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Yes. The only way to interact with her on a normal, non-weird basis is if you run into her again by chance.

Move on. Don't obsess about the one girl you could have had something with. Its weird for girls to feel obsessed about and its not good for your mental health.

He has to save himself.

>>16893604
Tell him to get her committed to an insane asylum or get her therapy. Tell him to threaten to leave her, if she doesn't. If the therapy helps then great at least it'll get his hands clean if she tries to end it.

It should be pretty obvious what to do here.

Does he know her address? Does he have her parents contact info? If yes to either, then he has a way to safely break up with her. If he has her address, he should break up with her and then call the police in the area immediately saying that someone at X address is about to kill themselves. If he has the parents info, shoot them an email saying "your daughter has threatened to kill herself many times if I leave her, obviously I'm not going to date her forever just because of that. can you be at her place at x time of day on x date to make sure she is ok i am afraid she will commit suicide when I break up with her"

>>16893596
I'm an impulsive and emotional eater. I borrowed a weight watchers starter pack from a friend. Just told me how many points I should eat, and I got a point calculator. I lost about 30 pounds in four months just from that.

It just helped me keep my dietary goals in mind and since I was counting points easily and everyday, it really helped me stop overeating.

After I lost some weight, it motivated me to also start working out more. And yea, eventually I stopped needing to count because I got into the routine of healthy eating.

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fatass.

Count your calories either by pen and paper or through an app. MyFitnessPal is the best app out there. Using an app is easier because you can set goals and also it has foods preprogrammed in it. You can scan barcodes and search up any food, even if it's homemade. The list of foods listed on there is mind blowingly big, nothing short of like eating shit or something is not on there.

Counting calories is important because your fatass can't run from a good diet, literally. No matter how much you move your hams, you'll still be a tub of lard if you eat like shit. Don't try to exercise it all.

Don't bother lifting til you're at a reasonable bmi. 15%-17% is probably good, but you're probably fat as fuck so that'll take a long time. Muscles need calories, you don't.

As a former fatty that's all the advice I can give you. Good luck. Fatass.

Go see /fit/ and scoobysworkshop, don't ask here

>>16893585
If you want quick, then anything involving acetaminophen if just about the worst possible choice of method. It can take days before the body finally gives out, all of them excruciating,

If you don't want a relationship, don't start one. That's my advice.

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>>16893572

>Basically how do I make sure I don't get too carried away like the last girl?

Be honest with yourself and with this girl.

There's no guarantee things won't go sideways. You can never be sure. Its called being in a relationship.

Its messy, its unpredictable, its human nature. Either take the ride or don't.

>>16893543
fuck off Chad, get killed by a drunk driver

>>16893543
>>16893543
nice story brah

>>16893543
No, your assessment is correct. Too small. Have her kneel on a footstool or something. Like examine your leverage and realise you're doing the equivalent of deep squats.

Try on top from behind. See if that sorts out your depth problem while you're at it.
Also go to school for engineering. You'd have solved this already if you did.

>>16893524
(2/2)
Worst of all was with the show we had planned this week. To start, I actually managed to get them together and determine how to divide the jobs for the planning/advertising/etc. So, we decided I would plan out the show and make the advertising, and then we decided on the day we'd be setting out ads.

So, I actually put some assignments on hold to make the advertisement. Well... as it turns out, as I was about to send it to the others for proofing, I was greeted with the response, "Oh, we already made and printed them." from two of them. Ok, well then, I could still plan it? Nope, they did that too. Ok, well, at least we could still SET the ads out. Well, I just got an angry call tonight asking where I was and where the chalk was (campus allows us to write on the pavement to advertise events). Well, I was buying it tomorrow morning because we were supposed to be doing it tomorrow... oh, but they remembered to tell the people performing except me. Whoops! Why weren't you paying attention president?

Is school stress making me delusional? Or are these new kids slowly trying to make me seem incompetent so that I can be kicked out? I'm not being paranoid, right? I mean, I've been kicked out of groups before and not when I've been the leader just because people didn't like the weird kid.

>>16893507
What like out of the blue hey let's go out. You havent tried to just talk to her.

You bet your ass she thinks you're retarded.

Start over.
>Hi I'm anon I'm a retard.
>Do you like -thing I like-?

>>16893533
I left out a shit ton of details. But yeah I'm pretty retarded. That was one of the omitted details.

And I guess I had it pretty backwards but I thought the whole first date shit went like this:

"Hey you're attractive let's do something together so I can get to know you better"

But hey what do I know

At keast she rejected you up front, I had some bitch say she'd love to go out with me and then cancel, THREE TIMES. I finally made her say no and then she went out with someone else. I am scared of women now, consider yourself lucky

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Depends on the cause. If you're not socializing enough, so that the second someone pays you the slightest bit of attention you get all excited and can't shut up, socialize more. If you interrupt people because they're going too slow for you, get tested for ADHD. If you just have terrible self-control in general, practice.

>>16893487
You use special ed as an excuse for your own incompetence.

>>16893487
>is in special ed
>wants to go to college for music
Anon it's much harder than you think, I've been playing for 14 years and some of the pieces I've seen still give me trouble

>>16893693
Nah.. Nahh.. If I have the drive to do it, then I can succeed at almost anything. I'm not going to let special ed get the best of me and my dreams. ADHD can kiss my ass

>>16893462
Two chicks at the same time man

>>16893462
Bank it and keep working.
Interest on 1m bux at .75 isnt even half of min wage.

I guess you could develop property with that and make it much faster but you'd be doing it on top of some form of reliable income.

>>16893479
I wish I could cure my depression instantly like peter desu desu.

>>16893453
Try 911.

>>16893453
If you were a girl I would, but women generally don't get kicked out of their houses, and if they do, they can easily find someone to take them in and/or comfort them.

Oh, dear. That's terrible. Can you go to a friend's house?

You had a year to get her....why didnt you do anything? dont blame the other dude for doing what you should have done, you fucked up

>>16893445
You're so salty damn. You had a year to get that and now someone else swooped in while you were twiddling your twat. No one to blame here but yourself.

Also saying shit like 'I think she can be more pretty though' after complimenting her. Well she was obviously pretty enough to get the built dude lmao

It's lost toy syndrome and what this guy looks like is none of your fucking business, grow up.

Power certainly corrupts, but not everyone in those positions are affected by it. There are good leaders who use their positions to better everyone around them, but these people are in short supply. It's a lot quicker to get to the top of the food chain if you're selfish and don't mind stepping on others. I also think those in power forget how to interact with others on a lower level and just bearing a title over them inflates their ego.

It's definitely a psychological issue I hate about humans.

>Do you have to be a jerk to be in charge of something? Do you get taken advantage if you don't project this image? Does power corrupt? Does shit float?

All of the above, but especially the first two. Telling someone to do something without riding their ass often leads to that thing not being done.

Because a lot of people don't have many opportunities to be in power regularly, so when they do get it a lot of people will abuse it. It's the same reason why forum admins like to ban people with impunity, because most of them are 12 year olds that get picked on in school
I don't mean to blogpost but I get what you're saying, there's this military family run yard sale every couple months I go to and they always get their dumb kids to be the traffic conductors. Some of them are decent but there's always the asshole who loves to use the megaphone.
My advice I guess is to just keep contact with them as short as possible. It sucks but that's the best you can do