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>>18725283
Nice picture for ants.

>>18725283
I have never got into a fight before.

>>18725321
unrelated pic

good luck finding the original

>>18725268
>rope bondage
its super impractical

takes forever to get her tied up, and its a pain in the neck to get back out of.

unless you're just doing photo shots or something you're better off not bothering with the complicated stuff.

>>18725281
She likes it, and it takes forever only if you don't have practise

You just gotta do it a few times and that shit wont happen. Also just stay out of unhealthy situations where people are mean to you.

>>18725202
more testosterone and bath salts

You do not have the hair and face to pull it off. That is an anime catguy. You are delusional if you think you can look like that.

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>>18725198
I put my hair like that to see how it'd work and it looked fine, I won't look exactly like the drawing but the style still looks fine to me and a friend I showed it to
I just don't like it being so obvious

bump mew

>>18725144
Now, I assume you're in your early 20s and thus, a couple of years past the point people generally move out and live their own lives. No matter how much you try to maintain a good relationship between you and your father, and vice versa, you'll eventually reach a point where disputes become increasingly common, and where every prolonged conversation with your father invariably leads to him criticizing your lifestyle choices. This is normal. You're no longer the child you once were, and you have your own set of beliefs and ideals that may differ from that of your father. In the meanwhile, your father becomes increasingly impatient and worried that when the time comes that you'll have to fend for yourself, you'll lack the ability to. From his point of view, you're making mistakes that'll cost you a couple of years down the road. He's stuck seeing a trainwreck waiting to happen for so long as you live under a same roof.

From where I stand, your options are pretty much limited. Either you strike it out on your own and lift the burden of raising you from your parents, or you take it upon yourself to meet your parents' needs and demonstrate your maturity by showing that you know what you're doing. To put it simply, take responsibility for your own well-being, and give your family a break from worrying how badly you'll fuck up without their constant guidance. Take it from someone who's been through the same thing as you.

Did you try exercising more and spending less time on your computer?

>>18725938
I did that and now they dislike how I make important choices by myself without telling them about it or asking for guidance.

Those are all shit tier nigger drugs.

>>18725119
Really? Damn. It seems like everyone is doing the pharma drugs though. What drugs do you do? I honestly just want to know what the sensation is like.

>>18725142
Smoke pot, eat some mushrooms or some lsd. Get drunk. Avoid pharma like the plague. Niggers like xanax because it makes them black out. Niggers like percocets because theyre retarded. Thats like getting "high" on ibuprofin. People like adderall because it is crystal meth that doesnt destroy your brain. You admit they are garbage people who make garbage music so it cant be much of a leap for you to know they talk about doing garbage drugs.

>>18725031
Try Sweden ...

stay in your own shithole mohammed. nobody wants you. you will never ever fit in and never ever be welcome outside of muslamic communities which are all just shitty and dirt poor as where you are now

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Not in Canada

Anyways, lately in our group chat, he passive aggressively posts things that don't really have to do with any discussions we've had as a group, its just him attempting to stir shit up and "shame" the friend Im closer with because they have a mild disagreement on racism in comedy, he's blown it way out or proportion and has heavily drifted away from the original point they were arguing just because he can't handle the fact that someone has a different view point then him on how people subjectively perceive comedy.

I'm just sick of his passive aggressive attempts to shame my friend out of bad context and I need advice on how to call his ass out if I get fed up, the thing is, I need to do it in a way that ensure that there's very little way for the shitty "friend" to attempt to twist my words against me and say that I'm singling him out because hes "le suffering minority". I need it to be clean and concise but I want to drive it in so he shuts the fuck up and either settles his shit like an adult or just leaves the group, because I quite frankly don't like him as a person. It's just a touchy situation because he's the type of person that will cry foul on false prejudices just avoid discussion

>>18724976
If a person is being passive aggressive, that means they're too much of a pussy to actually be aggressive.
The best way to combat a pussy is by being a dick.
Good luck.

>>18724997
It probably doesn't help that most of us in the group are pretty chill as well, but I've pretty much had it at this point.

