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How do I get rid of the feeling of needing so much attention?! 2016-01-24 06:38:35 Post No.16722807
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How do I get rid of the feeling of needing so much attention?!
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What's wrong with me?! I feel crushingly lonely when I'm surrounded by people preoccupied with something else. My bf of 2 years just spends time playing LoL, and I just feel neglected and sick when I'm around that, and it makes me want to go to my mom's house. He has to force himself to spend time with me, which doesn't feel good, either. Should I just leave and go live with my mom? He says we have to live together to be together, but he doesn't pay attention to me when I am here. I am the one working and he has eight hours a day without me to play League of Legends... am I overreacting?! Much of the time, he'd rather play LoL than get his dick sucked...
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Yeah, you should just leave him if he likes league that much.
It's shitty.
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>>16722815
Do you have experience with a significant other doing the same thing to you?
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>>16722807
I would love to go to omegle or tinychat or something right now just so I could not feel lonely like this, but he goes through the internet history and I would be accused of fucking around on him. I feel neglected as fuck, I'm lonely as shit, and when I try to get some space I'm just accused of cheating and whatnot.
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Is it possible to become a houseboy without having to bang old men?
I don't mind doing maid-y stuff, and I don't mind doing it naked or in drag or whatever, but I just don't want (strange) dicks in my ass filling me up with the AIDS.
Where/how can I find clients to clean houses for in a sexy way to make some money while not getting turbo-raped with HIV flesh-needles? I'm trying to post to craigslist but keep tripping the phone verification thing, and fuck that, I don't have a burner.
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lol dude you're gonna die. just get a real job man.
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>>16721886
I actually spent the evening posting CVs to places online, and have lots of hard copies out there. It's not like I'm not trying ;_;
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pls halp I need mon$y ;_;
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Is it true women only want Chads who were socially accepted their whole lives and have big dicks?
Should genetically inferior men just kill themselves?
How does one into therapy?
I'm 22 and lost my job and don't know what to do with my worthless life, what do you recommend?
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No, women have broader taste than men according to science. But then again, if you are trying to score a 8/10 girl and up while being 5/10 yourself; you should really come down to this earth and see beyond the appearance.
No, they shouldn't.
You get an appointment with a therapist, google local ones.
You're 22. It's barely an age these days. I recommend you get another job, train in order to be your optimum self and get rid of that depression with healthy life choices. Taking up a new hobby (once you got your job) could also be good for you in order to meet new people and stop obsessing over trivial shit like this.
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>>16720786
what isn't trivial, anon?
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>>16720767
Yeah, all women like one kind of guy. Just like they like one kind of food, one style of clothing, and one kind of entertainment.
If you don't know what to do with your life, go to a job counselor or start looking at taking community college courses. If you are focused on being forever alone, ask women on dates.
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>be virgin
>meet girl
>best friends with a lot of tension
>she makes first move and we date
>fall madly in love
>tells me shes not a virgin and ask if Im okay with that
>tell her I dont mind
>we are literally perfect together
>have sex before she goes away for a bit
>sex is the most loving thing Ive ever experienced with another person
>can see us going the long run to marriage
>suddenly clicks that shes had sex with other guys
>realize that its only this special for me
>become bitter than shes going to be the only person Ive ever had sex with when its not the same for her
>suddenly hate sex
>emotions slowly close off
>she fights for us because we both know we work together
>literally cant do it
>shes in shambles and I call it off
Why do people lie and say sex isnt a big deal. It hurts so much. I literally imagined her raising my kids from time to time. Fuck everything.
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It seems you're overreacting and ruining a good thing. Too bad you were a vrigin and she was not, it's not a big deal.
OP, how old are you?
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You're dumb
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Because it is not. It's only your fucked up pride and narcissism that ruined something good. All you were talking about is your feelings and your feelings about things that you don't even know are true.
How do you know that she didn't feel the same about sex as you did?
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What age were you when shit started?
Did you started taking antidepressants?
How are you currently doing?
