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Is it possible to move to a different state, find a job and get stable with 2000$ or do I need to save more before even attempting?
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I've done it with zero dollars.
Pack your birth certificate and social security card. Take 3 days worth of clothes - wear the same outfit two days in a row and do laundry on weekends.
You can eat and sleep for free at the shelter. Go to temp agencies, there's usually a day-by-day "labor pool" set up near the shelter in most cities.
Then get in the first available housing you can. Boarding house, motel, adult dorm, whatever. Build yourself up from there.
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Hey /adv/. When I go out, qts constantly stare into my eyes, initiate eye contact, stare in general, that sort of thing. So, according to these signs am I attractive af or ugly as balls? I like to think my face is pretty good.
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Could go either way. Post your face, /adv/ should be brutally honest.
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Yeah post a picture, we will be nice
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Sorry, can't. Camera is broken right now
>Want a daughteru
>there is a 50/50 chance a daughteru won't be born
Why is reproduction so shit
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>>16893084
Kill every child that isn't a daughter, then.
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2016-03-09 00:52:47
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>>16893084
Just keep aborting until you get a bitch
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Rip
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help me /adv/ I caught the feels for someone
(pic totally related)
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>>16893066
Just go with it. What's the point of living without catching the feels for people and learning and loving and hating and all that shit.
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>>16893066
read this
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>>16893066
Don't be a pussy, and stick it in her pussy!
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I just tried to have online sex with a really hot girl but couldn't get hard. This is also a general phainomenon, I tend not to be able to get hard with strangers, I need to get to know a person to feel intimate with them until I can engage in sexual intercourse. Is there a way to fight this? I would like to enjoy casual sex, as well. Anybody have any similar problems? thanks for your time.
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>>16893059
>a general phainomenon
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>>16893063
phenomenon?
anyway I mean it has occured in the past
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What to do when ur an fagut that wants to work out but don't own equipment of any kind and hate going tonpublic gym cause ur weak fagit?
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You go to the public gym.
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To public gym*, my nad with the typos
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>>16893057
Go to the gym anyway and you'll soon stop being a weak faggot.
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why am i uncomfortable with ppl spending money on me
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Hey /adv/ Im only posting this because there really is no where else I can say this.
I am extremely uncomfortable with people spending money on me.
I feel extremely guilty. Why did they waste money on me? I told them i didnt want anything. Why do people ALWAYS PUSH IT.
Im a girl too, so a lot of people think im just pulling that 'no means yes' bs.
No
I dont want ppl wasting their money on me
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>>16893051
i am the same way. i dont buy shit for others, either (except xmas and bdays, and even then only family or gf).
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>>16893051
Just tell the person spending money on you to stop. When they ask why - just say you don't feel comfortable with them spending money on you. When they push the matter - just say that it's a personal issue. The end.
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>>16893051
This is more common than you think.
Just INSIST on splitting stuff and refuse gifts unless they shove it in your face for three minutes screaming PLEEAAASE and crying. Don't smile either. Smiling and saying no is an actual mixed message.
Is it possible to be born with chronic depression?
My dad died one month before I was born. I'm not sure if this affected my growth as a fetus. One of my earliest memories is me around 4 years old, with my class on pre-school making father's days gifts. I remember asking the teacher if I could go to the bathroom, closing the stall and crying. After that I cleaned my tears and went back to class like nothing happened.
The same cycle has been repeating itself for the past 24 years, and I was wondering if you can be born with depression as opposed to develop it along the years.
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I don't think people normally get born with chronic depression, but I suppose it can happen.
Some people do start depression extremely early though.
Have you been seeing a psychiatrist? What about a therapist? They're really integral parts of the treatment process for depression, and you need to make sure you get access to these things if you don't have them already.
I've had major depression and chronic depression for seven years, and am currently getting ECT done.
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>>16893044
sad != depressed
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>>16893054
Yes I have and they never helped me. Neither did medication. But I'm sorting things out.
I was just wondering if my mom going through a hard time during her pregnancy might have caused some damage to me as a fetus.
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feel bad for the kid
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>>16893036
>watching people play videogames
You're worse
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So after a suicide attempt last week, I've been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and strung out on Prozac.
I reacted ridiculously negatively to the diagnosis because I know the common stereotype behind it (women with borderline are crazy) and the doctors stopped using it to refer to me. They spoke to my parents and they refuse to say I have it now, everyone keeps telling me I don't have it, but I've been assigned to both a therapist and a psychiatrist, as well as DBT (dialetic behavioural therapy), which I've read was specifically designed to treat BPD.
I don't know what to do, /adv/. I just want to be normal and be loved, and the diagnosis is making me uneasy right now. I don't feel like a monster, yet that's all I see about experiences with people with this, it seems. I don't know, I know deep down that it's correct, but I don't want it to be. Does anybody have any experience with this at all?
