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Why don't women want to be subservient housewives anymore?

As late as the 60s, most women unironically wanted to be housewives. They looked up to their husbands as providers, protectors of the household and head of the family. They really were content to pop out kids and make house and serve their man.

What went wrong?
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no idea
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>>16732936
>They looked up to their husbands as providers, protectors of the household and head of the family.

Men aren't filling that role anymore. More women are in college than men, and too many young men are interested in loafing around playing video games than having any sort of career ambition.

Women now are only comfortable giving up their careers to raise kids, if the man is successful enough that it makes financial sense for her to do so.
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The nuclear family is a form of social communism. For every working man, a family.

Women don't like this, they want alpha males, do they gravitate towards the more natural Alpha/Beta dynamic. Thus modern dating and sexuality.

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This is hella fucked /adv/. My ex just messaged me telling me she's preg and it's mine. She lied and told me she was infertile all through our relationship. She said she was planning on giving it to adoption and if she keeps it she won't force me to be a part of the kid's life. She won't abort. I'm 18 and she's 17, we aren't ready to have kids. I want nothing to do with this kid. What do and what can I expect? Pic related
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Push her down the 5 step plan OP trust me
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Falcon
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>>16732881
Kek
She also moved to a differenrt state, worth mentioning

One of my female friends just tried to hook me up with a landwhale?

Does this mean I have absolutely no worth with women?
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>>16732140
no.
it just means she owed a land whale a favor.
or got tired of hearing it bitch about wanting a boyfriend.
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>>16732140
>Does this mean I have absolutely no worth with women?

So you lost your wallet?
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>>16732140
Sorta. The landwhale probably was interested in you. Or, if you only just met then yeah she's probably just using you to stifle the bitching for a little bit

But the fun part is leading on the landwhales then friendzoning them

Okay, you guys give me your honest opinion

>Meet pink haired girl in coffee shop
>She is cute, very fiesty.
>We chat and have a deep amazing conversation.
>Exchange phone numbers and text.
>Meet for netflix and chill. Have sex.
>Meet her out on the city one night.
>She introduces me to her bf.
>He is the nicest person ever, buys me a beer.
>Get separated and meet up with just her.
>She come over to my place and we end up in bed again.
>Afterwards we talk about it, I don't remember the details of the conversation, but I remember some of her phrases that made an impact on me.
>"I'm my own person, he doesn't own me"
>"He likes giving me things, he gave me an iphone"
>"Sexuality and feelings are two different things" We have two very different words for this in our language, this isn't translated directly.
>"Well, I'm a lot of woman to handle"

Still talk to her a lot, do you think she would do the same thing to me if I was her bf? She is an amazing person.
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>do you think she would do the same thing to me if I was her bf?
yes
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>>16730421
>pink hair
>is a cheating whore that rationalizes being a shitty person as easily as she breathes air
geez never could have seen that one coming
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>>16730421
Yes. She likes to fuck and isn't ready to settle down with anyone yet. Drop her now unless you want to end up on a babby daddy episode of daytime tv.

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So I'm 24 and my parents are in their early 50s. They want to adopt some syrian inbreed, an idea I find repulsive. Obviously I worry about the inheritance but I also don't want some unwanted, dirty mudblood worm living in my house and touching my things.

How can I convince my parents not to adopt?
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Is this what the kids call bait?
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Your life sounds like a movie ahahhahahah
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>>16728817
With they way your acting, that kid is gonna get 100% of the inheritance

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So i really like this guy. We haven't met yet because i'm really shy. So we text a lot. There are times when he can be really sweet. Then other times he would make sex jokes or whatnot which can make the convo awkward. we have only been talking for about a month or two. Today he wanted to invite me to his house to watch a movie in his room. I wasn't comfortable with the idea and explained why and he understood. He was sad saying that he needs me. I asked why and he said he needed me because i'm sweet, nice and loving and he needs that very much. So my question is, how do i know that he is being honest? I mean he says that and it's nice, but then he makes these sex jokes and it kind of scares me because i really like him and i don't want this to be a huge disappointment by it just being a "sex only" thing. I'm just confused.
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>>16727688
> He was sad saying that he needs me. I asked why and he said he needed me because i'm sweet, nice and loving and he needs that very much.
>he would make sex jokes or whatnot which can make the convo awkward. we have only been talking for about a month or two.

This guy is trying to manipulate you into progressing the relationship further than you're comfortable with at the moment.
Don't go over to his place. Set boundaries. If he's being explicit and you're not comfortable with it, let his jokes bomb and he should stop.

