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How the fuck am I supposed to go out if I don't have any friends? 2017-09-16 01:27:28 Post No.18726276
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How the fuck am I supposed to go out if I don't have any friends?
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2017-09-16 01:27:28
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I used to live in this other smaller city during my years of high school. The town was kinda boring but my social life was pretty decent. I still go there sometimes and I always get together with friends and have a great time.
The thing is I been attending college for four years now and I haven't been able to bond with people as well as I did in the past so I don't have real friends to go out and I'm really tired of spending every night at home.
Should I like, go to a fucking club and talk to random people? What the fuck? I don't know if I can do that!
It gets difficult to me to speak to people as I have social anxiety. Most of my actual friendships came out of sheer accidents and not from me just talking to people because. I feel that's always a huge step to make.
What do you think I should do? Have you ever been in this kind of situation? Help pls...
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>>18726276
get a dog and go to a dog park
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>>18726475
I actually can't lol. I live in this building where it's forbidden to own pets.
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I live in what I thought was a pretty nice apartment complex, but I got some new neighbors a couple weeks ago. Don't see them around much, but today they were on their porch with their pit bull. It started freaking the fuck out as I walked past on the sidewalk and dragged the owner out of his chair trying to hold it back. Stupid thing howls nonstop during the night, too.
Should I go ahead and call animal control or am I supposed to wait until someone gets mauled?
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>>18726234
You just goto your neighbours and talk to them, say that you've to wake up early every day and their dog is being too loud. Ask them nicely to do something about it. Also take some chocolate or a drink with you and be nice with them.no need to be an asshole and call the animal control
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>>18727571
You're trying to get OP killed? They sound like beaners, niggers, or white trash... Who else would have pitbulls
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>>18727740
desu that's true, but still. you gotta act nice first of all. then you can call whoever you want. you can even murder them, but first, you have to be nice.
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is it bizarre that i tend to befriend much older people? 2017-09-16 12:26:57 Post No.18726192
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is it bizarre that i tend to befriend much older people?
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2017-09-16 12:26:57
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a lot of my friends are a lot older than me. i feel okay about this socially but in other environments ie work, school where social roles are more strictly designated i'm a bit confused and even embarrrased by it. when is it a good dynamic and when is it problematic? seems that things are further complicated by my tendency to relate much better to the opposite gender.
do you guys have age gap friendships? when is it okay and when is it weird?
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I have friends ranging from early 20s to literally old enough to be my parent. It's only as weird as you make it.
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>>18726206 it only feels problematic when i'm at work and seniority becomes an issue. "weird" isn't the word so much as "possibly exploitative". i feel less comfortable when there are other people watching i guess, it doesn't seem like other people have my ability for intergenerational communication.
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>>18726206
This. I tend to get along with people older than I am. Teenagers and people in their early 20s are largely insufferable.
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I have literally zero positive qualities, and don't want to do anything with my life. I don't want to die, but I figure I might as well just kill myself since I don't want to live this life. Should I?
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>>18726183
If I were on /r9k/ I'd say do it. However, since I'm on /adv/ I'd say don't do it and see what happens.
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>>18726183
Stupid frogposter. Post more or dont even bother.
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>>18726183
well you seem like you like pepe memes, why not join a facebook meme group and befriend others there
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Why do girls do this to themselves? Is it daddy issues,or feminism or what?
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>>18726173
>Why do girls do this to themselves?
Why do you care?
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Penis envy.
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>>18726177
are people not allowed their curiosity in this day and age?
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I know this is going to sound super fucked up, and even I know it is. I'm thinking about making my think I killed my self. Long story short she left me for another guy and lied about. The old I need to work on myself blah blah, I still love you, I miss you. Yet I saw today she's still with her new 'friend' she met a week before leaving me after two years. So yeah I just want her to feel the pain I feel if she even would. Thinking about just taking a picture of my wrist with fake blood or something. I know this is a beyond fucked up thing to do to someone, but so is what she did. Any advice? Probably won't end up doing it but still a dark part of me really wants to.
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No, she will just call you a psycho. Pretend it's nothing to do with her but just you being nuts and it will make her think she was right about leaving you.
These people are narcissists and just think about themselves.
Just know these people loathe themselves and will never be happy. They bring others down just to mute their own self-loathing. Pity them.
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>>18726239
Yeah she might think that, or she'll feel awful. Either way it doesn't really matter as it's done and over with now I'm never going to see her again. So I'd like her to think the worst. Either she doesn't give a shit, or she'll have trouble sleeping for a night till she figures it out. Could care less that she thinks I'm crazy at this point.
