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Correcting cavities is called either getting fillings, or having to have those teeth pulled out, depending on how bad it is. How long it takes depends on what you need to have done.

>>18719127
They suck. And will be expensive. But do them before they become root canals, which are 4x as bad

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>>18719111
>Should I be concerned
>I'm not sure if I should he worried or not
What would worrying help?

You don't have to worry but you also can if you want to. It doesn't matter either way.

>>18719119
I wish to know if she's going to die soon or not

How do I know?

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>>18719123
Ask the doctor? Your mom might also know.

>>18719044
Call them back. You got nothing to lose at this point.

>>18719047
Just tell them. I wanted to follow up on my interview or I received a missed call.

>>18719044
They all do that. Its understood to mean I'll call you back if you are hired or moving to the next round of interviews.

google.com

>>18719005
You're not going to get a girlfriend as a 21 year old kissless virgin.

Consider prostitution. Once you've experienced enough sexually with a woman you might be able to face up to this challenge a bit better.

>>18719005
>random string of numbers for filename

Every time

>>18719001
I think rather than occupying your mind about trivial decisions about your work life or the direction of your life in general, you've highlighted the major problem that persists through all of your decision making.

You're afraid and fear will paralyze any opportunity that could create for yourself.

"Life's simple, you make choices and don't look back"

you need to find confidence in your decisions, and stick to them. Not fear them. This comes from your own idea of self-confidence - but right now it seems you have none - most likely due to the fact that you've never made a decision confidently and thus, have not been able to enjoy the benefits or good feelings of making them because you've never really been 100%.

Try to challenge yourself to make strong decisions, and sticking to them. You'll find that eventually, you'll make a good one - and that will build the confidence you have in yourself to continue pursuing the things you truly want to do, instead of worrying about the things that may go wrong.

If it's about other people, your relationships and opinions about you, just remember: People don't remember your failures, but will be the first to bring up your successes.

so just go for it, what are you worried about, at this point, your worrying has only gotten you to this point, right?

I understand this feeling and how I'm dealing with it at 21 is to imagine the what ifs. What if I took that major? What kind influences would I have missed? What kind of person would I be if I went that route? Basically I try to rationalize the gain from the decision I made by appreciating its lessons and thinking about what lessons a different decision would have taught me.

>>18719009
This is well thought and it makes sense, although it doesn't really convince me, I maybe need to read it more than once or twice. You know, like you can't just "cure" a person with simple motivational poster.

The confidence issue is a problem, I keep second guessing myself constantly, I changed my life directions thrice to this point and even though at the time of choosing new, I had run multiple scenarios where I could see that work out and make me finally happy or at least at ease, where I made lists for & against, everything I could to make the right decision, and after three, six months, a year I find myself lying in bed, face covered with tears and thoughts: "What have I done, I need to fix this". And by fix I usually mean revert or change to something else. A new start. A new start again.

I have came to a conclusion now, that if I'm not satisfied with anything I did and tried, maybe those things aren't the problem but I'm, like the saying "If you smell shit everywhere you go...", or maybe something less vulgar like "Grass is always greener..."

That's why even though in the past I made those decisions more confidently, this confidence wasn't build on solid foundation as it turned out later, and right now I'm not having any of it, hence the fear and feeling of helplessness.

Deep down I know that I'm not that all bad and worthless honestly, it seems (like you also pointed out) that I somehow know the roots of my problems, but it doesn't seem enough to convince me otherwise.

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>>18718976
I deal with it by not masturbating.

Ask her if it's OK with her to have a prostate massager inside you while you're fucking her.

Or live out your sexual fantasies with her consent.

Or watch porn while you're fucking her.

If she yells at you when you don't perform, then politely tell her that yelling at your dick to get erect faster doesn't help and that, in fact, it only makes things worse.

Instead, ask her to indulge you in some naughty, but sexy, talk.

>>18718974
>needs to get counseling for severe autism

>>18719013
When the first post is also the best one.

