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How do you deal with people who believes in street knowledge(experiences by living on the streets) over academic knowledge?. I srsly cant stand their stupidity and i dont know how to deal with them without losing my shit
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I roll my eyes and move on. I used to live in the ghetto and I've never been keen on the kind of mindset it produces.

You won't get through to them, so apply some of that freedom of association.
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They are clueless, but people who only know things they were told in class, rather than having a wide range of knowledge about everything, are even worse.
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>>16776413
Disagree. Those booksmart experience none guys are more annoying sure, and that rare chance one might go rampage is creppy, but street smart people equate to hustlers and gang members in the worst case scenario. And I don't have any time or desire to deal with that shit.

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>On 2 weeks of nofap

Should I got to an asian massage parlor or masturbate myself to sleep?
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Doesn't matter, it's a meme anyways and doesn't actually do anything.

The ass was fat.
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>>16776342
Yeah I fell for the meme
Which one would you choose?
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>>16776340
>Falling for nofap and not no porn

God they're elite level trolls on /r/nofap.

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Is it weird for a girl to sleep in the same bed as her (straight) guy friends ? I do it all the time and nothing weird happens because they are very close friends. My flatmate insinuated that I'm a whore though which made me really angry. He actually thinks I'm having sex with my friends. How do I convince him otherwise ?
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tell him you're not sleeping with them
carry on with your life
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It is a bit unusual, yeah. You're not a child anymore, most people aren't just physically affectionate like that without at least hoping for something more. It'd definitely be inappropriate to call you a whore, but "tease" would not be off-base
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>>16776174
It is a weird thing to do, that being said it sounds like he likes you and is jealous.

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im a 23 yr old female student going to school in California. I was drugged and raped earlier this week at a frat part that i was invited to. I'm so sure that it was some of my bfs frat friends who did it but have no way of finding out. I just can't remember their faces but I remember everything they did to me. I've been really struggling since then and don't know what to do now. Do I tell my bf? Do I tell my parents? What do I do now? I feel helpless and just really hurt and degraded. Has anyone gone through anything like this? How did you move on?
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Are you calling police now or in 10 years
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>>16776086
Well... sorry but you're pretty much fucked, no pun intended.
Several friends I've known have been in your position but because they waited and fucked around no one believed them when they were ready to tell what happened.
I think you should just find a therapist and cope.
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>>16776126
that sounds fucked up. thats not right... just cope??

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Tips to improve texting game?
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>>16776045
Keep it to a minimum, be a bit of mystery, texting should be used to set up meeting in person.
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>>16776045
In what way
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Hold back until you got them locked down
You should interact with your new gf by just being urself since they obviously care for you at that point

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My ex keeps messaging me from time to time and he always makes the conversation about how much sex he's having and all his fuckbuddies, etc. He also asks me to come over and have sex with him.
He knows it hurts me even though I don't show it. I also feel like shit knowing that I'm tempted to have sex with him just to get a chance to talk to him again (I gave in and did it once but I immediately regretted it)
He broke up with me 3 months ago and he never accepted my invitations for drinks, dinner, etc.
i blocked him on all social media and told him we should stop talking because I needed to move on, but I keep running into him at concerts, parties, festivals, etc. Because we are into the same artists.
How do I make this stop ? How do I move on from this asshole ? I feel weak, as if I didn't have any willpower or self-esteem.
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>>16776032
Delete his messages. Don't fuckin' read 'me. He's clearly an asshole.

Start going to shows or parties with friends, and just ignore him or say hi and go back to what you were doing.

He doesn't care about you, stop caring about him.
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You identified the problem all ready. You needcto find some authentic self-worth and not shit thats like I got 50 messages on okcupid today.
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He knows you are weak and is exploiting it. Do to really want to do anything with a person like this who disregard your feelings do much?