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>>18726160
u dont deserve to have a gf
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Obviously I have really fucking serious problems. I'm nearly 27 and I never had a friends, went to a party, or had date. I've never hugged a girl.
My existence really sucks and I'm so lonely makes me consider suicide strongly. I don't know what else to try, I've tried everything.
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>I've tried everything.
Like?
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Have you tried not being born ugly?
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>>18726113
1) what have you tried
2) why, according to you, is it socially hard for you?
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god punishing me for napping? 2017-09-15 11:56:33 Post No.18726111
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god punishing me for napping?
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2017-09-15 11:56:33
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the strangest thing happened. i was on tje verge of sleep when it felt like something hit me in the head. only thing is there wasnt anything that hit me in the head. it felt like some sort of otherwordly force, almost like it happened within my oan head.
and to top it off, my computer randomly shut off. what the flippin flip is happening
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Can I have your russian blue before the demons take over your body?
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>>18726116
ill consider it... NO
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>>18726111
It was probably your cat.
Is the pilot light going out in my heater something to call my landlord over? I don't know how to do it. There's instructions in there but I'm too scared to do it by myself.
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>>18726083
You can but they'd probly think you were a little bitch. It's fucking basic as fuck and the instructions are straightforward. These things are designed so even a soccer mom can do it and be safe. Unless you try to restart it with a fucking bomb or blowtorch you will be fine.
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There is nothing to be scared of. If the pilot light is out it isn't even hot
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Gaming PC vs Switch and laptop 2017-09-15 11:38:00 Post No.18726072
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Gaming PC vs Switch and laptop
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2017-09-15 11:38:00
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My laptop is from 2011, and I have $900 to spend. Should I build a Gaming desktop, or buy a Nintendo switch and a $300 laptop. I will be graduating CS in spring, and I'll definitely be able to get a better desktop when I have a real job anyway.
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Which one will you use more?
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>>18726079
Idk thats the major issue. I already have a steam account, and games are a lot cheaper than $60 Nintendo games.
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>>18726072
Nintendo is shit anyway. Wtf you weeb? You like hentai? Get a desktop or gtfo.
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How can I better hide my physical disability enough to find a job? I've been employed constantly for the past 6 years, no gap in my work history. a Couple months ago, I was laid off and then fired a few weeks later. I have not been able to get gainful employment in a job that I can do without my back acting up. My unemployment is running out, so I'll have to bite the bullet and ignore the pain and take another hard labor job even if it is lower pay. Any tips on doing that without drugs?
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I'd focus on things where you're alone most of the day.
Alternatively, laborer with a bad back screams janitor to me.
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>>18726055
>e
I'd like to get into an office, but I have autism so that'll never happen.
>be me
>be sad because I feel that my tits are to big (I'm a FF btw)
>also sad because I suffer from depression
>ALSO sad because I have no friends and I get bulled because of my big rack
Please help...
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They train special doctors and make pills for depression and if you loose weight you're breasts will shrink
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>>18726004
This has to be bait. How could you be sad of huge tits. If they are that much of a problem. Most girls with huge tits get breast reductiom because most of the time it can lead to sore backs but you didnt mention that so... most girls would be jealous and you get a lot of attention from the guys.
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>>18726004
It's been years now since I got stuck in this depressing loop of stillness. I want to break free and grow but I cannot. I want to make something out of my life and be productive, but I always give in to the comfort of the internet. I'm online from the time I wake up to the time I sleep. I love the pleasures it offers me, I love the way it numbs my mind. It distracts me from myself and my regrets. I usually lurk on forums, I don't have cyber friends. My days usually end with a wank on the toilet seat, then reset and repeat the next day. How can I resist to the charm of killing time online, when it is so painful even just going out for grocery shopping? I want to connect to the rest of the world outside, but I cannot. I never have and I never will. I don't have the energy to keep up. I think this is my hell, I have to live the same nightmarish day over and over again. Neither life nor death interests me, I'm always in between.
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Im sort of in the same boat. I had to come to terms with my life. I wish I could believe in God and be blissfully ignorant and happy of this world. I take refuge in internet and video games. But im a little more lucky and have plenty of friends offline and online to keep me going.
Pretty much just working my 8 hours and saving whatever I can. The more money you save without throwing it away at frivolous things can lead to opportunities. Simplifying your life made me much happier as the rat race or trying to become rich is something of a fleeting passion. We all want to live comfortably and are surrounded by people motivated by different things. Also depression can affect your life more than you think. You have to realise you are your worst enemy. Work on yourself mentally. What means the most to you? What makes you content with living another day? Persue that and improve yourself slowly. Even if its just going outside for a walk for one day. Just do ONE thing that makes you uncomfortable and learn.
