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Do girls watch porn? Be honest.
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Once or twice a month maybe.
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A lot do and a lot don't. Some prefer to read porn, some prefer to watch it. Every girl is different.

Personally, I prefer reading it but will occasionally watch it, depending on how horny I am/how quickly I can find the right vid/story.

I don't really need porn to get off though. The last time I watched porn was over a month ago with my bf. The last time I read it was a few days after I think.
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>>16711041
Yes, my girlfriend told me she watched porn and a few friends who are girls told me they do too

>have gf of 2.5 years
>find out she's cheated on me 3 different times (3 different guys) that I know of
>as far as I know nothing was physical
>just flirty texts and one date
>continue to date her cause I don't want to be lonely
>recently there's been no trust in this relationship and I've been incredibly depressed
>every time we've talked about she just blames it on me
>still says she loves me and even that she wants to move in with me soon

I know most people would gtfo the moment I found out she was cheating. I'm terrified of being by myself since I've never as much as flirted with another girl in my life. However recently my depression has been really bad since the thought of being cheated on again is killing me. I'm not sure if I should get out and face being lonely or commit my life to being a cuck. My GF is beautiful and I still love her. Moving in with her would be nice too since we still get along well and she has a great job.
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Jesus dude stop being a fucking cuck. Dump the shit out of her and work on your pathetic self.

>b-but I will be lonery :(:(:(
Grow the fuck up.
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>>16710717
holy shit dude, don't move in with her. i had to add that onto what >>16710734 said as i'm on board with him, just like everyone else in the world would be
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>>16710734
>>16710739
I just don't see how being alone is better than getting laid regularly and going on dates and stuff. But yea I totally get you guys are saying.

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How do you know if you're in love?
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>>16709652
You want to spend time with them when your dick isn't hard.
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For me it's when i suddenly realize that all the cheesy songs suddenly make sense
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>>16709664
This.

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I'll spill my beans here. I'm on an edge of suicide.

I was a prodigy child - always had all 5's (the best grade in my country), won lots of mathematics competitions, played guitar.
Now I'm 18, I'm not a prodigy anymore. I'm not depressed all the time, but I'm just unmotivated and feel hopeless and worthless.

I don't drink. I smoke weed occasionally because I like it.
I did a few lines of speed a few days ago and that's when I saw my life for what it could be - I have a really huge amount of free time, and all I need to do is to use it for something useful - programming, music composition, reading, anything... But instead I'm sitting here shitposting on 4chan while my head hurts and I can't concentrate on anything more serious than a /fit/ thread.

I don't want to be "happy" - I really couldn't care less, I'm used to feel low. I just want to have more energy and concentration.

How do I get more energy and concentration? More amphetamines are NOT an option. I'm a poorfag.
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Become a homosexual, literally the pleasures that lay within your anus will change everything. You will be motivated and awakened after a mans seed is sown inside your cheeks.
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odakle si?
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Lower your expectations for yourself. It's irrational to think because you were good at school you're just going to blaze through adult life with the same ease.

Everyone goes through stages like this anon. Just remember that you're not your achievements alone.

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Is there any hope for a trans woman in the middle of transition who wants to date mostly straight men?

I'm such a person, 20 yrs old (6 months on full-dose hormones) and while I don't pass over half the time I don't look like a "man in a dress," just an androgynous individual. For a while I had almost zero sex drive, but now it has resurfaced. I feel incredibly pessimistic about any prospects for dating guys that aren't chasers. As a corollary question, what tips do you have for a girl that has never dated for flirting/letting someone know you're interested?

The picture is not me, it's just to give you an idea of how far along I am (i might even look a little more feminine).

Thanks in advance.
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Most straight men, especially in conservative areas, won't think of you as a woman.
I'd say your best bet might be (straight or bi) FTMs or bi men honestly. While there are straight men who date trans women without fetishizing, they're vanishingly rare. Sorry.
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>>16709409
are you the guy posting about his HIV recently?

Just faced kid, nobody wants you.
Straight men want to fuck woman.
Gay men want to fuck men.
You are left only with the deviants who actually are attracted girls with penis. However for that you actually have to be attractive. If you are not, there's not much to do.
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>>16709409
We'll let's see a picture of you cause I'm straight.

but the normal man will disgusted by what you are cause what your doing goes against nature and how do you expect to love someone when you couldn't love yourself.

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Why do women do this?
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Exact same reason guys do.
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>Joy division
>Radiohead
Red flags.

Why do nice guys do this to themselves?
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>>16709342
Desperate attempt to gain companionship.

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Question to girls:

How do you personally view quiet men?

If you are intrigued by them or mildly attracted etc, does this curiosity always eventually turn to repulsion and the feeling that he is just boring?

If anybody is willing to give some further advice based on the context of my life right now I'd appreciate it. I'm suffering right now and I'm spending hours each day double-guessing myself and the girl I am extremely attracted to.

