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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything 2017-09-15 10:46:54 Post No.18725900
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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Guys.... Do you like kids? Do you plan on having a family one day? If so how many children would you like?
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>>18725910
Yes, 3 or 4. I wouldn't do it in the piece of shit city I live in though.
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>>18725910
I love kids, so much it's a problem
I would actually like to have 2 kids of my own
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Hey guys please hear me out, honestly things have been going down hill and kinda shitty lately, excuse me if I sound as if I'm bitching. But if you have no interest in reading then it's fine with me.
Well here goes nothing..
>About half a year ago my mother got into an >accident at work and hasn't worked since >then. About this week she was sent in to the >hospital to get her knee checked out and >apparently she needs to get surgery.
>Goto college, second year
>Have a Gf, lately she's been a bit distant cause school.
>My father has been a fucking dick to me lately cause he's been at home more since he goes to see my mom.
>Fucker always tells me how useless I am
>Get looked down from family because I don't wanna visit
>Honestly I don't like my family but yet my mind wants to care. what the fuck is wrong with me?
>Today my sister was telling me if I was going to see her. I said no cause I have school work
>Get looked down at from my family cause I don't go
>Last time I went I didn't have time to do an assignment
>I work at the weekends and it's a shitty job.
>been there for 5 years and I'm not proud
>Been looking but it's hard.
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>>18725845
She has fucked up knee mate, not a god damn life threatening disease. Chill.
oh and confront your shitty father about how much of a cunt he is.
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>>18725845
Would you really ignore your mother during a time where your support could potentially make a difference?
I'm sure, despite all the things we could never know about you from the internet, that your relationship with her is very valuable.
Don't worry too much about the reactions or expectations of your other family members.
If you keep on giving out genuine love and understading, you should recieve it right back.
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lets see....
U r probably in ur early 20s...going to college...so that is good
got a part time job...also nice
Have a gf.... that is also good
So things dont appear to be that bad for you after all. However, u do have to be more assertive on ur relationships....
1st, if ur dad is genuinely wrong about u being useless...tell him to fuck off....
2nd, be more organized with ur responsabilities, so u have time to both do ur assignements and visit ur family
3rd Visit ur mom and ur sister
4th Cheerish relationships that u value, they matter and make a lot of difference
5th communicate with ur gf.... not as in suffocate her...but just genuinely talk
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I'm single and need a asian bride 2017-09-15 09:54:28 Post No.18725797
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I'm single and need a asian bride
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where do I find one? looking for cantonese in Australia cause I am..
where? pof? done. rsvp ? done..
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>>18725797
why must she be cantonese?
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>>18725797
Massage parlours
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>>18726508
Yeah, OP. Seems like you're setting your horizons a bit narrow. Australian here - even if you widened the search to just Asian, you're likely to have better luck
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So let's say a girl isn't that sexually experienced and you bust down her mouth every time she sucks you off. She doesn't mind it at all.
Until her friends tell her that she shouldn't do that anymore and it's degrading. Then she has second thoughts even though she swallowed when she felt like it and said she didn't mind. Guy still wants sweet to nut in her mouth though.
Who's in the wrong here?
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>>18725701
>Until her friends tell her
Please deliver the message.
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>>18725701
>Who's in the wrong here?
If someone doesn't want cum in their mouth I'm pretty sure they don't need a real reason to justify it. It doesn't have anything to do with being wrong.
She doesn't want cum in her mouth anymore. It doesn't really matter why. If thats a problem with you then date someone else.
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In the very unlikely case that this isn't just shitty bait just tell her that it is a sexual act that you both enjoy and it isn't degrading at all. Then tell her that it would be just as degrading for a man to eat out a woman and offer to do it to show her that it is fine.
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If I want to cook half the portion of a food, do I just follow the recipe like usual but use half the ingredients?
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In most cases yes. What in particular are you cooking?
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>>18725706
Thanks, just asking in general.
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>>18725706
This.
Unless it's a large piece of meat or some kinds of baking
I bought a few cigars and accessories online and they sent me a ridiculous amount of them for free, with a handwritten note to someone else saying "enjoy the extras - [name]". I got all the stuff I ordered, plus about 100 expensive cigars. I don't know either of the people mentioned in the note, but all the packages (multiple shipments are common with this company) have my name and address on them. What do? Can I be prosecuted for just keeping the stuff? The packages were signed for, if they ask where they are can I say I never got them? What will happen if they find out I kept it all?
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They sent you extra stuff you dip.
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>>18725604
We're talking literally hundreds of dollars worth of cigars, for someone whose name is not mine, from someone whose name I do not recognise.
