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My girlfriend is constantly telling me being a woman online is hard, and harassment and misogyny is everywhere... shes recently started becoming a social justice advocate and its been effecting our communication and relationship a lot...
The thing is, my friend who is a woman, keeps refuting my girlfriend around every corner, and its gotten to the point where my girlfriend wants me to stop talking to her, telling me shes wrong and is just a product of the patriarchy.
what the hell do I do? I don't want to ditch my friend... the arguments shes told me are pretty sound and I mean I see it whenever I play games with her... why would my girlfriend lie about things like being online and getting harassed?
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>>16701710
Break up with girlfriend, hook up with friend. Win-win.
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>>16701710
what's wrong with your girlfriend thinking this way?
anyway, you can't change people you can only accept them.
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>>16701710
on a basic relationship level you have to ask
>shoudl i let my girlfriend dictate who my friends are
if she doesn't want to hang out with your friend, thats her business, but she shouldnt be trying to control who you hang out with in private time.
I am gay. I came out to my family, and was promptly disowned. Strangly enough, I moved in to a friends house and fell in love with him. we kissed, then promptly fucked hardcore. I love dicks, men, semen, and the idea of expressing love to a man. but im not gay. what am i?
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A woman?
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>>16701296
> I am gay
> but I'm not gay
nigga u gay
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>>16701296
Are you a cured lez?
So sometimes I get too horny for my own good and do stupid things. Last night found sketchy craigslist guy and insisted he wear a condom. He came over with lube, a toy and yes a condom. Toyed me for like 20 seconds then put condom on and started fucking me. This was nice and I liked it maybe too much, because then he started going on about how condoms suck and he couldn't even feel me and how much he wanted to cum inside me. I didn't really know how to say no at that point with him in me already and have a huge semen fetish so I kinda gave in. He came and I loved it until he left. Since then I've been worried about getting HIV and I know I can't even be tested for over a month so fuck.
Please tell me I don't have HIV. It was just once and I'm probably fine right?
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Also so you think this was maybe rape? I told him before that he absolutely HAD to wear a condom but he was being insistent and coercive and I felt like I couldn't say no at that point...
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Guess no one even cares :(
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>>16700690
Kek ofc not
We assume you're a faggot
And faggots deserve aids
Then death
Kek
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>Girfriend comes out that shes into beast
>initially just taken back
>she shows me the things she likes
>be sorta ok with it
>fast forward a couple months
>she wants me to watch her get mounted
>decide whatever as i really dig her
>get turned on by it
however
>next day
>feeling like shit
>cant look her in the eye
>go to a bar
>call her and tell her to take her things and get out
>wait a couple hours
>go home
>all her stuff is gone
>she took the dog too
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
how do I get my dog back without getting into some problematic shit
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>>16700583
1. Pickup your gun and go over and say give me my fucking dog.
2. Call the cops tell them she's raping your dog.
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>>16700583
She's literally sexually abusing a dog that doesn't belong to her. Call the cops.
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that dog shouldn't be with her, especially after you've allowed it to dominate her. it's going to be a lot of training for that dog to get back at the natural pecking order now.
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I want to get a cat but have never had one before (my mom and sister were always allergic).
What is a good breed to get? I want one that is small, affectionate, nice to look at, and doesn't fuck up my tiny studio hobo apartment.
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>>16699188
commit to a real companion and get a dog. cats are glorified stuffed animals.
I'm very allergic to cats and my parents got one anyway. I now live in my room because standing anywhere in the rest of the house will have me sneezing and itching in minutes.
get one if you're trying to keep your mom and sister away from you.
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>>16699188
>tiny studio hobo apartment
Cats like space and shit. Don't get one until you have a better, cleaner, larger place to live. No need to subject something else to a low standard of living when it's not necessary.
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Get a male Maine Coon. They're easy mode. Super cuddly, just the right amount of playful, beautiful coats, and healthy. They're also actually affectionate and form strong bonds with their owners, unlike some cats. The only downside is a lot of other people also have realized that so Maine Coon kittens get snatched up from shelters pretty quick, but I still see them often enough. Do not get a female cat, definitely don't get a tortoiseshell. That's hard mode. Don't get a Siamese (they're so loud.)
Don't listen to the prev. anon, he's an idiot -- dogs require a larger living space and a lot more care and attention. Only get a dog if you can provide what it really needs.
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.
>Who is Brandon/Female Brandon?
A shitposter who's convinced he's ugly. He keeps posting his picture to ask if he's ugly and to ask for dating advice, only to rebut or ignore any responses he gets. Female Brandon is a girl who pulls the same shit.