Tell us, let's share our mental shit
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no, what am I some sort of weak willed faggot?
doing pretty damn well considering the circumstances
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i dont know, 8 maybe? thank you educational system
no, i didn't know i was depressed for years and when i realized i knew that the cause is legitimate and not some brain problems shit
terrible, my gf broke up with me by telling me she's pregnant from someone else
(probably not hanging around long. doing shit tonight)
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>What age were you when this shit started?
I think I was about 10. It may have happened at an earlier point in my life though.
>Did you started taking antidepressants?
I started taking both antidepressants and anxiety medication when I turned 18. I am also now seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist. I am 20 years old now.
>How are you currently doing?
I hate everything and I want to kill myself.
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hey /adv/ how do i not feel like shit about my average length and average girth cock? I'd kill for more girth...
I'll never be the guy she tells her friends about his cock, i'll never get to show off when skinny-dipping or show off when grinding with a girl, i'll never be the guy she sleeps with and talks about how it's so much bigger than her bf's, never be the fuck buddy with a fat dick, etc, etc.
especially because the girls i'm most attracted to are girls with big butt/thighs, and more some reason it always seems like they like bigger dicks and/or black guys
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Same situation as you op, it might not be as good on your end but girls always go on and on about guys who give amazing head, you might not get as much out of it and it won't be as cool but at least its something
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>>16717727
Try not feeling like shit for having a small dick. I would kill for average.
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>>16717727
Youll always feel like shit and want more.
Im 7.5x5.5 and pray to be 8x6.
I think max boner is 8 but thats like right before I ejaculate and its hard to measure. the base is 6 though girth which is best Im getting.
Just accept it. No matter your size youll always want to be bigger.
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2016-01-22 09:36:02 Post No.16715824
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2016-01-22 09:36:02
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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So I've been talking to this girl. We were talking non-stop a week ago and I heard she really liked me from one of our mutual friends. Had dinner together at this Italian joint on Tuesday and she said she'd be down to do something next week like dinner or something.
Now she felt the need to tell me exactly what plans she had this week like work etc and I've got one message from her since the dinner saying "sorry just finished work :(".
I asked her some stuff about her day and that was 2 days ago. According to her, thurs/friday are her emptiest days.
If you liked a dude, would you ignore him /adv/?
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Is it possible for a person to get a GF/BF with little to no dating whatsoever?
I'm talking like, 0% dating.
If Hanging out doesn't count as dating that is.
Also, another question for both: Why should I ever bother dating?
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Would it be awkward to ask a classmate you don't know very well / had one conversation with if she wants to study for a quiz?
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I am not putting my stuff in the header
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>>16714768
I'm a pathetic fuck because I quit a good job, now I'm a NEET, living at my mum's house.
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I don't feel the motivation to do anything. I've backed out from plans with friends two days in a row now. Two different groups of friends too, like I just don't want to be around people right now. I've been awake for about 4 hours now and all I've done is made breakfast and paced around the house, lost in thought. Why do I feel so empty?
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>>16714851
It could be depression or a vitamin deficiency (cold weather can do that).
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I saw this thread posted by someone else earlier but there weren't many responses and it got archived, so I thought I'd repost it because I'm also genuinely curious and interested in this:
I'd really like to know how other girls are in bed. Mainly when in a relationship.
Can you pls give me some stories?
1. How old are both of you, and how long have/were you together?
2. How was the first time you slept with your gf?
3. What are your fav positions as a couple?
4. What is she into?
5. What gets her off?
6. How compatible is your sex drive?
7. Is she into kinky stuff?
8. Are there things she won't do?
9. What would you wish she'd do differently?
10. What do you like most about sleeping with your girl?
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1. We are both 23. Been together 4 years.
2. It was cool, she initiative and pulled me on top of her.
3. I like her to sit on my lap and fuck me, but she likes it from behind the most.
4. ?? I feel like this and #5 are the same.