Nice as he seems, this is red flag city OP. Please don't fall for it.
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>>16727688

If he creeps you out don't hang out with him alone in his room. Avoid him.
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>>16727787
Source: 28 year old male who remembers adolescence

He's pulling a classic "nice guy" routine. You seem like a nice person, so don't be taken in by his mindgames.
>Hey OP, I wanna fuck you hard lol
>pls respond
>Hey wanna come over to my place and watch a movie alone in my room?
>No? Oh, I'm sad now. This makes me sad. It's just that I like you so much and you're so sweet and loving, and that means something because I've talked to you a WHOLE month

Nah. Fucking dirtbag OP. Drop him.

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Alright, /adv/,
Is my face attractive? I had anorexia for a few years in high school, still super self conscious. Went from being 200 lb whale to 120 lbs. Slowly gained some weight back, I weigh 135 now, but have been keeping a handle on it and eating healthy.
Anyway, I was just wondering if I'm still ugly. Please be honest but not an asshat.
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Serious? Everyones ugly in one way or another; everyones also beautiful in one way or another.

If your asking on a physical basis; if you spoke to me and i was single - i wouldnt say no.
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get a new haircut and play with make up

Whats your height?

Post more pics
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you are a serious QT, honestly surprised you were formerly a whale. don't stop eating healthy and don't let yourself feel ugly, it sounds like you're doing great OP.

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So long story short I have a small payroll company that employs about two dozen people.

>Friday afternoon
>Everything is going normal
>everyone is getting ready to leave finishing up some accounts, responding to emails etc.
>out of nowhere one of our new employees starts crying
>I've never had anything like this happen in the office before
>fortunately the other women pulled her aside and comforted her before she became too much of a distraction
>find out by the end of the day from some other employees she was crying because of relationship troubles

I found this to be incredibly unprofessional and I want to fire her. I live in Tennessee which is an "employment by will state". So technically I can fire someone for any reason whatsoever, but people have gotten sued over less and lost before. Is there anything I can do to keep myself and my company safe? Thanks. Pic unrelated
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>>16727322
Are you joking? You can't fire someone for crying. Not only is it morally wrong, but you'd get blasted in court, and be labeled a sociopath by your community.
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>>16727322
If she's new, you could, I don't know, try having the slightest bit of this thing called compassion? I'm not saying to always forgive, but for this early point in her job.
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>hiring women
this was your first mistake

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Hey guys, I just want to take a survey about the correlation between the number of sexual partners and cheating. There are already studies out there that show a connection but I want to take a survey here.

1) how many sexual partners did you have?
1) have you ever cheated on a significant other?
3) if you have cheated on someone before, have you done it more than once?

I've been dating my bf for 6 months. He slept with 14 women, whereas I slept with 3 men. He also goes out drinking and seeks thrilling experiences. I think he has a propensity to cheat (cheated on a past gf one time) so I want to know my risk. Please feel free to write any stories or experiences you had. Thank you!
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13.
Yes
No.
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>1) how many sexual partners did you have?
2
> 2) have you ever cheated on a significant other?
No.
3) if you have cheated on someone before, have you done it more than once?
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My boyfriend slept with many girls (I didn't even ask how many), never cheated. He's very honest and I know he wouldn't cheat on me. Like, he tells me if a girl hits on him, whoever he is with, and whatever he does. All of this without me asking. Past partners do not matter THAT much.
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>>16726032

Partners: 2
Cheating: never, unless being sexually assaulted counts

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I need some real advice guys. My teacher has a porn video floating through the web that got her fired from her old teaching job. Would leaving her an anonymous letter telling her to raise the grades if a couple students, me included, or I'll release it to her superiors,husband,etc be effective in her changing my grade?
Are the risks too high?
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Blackmail is usually never a good idea, especially when your name is involved.

What if she went to the police and mentioned that one of her potential students would be responsible for the leak? It wouldn't be difficult for the police to track down the uploader after that.

Honestly, your best bet is to just get her fired if she's a shitty teacher.

This is if you don't have a shred of guilt fucking over someone's life. Though I think that's funny that she got fired for being in a porno.
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>Would leaving her an anonymous letter telling her to raise the grades if a couple students, me included, or I'll release it to her superiors,husband,etc be effective in her changing my grade?

This isn't going to get you a better grade. Nor is it going to help you in the long run. Just study. Are you really that lazy to the point where you're actually considering blackmailing your teacher?
That's such a crazy escalation, and it's going to cause more problems than it's worth.
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>>16725887
It's too late finals are approaching and grades will close in about 2 weeks.
>>16725864
I most likely wouldn't leak it digitally since that leaves a trace anyway.