>Frog
Also piss off.
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On the x/10 system, how many points does a guy usually gain if he progresses from an average build to fit?
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Question for the girls, from a pretty inept guy.
When a girl is obviously, super obviously into me, in a situation where having casual sex is practical, what's the appropriate way to escalate to that? I find myself in situations like that a few times a year (anime cons, mostly), and they always slip away because I just don't have a clue how to present it. I feel like straight coming out and saying "let's go to my room" or "let's go fuck" is super weird.
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I asked this yesterday, but it mainly became two people arguing with each other over something only partially related, so I'll try again.
I recently turned 27. A couple days ago, an extremely hot 16 year old (legal in my state) asked to kiss me while I was giving her a ride back to her parent's (her friend's car broke down). I picked her up and we fucked the next day. The Dad texted her a lot and would text her in 15 min intervals on when her curfew is. She said they also had a GPS tracking app on her phone. So quite strict.
My first question is: Should I continue this? I was an autist loser and didn't have sex until I was 22. So I never have and probably never will be able to fuck someone this age again. And I have a strong desire for her age because of my homeschooling depriving me from any similar opportunities. I'm pretty sure I can avoid being caught, but if I did, it would ostracize me from my friends.
My second question is more for girls, I guess. She calls me Daddy during sex, and wants me to choke her, hold her down, call her slut, and hit her. Seems unusually kinky for her age. She compares me to her Dad a lot, so it may be Daddy issues. She also thinks she is dumb and the only topic she knows about by her own admittance is feminism (lol 16 year old girls), so it may be a social power thing. Basically my question is is this normal? Did her Dad rape her? Is she just an SJW individual with a kink at a young age?
I can greentext more details if necessary.
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Man if its legal and you're up for it.. and she's up for it who am I to tell you not to hit that?
I may be a 22 yo kissless, hugless virgin but really who am I to tell YOU not to hit that?
Go ahead and hit that
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First off: Someone who is into that shit probably has a TON of issues, especially at 16.
Secondly: Because of her age she most likely cannot handle a fwb situation and will get emotionally attached to you and start acting fucking crazy and clingy.
I suggest moving on and finding someone closer to your age.
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Also this is a SFW Board you filthy son of a bitch, so how about not uploading a pic of a halfnude bitch the next time?
But go ahead and hit that
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So, I plan on leaving this hellhole If Trump wins. I've read about being able to become an Irish citizen If you are related to someone who was an Irish citizen, I was curious If anyone know how far back that goes and the process to get It started. Along with Italy, I know Its a shit hole but I hear the North Is pretty nice, my great grandparents left Italy about 100 years ago to flee WW1 by ditching to America, does that count as renouncing citizenship? I really feel like Clinton will win the dem primary meaning that Trump will either sweep states formerly blue (NY) or get some swing states ( FL ) or Clinton will wipe her ass with Trump, either way Clinton or Trump I want out. This place Is a racist cesspool of sociopathic hyper capitalists. Has anyone here gotten dual citizenship from Ireland or Italy?
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Though I don't know why you would leave the US for Europe - heck I'm working my butt off to do the opposite! - you shouldn't think about citizenship for now.
Start of by moving and working over here for some years and then citizenship will come natural (most countries over here don't make you jump through hoops for that).
I hope my post was of some help
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>>16697669
>a racist cesspool of sociopathic hyper capitalists
literally me
We're gonna make america great again
Trump 2016
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You're a fool if you really think this or any election is going to bring such quick and distinct changes to your life that you will want to leave.
The grass is always greener. Stop looking for things to bitch about.
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Why are you still a virgin? No seriously, why the hell are you still a virgin?
I don't care how socially awkward you are, or how introverted you are, go make an account on OKCupid right now. If you're a decent person and can talk to people through text, you'll honestly have no issues finding someone nice to sleep with. I cannot begin to describe how absurdly easy it is to flirt with and develop meaningful, thoughtful friends with benefits relationships with cute people.
What's your excuse? Tell me why you're having issues and I'll tell you how to smarten the fuck up.
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For 7 years (now i'm 24) me and my mother suffered through my father's wacko bipolar disease.
But for all those years I've refrained to try to have relationships with any girl (besides friendship ofc) because I had to support my mother and confront my father. Every time he was admitted to the psych ward it tore my heart.
I did that to keep my family from falling apart and probably me living on the street or probably dead because my father had a gun, but it was in the local armory and I asked the Public Ministry (Portugal) to destroy it. They've accepted my request and I felt really happy when it did.
It's now managed under a new doctor he is seeing :D.