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>>18725597
>>18725886
Don't be a cunt; contact the company.
They have your details; they'll figure it out sooner or later. Better that you initiate first and be a good customer. They might even give you some kind of bonus for being honest. But don't *expect* it.
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Socially retarded part 2 2017-09-15 08:58:34 Post No.18725593
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Yesterday I posted about approaching a girl, today I did it here's how it went
>Hey can I ask you a quick question
>IF YOU CLEAN A VACUUM CLEANER ARE YOU A VACUUM CLEANER
>she just says "no" and walks away
now what do?
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kys faggot
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>>18725593
delivery and timing is everything, anon.
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>>18725593
If you just shouted it at her like a retard she is probably sitting in the corner with her blinds closed right about now.
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Guys let me get straight to the point. I hate most people i meet. They are shallow, they just keep on talking and talking and i listen and listen. I have the habit of befriending almost everyone i meet. The only people i respect are my best friend and his girlfriend. But the problem is with women. I can get a girl but every time she confesses i lose interest, dunno why. I just want a girl that i can respect and has a fucking brain and isnt basic as fuck. Are my standarts too high? Am i fucking autistic?
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>>18725580
>am i too autistic
yes.
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>>18725580
Honestly OP most people are pretty dumb and it's probably better that you come to accept that. You could always try to instead come to enjoy having a more intimate connection with a human being or try and, sorry to sound like some Buddhist fag, rid yourself of your attachments. Either way, you do you anon
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>>18725580
You're actually just a sexually repressed gay. You make excuses for not liking women, but you actually just can't like them.
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Boys don't like me??? 2017-09-15 08:28:28 Post No.18725506
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<me
>be me
>have nice butt and nice tits
>be junior in high school
>have 2 friends
>no car
>lives with Mom+Dad
>be nice
Ok
Now WHAT IN THE EVER LOVEING FUCK IS WRONG WITH ME...
Please help.
I have 2 friendsand that's it.
I'm nice to people and all I want is a certain someone that I can love. Please help...
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I'd hit it. Colorado git git. Also 4chan is 18+
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>>18725506
>junior in highschool
Underage b8 b&
Also why does one side of your face exist more than the other.
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I am 18 I was held back
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>reach 25 years of age masturbating only to women
>go from teen>milf>mature>granny>fat>petite>pee>domination/humiliation>femdom
>by the time I hit 25,here and there I'd see some fags post trap pics/gifs
>usually ignore it
>see few trap vids in the usual "straight" section every now and then
>one time decide to see what's it about
>watch a few
>start masturbate sometimes to trap porn
>still masturbate to women,but trap porn is now the thing that gets me off,like granny used to get me off,or fat,or pee.
How do I go back?
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>>18725494
you don't, if you stop making a big deal out of it it will pass like any other fetish
but it can last long so it's better to stop using thing called willpower, I'm struggling myself with it
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It's pretty gay...
but...
so what?
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>>18725518
It's not a big deal,I don't feel any remorse or guilt about it.
But I wonder if it could become a problem.
And,if it passes,what a fuck is gonna replace it?
Maybe beastiality?Scat?
I should probably stop watching porn dammit.
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I'm my own worst enemy and I don't know why or how to deal with it.
I've battled reoccuring anxiety/social anxiety, stress paralysis, depression, and sleep problems since I was a little kid but it seems like I can't win.
I've tried
*Meditation (went to a silent retreat for two weeks and semi regular meditation for years)
Actually was quite helpful. Made me more self aware and thoughtful.
*Psychadelics
I used to believe they were a miracle cure during my hippie phase. Looking back at it, they didn't help me much.
Possibly made some repressed things surface and probably fucked me up more.
*Facing my fears daily and doing everything my mind doesn't want me to do
Helped me recover from being a complete NEET but doesn't seem to do much anymore other than making me more stressed and unhappy.
*Medication (anti depressants, benzos, sleep medication, stimulants)
SSRIs made everything worse.
Benzos helped me get rid of muscle tension, made socializing easier and made me happier. But they are too addictive and not a longterm solution
I've been taking Ambien for the past few months to be able to sleep. Not the best longterm solution, but better than sleep deprivation/insomnia.
*Travelling
I've done some crazy adventure trips to the middle east, South Asia and Africa.
During these trips I feel alive, happy and worry free and bond with people. But it's a temporary escape from reality. I don't know how to find this feeling in daily life.
*Career
I've been a workaholic for the past few years and have climbed in the software industry. Programming is one of few things that I'm passionate about, but I'm not sure if it's the right career choice for me since I feel like shit and can't let go off things due to perfectionism.
