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>text girl asking her out
>no response for 10 hours and counting
Did I fuck up? Is she thinking of a way to reject me? What did I do wrong? Is there still a chance?
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Where you went wrong was doing it by text instead of in person. Now you'll just have to wait.
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>>16654383
I know but I don't see her around campus very often soooooo
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Tragic
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Just turned 18
Parents have been warning me that they'll kick me out day 1 after highschool ends since I was 17
I've saved up 5k
I have no drivers licence
No friends or family ill be able to live with after I fail out of highschool
I used to be a lifegaurd/wsi/swim coach until my local employer, the YMCA, closed down.
Seems like the only option is to an hero once I get kicked out, Im totally accepting of killing myself too, I'm not depressed or sad either, just numb feeling and life doesn't seem worth living.
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I don't think you can fail out of high school as long as you keep showing up.
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Weeeeeeeellllll I guess I wrongly assumed I was worth someone's advice or time, often I over calculate how special I am,
I think it's just a coping method to make me feel like I'm worth something.
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>>16654397
I haven't passed a class since sophomore year :/ I tried to join alternative classes but my parents wouldn't allow the school to do it. They say I am smart enough to do traditional schooling therefore alternative is out of the question.
Hey /adv/. It's time for a tumblrfag "muh feelings" thread. I recently went through a break up while on break at home away from all my friends at uni. My newfound Ex is really getting to me. I need anons to hear my story, and validate my Existence.
>Calls me one night, tells me it's over
>"You're perfect, and I don't want you to be sad"
>Agree to be friends
>Texting my Ex as a friend like a desperate loser
>One of the first things she tells me when we were first together is that she was molested.
>Told her while we were together that I was molested, but I never said who it was
>Tell her after we broke up who it really was
>Suddenly hates me and says things like
>You're a terrible boyfriend, and you lied just to hide this from me. You're just a liar.
>Our whole relationship didn't matter because you're just a liar who hid something that big from me.
>Realize it was shitty to hide that secret
>Post thread on /adv/ to ask if I'm really such a terrible person.
So /adv/. I guess I'm asking... Was it really so bad what I did? Was I a terrible worthless boyfriend for lying about not knowing who molested me when I really did?
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She's garbage stop wasting your time and feeling awful over an ex. She wants to make you suffer any way she can.
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>>16654375
Thank you Anon. You might not think it means a lot, but it does when you're emotionally vulnerable.
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If she were wise she would have realized that being molested is a serious and personal thing and that you probably had good reasons for not telling her about it. You don't owe her the whole story.
Maybe if the person was someone who she knows personally like someone in her family, or someone she has met and spoken to, I can understand her being shocked and lashing out.
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I started seeing this girl about two months ago and things are going great so far. We're still in the "honeymoon" phase of our relationship where everything is new and exciting; we have sex pretty much whenever she comes over and we just genuinely enjoy being with each other.
But there are two things on my mind:
1 - I'm a pretty sexually open person. I like trying new things. Previous girlfriends were pretty open as well and I found out some things that I really like. She's a little conservative but also very generous. I don't want to scare her off with anything but sex is important to me.
2 - I've got some baggage from my last relationship. I know that's nothing extraordinary, but I'm still very upset with the way things ended. She fucked me over pretty bad and I was messed up for a while. As badly as I want her to pay for what she did, I know deep down she's never going to be happy with herself and that pursuing any kind of revenge is pointless. I want to just let it go once and for all and move on with a clean slate.
Any thoughts?
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>>16654294
Lekker. I was like lekker. 30 secs later you said: lekker. I was like: this is way too lekker!
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As long as you don't ask for scat or any other extreme fetishes you will be fine.
The pain from your ex will subside. It just takes time.
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>>16654333
No, I'm not into that sort of stuff. I just like experimenting a bit here and there. I'm actually pretty tame, I suppose, by a lot of people's standards but I also have a pretty high sex drive.
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Any advice on going on a date? 2016-01-07 04:59:08 Post No.16654259
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Any advice on going on a date?
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So there is this girl on my class I'm 18 and I'm sure she's into me. I'll ask her out but idk what to do in it because I've never been on one before nor had a girlfriend.
I'm confident she will accept but what should I (or not) do?
I'm expecting something like:
"Since it's the first time you take this girl try and do weird shit to impress her"
"Be chivalrous"
or "Don't eat chipotle you'll shit your pants".
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Also keep in mind I'm broke I have near no cash to spend
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>>16654259
well first you got to decide what the date is. keep your budget in mind. you arent giving us much to wokr with.
'im broke' and 'near no cash' are two different htings. are you asking for ideas of free dates?
a lot of free dates are considered cheesy, like going out for a picnic or stupid shit like that. one thing you can do is research local events as there are often many free ones and ask her to go to one of those but its hard to say what she will respond well to.
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>>16654286
Hey! Picknicks are awesome! You can actually enjoy nature, be free and get to talk. Unlike so many events! Fuck you!