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Actual diagnosis: extreme autism
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Prozac isn't really something you can get strung out on. I've been on Prozac; it's pretty mild.
Dialectic behavioral therapy is in fact great, and can completely reverse the symptoms of BPD.
>>16893037 is full of fucking shit, and should not be listened to.
Doctors and other mental health professionals know what they are doing. Listen to them.
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>>16893041
I don't mean strung out, but it's making me anxious as fuck constantly. I've gone on three separate runs today, I guess more wired up than anything...
DBT is really helping only after a few days, though. The doctors do think a lot of it stems from abusive relationships and childhood trauma.
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How do I deal with the fact that I always fall intensely for women I can't have? I'm only 20 and I'm on my fourth. It eventually passes but then it happens again. I really don't want to spend my whole life suffering this. Unrequited love is bad enough when it happens once.
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Hook up with a guy?
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Why can't you have them?
If they're single... Do you try?
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Talk to more women. Don't just focus on one.
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Hey so my girlfriend has aspergers. Everything seems to be going well so far. Shes's becoming more comfortable and trusting with me. I'd really like for us to have sex but she's really not comfortable with that. Of course I'm not going to force her to have sex but could perhaps anyone tell me how I could maybe persuade her to give it a go? I think over time as she gets more comfortable with me she'll maybe want to have sex but anything to speed up that process would be nice.
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Honestly as someone who had a huge problem with touching: The best way to get results is to not push for it. You've built trust with her by not pushing, and changing the formula would probably hurt more than help.
My suggestion would be to not be afraid to be sensual. Keeping mind of her boundaries, touch her in ways that she is comfortable with that also make her feel good. If she initiates anything sexual, respond very positively.
You're doing good, OP. Just stick to what's been working and be patient. If her experience is anything like mine, it'll be worth it in the end.
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Ok thanks. I've been reading as much as I can about aspergers so I can understand everything about her more. I'm currently reading the complete guide to aspergers syndrome but I find it a lot easier to understand when people talk to me about it.
Which boards have the least amount of Tumblr, /pol/, and /r9k/ crossposters in it?
I'm so tired of nutjob internet drama. So very tired...
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>>16892938
r/4chan
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>>16892938
Go outside
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/b/? Basically the anti-tumblr.
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About a year ago, I got my first girlfriend. I never thought that I would get a girlfriend. I'm somewhat /r9k/ tier autistic and have trust issues due to being abused and bullied when I was a child and in my early teens .
She really was fantastic, she was also my first kiss and said on multiple occasions that she loved me. It was the first time in my life that I was giddy with happiness. This relationship of ours continued for nearly a year.
Towards the end of the year, I noticed she started to act a bit "off". All of a sudden she texted me out of the blue saying that things are going too fast and maybe we would just be better off as friends. Not even a phone call.
Even stranger was the fact that my best friend suddenly began to ignore me. I found out a day later that they had been having sex on the side for weeks. They both never spoke to me again.
It's been over a year since this happened and I really thought that I was okay with it and had moved on until I saw a picture of them together on Facebook. They have been dating and look extremely happy together. It really hurts desu.
How do I get rid of this feel? Is it normal to feel bitter and sad about it a year later?
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You'll get over it eventually.
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>>16892847
to get rid of it anon you need to stop thinking about them and start thinking about yourself and what do you want to do. Just thinking about what they did to you only makes you more sadder than you already are, just move on. Yes, it is normal to feel bitter about it since you've been cucked. no one likes that
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Yesterday I got to spend the day with my girlfriend.
We are both 18 and seniors in highschool and total virgins.
Like she had her first kiss from me a few weeks ago.
well she brought her record player and we listened to cage the elephants and we started to make out for a while.
Well it got to this point where i suggested i give her a massage and i did. (great at massages) so i got some lavender lotion that my mom made and rubbed the gf's back with it and one thing lead to another.
Now shes leaning back against me as I have my hand in her pants rubbing her off.
I liked it and it was AWESOME. I had never had a girl react that intensely to me touching her before. She was humping my hand her legs were twitching and she was panting on top of me.
And after she left I was certain that i made her cum or something but apparently i HADN'T. She told me that she really liked it but every time i would get her close to climaxing i would switch moves and throw of the rhythm and she wouldn't finish.
I didn't tell her this but the reason I switched motions was because my wrist would cramp after a while from the same repetitive motion.
My advice is what do you guys do to please your ladies? And how do i prevent my wrist from cramping?
mhw its done pleasuring my gf
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>>16892844
>well she brought her record player and we listened to cage the elephants
Shit music taste wouldn't bang
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>>16892844
>not playing free jazz for your high school sweetheart
Permavirgin
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M11SvDtPBhA this gets all the girls wet