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How do you deal with never being able to be taken seriously due to your appearance?
How do you deal with having people constantly pointing out how ugly you are on a daily basis?
How do you deal with going though the efforts to learn new talents, join new hobbies and do all that "better yourself" shit only find it all pointless because at the end of the day you're disgusting to the eye?
How do you deal with knowing that some people don't even acknowledge you because of how ugly you are?
How do you deal with falling for the "workout, it'll help" meme when it did absolutely nothing at all?
How do you deal with being called a 14 year old when you're 21, 5'11" (Yeah, I know it's not that tall) and you have a deep voice?
How do you deal with girls STILL laughing at you and calling you ugly when you're only just trying to talk to them?
How do you deal with being "an entitled fuck" when even the ugliest of girls put you down the same way because you are just that undesirable?
How do you deal with being ugly?
For the majority of my life I couldn't care less about relationships, I mean, the thought of them were nice but I was pretty much preoccupied with school, playing piano, drawing and skating with friends. Now that I'm 21 I'd like to be in a relationship, only problem is I'm fucking ugly. What do I even do? Should I even try?
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>How do you deal with falling for the "workout, it'll help" meme when it did absolutely nothing at all?
You didn't lift hard enough.
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oh look this thread again. lets respond with real advice even though OP will never take it.
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>>16765241
What advice can you give? I've pretty much done everything I could do.
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So let's say you're waiting for the class to start with your classmates, but you don't know anyone, because you're new to this university. Everyone is talking to each other, and you're standing nearby, looking at the floor/wall/ceiling.
Is it inappropriate to do so? How does a normal human being behave when they're in a situation like this? Others have told me that I should look at my classmates, but wouldn't that come off as staring, and therefore be considered rude?
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just make small talk you fucking autist
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I am same so will follow. I honestly don't give a fuck and hate small talk. People are boring and full of themselves and I don't have the energy to fuel that. It does make me feel lonely in the long term, though.
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>>16765112
hint: you do give a lot of fucks
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>join church religious group with friend because I have none and its something to do maybe meet a girl or something
>friend today asks me if I raised my hand to be saved during one of the services
>legitimately do not remember I was barred out and high as fuck on opiates
>say idk maybe what does that mean
>apparently it means you are indoctrinated unwittingly into the cult
>wants me to go knocking on doors tonight to see if people want to go to the service or some shit
Idk what the hell I signed myself up for, on one hand it could be good by meeting new people and friends and such, on the other I might be doing a lot of monotonous work I could really give a shit less about. I can only go out on twice a week because the drugs I have to take make me real sick for most of the week. What do?
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>>16765023
>it could be good by meeting new people and friends and such,
You are not going to make friends by knocking on people's doors proselytizing. It is not a popular way to introduce yourself. Frankly surprised you don't realize this.
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Join a less culty church, like a Methodist or baptist church. If ur only in it to meet girls that are relatively sane then that's the place to go. You won't be forced to knock on doors. Most bap or meth churches are pretty casual these days
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>>16765036
No I mean like within the church community, I know those people wont be my friends
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Desperate brainstorming 2016-02-03 18:59:56 Post No.16764886
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This is gonna be a talk with an imaginary psychologist, so it'll be a little long read.
>pic unrelated, i just like nice butts
I'm under stress. I'm constantly worrying about myself, future, and where is my life heading.
Why exactly?
First thing that comes to my mind - I lack self-discipline, as in forcing myself to do something I don't enjoy. I was never good at doing stuff I didn't feel joy in, but it's gotten worse and worse over last few months - I'm smoking weed and railing speed every other weekend and that's basically my reason of living. I just want to get high and enjoy the feeling.
I hate real life.
But let me give you a little background on me.
I'm an eighteen years old male, living in a second-world country, studying electroengineering. Used to be the best student in primary and high school, now the major drug use has taken it's toll - brain fog and lack of motivation make me lethargic and apathetic all the time.
I haven't had a girlfriend for like half a year, and it's because I intentionally avoid girls. I can't get my mind off my ex-gf, and I lost several high-quality girls because they realized it, so I stopped chasing until I get better.
My ex was the girl I loved to pieces, and I lost her to heroin. I haven't spoken to her for almost a year now.
>post too long, continued in comments
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>snap back to reality
I'm worried because my friends from math competitions from primary school are going on some high-end colleges right now, getting offers from UK and USA colleges to come and study. And I'm still here in ****** smoking weed because it's the only thing I enjoy.