5. She really likes it when I suck on her nipples, I can tell.
6. I think we are very compatible, very comfortable with each other.
7. She isn't that freaky. She likes to talk dirty and sometimes will whip out some handcuffs, but thats about it.
8. She hasn't NOT done anything I've suggested.
9. Honestly, nothing.. she's pretty good.
10. I love how her vagina feels and I love her.
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What about from a grill's perspective?
1. I'm 20 and he's about to turn 22. We've been together for 2 years.
2. Honestly, it was incredible, and very romantic. I'd stayed at his place a couple of times before we actually had sex, but we'd agreed to take things slow. Our first time together started off in his spa. We were just kissing and touching each other everywhere, it was very passionate, kind of slow but super intense. We got out and made our way inside to his bed. We didn't fuck that night, we made love. No one had ever made love to me like that before. It was magical. And the cuddles afterwards were really nice too.
3. Missionary with my legs over his shoulders, doggy, doggy with him standing behind me and me leaning over the bed, 69, spooning but we also love it when he gets up into a bit of a kneeling position while I'm still on my side, and cowgirl.
4. Dirty talking, hair pulling, choking, spanking, bdsm (blindfold, handcuffs etc), being dominated and degraded, rape play, anal, head (giving and receiving), public sex, him fucking me when I'm asleep.
5. When he eats me out while fingering me (2 in my pussy, 1 in my ass is fucking great).
6. Super compatible, we have amazing chemistry, and our sex is the best sex we've both ever had, which is saying a lot for him. But sometimes he finds it hard to keep up with me.
7. Yes, see 4 ^
8. I won't stick a finger in his ass or give him a rim job (which he has asked of me a couple of times). Yet.
9. The only thing I'd want him to change is how often he eats me out; not very often. So more often would be nice.
10. Everything. Seriously, everything. But I guess I love when we get really intimate and passionate, and feeling/watching him cum inside me.
Sorry my reply is so long, but I hope it gives you some insight.
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that was my thread. thanks for making a new one. still curious!
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Hey, /adv/,
How can I avoid insane, crazy people. I mean legit. crazy ass insane, not "lol my friends are so crazy and I luv them!"
I meet a lot of people I think are nice, friendly and trustworthy and after a little of getting to know them I realize they behave really threatening, creepy, and socially malfunctional and crazy. It's worse when they decide they have either negative or positive interest toward me.
Very concerned, how do I avoid this? Are there any other psycho magnets here who have dealt with this psychosis and creepery from others?
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Lurking, also need to know
I would say watch for red flags and stay the fuck away anon
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>>16717720
not much else you can do. just ditch asap and then you don't get fucked over when you do realize what's up
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Once heard someone talk about judging sanity of people you just meet.
>act normal initially
End up being crazy and not normal once you get to know them
>seem crazy at first
Usually end up being fairly normal.
Yeah, doesn't make a lot of sense.
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there are two guys in my medical terminology class and six thousand pretty girls with the hair and makeup and water bottles going on about lifting and stuff. like the one water bottle says "LIFT CRAZY OR STAY THE SAME" or something.
anyway it's a long class like 4 hours and sometimes i have to pee. because oh shit the spiro is incidentally a diuretic. incidentally in my case. sometimes it's prescribed as a diuretic, like if you have heart problems. i don't have heart problems i just hate my penis. so one girl is really loud and answers all the professor's hypothetical questions loudly and obnoxiously. she responds more than the rest of the class combined, probably because it's implied that we're not supposed to respond. and i have to pee and other girls do too. she's always one. she like camps out at the bathroom door and stares at me and i feel weird and walk past the bathroom. there are a lot of weird bathroom stories i have. like once i walked into the men's room and some girl said to her friend, "omg she just walked into the men's room."
and another time i walked into the men's room and some crazy guy was like, "hey, this is the men's room." and i'm like okay and i peed at a urinal and he was like oh you look like a girl and i'm like hey thanks this is awkward and i hate myself.
so when i go in there this last time she says, "you shouldn't be in here." i said hey don't worry i'm not here for you. and it was very awkward and i had around her to get to a stall and i was the last person back in class. the professor was obviously waiting for me specifically to get back because once i sat down she started up again. i hate girls.
sometimes i want to die. this is why i drink.