Thank you.
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>>16709106
>How do you personally view quiet men?
dealbreaker
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It's more about confidence than how much you talk. If you're all meek about everything and seem unsure of yourself, most woman will hate that and into the friendzone you go.
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Not a girl, but here is how it works


Good looking quiet guy
>mysterious, dark, intriguing, brooding, bad boy, has character

Ugly quiet guy
>loser, virgin, is he planning to rape me?? CREEP!!

Why do white guys lust after Asian girls (like me)?
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A lot of guys I've met with yellow fever have this idea that asian women are meek and submissive
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>>16708795
>that picture

Ugh, I have no idea. That woman looks like a FAS baby.
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>>16708795
>>16708815
This. or just because its different from the norm.

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3 days ago i was walking home from work and these 4 white guys across the street started to yell racist insults at me, loud enough that could hear them over my headphones and i took one off and I could hear them yelling 'fucking beaner' and 'these fucking spics' I made the mistake of looking over at them across the street then one of them runs across the street and punches me in the face, and brakes my glasses.

the others must have ran across the street and one of them kicked me in the arm before leaving.

unfortunately this has not been the first time this has happened to me. 3 mouths ago I got harassed and spat at on a public bus by a woman for "being a illegal immigrant" even though I was born here. The bus driver called the security but nothing happened and they told me to let it go, and the woman was crazy and old.

when I was a kid this never really seemed to come up as much, but ever since I entered high school everyone in the town I live in seems to hate me for being Mexican.

now I cant even walk to work and back without having to fear that i'll be attacked again.

I really really want to move out of the united states, i hate living here. it seems like everywhere you go, you have to fear for your life. the more i try to just blend in, the harder it become.

I guess I just came here to vent.
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>>16708481
I was born in the US.
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Move to a better neighborhood.
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>>16708481
You stupid cockmuncher. Shut your fucking mouth.

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I'm a celebrity, and no I will not name myself here. I'm tired of this lifestyle. I just want to give up all my life's earnings, and go into hiding and fade out of popularity.
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donate your money, move to another country and live in the country side.

What do you even need advice for?
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>>16708043
I haven't been in the limelight my entire life. I remember thinking how much I would hate it, but it happened to me, and I just need to know how to acclimate back to being a normal person.
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>>16708049
I mustn't reveal anymore, for it would betray my anonymity.

any tips to improve facial aesthetics?
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>>16707621

Haircut

learn to smile as your default expression instead of letting your face sit slack - not like, creepy, but just to look like you feel comfortable in your situation

Body language and how you carry yourself will take you further than you think. I realize this is less face related though.

pic related: not how to smile.
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6/10
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>Looks like a black Bruce Lee
Lucky bastard.

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This is long, but it's really something that needs to be addressed. I'm a white male, 22. My gf is indian, almost 22. We have been together for 2 years when the following story took place: Throughout her life, her parents have been bringing her up in the indian culture they follow... Without her even knowing. Essentially, their culture dictates she needs to be in an arranged marriage with an indian male.

In general, her parents have been strict, so she was scared what they might think of her having a bf. Last August, when I secretly went to visit, as I did every so often, they caught us holding hands in town. They basically told her she had to decide between me and her family, and if it were me then she was effectively kicked out of the house, once she had enough money to move out. The dad hasn't spoken to her since. I continued to visit in secret such as at christmas to give her a necklace, pretending she had to work that day because her parents don't give her permission to leave otherwise. However, by this point we have entered the 'limbo' state of the situation. My gf is left to make this choice. She said she would move out this July, after doing some exams she wanted to take. That's fine I can wait. However, she seemed to misunderstand the situation and lived in hope that things would resolve themselves. So we're in 'limbo' where the situation is just at a stand still with nothing happening. Before I went to visit at christmas, she asked if she could come to the area I live in, pretending to visit friends. Her parents of course said no, hence why I went to see her.

[Continued in first comment]
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[Continued]
Fast forward to a few days ago. Her birthday's coming up and she asked again to come to my area. Instead of saying no, they re-stated the entire 'kicking her out' thing, and followed up by her mum now also not talking to her (except of course to use her discount at the store she works at), as well as both parents giving her angry stares when she enters the room. This sent her once again into a depressed state. Pretty much every week or so since this all went down, she'd get depressed and cry a lot for a few days. It's gotten the point where she has finally admitted that it is mental torture. She is absolutely terrified of her parents. What they're doing is essentially illegal now. I think she's finally starting to realise the reality of the situation. Instead of leaving in July she's thinking of leaving in March after her driving test. However, she still cares about her parents and doesn't want to lose them from her life forever. But at the same time, she's also said that even if I wasn't her bf, she still wouldn't go along with the culture she was seemingly forced into.