I used to enjoy doing math, programming, learning stuff... Now the only way I can feel something is by smoking a blunt or railing a line or taking a pill. I'm even thinking about doing heroin since it's relatively cheap and it's one of the strongest opiates out there - but I'm aware of dangers so I most likely will never do it.
I would like to clear this fog, to cure this pain that holds me like a chain every single day, I would like to get back on track to make something out of myself while it's still not too late...
What is the way?
Since I don't plan on developing any self-discipline (it's not that I didn't try, I just suck at it), one of the possible ways would be to make productivity pleasurable. But how the fuck can I make those dreaded activities, such as learning about principles of UPS-es, pleasurable? I never felt pleasure from studying. I don't want to. I don't want to... I don't want to do anything.... I just want to rail a line and die.....
...but when I rail a line, I don't even want to die, I want to live - I feel on the top of the world, like all my problems disappear and I'm an other person completely...
Fuck. This feels like a cage. I don't want to see a psychologist, since I most probably possess the power in my brain to fix it all for myself, but I'm a lazy bitch who just whines because he doesn't want to do anything about his life.
>but anon you have so much potential and you owe yourself to make your life better
FUCK YOU.
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>>16764887
Anyways, /adv/, what would you do in my situation?
Since I don't want to do anything in life, the most obvious answer would be not to do anything in life. That easy.
But I'm terrified of real life. Whenever I have to go out and tangle with the system (seek personal documents, get an ID, get a driver's licence) I go through a traumatic, stressful experience...
If any of my stupid druggie friends actually got me some strong benzos I wouldn't be alive by now. But no, all they can get is those fucking 1,5mg Lexaurins. I would need to take 3 packages to get anywhere near the lethal dose.
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>>16764894
first of all, stay the fuck away from heroin.
Second of all, if you've lost your joie de vivre then you need to get the fuck out of your current circumstances and make a change. You're unhappy because you don't want to do your degree anymore and you're unhappy because your friends all still want to do it and are being successful at it. Why do you feel like you have to do the same thing that everyone else is doing? Go out into the world and find your real passion, make a change - go travel for awhile, meet new and interesting people, change your perspective on what you want out of life. Drugs are a shitty substitute for a life well-lived.
>terrified
I would be so much more terrified of rotting away in my comfort zone if I were you. You're going to have to grow some balls and do these things and tell your sense of discomfort to fuck off. I get that this shit is hard, hell I struggle with it too. But it's got to be done, because even if you don't realize it, this is a life-and-death struggle you're in.
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My best friend's roommate who she was very close to just got into a car accident and might be dying. Fingers crossed that he doesn't. She hasn't heard anything from him and visiting hours are over. How the fuck do I comfort her?
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Bump cause she's freaking out over text and I dunno what to say
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>>16764790
It's a guy? Ask her if she banged him and is feeling remorse?
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Ok so night before last my boyfriend told me that he is intrested in 12 to 28 year old girls and told me that if an under aged girl said she wanted to do things with him that if the settings were right that he would accept, I really love him and don't want this to destroy our relationship. I'm just so conflicted and confused, what should I do?
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>>16764697
uhh, so he wants to have sex with other girls? Why are you insecure about age, does it even matter? He'll proly do that without you anyhow, so either have threesome, dump him or talk it out.
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He's essentially admitted to being a pedophile who, under the right circumstances, would break the law.
It all depends if this is OK with you.
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>>16764697
So he's basically telling you outright that if he has the chance to cheat on you he'll do it. No point in talking to him about it, because he already has his mind made up, unless you're to tell him it's ok with you or it's not ok and you break up.
He's willing to have sex with someone underage is definitely something to be worried about. If it were me I'd break up with him.
My gf's birthday is today and I have no idea what to get her still. I see her in a couple hours and I must get something before then.
I need something personal. What do I get her?
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>>16764591
>something personal
You know her, we do not. Dumbass
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You should get her something personal
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Take her out to dinner. Get a small gift extra. Done.
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Wife did an unnecessary breast exam with a male doctor this morning and it really pissed me off, and it's still bothering me now.
She has a history of benign breast lumps which she's had surgically removed (by another doctor who happens to be male; whatever). Recently she felt a new small lump in her breast. She made an appointment with a male GP (general practitioner) who had never seen or examined her breasts previously. I told her that I don't prefer a man to look at her breasts, but it would take longer (a week) to see a female. I decided to just accept it under the assumption that breast exams should be nonsexual for male doctors (they are desensitized to naked female bodies after seeing them so much lol, right?)
