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Assuming you used a condom, it's likely the condom's lubricant. Got a shirt stained with that shit.

>>16773202
I did use lube but no condom

>>16773158
Could be the start of her period. Sometimes my guy ''activates'' it, because he is so damn deep in me.

Only if he fucks them afterwards. No sex no cheating.

>>16773155
Not really... well, it depends...

Did he try to get the nudes or she just send them out of the blue or what?

Because if she's just sendin' them out creeper style, that'd be like some dude showing you pictures of his wang then you gettin' blamed for it.

But if the guys actually tryin' to get nudes... it's a grey area. On one hand... it's pretty much porn... on the other, there is a little more interaction with the person involved and it could be a risk that progressively gets worse.

So, I guess I'd say that you need to assess the situation OP... is the dude involved actually making an effort with this girl or she tryin' to seduce him?

Relationships all have their own individual boundaries. The receipt of nudes isn't necessarily cheating, but I would say it's a norm that asking for them is.

He can't help it if bitches are thirsty and send shit unbidden - if that's what happened.

>>16773131
bruh, how long do you last during sex then

yes you should get that checked out

If I'm seeing a good porn and masturbate pretty fast I can do the same too.

Maybe try slowing down a little bit?

>>16773121
>Actually believing any of that shit
OP please.

30y old here

world is hypocrite so as the persons who live in it

we came to realize it too late

how do i get wife kids love?

Why do you want to commit suicide, OP?

Seriously, if you're not terminally ill you may as well get psychiatric help instead.

>>16773119

Because I've gotten rejected from each college I've applied to so far, even my safeties and where my father and brother went. I realize know that I'm not as smart or useful as I thought I was so I won't be able to complete anything when I'm older.

Fuck you for not being considerate to those who are around you.

>>16773083
They have friends and meet people through those friends.

You know those real life activities that surround us? almost all of them involve meeting new people. Go to a cafe, meet a waitress, go play darts, go to an event at a club, meet girls, go to a Chinese language class, girls again. There's hardly any escape.

You make friends without the internet right? it's a bit like that.

>>16773118
I don't really know. I go to uni but no chance of meeting girls there. Its just go to lecture and then go back home. I have two friends and I've known them since childhood pretty much. I don't get friends either and I'm not sure how other people does it.

I get well along with people in group assignments for example. Going beyond that formal interaction? I have no ide how that is done.

Maybe your so hung up on your hight it affecting your social skills?

>>16773077
I know it's hurting my confidence, that's for sure. I think my social skills are better than they've ever been, though.

I work in technology/software so the only way to meet women is online where they can be a lot more picky, though.

Do you leave your height off your profile so they don't immediately disregard it. Is that misleading?

>>16773072
Kill yourself, since you fucks never seem to learn.

Oh shit, the new guy messed up big time. You never discuss your salary.

Yeah, new people sometimes get paid more. Sometimes people that work really hard get paid less than what appears to be lazy slobs.

Either get a new job or shut up because it's not going to change for the better.

>>16773067
it's because he's a contractor probably. Contractors get way more money in exchange for less job security. Otherwise that's some bullshit. On the bright side HR will be none too happy that he's talking about pay levels with coworkers so expect to see his ratings go down lol. Just remember that they will remember you as the one who came to them to ask that and they may be none to happy with you for talking about it either

Yup. Happens all the time.
The only answer is to start looking and be the guy doing the negotiating somewhere else.

1 month minimun.
i would go as far as 2 periods and try to not drink before coitus

alcohol reduces effectivity

>>16773071
i would like to add:
the last 2 weeks of your cycle still carry some degree of danger. so i woulndt have sex without condom unless your partner its extremelly experienced. the first 2 weeks are more ok than the last two.
dont ler men cum inside, i mean thr full load

>>16773071
>1 month minimun.
This is correct. You really might want to wait two full months (i.e. two full cycles) so that your body is fully on the BC program. BC isn't 100% even when used correctly, so just keep using condoms in the meantime. It's much better than pregnancy/abortion.

>alcohol reduces effectivity
This is not correct. You might be thinking of antibiotics. Alcohol consumption does not affect effectiveness of BC.

Pain, misery, and suffering.

That, and a miniscule paycheck.

You didn't sign up with the intention of using Uber as an actual job, right?

>>16773262
Why the fuck else would he do it?

http://www.howcast.com/videos/39952-how-to-take-a-shower/

Do you have a vagina?

It takes me years to get ready.

Wake up
Floss
Put spoonful of coconut oil in mouth for oil pulling (constantly swish around until spit out)
Shave face
Shower (shampoo, soap, conditioner)
Towel hair
Body lotion all over
Face moisturizer
Clean ears with Q-tips (don't do this)
Get dressed
Spit out coconut oil
Brush teeth
Blow dry hair
Style hair
Clean glasses
Jewelry

Then brush teeth again later in the day

At night wash face, brush teeth, moisturizer face

Once a week epilate legs
Shave arms/armpits/naughty bits when there's time few times a week in shower
Pluck eyebrows few times a week
Probably some other stuff

>>16772961
If only there was some technology where you could input a question that would search for relevant information. Gosh... That would be neat.

Forgive me my typo's, I'm not used to typing long bits with my phone.

>>16772707
>I always thought I'd be able to fight my way out should I ever have to.
It's perfectly normal. Not everyone can be brave. Clearly you're a coward who was never tested till now on account of his size. At the first sign of trouble, you got scared. You'll just have to live with knowing that.

>>16772803
He could just take a class on personal defense or join a boxing gym to build confidence.

tyrone doesn't think she is so boring when you two have an argument and you leave your home

>>16772647
what do you do that is so interesting? obviously i dont know you but often people attract other with similar interests.

>I went out for a couple of beers after work tonight and she knew I didn't want to stay in. Get home, as per usual she is in her pyjamas and lying watching TV.

Important point, she asked me what time I would be in (as in leave work and come home) and I said for her to give me a reason to come home (I.e. Organise something just us two, or with friends) as I really didn't want to just watch TV.

Give up the self pity kick and grow some fucking self respect.

He will throw you away again as soon as anybody gives him any amount of attention.

He made vows to you and broke them blatantly with no regard to you and your connection.


If you stay with him, you will get cheated on again and you'll have it coming because you'd rather "be altruistic" to somebody with no respect for their wife. Face it, you're scared to be alone. You will be with him.

You shouldn't really allowing back into your life.
He is an asshole and doesn't deserve anyone to be honest.
That said you are past your prime and you'd probably couldn't find someone else to spend your life with.
So get used to being cucked.

>>16772466
dump him

>>16772456
You are like me.
what you need is not a way to know for sure if people like you
I'ts to learn to stop caring about it
good luck

>>16772469
Yeah this. Whether they hate you or not is beyond your control and irrelevant to how you should act.

Why do you care so much about it anyways?

>>16772480
Because I've often avoided people assuming they don't like me off of baseless shit. Here's an example, I was friends with this one dude but I thought his friends didn't like me so I didn't really hang around him since he was always with them. I only learned recently they that actually did and I missed out because of it.

I've also had the opposite happen where I hang around with people thinking they like me only for it to turn out they didn't and just didn't tell me. You feel like an absolute fucking retard when that happens.