So what else do you suggest?
Should I simply accept that I'm flawed and stop trying to be what I'm not?
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>>18725493
Find a good therapist and regularly see them.
But idk, I feel like I'm gonna be you in the future. I have always had your problems and all those things are things I would do.
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>>18725493
It's a shit deal.
Some talking therapies may help, you need about 3 sessions to get an idea if it's heading anywhere that will help.
Tried the fitness and exercise based bits?
Similar situation myself, never anxiety though.
I've tried a lot of the same things.
Exercise helped a lot but sucks up time and only works if you already have the energy to pump out a few sets.
Physical hobbies were good to holding things back in the moment.
I seem to just generally be slowly getting worse.
Trying to come to terms with the fact that the world just kinda sucks.
>Psych called it "Dysphoric Personality Disorder"
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If i ask a girl to get lunch with me she should know that its a date right? Do i have to explain it to her?
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>>18725435
Dude people can't read your mind. Tell her it's a date
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>>18725435
I think so. I've definitely been asked out to coffee by a girl who later decided it wasn't a date. I guess it depends how pleased they are with you during the event.
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>>18725440
Well if i ask a girl, just me and her, to go out, shouldnt she be able to figure out my intentions?
>>18725442
What can i do to make sure it goes well? Ive never been on a date
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Any way to suppress your feelings and just start "grinding"? I just want my life to go on autopilot. Basically: Job, Sport, Study, Eat, Sleep.
I do this already but there are still feelings left, mainly desire. I am just too tired to produce anymore feelings, how to get emotionally numb like a robot?
Surprisingly not that much articles to that topic on Google.
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What feelings are interfering with your autistic lifestyle?
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>>18725432
As funny and ironic it may sound, but love. I was blessed with passable genetics so I pull a lot of women from Tinder but it never manifests in something physical (talking about first dates here, lmao). So lately I am catching myself craving more and more by engaging in multiple conversations a day that result in a mundane "Good night" and nothing more.
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gonna have a bath and nap
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You should try my tried and true fap'n'nap instead
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had a nice bath, it was too hot at first so i had to wait for it to cool down and cut my nails before i got in. gonna get an extra blanket and pillow and go nap now, ill probably make french toast for lunch after too
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Currently lying in bed at 7:45 pm with nothing to do except read books until I fall asleep. There was nothing to do at my boring job so I arrived 4 hours late, had a 3 hour lunch, then went home 1 hour early.
All the Chads and Staceys and normies are having the time of their lives right now. I'll spend the next 3 hours reading books only for the pseudointellectual cred.
I'll wake up tomorrow and follow my weekend routine. Clean my room on Saturday, go to the gym, wonder how it could be 2 pm when I'm going to central London, where I sit around drinking coffee, browsing 4chan on my phone, feeling sad about life, then realise it's not worth going to museums when they're almost closed. I'll see Staceys everywhere and feel awful. I will walk around aimlessly. Then waste my evening either reading boring books or on the internet. Sunday is similar but with the museums closed and feeling more alone and aimless.
Background:
>aged 26
>no friends or social life since 18
>no female attention ever
>went through university with zero social experiences
>became the loner nobody talks to within two days of my current job
>never been to pub, club, or party
>missed out on all the 16 - 22 formative social experiences that people look back on fondly (teen crushes, school prom, school dances, university fresher's week, any sort of relationships at all)
>know that women all have 5000 tinder matches and think the average male is ugly; seeing attractive women everywhere is demoralising
>feel completely bitter and detached from others due to being an ugly subhuman; lifting weights did nothing
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>>18725327
Well. Try not to solve your problems so fast, you have to try to make friends with people. It's probably easier to make friends at your age then when you are a kid.
But just saying if you think it's going to be like, 0 friends, 0 relationships, 0 things to do to becoming a stad and chasey thats part of your error. It won't be like that. You have to just to acquire the things you want slowly.
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>>18725365
>posting this on /adv/
>>18725327
Do you know what you want? If you do, you can work for it.
If you need somebody to talk to and have Discord, I have time this weekend.
Also, if you've got nothing to do, here's some stuff for you:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ShmIdhv-YFY (The channel has a lot of great sets)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uYaPF5wZNEo#s=688
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rrVDATvUitA
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9EN27Zh_vg
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7SeFWZYFmsm1tqWxfuOTPQ/videos (Best channel)
Also, if I were you, I'd go hiking in Wales or something. Being this sad and only envying others won't help, I know that.