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So i came here for the very first time thursday night and asked for some help about asking this one girl out. Now be in mind i'ver never talked to her untill this friday so i would think she never knew i existed untill this day. Im a shy guy i usally dont talk to people (I dont know) in my free time as i think its a waste,
Now friday cane and my 2 friends were hyping me up, i didnt known what to say i asked them, and they just said go talk to her, >get up
>walk to this girl while she doing hw
>ask her if i can sit down
>my hearting beating 800 times a sec
>she say yes
>yus
>I sit down
>she look at me with her eyes confused
>Oh shit
>tell her she pretty ask her out
> she say "no,sorry"
>i smile and walk away
>go to my friends
>get roasted
now i feel better, the way she said "sorry" it wasnt a "no fuck off bitch ass nigga" type rejection, and when i got up i actually felt happy, I WASNT SAD WHAT? It was this good asthectic, now i didnt have the urge to ask her out and wasnt nervous about doing it anymore, but now i when i see her i still think "how does she view me now" Maybe its because i didnt introduce myself to her? And just risked it all? I talked to her friend about 3 hours after that and he said she is not even thinking about dating. But I just felt so good and i moved on ig? Could the outtcome have become different if i had introduced and started a friend like relationship with her? But she is the only girl i think is a 10/10 how can i cope with this happy but confused feeling.
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>>16775920
I have no idea what you're trying to say.

If you're asking about what to do now, move on, you're clearly not getting her. And don't ask out people you've never even talked to, jesus fuck, that's creepy.
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>>16775920

>tell her she pretty ask her out

i've laughed so hard when i read that part, holy fuck.
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You feel better because the uncertainty is gone.

The next step is to corner her alone in a dark place and rape her. You'll feel fantastic.

Also underage b&, come on mods.

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Long story short, my ex hasn't messaged me for like 11 days. We sort of were breaking up and arguing and shit, but when I was like maybe we should just give each other time rather than break up, hwt last words were "yeah maybe i'll call you". I definitely messaged after a few days of silence, saying "hey lets talk things out etc this is really hurtful" then waited a bit more than continued with similar messages and said I'm getting a little worried about, etc. I'm honestly pretty upset, for obvious reasons... and I know I should just "let it go" but I don't want to be left as the pathetic one who was semi-begging. I was thinking if I should just wait and give it time, or send one last message that says something like, "dang I should have assumed you were the childish one. have a good life, kid"
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>>16775903
Don't beg, but if she left it open like that and then can't even reply to a genuine question then she is an asshole who obviously doesn't care about you.

When you get dumped, your exes true colours get exposes, who they really are, and how they really treat someone they said they cared about.
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> or send one last message that says something like, "dang I should have assumed you were the childish one. have a good life, kid"

don't

you are the pathetic one and nothing you say will change that
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>>16775909
No I know.. it's just that it worked in the past... I might have conditioned this behavior in the past, thinking he was mature and responding after a few days and finally getting a reply and everything being cool for a bit (previously)...

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Anyone here take ecstasy? Considering taking some for the first time but not sure if the high outweighs the risks. Is it dangerous?
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I've rolled at least five or six times. Got my MDMA from Finland, it was some of the best quality in the world at the time.

First of all, most MDMA in the US contains 0% MDMA. They tested over 200 samples of ecstasy at US music festivals and found that 90% of them contained 0% MDMA, and less than 2% of the samples were pure. The rest were cut with different chemicals or were different drugs all together like MDA or 2cb (2cb is the shit though)

It's dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. Follow these tips and you'll be fine.

KNOW YOUR DOSE:

Get a milligram scale. This is a necessity as MDMA is taken in such small doses, a huge dose will look like nothing to the untrained eye.

I wouldn't recommend taking more than 100 MG for your first time.

DRINK WATER
During the roll you'll feel very hot and sweaty, and want to move around a lot. You have to drink a lot of water. Have four-five water bottles handy.

TAKE VITAMINS:
Many people grind their teeth on ecstasy, or chew on their cheeks or tongue. To counter this take magnesium supplements. Also take a lot of vitamin C. drink orange juice beforehand, lots of it.

