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I should add that this is the first time I've used this Remedies brand.
Maybe better pic

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>>18718674
Shit man, I have hidradenitis as well. It sucks.

I don't think it's an allergic reaction, I think it's just a reacting to the adhesive tugging on your skin. I'm assuming yours happens around your joints and high-friction areas like mine does, so adhesive band-aids are always going to be painful.

Pic related are the best solution I've found, I just wrap around my leg, or around my chest if I have it in my armpits. Can wear all day long without much irritation, and they don't get crumpled up like similar bandages from other brands. But they're kind of expensive. I buy them in bulk from Jet.com, best price I've found.

>>18718652
It's not true. They don't leave it's just that when you tell someone they love them and they realize that they haven't realy liked you that much for a while they get out.

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I'm a skater, so I always have my skateboard with me, even on dates.

So I had a lover, we were dating for 6 months.
So I said
>you know I really like you a lot, do you want to be my girlfriend?

She said
>ummmm I really like you but you know we are just friends

In that moment, I acted very fast.
I hopped on my board, and skated downhill,
blocked her on all my social media, deleted her phone

never saw her again.

I do this with every girl, fuck them all if they don't love me back I ride downhill with my board.

>>18718668
10/10 post.

99% chance he will be dissected by a college kid.

>>18718498
Damn, I figured it'd be something like that. He was unusually resistant to several types of cancer and chemo that he was going through, so I was hoping he'd be looked at for that sort of thing. We donated him to a specific place that researches his body and sends us his cremated ashes for free.

>>18718352
i'm not incredibly well educated on the topic, but there's a lot of anecdotal evidence that the two frequently don't combine well. it's probably going to depend specifically on you. i would caution you against it, but it works out fine for some people.

>However I'm unsure about how wise this is as SSRIs need time to work and I don't want to fuck up my progress.

It will fuck up your progress.

I'll do it for 10

>How do I stop?

Just don't do it.

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>How do I tell her to kick rocks without crushing her?

You don't.

>>18718313
Kill her

>>18718313
Don't tell her anything, just ghost her like girls do.

>>18718298
They didn't ask you whether or not you want to be born, nor did you ever ask them to raise you.
You have absolutely no obligation towards your parents only because they filled your stomach, they are like any other humans: you meet them with respect until they disrespect you, then you can tell them to fuck off.

>>18718298
call them on major holidays, birthdays, and at a minimum once a month. Make an effort to visit at least once a year if its feasible.

beyond that you shouldn't feel obligated to do more.

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Hey man i grew up with my parents telling me everything i wanted was a pipe dream thatd lead to nothing but failure and heartache. I left home at 21 after trying to work and go to college. They shit on me the whole time constantly telling me id never be good enough etc. I started hitch hiking, they told me id get arrested and die sick in a ditch. Two and a half years of traveling later and i ended up with a car. They decided maybe i could live outside and hack it now that i had a vehicle but wanted me to know id still likely fail due to insurance payments. I learned how to play the guitar, started busking while i traveled, started making more money than i ever had before. They decided i am probably doing okay but something in there is still illegal so i will end up in jail. I bought a school bus to live in, they decide i will fail because no mechanic skills. I learn to work on the engine, take bus around the country making money living the dream. Now they whine that i dont come to visit despite telling me my entire life that im doomed to fail and my immature dreams will never pan out. I have been in every state but maine hawaii and alaska, im a professional musician that gets gigs and has a band, ive lived innaforest for months on end, done everything i had ever wanted to do and when i go visit them its the same old tired shit. They sit in front of the tv and lecture me while trying to make me do their chores like im 14 again. Fuck parents like that man. I text them once in a while. Any more contact than that and they inevitably start talking shit and treating me like a teenager. Fuckem.

>>18718130
Duh!

fuck it man. college sucks better learn how to start ur own biz

>How hard would that be, do I have to reapply as if I never existed? I still have my ancient ID.

You have to get approved again.

Which is easy: just resubmit the form with the grades you got in highschool.

If you got in before then you'll get in again.

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Can you please explain the picture? I'm not from ''niggas'' land.