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yeah no.
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You need to see a shrink.
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Cant leave friendzone 2016-01-21 22:20:36 Post No.16713977
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>fall in love with best friend
>throw blatant hints I like her
>she obviously picks up on this
>starts telling me things she doesnt like about me
>telling me things she looks for in guys that are specifically things I dont have
>okayigetit.jpg
>begins telling me about guys she hooks up with
>she sleeps next to me in the same bed (weve platonically done this all the time)
>feel some hope
>later tell me that she hooked up she some guy a little before that
>heart falling apart
>avoid her for several days
>making up excuses not to hang out with her
>only speaking the bare minimum with her
>get several text messages about how Im acting
>she stalks me and corners me. Sits in my lap so I cant escape
>basically saying she doesnt feel Im being fair and we should go back to being best friends
>I give some lame excuse about how nothings wrong
>she kisses me on the cheek and says please
>repeat nothings wrong
>she gives me a quick kiss on the lips and repeats
>about to cave and she picks up on this
>leans in again and I kiss her back this time
>make out for like an hour and I promise to hang out with her later
I just dont think I can do it though. I dont want to feel that shitty again. I feel like she was trying to manipulate me with the kiss. And abuse my feelings since she obviously doesnt feel the same way. But I know that we only made out because we were both hurting and needed some comfort.
What the hell should I do?
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if being friends with someone is shitty, don't do it
just like for her, I would say: if you don't want to fuck someone, don't do it
you're both retards
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>>16713977
have a friend drop you off at her place. your friend waits outside in the car for exactly 15 minutes.
you go in and talk to her, explain that you cannot be friends anymore. you love her. she doesnt love you. and you trying to hold it in will only make it worse.
she will try to argue with you, but in those 15 minutes say 'i know, it sucks, and im sorry, but it has to be this way'. dont engage her points. dont answer her questions. she will try to find some logical loophole as if feelings and logic mix. just repeat the main statement.
15 minutes exactly your friend will knock on the door. he is your extraction team. he has a 'thing' he has to get to and you have to go with him.
you will delete her number from your phone, block her on facebook, and make no contact for 3 months.
you will come over to my place, crack open a beer, and play mario kart while i playfully tossle your hair.
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>>16713987
>if being friends with someone is shitty, don't do it
Its not easy abandoning people you love and have loved (platonically) for years.
Its like youve never cared for another person.
>>16713992
If she corners me again I wont be able to fight her off. My heart wont be able to. Mario kart does sound like fun though but youd have to be a cute girl to play with my hair.
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Any guy here dated a girl with BPD?
Sometimes I'm the center of her attention, other times she can hardly look at me. I know she has issues and can't help it but I don't like being treated like shit.
I really do care about her, perhaps too much.
Any advice appreciated.
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>>16713649
They'll drain your soul and happiness
I'm not joking this time
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>>16713649
crazy girls best sex worst girlfriends
you can't win because you always get attached to them too because the sex is so GOD-DAMN FUCKING GOOD
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>>16713660
Yeah, I'm starting to realize this.
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Just to be clear, women find shy guys to be a turn off, even if they're not ugly or fat, right?
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>>16712843
Yes. Women like to be entertained. A shy guy can never entertain her.
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>>16712843
Shyness is a feminine trait.
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Insecurity and low self esteem isn't attractive to anyone. If you're quiet but secure, it's fine. If you're terrified of speaking with people because you're terrified of people, that's more of a problem.
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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.
Avoid asking these common questions:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.
>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.
>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing
>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.
>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking
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This one's for the men:
How much wood would a woodchuck chuck if a wood chuck could chuck wood?
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Girls
Which is more attractive- A guy riding an R34 (Left) or the Kawasaki Ninja (Right)
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>>16711678
All the wood a woodchuck could chuck if a woodchuck could chuck wood.