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Nothing. Save that for the interview.

But I really wanna make sure I get the interview...

>>16777316
Tell them how big your dick is, and ask them if they'd like a picture.

>>16777272
No you're just passive.

>>16777283
Why does romance have to be so scary
Girls are scary when it comes to that stuff

>>16777272
Yes and no. You don't get a lot of chances of dating someone you consider a close friend. I say fuck it and go for it best case scenario she shares you're sentiment. If she doesn't and she's really a friend she won't cut you off because you asked her out and if she does then she isn't really a good friend and isn't worth spending time with. I expressed my feelings for a girl I've been tight with since early high school, shit she even reciprocated them and it was awesome. Then things went downhill out of no where and we both decided we shouldn't date. Sure things were weird for a bit, but in the end we're still good friends.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdxWqVyMPrM

>>16777259

Less rock like

>>16777268
just search through youtube with "tonight tonight" or whatever you thought the lyrics were smartass

>>16777136
Just add her and ask her out.

>>16777138

You mean ask her out on Facebook? That's kind of lame.

>>16777141
Not as lame as not asking her out and dying alone!

Worried she might think you're inexperienced?

Does she treat you with respect and care? Or does she objectify you? Age differences can bring about some uneasy power differences. I don't mess with older people.

>>16777037

no not really anon, although i've only had one sexual partner but me and my first gf did almost everything under the sun and expiremented a lot(but yeah ever woman is different). Maybe i should talk about my sexual experiences with her?

>>16776996
Honestly, there's no such thing as too big of a dick if you've got adequate lube. It will still hurt, but it can still be done. Lube up son.

>>16777014
Yeah I know that. That doesnt mean she knows and understands that.

>>16777020
So lube up son.

>>16776957
Don't. If her parents find out at all you're fucked.

If it's legal, go for it. If it's illegal, then decide whether the penalty if you're caught is worth a few minutes of sex that you could get with a girl who's legal.

A two-year age difference isn't very significant, so I don't see it as creepy or morally wrong. Just be very careful and discreet until her 17th birthday

Why did you break up with him?

Try to know over friends how he is dealing with the whole broke up thing, if he is doing fine a casual approach is good for maintaining a healthy friendly relationship, and the projects that you guys had going can be a good way to start it. Try to consider his feelings as well before approaching him, since none here knows what happened to you guys to break up, neither if he is a fragile person or not.

Good luck.

>>16776844
The relationship was long distance but the lack of communication really just fucked it (we used to Skype a lot). Not to mention my depression shitting on everything else. Didn't feel it was fair for him

>>16776815
What's wrong with his life?

My sister loves me so much she pushed me over the edge by not taking no for an answer. I'm going to kill myself tomorrow. Just kidding.

>>16776818
I just think he can't handle living the way everyone does, he can't handle being shit on all the time, being tired all the time

Modern life is so fucking awful I totally empathise with him so much. I'm 26 and I'm such a fucking loser, I just want to leave everything behind myself though I've never told anyone this

this is Op, no she didn't bring up the topic about sex, i did because she was conversating with me about her turnons with sex around when we first meet, so i called her a big tease and told her i don't talk about that kind of stuff unless were going to have sex, ever since she's been flirting with me.

>>16776716

well ask her how you can convince her i guess.

OP if there's a time and place for everything then in those instances she let's you touch or grope her try to escalate it.

That is if you want sex. You call yourself mysterious but are willing to give up secrets for sexy time. Don't give her too much, let her figure it out. Someone who you don't know about attract you. (Its actually a completion mechanism in the brain)

>be alpha and go for it if its there

You just have to accept that the first steps are the hardest. Socializing requires practice, like any other skill. The more you try, the easier it'll be, and you'll be having actual experiences with other people, so you'll have new things to talk about.

Get yourself a job, too, if you don't have one. Join us in the real world. It kinda sucks sometimes, but it's better than being alone and doing nothing.

>>16776723
Like I said, I've been trying for 6 months now with therapy and such. And I got a job... Things are just awkward as ever. Part of me feels like it's getting even worse now, my social inability that is, because I'm constantly confronted with it, how bad it is.

I got the smalltalk part (somewhat) down by now, but I never truly connect with anyone I talk to - it's more out of politeness I'd say.

But yeah, you're right, the first steps are freaking hard. I'm feeling pretty hopeless. It's that I'm a girl, and guys are more forward/approach me first, but me being robotic and dull stops anything from ever developing. Even with that advantage I got nothing. It's disheartening.

Thanks anyway

Experiencing this too. Hoping there is someone who can give another advice.

>>16776682

>>>/g/

>>16776682
I say up the graphics card to a 970M/980. I have the 970M and it's amazing, though not sure how exactly it compares to the 950

Stick a GTX 970 in there and you've got a deal.

P-put your dick in it

Strip club, volcano, or Korean mecha show. Obviously.

>>16776800
What do I say on a date, how do idress where do i go?

My philosophy is that if there is nothing to hide, there should be no issues.

She sounds like a shady person. Especially putting guys in her phone under girls names.


Having said this: Are you the overly possessive and controlling type? If so, she is probably sick of it.

>going through someone's phone
>acting like a controlling parent to your significant other

nigger, wtf r u doin

>>16776614

Your girlfriend may or may not have something going on with another guy, it's tough to tell from what you've said. But regardless, she's not wrong in her arguments against the phone-snooping thing. You can't really police a relationship like that, and expect it to be good. Either you choose to be together, or you don't. But you're actively sabotaging it by constantly "checking up" to see if she's been lying to you. It just comes off insulting, and as you've discovered, it really doesn't even give you an answer to your question.

There will always be doubts, but you can't let them control you like this. If you're presented with EVIDENCE that she's cheating, then you leave. But if you're constantly searching for evidence even when nothing is wrong, you're ruining it. If you can't just set your doubts aside, take the leap of faith, and enjoy the moment, then you shouldn't be in a relationship.

Can someone explain the STEM meme to me? What exactly is the pit fall of STEM?

>>16776519

Well, I guess I can do it aswell.

To be successful on the STEM path you need to be really, really good. That basically means you have to be autistic as fuck and live and breathe math, otherwise that shit is going to eat you alive and you are going to scrape by with shitty marks at best. And when you are finished, if you are finished that is, you are going to get rejected at every single place you send your application to, because no one needs a half baked scientist who only managed to get through by doing the minimum requirements.
Additionally the STEM market is oversaturated as fuck and even the ones who are actually good in their major need to sweat a lot to get a job which is in their field.
And at last, you always need experience to get a job and getting experience is pretty much impossible when no one employs you because of your lack of experience.

STEM is just too much of a gamble and will most probably leave you with nothing at best and with even less than nothing at worst.

First of all, depending on what your GPA is, see if you can internally transfer your major within the same department to a less strenuous course. Most universities have an unwritten rule that no matter what degree you were accepted into, if you gain the prerequisites and credit points for something, you will graduate with whatever degree you earned it for. Speak to Dean of Students, speak to your head of department, see what you can salvage. THEN see if you can get your apprenticeship.