Now for the advice. What the fuck do I do here? I think the behaviour of the parents could warrant a police call, but I couldn't do that behind her back, but if I told her, I don't think she'd want me to. Doing some research on the culture, I've come to understand that reason, emotions, and general social constructs are irrelevant when their 'honour' is at stake. That is, the family 'honour' of abiding by this backwards ass conventions. I don't care what culture you are, any culture that promotes this sort of behaviour and narrow-minded thinking is just wrong. It's an absolute injustice. How dare you try take control of someone's life to this extent, let alone doing it through pathetic, childish fear-tactics. All in all, I'm at a loss for words. I'll support my gf whichever decision she chooses as long as she is happy with it.

So any advice, /adv/?
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>>16706807
>In general, her parents have been strict, so she was scared what they might think of her having a bf. Last August, when I secretly went to visit, as I did every so often, they caught us holding hands in town. They basically told her she had to decide between me and her family, and if it were me then she was effectively kicked out of the house, once she had enough money to move out. The dad hasn't spoken to her since. I continued to visit in secret such as at christmas to give her a necklace, pretending she had to work that day because her parents don't give her permission to leave otherwise. However, by this point we have entered the 'limbo' state of the situation. My gf is left to make this choice.

shes a grown fucking woman. If she thinks you're worth it, she'd get kicked out, find a job to support herself, and be with you.

They are trying to use financial leverage. If you were adults you wouldn't let that shit slide. So I guess the answer is tell her its off, because neither of you can make that kind of adult decision. Sneaking around is for kids.
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Indian here. There's nothing YOU can do about it except support her if she needs your support. Also I don't quite see what part of what they're doing is supposedly illegal

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Are there any girls on here that feel like cumming is a nesessity.

I feel that cumming is a nessssity. So do you think that you can just stop cumming alltogether, or do you need to cum

This helps me understand females
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>>16706785
Some girls masterbate 3 times a day so im not sure if they can stop
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I don't think I would call cumming a "necessity" to me.
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>>16706785
Is it a necessssssssity for you?

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>Get out of long-term relationship with porn addict
>Would tell me about all the things that were wrong with me and show me the girls I should look like
>Would break off plans with me to look at porn instead or cam girls (after 3 years of dating)
>In a new relationship
>Porn is terrifying now

I know that basically all dudes look at porn or at least hot girls, but every time I even think about it or see a hint of my boyfriend looking at other girls, I feel like killing myself.

How do I get over this?
How do I become okay with the fact that my boyfriend watches porn?
How do I become comfortable with myself and not feel like I'm a worthless, disgusting, piece of trash who will never please a man?
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>>16706527
The reason men look at pornography is the same reason why women would cheat on them. Believe me. I'm trying my best to get past it for the betterment and lie to myself to encourage myself that I've defeated the addiction. Also I'd please her more than her trying to please me.
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>>16706536
You are not a worthless, disgusting, piece of trash who will never please a man, period.
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>>16706536
>The reason men look at pornography is the same reason why women would cheat on the

I tried my best not to believe this

I would never cheat on my boyfriend, that's deplorable

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Before you post a question, check here to see if it's already been answered
Keep your questions short and sweet for more answers.
And please no derailing arguments.

Avoid asking these common questions:

>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
Some do, some don't. Our answers are not going to help you.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Think positive, and get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it.

>I like someone. What do I do?
Ask them out.

>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Is my body part big/small enough?
>Am I short/tall enough?
Most likely

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. Stop overthinking it.
Alternative answer: we don't fucking know.

>XYZ happened. Did I fuck it up with this guy/girl?
Maybe, maybe not. We're not in their head, we don't know. No amount of your walls of text will fix that.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing

>Would you date a virgin?
As long as they aren't insecure about it. Complexes are a total turn-off.

>Someone has made it abundantly clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>

>That one guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships
No one wants to cuddle you. Stop asking

>Brandon or Female Brandon
Piss off.

>Who is Brandon/Female Brandon?
A shitposter who's convinced he's ugly. He keeps posting his picture to ask if he's ugly and to ask for dating advice, only to rebut or ignore any responses he gets. Female Brandon is a girl who pulls the same shit.

>Frog
Also piss off.

Old thread >>16703311
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My gf broke up with me 2 days after she talked to her parents about her sexual assault. The confession was very traumatic for her, aand she associates me with it. I've left her alone for the past week, but should I do to get her back?
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>be me
>virgin
>in love with girl
>shes slept around a bit
>he amazing loving sex
>suddenly feel dirty and disgusted with her past
>break up
>start sleeping around
>she wants to get back together
Women should I do it. We were like in love but I couldnt get over it so I ended it. She really wants to get back together but I feel like thats not something easily done. Theres a lot more to the story but basically if shes willing to try then so am I. Do you think she really wants to get back together and give it a genuine try or is this just going to turn into hatred later.
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Gonna break up with my girl just because I'm not feeling it anymore. To her it'll come as a big shock as I've kept my inner turmoil about this. How do I deal with her reaction?

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