I go with her to see the male GP and before he does anything he tells us it would be better to be examined by the surgeon, because he knows her history and knows better whether the new lump would be a concern or not. I was thinking, great, we can avoid this guy groping and looking at my wife's tits, but my wife asks him to examine her anyway. So he does, with me and a nurse chaperone with him in the room. Afterwards he says "yes, I feel something, it doesn't seem serious but it's still better for you to follow up with the surgeon", so basically the same thing he said BEFORE doing the exam.
She told me he was a little rough on her (her breasts hurt afterward). He didnt use gloves.
I was in a bad mood afterwards and expressed to my wife that I was angry she requested this unnecessary breast exam. She was very sorry, and I told her I would feel better later, but I'm still pretty mad, especially after going online and finding out that male doctors do in fact often get aroused during breast/pelvic examination of female patients, especially if the patient is attractive (objectively, my wife is about a 6/10)
thoughts please
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>>16764554
>objectively, my wife is about a 6/10
He didn't even want to touch her. That's why he said before and after to check with someone else.
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My thought is your a controlling asshole who doesn't realize that a doctor sees so many boobs your wife's don't fucking matter. Stop being an insecure little bitch jesus christ.
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>>16764554
>Wife did an unnecessary breast exam
>She has a history of benign breast lumps which she's had surgically removed
Troll harder, OPie. Also being jealous over doctors is both beta and pathetic. Also 6/10 isn't anything special so there's no need to get your knickers in twist
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Can I use this
http://m.gearbest.com/rebuildable-atomizers/pp_293310.html
On this
http://www.myvaporstore.com/Joye-eGo-ONE-VT-Variable-Temperature-Starter-Kit-p/joye-eovt.htm?1
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>>16764540
Name? Source?
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>>16764599
Answer my question and sauce is yours
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Yes you could but i severely doubt that you know how to rebuild it. Also I don't know how much amperage that thing can handle. I'm guessing not much at all.
Just get a kanger tank with replaceable atomizer heads. If you want to learn how to rebuild you need to learn some basic electricity and preferable rebuild on a dripping atomizer.
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I got diagnosed as antisocial a little while ago, and I'm not really sure where to go from here.
I didn't as for an evaluation or diagnosis, I just got one; my own research tells me that clinical outcomes are poor. there are no effective therapies aside from anger/impulse management and that nobody is invested in helping me; they just wait till I break the law and throw me in prison.
what I really want to know is where my place in the world is, I reason that if I don't find one for myself then it will end up being bad news for everyone
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and if we could please avoid the thoughtless inflammatory comments, 4chan is not just an extension of /b/ and I am not the bad guy you saw on tv last night or a reincarnation of your ex
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>>16764410
So you self diagnosed?
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>>16764410
I don't normally suggest this, but you should look into religion. My boss is the same way and credits God with turning his life around.
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I work in retail as a cashier. Most customers appear inconvenienced by the new chip card technology. The most common thing I say at work is how to instruct a customer to use a chip card. Most people don't know how. Also, why do customers try to operate the pad so fast that they don't know what buttons they're even pressing? It's a LITTLE CONFUSING, but if you go slow and read the prompts carefully, you're golden.
So why are they inconvencied by something so little? All you have to do is leave the chip card in for a few seconds and maybe provide a signature. Have people really become this impatient? You'd think they'd exercise a little caution when making important purchases
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If you're going to rant about idiots, you should at least know that "advice" is not synonymous with "whining." Chips are a lot newer than the English language. What's your excuse with failing at the latter?
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>>16764394
Of all of the first world problems I've heard of, this one takes the cake.
It's a reasonably new tech in something that consumers have been using for almost 40 years now in a different way. Honestly, I'd only ever seen it in the UK until late last year, and only one store I have been to since I got my chipped cards has bothered to have me use the chip.
Sounds like your store is one of those few places, therefore people don't use it much.
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>>16764394
The technology has been in common use in Europe for a few years, but is just being introduced in the USA. People who only know the old way of using credit cards simply don't know what to do.
"Put the card in that slot in the reader - here, I'll help you - and then just follow the instructions on the screen"
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Yet another woman troubles thread 2016-02-03 15:23:25 Post No.16764309
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Yet another woman troubles thread
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>Be married for ten years, everything peachy.
>Have child, sex life with wife goes downhill, not due to child but due to her weightgain. (possibly both, no clue honestly.)
>Still very much attracted to her, show her that every day.