>>18718965
Not everything in life is, waiting for that feeling or the butterflies. That's just made up bs. If you click, then you click. Don't get caught up in trivial things.

But I'm ALWAYS the super emotional one when I start dating someone..... Why the hell is this time different???

>>18718972

tell us about your ex

Why not? You're a desperate virgin. There's no downside here.

You're fretting too much over the virginity thing anon.

I too was once in your position and once I lost it I realized it never mattered in the first place. If you wait for a special someone and then date that person for years or even marriage then youll possibly regret not sleeping around more. A constant "what if".

>>18718870

Similar situation.

I say go for it. That's what I'd do. I really think just losing the v/fucking for the first time will make me feel so much more at ease - because a lot of my personal insecurity comes from the fact that I'm 24 and have zero sexual experience/skill. There's been a few times now when legitimately attractive girls have come after me in parties/clubs and i gtfo because i'm terrified of performing terribly.

I'd say don't feel bad - you get to gain experience, while the girl gets to fuck out of her league. Just fuck once or a couple times, and then end it (like any Tinder deal).

What's your fucking major? What are the "real" majors you're considering?

>>18718851
i started a media+information majot my last year of school. the alternative is something engineering related

ve had the exact same thing when i smoked, its called depersonailizaton. myself and many of my friends have gotten this after getting super blazed. I was in it for 3 months, not knowing shit about it. i suggest you get exercise and start eating healthy. or switch up what you are doing now and do different and cool shit. good luck dude, i understand what you are going through and it fucking sucks. With the hair thing falling out, that just might be genetics and you are noticing it because of the funk and overreacting, if it gets worse, take a supplement like niacin and/or biotin.

>>18718852
Oh fuck alright. Honest to God it was only one time, but I did smoke a lot.

I'll research it more, thanks man.

>>18718784

Have you tried not taking yourself so seriously?

>>18718784

i really want to see billy corgan do a pitbull cover now

>>18718786
That's the thing is for the most part I don't, I'm a pretty big goof and generally really laid back and comfortable with myself. And even if i have rational/empirical evidence that people don't pay that much attention to my flaws or inadequacies in certain situations I can't help but worry about it.

>>18718758
It is called BDSM and you being masochist. Basically locate a whore and tell her you are into CBT aka cock and ball torture. Brothel sounds like first place you can try.

And now, approaching random normies on street will just put you into sex offender registry. Try sites like fetlife and find somebody as degenerate as yourself.

>>18718758
I will do this for you please live in my city

Find a girl who looks like she's addicted to drugs.

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>>18718748
>I don't feel any strong compulsion to make friends
>loneliness
Which is it?

If you don't feel lonely when you are alone you aren't lonely but you are alone.

I know a feel like this. I had friends and a life once so I feel vaidated but as I've spent more time alone I've come to prefer it, and even though people seem to like me and old acquaintances are always reaching out I really just want to give up on living that kind of life.

And why not? Since giving up other people I don't smoke cigarettes and I've cut out sugar and anything that's hard to pronounce. I'm in the best shape of my life, got a 6 pack and I just do push ups and shit at home. I am lonely but I don't miss feeling beneath people, and so far the loneliness has gotten easier to deal with so seriously why bother with people? I get that there's some benefits but I truly feel that I function better existing on the fringe.

sometimes dogs have to wear a cone to get them to stop chewing themselves.

but anyways, if it's hot to the touch that indicates an infection. so it may already be too late and you may have to put him down because you were afraid to take him in.

maybe you shouldn't have a dog you're too weak to dominate

but yeah, he probably needs antibiotics and a cone. or it could be a bunch of other things, you pretty much need a vet at this point. if you have the money then bringing him in should be the least of your concerns, vets are trained to deal with unruly dogs even if you can't.

beta males with large dogs lol. this is why i stick to cats, they don't need to be constantly dominated by a stronger being like dogs do.

>>18718864
>beta males with large dogs lol.

actually.. gril with small-ish dog, but thanks for the /adv/