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I want to give a compliment to a guy that he'll hopefully remember. Something to really make him happy.

Ideas? (Though of course I won't tell him anything which isn't true - but I think most good tings you could say to a person is probably true for him, in my mind)
I was thinking like "you're the sexiest man I've ever met". How's that?

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Ok so i know im a shirty person for doing this but i have reason

>fiancé sends nudes to some random guy 8 months ago
>we fight and ultimately i stay for our son.
>teust grows back and love to
>she goes out to a work function in the xity and has a hotel room provided to her for it.
>said she was going out with the girls aftwr work function.
>Ii try to call her to say goodnight and ily and other bs.
>no answer so i go eh its past 12 she is still oit with the girls.
>open her ipad and chexk her fb msgs cause in the back of my mind still some trust issues.
See her msgin some random guy she must have met at the work function and send him winky faces saying she was chilling in the bed of her room and decided not to go out with the girls...
>guy replied saying he was on his way up there.

Is this bitch cheating ?
I really want help guys i wanna stay for my kid but if this bitch is cheating im so fucking out .. also getting marries in less then 60 days ...

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

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Does the fact that other people have sex but you can't make you feel jealous? Angry? Resentful?

I feel that way all the time. I'm disillusioned with the over-obsession with sex in our culture. It seems like people who are much uglier than I am can get laid at the drop of a hat, yet I can't even score a girlfriend. It makes me wish they would all die of some super-resistant strain of HIV, because none of them are able-bodied or able-minded enough to breed. It depresses me to the point where I feel like killing myself.

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So I'm a girl, me and my boyfriend are both virgins. I want to have sex so badly and he's said he does too, it's just he's religious and against condoms birth control abortion etc and he wants to wait till marriage to avoid all the risk. I get that but he's so religious he won't even let me give him a hand job or blow job or *anything* and he won't finger me or eat me out or anything either. He's rubbed me out a few times and made me cum almost every time but I feel bad because he won't let me pleasure him at all!!! Is there anything I can do to make him cum without us our clothes off? I've tried everything, grinding on him in my panties with my bra off, rubbing him through his boxers, allowing him to grind against me as hard as he wants wherever her wants, talking dirty... EVERYTHING. But as hard as I can feel he is, he still hasn't came once. Is there anything I can do to pleasure him? He says it's fine but I'm upset...

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

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Long story short,
Girlfriend had an 'experimental' phase. Just found out and had an argument about it. Literally one text away from ending it with her.
Shes crying about how its her past and I pretty much responded with how you have to live with the consequences of your actions. Then some bullshit about how she didnt want me to find out because she knew Id overreact which triggered me more and I said that she's been stringing me along hiding the parts of her that she knew Id never love. Its like she got her defense from some template or something. I wouldnt be surprised if this was the first time this happened.

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Didn't see one in the catalog.

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Are things fucked between me and sam

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How does a 25yo neet virgin shutin ever get a gf?

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

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I'm 32 year old male. I'm a nerdy, lonely sort of guy. I live by myself, have a full time job in IT and I've never had any experience with women until I met my girlfriend. I play video games, love movies, watch anime, I like to collect movies, toys, figures, etc.

I met a woman online, she's 35 at the moment and we hit it off well and we became a couple. She knew going into this that I was a dork. I didn't exactly hide it and she seemed pretty okay with my hobbies.

We've been together for about a year and a half and she wanted to have a serious conversation with me. She said that she loves me and thinks we have a great relationship but she thinks it's time we got really serious.

She said we're both getting old, and we're both childless. We should starting doing things like moving in together and maybe start planning for the future. Seemed okay so far but then it started to get a little more personal.

She said she's had concerns about me since we got together. She said she loves me but my hobbies are 'childish; and 'weird'. She says I'm 32 turning 33 soon and I'm still playing video games and collecting toys. She says my hobbies take up so much of my time and I don't even go out and do normal things.

Then she pointed at my figures, specifically the girl ones and said it's weird that I seem to be attracted to cartoon girls and have these weird perverse statues of girls. She said it makes her uncomfortable and told me it's time I took a hard look at myself and start acting like an adult.

I was pretty taken aback from this, it just seemed to come out of nowhere. I felt kind of bad. She wants me to get rid of all my stuff and start acting more like a guy that wants to be a husband and a dad.

I'm at a loss. I do love her. She's the first woman I ever made a connection with but I like my hobbies. It feels like she's making me choose between her and my hobbies, but maybe she has a point. Maybe I need to grow up.

Should I get rid of everything?

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I'm an Indian girl who is completely insecure. I never felt beautiful in my life and I don't think I ever will. When I show people my insecure side, they would always tell me that I look exotic and I'm "cultural" but they are of course just being nice. I've read a lot about people's preferences on a lot of sites, mostly Reddit and 4chan, and I want to kill myself. No one finds brown girls attractive. A shitton of comments I see are, "I'm primarily attracted to white girls" and whatnot. Nobody has ever said they find Indian girls with brown skin attractive, hell, most people seem to hate India from the bottom of their heart. Some white people I've met treat me inferior, but for some reason, I think it's justified.
I hate dark brown skin. I hate girls with dark brown skin. To me, all of them are ugly, because I've been taught to worship fair skin. Most Indians that I know only seem to blend well with Western people mostly because they look more Caucasian than Indian, and are attractive light-skinned girls. I frankly think I'm scum. Ugly brown girls have no place anywhere, hell not even in my own country, and I want to kill myself.

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Has 4chan also changed your view of men, especially shy, introverted men, drastically for the worst?

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Okay i'm 29, a virgin, masturbate 3 to 5 times a day, makes me angry frustrated and really want sex but I have no clue how to get it safely, All my friends just point me to see a therapist.

So my question is for those who has a similar experience as I do and/or have went to a therapist I would like to know how the experience was for you. Did they help? What did they do? Worth seeing or not?