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I'm juggling 2 fuck buddies and a girlfriend who don't know about each other. there's also this other girl who I'm infatuated with and trying to bang who is taking up a lot of my time.

Valentines day is coming up and the 3 girls are gonna get pissed when I reject them for an excuse I haven't thought of yet.

What's a good excuse to not spend Vday with a girl?
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>>16724886
Spent day in the ER from some bad sandnigger resturant
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Other than vday how do you manage the girls. I have a similar problem but they like to look at my phone and it fucks up occasionally
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>>16724886
Why don't you dump all three of them? That will save both you and them some time and effort.

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Started to get a little lonely.

20, work 90 hours a week, work from home, no co workers.

I go to the grocery store or the gym and I see cute girls around my age, get their numbers, sometimes we fuck.

But it seems like there are no 16-20 year old girls that just want to settle down and have some kids.

It's sad.

Am I looking in the wrong places?

I want a live in maid pretty much, that is willing to do cooking/cleaning you know, like an hour a day in exchange for complete security in her life, knowing she won't ever be hungry, or alone, or homeless, or poor.

It just seems impossible. Everytime I meet a girl my age, they're going to college or something, which is huge deal breaker.

Girls seem not to take me seriously once they find out my age, because they think it's impossible for a 20 year old to have a good, high paying job because all the 20 year olds they know are broke college kids that can't find 2 nickels to rub together.

Since when is there a deficit of women that want kids?

I had a 18 year old I was fucking tell me I'm perfect and she loves me but 'I'm too young to settle down with'

What the fuck? I'm older than you.

Or girls that don't know how to cook and stuff like that.
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you basically need to find a girl with traditional values

church is probably a good place

another option is to search dating apps girls that specifically tell you that they want to settle down
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>>16724696

I don't like dating apps. I think it's a meme.

Church is a good idea.

My problem with dating apps is the time investment, if I meet a girl, in person, and I ask for her number, I can look in her eyes and see if she likes me or not.

Dating app is pixels on a screen, I don't want to swipe swipe swipe and then meet someone who likes me because they like my face
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>Am I looking in the wrong places?

yes

there are countries where it's more common for girls to settle down at a younger age, cook for you and etc

if you live in the US or basically any western country, it will be very rare to find someone

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Guys don't like clingy girls, do they? (not asking virgin guys)

I worry guys only want to cuddle and be clingy if sex is going to happen. Not just for it on its own, and not in a "daylight" kinda way.
Is that true, in your experience?
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Partially true.

I'm happy to clingy and cuddle with my gf and sex doesn't have to happen.
But with a girl I'm not in a relationship with and she has no intention of being in relationship with me then it is a waste of my time.
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>>16724018
>waste of my time
Wait what? How so?
And if it's a waste of time then, why isn't it with your gf?
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Maybe you should date girls.

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Im in a very serious relationship with my fiance that Ive been with for almost 5 years. We live together and are each others best friend. Biggest problem is our sex life is pretty much dead. Most of you would complain about going 3 weeks without fucking. Its been about 6 months I think. Her sex drive the past 4 years has just about been eradicated since we first started living together. Sex used to be daily, but now she either feels not in the mood, or feels too awkward, or uncomfortable. We have talked about this issue constantly and it always ends in a fight. She says that she still wants me and wants to have a normal sex life again, but I just dont know what can be done to change things. My sex drive hasnt changed at all in the past 5 years. I am a very sexually desiring man that is starving for sexual attention and have no where to direct my desires. Ive had to resort to using porn (without her knowing since she views it as sort of cheating). Its so bad that I cant even fantisize about her, not because I dont find her beautiful and arrousing, but because the concept of sex with her is so outside the realm of reality for me right now that its just too ridiculous to even be a fantasy for me.

What do? I love her dearly, and she does me. We are each others best friend and are very co-dependent of each other, in many ways.

Picture unrelated. I needed to have a picture to post.
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You thrust your gigantic meat stick into her left nostril and call upon the minions of King Methuselah until she bursts into horny flames.
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>>16722896
Either castrate yourself or get out of the shit relationship.
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>>16722909
LOL loser can only think with his dick.

how do I get a bf
do I have to wear makeup and nice clothing
do guys like girls that play video games and watches anime
>tfw your a massive weeb and has never had a in real life relationship before
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My friend's a quiet, semi-autistic introverted Pokemon nerd who never wears makeup and lives in jeans and tshirts, and she has a boyfriend.
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>>16722399
>be female
>get bf
It's literally that easy.
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>>16722399
So, do you eat right and work out?
Do you live by yourself or with parents/roommates?
Are you in high school or college or do you have a job?

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