Now finally I have a degree, living in the capital for two months and I don't have friends here but my roommates.
Working in IT but don't have a girlfriend atm (not kissless btw but a bit shy), but back in my hometown I have the most wonderful friends and I mean it from my heart.
So, thoughts?
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>>16697442
OP here, I've been taking lithium (also just got off olanzapine) for 7+ years. I know what you mean, and can understand why you wouldn't want to touch this area in the circumstances you've been in.
But if you've got a bit of freedom now, do literally what I said in the OP. OKCupid isn't just for dating - I've made legit friends in addition to FWB and dating things.
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Tried it. Barely got any replies and nobody seemed interested.
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My GF wanted to go to Disney with her friend during spring break. I can't go since well, honestly I'm not even sure why. She gets to go for free since her friend is doing an internship. there.
However we were planning on moving in together soon and we were going to use spring break as the time to look at houses. On top of that we won't see each other much during the semester and I wanted to take that time to really be with her.
I told her this today over the phone and it pretty much turned into an argument, and with her just saying she won't go and being bummed out.
Am I being a shitty boyfriend? What else am I supposed to do in this situation? I'm really not comfortable with my GF just going on vacation without me during a time we already had plans for.
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>>16697330
If she already made plans with you, that's kind of fucked up.
However, if you had never communicated an intention to spend time with her over spring break, you're being retarded.
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>>16697359
The plans for looking at houses was definite since my lease on my current place is up in May. Other than that I just kinda assumed that was our time to spend together since we won't be seeing each other much.
Also that money she wanted to spend on vacation is money needed for our new place, especially since she's always saying how she needs to save for it.
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bumping. could use some more opinions
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>meet girl
>start dating her
>find out she has engaged in casual sex
>prevent myself from building any emotions
>break up with her after a few months of dating
This is my usual routine for dating. I dont enter long term monogamous relationships with girls who believe is having casual sex. Like Id date them and if I were into casual sex Id bang them, but Id never marry them so I usually just end it before too long.
Normally this isnt a problem since I dont really show my feelings so the girl doesnt take it too too hard. But the last girl kinda did. We have known each other back in college and apparently she's 'loved me' since then and dreamed of us being married and kept begging me what she could do to make things better. Eventually I broke down and just told her that I couldnt marry her or just anyone whos part of the casual sex movement and she starting feeding me some story about how she was in a bad place and didnt think wed ever get together and some other excuses.
Shes said shes changed but I dont trust a word anyone says when theyre in a corner.
How bad of an idea would it be to date her for a little while longer until Im ready to start looking for marriage. Like Im not going to marry her, but she thinks if she has more time she can show me why we were meant to be and Im not looking to get married yet.
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what in the fuck is wrong with you?
What's wrong with casual sex? Do you know how many possible amazing women you have missed your chance with because of that stupid rule?
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>>16696851
>I hate girls who have casual sex
>Sometimes when I'm having casual sex with girls, I find out that they had casual sex
>I'm disgusted
Holy shit, you're retarded.
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>>16697344
Quit excusing your slutty ways. Slut.
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I am quite ugly (not a little ugly or very ugly, quite ugly is what describes me).
I had money for having surgery. But, what should I do?
I want to know what steps I must follow. I have to go to a cosmetic surgery clinic or I have to go to an advisor of image? I don't know what to do because I don't know what would be the best for me.
I don't have something a big nose or big ears but I'm not even a bit attractive.
Eight years since my last girlfriend and interaction with women, being called ugly several times in the last years and being almost bald are my presentation card.
At least, I go to the gym and I'm not fat. But the face I can't change my face lifting weights or running. (26y/o)
Yesterday I posted this and I couldn't upload a pic so...
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>>16696117
a solid 8/10
Any "ugly" perks only enhance your charisma, by making you YOU, and making you stand out.
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>>16696117
fucking normies always asking for compliments
u look NORMAL. u would make a great bartender
should I be offended that my bf gave me a gift card for my bday?
he gave me a box of chocolates and a 50$ gift card. we've been together 10 months. first of all I am grateful and acted really happy and stuff. I just feel like it wasn't thoughtful.. and he didn't get me a card. personally if I was a guy dating a girl that long id at least spend 100$.
is this normal? I've never been in a serious long term relationship. idk for his birthday I already know what I'm getting him and it's gonna be like $160 and thoughtful things i know he wants
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>>16695897
he also made dinner reservations for us on it
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>>16695897
You have no right to be offended if you didn't discuss the expected cost of presents beforehand.
Some people don't make birthdays a big thing - my girlfriend and I rarely spend more than $30 on each other.