After the roll you'll feel very depressed and sometimes suicidal. Smoke a lot of weed, take 5-HTP supplements, exercise, and you'll be fine in a few days.

After you take ecstasy, you shouldn't do it again for at least a month. AT LEAST. I would recommend three months.

Using it multiple times within a month can lead to brain damage.


and most of important of all:

TEST IT. If you're getting your MDMA from a source that isn't on the dark net market where you can view customer reviews, you need to test it to make sure it's real. It's not uncommon for people to sell other drugs and say it's ecstasy. Buy a test kit and make sure what you're taking is really what you want to take.


If you can't verify it's real, or don't have a milligram scale, you shouldn't take it.
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I used to take it all the time. It's fun, but maybe a little too fun. We used to roll at work overnight then roll all day and roll more the next night at work. When you come down it sucks, you're moody and irritable and just wanna be left alone. However you can't sleep so you take more ecstacy.

Anyway, it's fun to try a few times, but don't make it a habit. If you're gonna roll then you should do it with a ladyfriend who is down to fuck. Throw on some music and you won't even notice the time fly by.

Also drink water but not excessive amounts
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>>16775895

>dark net market

I really want to give this a try, I want to try LSD and any local dealer I can find is just selling Chinese research chemicals on blotter paper and calling it LSD.

Is it actually safe and secure? I just can't imagine buying illegal drugs online and having them shipped to my house, but I'm an oldfag

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Mormons Only Please
I am of the age to serve a Mission, but do not have the desire to serve a Mission. For whatever reason, I do not feel that it is something I am to do. I seem more focused on vidya's, 4chan Lurking, Music, and other shit. There are many people in many wards and States who see a Missionary in me, and many Missionaries who see a good Missionary in me, but I do not see it. I have discussed this with my Bishop, and he has declared that my lack of desire to serve a Mission is too subliminal to not serve. Under his command I have stopped playing vidya to focus more on my Mission, which has not made any more progress than with vidya. My Mission Papers are submitted, but my Bishop is holding the papers until he believes I am "Field-Ready" in case I do not go to the MTC. It has been a concern to me large enough for me to post a thread on 4chan. Advice?
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>>16775807
Your just lazy. Playing vidya and lurking 4chan are both meaningless do nothing activities.
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>>16775807
Quit your cult.

If you believe in God it should be a personal relationship.
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>>16776855
OP here

There is and has been other things I've been doing outside 4chan and vidya. like I said, it seems like the desire isn't there, as I find other tasks to do.

Ex: Exercising, Blacksmithing, Leatherwork, Engineering, Organising.

Really without Vidya I find other things to do. Not much laziness, just lack of desire. I was hoping for advice on what I should do in my situation

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What do you think it takes for someone to accomplish something? What's the difference between successful people and people who are basically living out their miserable lives waiting to die?
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Abstractly speaking, I follow the train of thought that delayed gratification is the big difference. The patience to wait for rewards is a pretty important aspect to what lot of people consider success. It's really at the heart of what discipline means. At a practical level I think it's also easier to get ahead when one isn't "living out a miserable life" by using every cent that enters their pocket to chase a moment's happiness. That joy is fleeting and on average they're still in the negative.
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>>16775777

f a m, you accomplished those lucky trips tho
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On a real note, its mostly perspective.

My success will be different to your success and different to another persons.
Why do you ask, if you don't mind?
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>>16775777
Motivation

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how do you deal with getting your first gf at 27 years old. the whole ordeal is very overwhelming for me and i cant stop feeling like a loser/failure

its worse when she asks me about my hobbies because im a 27 year old weeaboo.. i've never really talked to people in real life about that kind of thing before and i cant stop being embarrassed by it even though she doesnt really seem to mind
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thanks guys
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You have a girl friend wtf, it doesn't matter now. Stop being sad about something good and be thankful.
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>>16775842
Say
Your a weeb, in a funny way she will laugh and forget about it
gg ez

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>transgender and gay but not buying into tumblr nonsense about nonbinary genders
>believes peaceful islam and educating brown people is possible, but still aware that middle-eastern culture has to be snuffed out or at least stopped from spreading

The world I live in has become polarized and you either have to accept literally absolutely everything, or hate everyone who is not a straight white cis man. I just want to live my life and do people things but the more I look at it the more it's starting to look like there's a civil war brewing.