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>>18726011
I wish I had a friend, too. I have a few, too, actually. But I'm not happy around them. Nothing they talk about interests me. Even if it's something I'm into I still cannot come up with much to say. So I have to force it, and it's tiring. And I have trust issues thanks to getting backstabbed by my old bestfriends before.
I feel like throwing my PC away, the internet is toxic to my mind. But I don't have the balls.
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>>18725975
Are you me? If you've got real friends, begin a new hobby together. It's a meme you hear a lot, but I believe that's the key to getting out of your loop. Doing the same thing over and over expecting a change without giving in an ounce of your energy is foolishness (insanity haha xd nice mem) isn't it? How old are you? Take up a sport, get to a gym. Continue using the pc by any means, but add some fucking flavor to your bland, repetitive life. Mix some shit in. Gym, a new sport, travel once in a while, learn a new fucking skill, anything holy fuck. Learn guitar, learn to draw. But honestly, all of these take dedication. Now, you probably know this yourself. It's just the question of whether you'll accept that you're not dedicating yourself to anything because it's hard (yes dedication is hard, but worth it) and change something about it, or keep doing what you've always been, sit in front of a pc morning till evening, jacking off and browsing this hellhole.
>tl;dr: add some flavor to your life, hobby, anything new. NEW.
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Almost 30 year old virgin 2017-09-15 10:54:47 Post No.18725924
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Almost 30 year old virgin
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>Yes. It is true. I am 26 years old and to this day I have never seen a pussy in real life.
>But that was only clickbait. I am not even concerned about that now.
>I miss a lover. I mean a girl that I would love, tell her everything. my weaknesses, my dreams, my nightmares, spend time with and just share my life with.
>I am not a failure or a permanent basement dweller. I am currently working on my PhD. with a scientific celebrity and at a prestigious institution. Basically, my life will probably not suck from an economic standpoint
>I have hobbies like hosting my own radio show about history topics, visiting museums, galleries, nature etc.
>I can not get a girlfriend howeever. These are my two romantic experiences:
-One was a disaster. The girl did not feel the same way as me. I was really in love with her. Basically it ended in a bad way and we did not spoke together for like 7 years.
-The other one wanted me but I did not want her. I tried it anyway just because I would finally have a girl at my side. It was absolutely a chore. My biggest failure/achievement in this was that I almost had sex with her. I could have done it but something happened. My morality got the best of me and I quit the relationship. I did not want to hurt her but some damage was already done. So I do not know if I failed by not getting laid or by resisting my temptation so I would at least have a shred of dignity left. She got a boyfriend after 2 years. We are still friends, sort of, after time passed.
>I do not drink because I do not want to. I used to get wrecked a lot even combining weed with it. The sensation was nice but after some time I did nothing for me. The stuff only amplified my negative feelings.
>I do not take anything now. I said to myself that I would rather be sober and sad then a little happy and stoned. After all, it is all fake and basically your brain is just confused.
> Continuation in next post
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if you really just want to see some pussy, go to life drawing class w/ nude models
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I'm 25, don't know shit about any of this either.
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>>18725924
Bruh you have money just tell a guy friend you have who has a girlfriend to introduce you to one of her friends thats single and add alcohol to the situation, could work out, has for me
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>girl in one of my classes at uni
>thinking about talking to her
>have massive social anxiety problems, it's really difficult for me to connect to people I don't know
>it's so bad I've known several people for 10 years and I'm just now starting to open up to them
>decide now's the time for me to change all this
>was initially terrified of talking to this girl, but by the end of class in my mind I had convinced myself that I should do it anyway
>tell myself that I'm not allowed to leave this room until I introduce myself to her
>class ends
>immediately clam up and leave the room anyway
How do I get past this crippling social anxiety? Is the only way to just push through it and talk to people anyway?
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>Is the only way to just push through it and talk to people anyway?
yes
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>>18725922
>Is the only way to just push through it and talk to people anyway?
or see da xan man
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>>18725919
You're putting too much pressure on yourself. Sitting there and thinking "I'm not allowed to leave this room until I cold approach a girl I've never met" is bound to do nothing but stress you out and cause failure. You are not at the stage yet where you can pull off such feats.
Scale things down. Start with something more simple. If you have friends who know some girls, ask them to invite them out with you as a group, and try talking to them in a less stressful environment. If you have the confidence to do so, you could even try joining a society on campus in which you can meet women and gain experience introducing yourself to them and having genuine conversations.
Learn to walk before you try to run.