>All she does these days is shrug it off or tell me she's busy, etc.
>Same thing last night after a day of saying we'll go at it like rabbits.
>Family friend comes over last night, we start talking about his relationship troubles.
>Wife mentions whenever I say she's beautiful she thinks I'm trying to get in her pants.
>This genuinely upsets me, any time I want in her pants I make it blatantly obvious via spanking/ other childlish/ flirty things.
>Go to bed pissed, she apparently has no clue.
As a man I feel retarded for being upset over this, it happens all the time but for some reason her thinking me calling her beautiful means I'm after something really pushed some buttons. But I think that coupled with our sex life is what's really getting to me, I always seem to be the one showing interest. Very rarely if ever is she the one that comes to me, and whenever she does come to me I drop whatever I'm doing... which she never does for me, it's always wait until later and then I'm tired.
I'm legit pissed and I have no real idea why as this has been the norm for well over a year. I plan on telling her I'm upset about the beautiful remark when she wakes up, but I feel like the lack of sex is what really bugs me. I feel like I might be venting, but any help/ advice on the situation would be very much appreciated.
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You should start working out and get real sexy.
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>>16764322
I'm working on that, but I feel like when she starts tripping over her tongue trying to touch my abs I'll just tell her I'm tired and don't feel like it. :^)
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Read this in its entirety and come back later if you still need advice.
https://7chan.org/lit/src/Robert_Glover_-_No_More_Mr_Nice_Guy.pdf
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Finding Extreme Feminists 2016-02-03 15:08:23 Post No.16764291
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Finding Extreme Feminists
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I am an extreme radical feminist. I promote hating men, enjoy stories of men being killed by women or being castrated, but I am okay with other gender identities. I hope to one day see a mostly female world. I have more practical visions unlike the only known visions which are old sci-fi novels or Internet satires (Guru Rasa and the Femitheist). I hate all fetish material relating to matriarchy, gynarchy, gynecocracy and female supremacy because it makes a manual search for true believers nigh impossible.
The only real link to people who think like me is Valerie Solanas, but she is not exactly on the same track either.
It seems impossible to even find Forums and the IRCs (which are ideal) are mysterious to me. Even though this is totally not a feminist zone, I thought I would ask just in case I could gather some useful advice. This seems to be the only place where it would be easy to get the level of attention I need for useful results.
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>>16764291
Nice meme
So you are willing to take advice from someone you absolutely despise? What a stand up thought process.
I'll tell you why there aren't more people like you; it would literally destroy society, a society that is working to peacably resolve the gender issues that have actual merit, not just some made up bullshit like pay gaps.
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>>16764291
>It seems impossible to even find Forums and the IRCs
that's because most no one is like you. you should seriously try speaking with a professional, there is something seriously going on internal the be that extreme, and you should attempt to resolve it.
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>>16764291
There are plenty in hell
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Sometimes I think I don't care about her anymore. But then it hits and hurts again and I miss her so much. Is this gonna haunt me forever?
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>>16764212
No, you're gonna have to die eventually.
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>>16764219
That's what forever stands for.
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>>16764212
Heh, just wait until she starts showing up in your dreams, not even in a sexual way but in a normal everyday interaction as your wife sort of way.
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I am married, I love my husband and I want to be with him.
I feel attraction towards his brother, who is very similar to my husband, and is quite handsome.
Since I noticed such feelings, I try to avoid him, I try to be colder with him or be fake-basic with him, trying to just be kind and move on. As I would treat a random person. I also try to imagine he is evil or try to focus in his bad aspects. that worked for a while.
But since he broke up with his girlfriend, he tries to hang out with his brother and comes often home to visit. He is starting to be nicer to me, and I still try to be cold, but it seems very awkward.
Now he gave me a christmas gift, and I truly had to be nicer to him and even gave him a hug, but that just made those feelings greater, even if I have been trying to reduce.
Sometimes my husband seems worried because I try to avoid all contact with his brother: never hug him, or shake hands, and all I say is I get shy.
What do I do? I want to be 100% loyal to my husband, I don't want to have these feelings, and all I find on internet is religious prayers.
any psychological advice? how can I become neutral towards him?
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Picture Donald Trump every time you look at him.
>EntourageSceneWithTwinBrotherFuckingBrothersWife.mp4
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You don't become neutral. Just practice self control and discipline. Having feelings for others is normal, that doesn't mean you have to cheat. You can't be a cold slab to everyone else just because you're married.
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>>16764200
doesn't sound like ur sex life is fulfilling