I was wary of him coming back because of how he hurt some of the people I'm close to before (some of the shit he said indirectly related to me in that old instance too but I didn't butt my head in because I wasn't there when it happened so I wasn't going to) and this is kind of just refueling my general dislike and distrust of him. I've got a lot of ammo I can use against him, I just need to make sure its concise and not something he can twist. That's the rough part

>>18724962
>What could it be?
probably his gum or tongue. make sure he uses toothsilk regularly and it should vanish in a few days

>>18724962
does he take any medications? i know some medications can cause this, and also eating a diet with lots of meat or acidic foods can cause it. his dental hygiene might not be related to these, since in this case the sour taste is coming from the stomach. i can promise you that you can have white teeth and still have shitty dental hygiene though. if he has a bad cavity it could cause this even if he does keep his teeth brushed.

>>18724891

What are the pros and cons of each option?

>>18724901
Cons -
• sitting in her house with her family which can be a bit much at times (younger siblings)
•missing out on a game day weekend at school with all my closest friends
•she will be in bed resting the whole weekend
•miss out on school resources like library, advisors, and 3d print labs for my project and tests coming up

Pros
• I love her and want to stay with her
• I want to be a good boyfriend
•her parents are super chill and I would enjoy hanging out with them
•I'm on antibiotics so I wouldn't be drinking this weekend anyway

Damn this board is slow BUMP

I have it, was diagnosed at 14 and I just know I have no executive function

reddit gets a bad wrap on this site for good reason, but the adhd subreddit is actually... pretty damn good.

>>18724978
its too slow
plus I just want to know how you guys manage, I am a mess
I dont know how could I ever manage to study a career without some sort of medication
im drinking large amounts of coffee and it barely helps even tho I heard a lot of people that use caffeine as an alternative to meds and it works great for them

I think its a motivational issue so I might be alone in this problem, thats my concern
a lot of people have adhd-pi but is there any of them here that cant read more than a page of text to save their life? I feel retarded

>>18725045

have you watched the Dr. barkley videos?

of course its a motivational issue... its an executive function disorder. Technically its a disability but we haven't gotten that far along yet..

I'm 25, diagnosed at 14, currently unmedicated and the only thing that keeps me somewhat normal is running and eating clean.

If I deviate from those two I get mood swings like crazy, I do impulsive stuff, I can't sleep, I get frustrated just listening to people talk and waiting for them to finish their sentences, etc, a lot of dumb shit

imo medication isn't a solution but neither is non-medicating... ADHD is a physical structure deficiency in the brain, it's not something you can completely overcome and 'defeat' with will power and effort.

It's always gonna be there and you just have to learn how to manage. It gets easier with age, but harder at the same time, if that makes any sense..

>>18724873
Nobody has absolutely white teeth, as in that photograph, without using am artificial teeth whitener. Nobody. This is guaranteed. Teeth, no matter how healthy, have a yellow tint. If you see somebody with teeth that white, it is artificial. It's more important to keep your gums pink with regular brush/floss.

My friend has like actually pure white teeth. I asked her secret she recommended a special arm and hammer "truly radient" tooth paste that you add to your brush with normal fluoride toothpaste

>>18724873
Brush gently with baking soda once a week (in addition to regular toothpaste). It's a gentle abrasive and can rub off some of the newer strains on your teeth. Be careful not to overdo it though Because because can weaken enamel if abused.

>>18724838
Vacseline all on your face

Use facial masks weekly

>>18724838
Hey anon. I used to be a hardcore runner. I'd run at night in the cold regularly. One thing that really helped was covering my face up (duh) but also a thin layer of vasaline or similar product rubbed on my face. Yeah, I looked like a jackass but it worked pretty well for my purposes. Coconut oil works pretty well too in fixing dried out skin on your face and on your head if you have dandruff or whatever.

>>18724840
Thank you, kind anons. I'll have to go pick some up.

>>18724797
>taking money to fight wars of aggression and kill people on foreign soil

I don't like terrorists but I wouldn't join unless there was a credible threat of invasion.

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Your country needed you, the reasons are irrelevant and you had 16 years to answer the call, plebeian

>>18724797
Kys yourself

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Why don't you join the fuckin Marines? Pic related: me during Op Kanjar, Helmand Province 2009

>>18724773
You are not alone.
Stop fapping, stop watching porn.
Remember, if you're fapping to porn, you're masturbating to other people having sex. This makes you a cuck.
Porn is a subversive tool to ease the population growth.

There are millions of other men in the world having the same issue.
Welcome to Cultural Marxism.

>>18724785
But if I stop, how will I satiate myself? The issue I have is when I stop... there is nothing to fill the void.