If you didn't say you expected $100+ of gifts, he couldn't be expected to know.
TLDR: Communicate better
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>>16695897
This has to be bait. I absolutely love it when my guy gives me gift cards to the places I love to shop, so that I can pick out the shit I really want instead of him having to guess.
>I just feel like it wasn't thoughtful.. and he didn't get me a card.
So you feel like a gift card isn't thoughtful, but a card created by someone else is? Do you not think that's incredibly stupid? Cards are wasteful and useless anyway, unless they're handmade.
>is this normal?
For spoiled brats that expect perfection, sure.
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Am I the only one who thinks that the impact rape can have on a person is overplayed in modern society?
I suppose I should clarify, that I don't mean violent rape in which a person is being beaten bloody and such while it happens, since that can clearly be traumatic, just like any other case that involves a person getting the ever living shit kicked out of them.
No, I mean like, the nonviolent rape, the one girls typically play up as the worst thing ever, where they don't consent, and some horny guy (like a friend ir a bf) forces himself on her, and despite not wanting it, she still gets aroused, and then gets dressed and goes home to cry about it.
I understand that it's more of a control and power issue in some way, and I'm not implying it's pleasant, but I am saying that it really isn't that bad either.
Especially considering how women are, how they are during sex.
Now, I've never done this to any girl ever, but I have met a girl that's been through this. And she cited this event as the major turning point in her life, as she eventually developed bipolar disorder because of it. Now, she didn't blame her rebellious nature, or the massive drug use she did as a teen as the reason for her mental illness, but rape, in which her bf at the time forced himself on her before she was ready. As she described it to me, it also wasn't violent, she just gave in, and because of this, she used this victim mentality as an excuse to binge in drugs, and be reckless with her life.
When I first met her, I felt really bad for her, but, the more I thought about it, the more I felt that she only felt that way because society sorta exaggerates the impact of rape on a woman.
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So it's like a "you feel this way, because everone is telling you you're supposed to feel like a helpless victim."
For example, men are raped in prison all the time, much more violently (and painfully) than what I described, yet many if them just cope with it, and move on.
Women were raped throughout history all the time, and the worst part was having a child from that person, some random knight or raider, not "muh feels."
It's just my thoughts, and especially when you think of Rape Culture... we live in a society in which rape is seen as worse than murder, when in fact, most rape cases are something a person should be able to shrug off and move on from.
I'm not justifying rape mind you. Nor am I saying people should do this, but I do think people overplay and exaggerate the impact it has on a person, and this very thing in fact causes MORE problems for the victim than otherwise.
You teach people that it's ok to surrebder to a victim mentality, and not take responsibility for their own actions.
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Im a dude but if I got raped by a man I'd kill myself. Maybe that's not relevant here.
Don't forget how sensitive (weak) women are.
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>>16695891
I wouldn't kill myself.
If it happens it happens.
It'd be painful, for sure, since it'd be my anal virginity, but also, I know how to fight, so supposing it was a coupke dudes stronger than me, I'd probably get the ever living shit kicked outta me in the process.
It would suck, it'd be shitty, but with time I'd move on.
I certainly wouldn't start binging on drugs and playing myself up as some martyr or whatever though.
As for women, I disagree. They're emotional for sure, but not weaker emotionally.
I think the root of the problem lies in that women develop stronger emotional attachments to situations, and if encouraged, will cling to certain feelings, because they like feeling certain emotions.
But it's also not like you can tell a girl "oh, just get over it" because that certainly won't work. She'll certainly need support, but the right kind of it. The way society overplays rape I feel is more harmful than good though, that's what I'm saying.
We should be honest, there are far worse things a person can go through than rape.
My ex boyfriend is a jerk that plays the good guy. He like cheated on my and hit me and a bunch of other crap but likes to think that he's a religious guy of kind character.
I bought in to his delusion for a while when we were dating but after he broke up with me to hook up with some other chicks, I no longer try to find excuses for his poor behavior.
I stayed friends with him after we broke up, but I've started to hate him little by little.
I want to ignore him and cut him off, but since I'm like "his best friend" he will obviously notice and confront me about this.
Do I owe him an explanation? Do I have to block him or can I just ignore his texts?
I don't want to be a shit friend but he was a shit boyfriend so I don't know if I like owe him anything as a friend.
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>>16695075
You should post some titties
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>>16695075
You owe yourself to give him one long explanation in text and then just block him. He doesn't need anything else to understand he's a dick.
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>>16695081
I got banned last time I did on this board to "prove I was a girl" so sorry no