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>>18718111
Welcome to the future. Certain information are harmful to the productive citizens and therefore somebody decided for you. If you dont like it, buy VPN or get better ISP.

>>18718067
lol dont do it wtf??? is a one time hookup really more to you than your entire relationship? kys.

If she's worth it, don't do shit mang.

I met the girl of my dreams like four months ago. She's literally what I would've described in a "Post your perfect GF stats"-Thread before I met her. Of course life is a damn whore and doesn't just give you good things for free. So the thing is, before I met this girl she already was planning a Work&Travel-trip to NZ. Still I went in like the idiot I am, she also, and now we're separated since two months. Still 6 and a half to go.

I'm going slowly crazy, like you describe. I guess you just can work through it. There's nothing more to it. If she's worth it, you have to do the time. At my point, it seems hopeless and futile. Another seven months? Kill me. But what can I do? It's life, you suffer and hope its worth it, thats all that is to it anyway.

About the tinder-thing - a month ago I got a new colleague, and she sometimes seems to come on to me, if I'd get behind it I could plow that grille. But for what? Guilt? She's not even half as good as my GF. Loneliness alone doesn't constitute a reason for cheating. Especially if she's worth it.

Stick through it. In the end you of course have to descide if she's worth it.

>>18718038
Tell them schoolwork is so much more time-consuming than you expected that it would be better if you visited them on your rare free weekends than if they came when you had a tight deadline. And do visit them a couple of times before letting it trail off.

>>18718038
This isn't too uncommon. There is usually some sort of holiday once a month (thanksgiving in November, Christmas in December, etc.)

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While it is different for everyone depression tends to come in waves. Usually it has a slow build up from melancholy to despair and like a tide it can hit really hard on some days. Learn to live with it and try to make improvements in your life that can help

>>18718022
I regularly thought about suicide since childhood. Spent many years suffering and being miserable. Now I fucked up big time and am dropping out of uni even though I used to be a great student before everything fell apart. Years wasted. My dreams and goals shattered. I have no future.

I wish I killed myself long ago but ironically now that I have ruined my life I dont want to die anymore.

Heres my experience. Keep in mind everything can be different for someone else.

Starting to lift in my early teens was the best decision of my life and improved it in many ways. I would be dead without it.

If you have bad family like me you have nobody to truly help you. You need to solve this on your own. I was always alone.

I hear most people only have temporary depression but for me its permanent. It never gets better, the only way to overcome it temporarily is to keep yourself busy with a very active life that satisfies you.

No matter how difficult, try to maintain good habits or its all over. Life is all about momentum. Dont isolate yourself socially. Even if you dont like it, getting involved in politics is a great way to get access to events where you can meet new people of all kinds, even very rich and successful ones.

Go crazy, just do whatever you want and stop giving a fuck. Dont end in miserable stagnation where every day you do nothing but suffer and fall apart.

And remember, there are good things in life and reasons to live, even if its something as stupid and simple as being able to play video games or watching anime that will be released in 5 years, or taking a walk on a sunny day.

And last: anti depressants do work. It just takes time. I wish I started taking them before it was too late instead of listening to fearmongers.

>Anyone ever work on an oil rig?

Yes.

>Is it worth it?

No.

>>18718021
I have not worked on one.
However, the pay is good and the work is grueling. It's also high-danger and you're kept away from women for long periods of time.

>>18718436
You forgot
>tell me about it

>>18718017
Ask someone to buy it legally and then beat him up for it

Why can't you get it legally?

>>18718007
>terally just bully me and I do nothing even though they're half my size and nerdy little faggots.
just punch them

>>18718007
Don't stop being a nice person. Them being assholes to you goes against everything you stand for, so I would just point it out to them that they're being assholes. "Don't worry about it man. If I had a face like your I'd be pissed off too". If that kind of shit doesn't come naturally to you then you should treat them the same way your consvience treats you when you're acting like an asshole. What would your conscience say to YOU for that? Say that to them.

maybe they're being assholes because they care about you and don't like seeing you as some submissive loser. just give one of those little twirps a quick slap upside the head and tell them "that's enough". i'm a total beta male and even i could do that much