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I had just got a job that pays about 18/hr during the summer and I worked about 24 hours a week. Not long after I started working she told me to buy her an indoor grill so I did cause I want her happy. After that every week she would tell me to buy her something small on Amazon around 10-20 dollars. When I was buying her a hat and she said to me "You didn't charge it on my card, right?" and I was like "no..." and she was like "okay, good". Then she told me to buy her a new oven in Costco. I didn't really want to but I bought it for her. Then one day she told me to buy her boba I said "aren't you on a diet" and she suddenly yelled at me "All you have to do is say yes when I ask you to buy me things! Stop being so selfish!"

Then just last night she said she wanted to drive my car tomorrow and I went silent for a bit because I was planning on driving to the mall to get her her birthday gift. Then she suddenly started screaming at me "I'm only using 5 dollars of your gas! Who's paying your car insurance? From now on pay for everything yourself! I do EVERYTHING for you and this is how you treat me! You're SO SELFISH! SELFISH!"

I don't know what I am doing wrong?

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Hello i just want to express this situation im living, because i want to know opinions, advices, etc. Im years old, im an accountant, havent had a girlfriend, i consider myself somewhat shy, serious but educated and good intentioned with other people.

I have an above average economic situation by my country standars, i still live with my parents because i support them (my dad had carious work changes in the last 10 years).

So recently my boss told me if i could contract a young assistant, she is a friend of his daughter, she is 18 years old, she is a nice girl and seems like a good educated person, i recently started to get feel ings about her, but i dont know if its because of the companionship she brings, maybe i feel to protect her or i dont know if im love.

When i in my home i start to think about her, i feel this strange sensation "on my stomach".

What i want to know is if its a good idea to get closer to her and try to start a relationship, or how i do know what im feeling, is the age difference a problem, i want o have certain perspective, guide, advice. etc.

I appreciate your help

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The pain I feel when shitting is almost unbearable. Been to the doctor and they wanna do a colonoscopy but that's not till next week and shitting BURNS my asshole. I can barely manage going to the bathroom regularly but I know for the colonoscopy I have to drink a bunch of liquid that makes you shit a TON. Anyone who has gone through anything similar have any tips for this pain? It's honesty awful. I'm 19 by the way if that's relevant.

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>boyfriend has had instances of not telling me something to prevent me getting upset
>talk to him about it, he agrees to stop doing it
>two days ago mentions how it’s so nice that he can tell me anything
>yesterday mentions an instance of him not telling me something because he didn’t want to upset me
>get upset that he was dishonest and hiding parts of himself from me
>realize getting upset only makes it more likely that he’ll hide stuff from me in the future
>don’t know how to just not be upset about this

How can I break this pattern by making him feel safe to be 100% open and honest with me? If he tells me something that makes me upset, how can I still handle the situation constructively instead of continuing to make him feel like "See, this is why I don't/shouldn't tell you everything." (He never actually said that, that's just how I think he's feeling when I get mad at him when he does eventually tell me something)

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Hay /adv/!!!
Since I don't realy want to go to /b/ (because of all the porn) I wanna chat...

[#1] what do you guys do for fun???

[#2] Xbox or PlayStation...

[#3] Do you think that 4chan should have a /b/ that is not nsfw?

What are your opinions on theses matters???

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>Was suppose to go eat lunch with a girl after her class today

>Woke up got a text saying she has a doctor appointment and can't make it today..

What do i do? I just said ok. and she recommended to meet tomorrow instead. I don't think she is lying but kinda lame how she just told me this the same day of meeting...

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Here I am, nothing to do this Saturday. My girlfriend is having fun with her friends. And we're not living together, she's with her parents, so it's unlikely that we will have fun this night. I am alone, and thinking about drinking. This will kill my gains though, and I want to have a healthy life, but there's nothing like it I can think of. I need emotional release. What can I do? Inside I am a bit sad, feeling how life is pointless in a bad way (sometimes that can inspire). I feel open to suggestions, but holy shit... Reading something, watching a good movie... These advises don't hit the nerve.