Whose side are you on when nobody's on your side?
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Your own.

You're so close to breaking through the surface and getting a breath of air. All you have to do now is embrace your independence and have confidence in yourself. You can do it, no matter how bad it gets around you. You won't let yourself starve if the shelves start going empty. You won't freeze to death if the power goes out. You are not beholden to anyone or anything which doesn't sit well with you. You'll find good people, come together to pool your resources and do your own thing. Life will go on. I'm not talking about being a nutter and running off innawoods with 12K rounds of ammo either. I just mean being your own person in the context of a turbulent world. You'll find your way to take care of yourself.
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>>16775709
Those are all very warming and encouraging thoughts, but I don't think the lynch mob is going to care. I don't know if I have the chance to be on HRT for long enough to actually pass by the time these white pride dumbasses remember that the gays still exist.
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>>16775717
If there's trouble brewing, you'll just leave. You'll keep moving for a while until you get a better grasp on where to go and how to live peacefully there. It may not be easy but, among the other lessons you're soon to learn, life really isn't naturally easy anyway. The way you're used to living is unusually convenient. The keystone to these interconnected ideas is that so much of what ills our world grows in the fertility of that convenience. But it's okay if things go back to being a little harder. You'll be fine. You have the inborn capacity to endure. You also have the intellect to prepare for things once the writing is on the wall. (Again, not to a crazy extent. Just reasonable reactions to reasonable assessments.) You're not going to get surprised by a pack of crazies outside of your home tonight. Assess where you're at right now, plan for the future and take charge of that course in a confident manner. You've got this. Don't be paralyzed by the thought of having to rely on yourself.

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My boyfriend says that he wants a lot of kids just in case he screws up with one of them and they get knocked up by a "Tyrone". I'm black, he's white. I've told him that the comment offends me a lot, yet he keeps bringing it up. He says he doesnt see me as "black" because im "only" a quarter and am lighter skinned and says he'd classify me as brazilian more than anything. And every time I try and fight it by saying "well, your daughter could get knocked up by a billy or a jack or a conner", he gives me this face that says "yeah right. Those names are so innocent. Jarome and Dante are the ones that are going to fuck everyone over".
What do I do when he can't see passed the terrible stereotypes of my own race? The race that he doesn't even classify me as. It's incredibly insulting.
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>>16775689
But you are barely that race and the stereotype is right.


I would be more worried on the fact that he wants to make back up kids in case on of them turns out bad than his way of presenting statistical facts.
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>>16775689
Him not even taking your feelings into consideration is pretty shitty.
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>>16775697
What's wrong with a black man reproducing?

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is it time to quit 4chan? I've been coming here since 2007* it seems, but only since last year I have been noticing a change in the humor or culture or whatever you call it. For example the YLYL threads on /gif/ are nothing but unfunny shit, I've had it up to here with the idiots at /tv/ yelling /pol/ everytime some one says a racial slur (won't have happened a couple years back) or calling you 'pervert' for posting cunny, in general noticing more and more newfags and when one of those poll threads comes up in whatever board I see a lot of 18-24 year old posters and that makes me sad since I'm 31 now.

*I remember chocolate rain was my first 'big' meme after about 2 or 3 months hanging out at /b/ so I wikipedia'd it and found the year it started was 2007
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>>16775618
You're on the wrong boards for your age group. Of course you're having a shit time.
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I never had to quit 4chan.

What are you an addict?

I literally come here on my breaks to shit post.

Why do you take things so seriously? Remember it's all "for the lulz"
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>>16775626
what are some good boards for middle aged men then?

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