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so i live at home with my mother, shes divorced and theres only 2 of us in the house.
i work part time on weekends and make around 80 -100 for 2 days of work, i give her 50 out of this every time i get paid.
we got into an argument and she wants me out saying i do not "help her" with the bills. surely the 50 i give her weekly out of my 100 is enough? if i give her more then half wtf am i working for?
so on top of this i got some inheritance money, 2000 to be exact.
i told her i will treat u to some jewelry, but the limit is 600. she kept looking at 1500 -1800 and im thinking wtf?
so finally found one for 1200 and thought fuck it so bought it. cool i got 800 left. 2 weeks later she asks me to help her on bills so needs some money, i gave her 500 of my 800 so now i have 300 for myself.
few days later she said i want to put all the bills in your name you should start paying them now, WTF? what about all the money i gave you wtf was it for ?
so i told her straight piece of my mind now she wants me out the house.
i really want my own place but have no idea how to go about it. fuck this senile old bitch.
feels good to rant about it but need advice too
thx

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>find a girl on POF
>meet two days after
>hang out for a little bit at my place
>she initiates most the contact which leads to us making out
>eventually we make it upstairs and have pretty good sex
>she was vocal as hell, really hot shit
>she stays for the night and I take her back home that morning
>she lives 10 minutes from my work so I would see her on my lunch break when I could
>this goes on for a few weeks
>didn't see each other much outside of that cause she had 'problems at home' and couldn't leave
>this happens two other times, her cancelling plans out of nowhere
>planned on taking her to see IT thursday night
>asked her the day before if we were still on and she flat out said 'no'

being the unstable guy I am I blow up on her and tell her I can't do this shit, having her ignore me and cancelling plans for reasons she won't talk to me about. of course I didn't get a response from her. I even took into account that shes a recovering heroin addict and has '15 mental illnesses' and a very unstable life. I tried to be comforting to her, telling her all I wanted was for her to talk to me and let me know whatsup. so I tell her once she wants to get serious about this shit to let me know but I wasn't putting any more effort into this cause she clearly wasn't. fast forward to today and I see on her facebook that's she's sweetalking this guy from fucking Egypt, and they had been in a 'relationship' since the 4th, last fucking week. I obviously didn't see this update for whatever reason. I left a comment about it and she blocked me. I don't understand why I can't find a normal fucking girl, my track record are girls with current issues or bad pasts and they always end up dropping me out of the blue when I think things are going decent. now my latest fault is a fucking junkie whore who would rather be with some Egyptian then a guy she described as 'sexy' and 'just her type'. she just said that draw me in I know that now, but fuck man. I'm tired of this

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I'm hungry, lonely and bored.

None of my friends want to hang out this weekend
I have no internet friends to talk to
Gym isn't open until Tuesday
All I have to keep myself entertained is my phone / 4chan / YouTube

I guess I should order fast food or something

Might get Chinese

What else can I do to survive yet another weekend alone?

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What can I do for a gap year before grad school? Maybe something beyond just working if possible.

I foolishly thought I could find a suitable job for 1 year after undergrad, I really couldn't, and now I have to suffer the consequences because the school I'd be going to only lets grad students start in the fall.

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I'm making a tuna salad with mayo and corn.

Does red onion go well with it? I have one of these and wondering if it will ruin everything.

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Hey adv, I've asked some things about getting my life on track again a couple of days ago.

No stores/tankstations etc hire currently. in a 10km radius, still can't get a job.

Anyone willing to help a current NEET escape this shitty cycle?
I'm a graphic artist and semi-fluent c++ coder and am quite experienced with the cry-engine and unreal engine 3-4.

Any tips on socializing would be highly apreciated aswell since i've never been "super social". I'm "too Direct" according to people, whatever the fuck that's suposed to mean.

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Hi /Adv/.
Today I gave away my kitten. She was the only thing I was emotionally attached to in my home (except for my brother's weed)
My kitten gave me so much unconditional love... Slept with me at night, used my fingers as a pacifier, played with me and did what cats did in general.
My father forced me to give her away because he claimed she made him feel sick. He is indeed quite sick lately, but he has no allergies. We had a cat before, and we have a bunny for 5 years. In other words- He's just pinning his problem on my cat.
I feel devastated. I actually cried (Stress from shitty work + finding out I had to give away my cat = crying in the shower).
Help me get over my loss. I can't stop thinking about her, and how scared she must be in her new home. (I gave her away to a friend I trust, but still.)

>pic related, that's how I feel rn

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How can I raise my social status if I'm not a social, extroverted guy? Is the 'strong silent type' thing even possible?

I don't care about having lots of friends, I just don't want to be seem as a loser at the bottom of the food chain.