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Whats a tactful way of finding out if someone is still in a relationship?

Their relationship status isn't on facebook.
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How close are you to them

Are you the guy or girl?

Why do you need to know?
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"Are you seeing anybody currently?"
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>>16914367
Guy, they're sort of in my group of friends but they dont hang out in the group as much. I think they're cute but I vaguely remember her mentioning her boyfriend visiting sometime, so I feel like I should tred carefully or just forget about it.

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Australian melvin with no job or outlying skills. Wanna legally make dollars and succeed in life.
I understand there is no easy make a mill in a minute" but I don't even know where to apply for a casual job

also for info I'm 19
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>>16914352
Apply for any work you think you could do or learn to do.
Any work is experience.
You're only so you have plenty of time to build your skills etc.
Invest in yourself; do a course in something you maybe interested in and improve your skills in the process.
If you get a job you're not happy in, keep working as hard as you can and look for another job.

When you are working, always start on time, look for something to do in between tasks, be willing to learn as much as you can and make sure you ask questions if needed. Too many people say they understand a request and walk away without a clue.
It's always better to ask questions than make mistakes.
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What's your education level?
If you just want something casual/part time, go hand out resumes to shops in your area. Google how to make a resume.
Most people's first job is not their career. People like to know that you have the ability to get out of bed in the morning and go to work. This is especially true if you can hold down a job long term. People who keep swapping jobs might be a problem.
You're quite young. Save money and what you don't save have some fun with.

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Ok, I really screwed up. So I got in a car accident - no one was hurt, just a lot of cars got damaged (5 cars involved).

So anyways, we thought we were insured, but it turns out that our insurance covers people getting injured, but not vehicle damage (confirmed this with our insurance company).

I suspect the total bill could be close to $100,000AU. Is there any people knowledgeable about insurance/car accidents who can tell me if there is any way to reduce the bill/help out?
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I'd get a lawyer if I were you.
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>>16914351
Ok so if your au then im assuming the "insurence" your talking about it the registration you pay to keep your car road legal. This coveres you in the instance of you hurting someone or yourself in a vechiular accident.
Im assuming you're young and retarded thinking that the rego coveres anything else as it states it when you receive your rego renewal.
Now
In australia if you want to be covered for PROPERTY damage, then you need at the minimum 3rd party insurence (this is the cheapest form or car insurence you can get and only coveres other peoples property) if you want your car covered aswell then you need comprehensive insurence.
Now you are fucked. Like. Hyoer fucked ... do you work ? Are you on disability? How do you earn money ?

Describe what happened in detail invloving the accident and ill do my best to find you an out. HOPEFULLY you haven't admitted fault yet.
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>>16914389
I have CTP - but found out that only covers if people get injured, not vehicle damage - note compulsory third party does NOT include vehicle damage (please check your own insurance too).

Car is really old so I am just writing it off (uninsured it because it was old).

Permanent full time ($50k gross p/a), no disability. Government work.

So yeah, I basically crashed into another car, and unbeknownst to me, it had a domino effect onto 4 cars in front of me. It was in wet weather, so it took longer to break. Cops came asked the story, I told them that I breaked as fast as I could, but the rain made it more slippery and therefore it wasn't enough.

I was the car at the very back of the crash, so I assumed that I would only be responsible for the person in front, but apparently I am told that the car at the very back is responsible for everyone in front.

Currently am waiting for the insurance companies quote.

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Are psychologists/psychiatrists/whatever worth it?

I want to break out of NEETdom and the mindset that comes with it, as well as overcome some anxiety, but I really don't think I can do it alone.

Should I make the call and get a referral?
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I think they can be very useful tools if you let them be.

I had a psychiatrist I met weekly through middle and part of highschool. At that point though I was very reluctant to open myself and so didn't really connect with him. We mostly just sat in silence and then discussed medication dosages at the end. Overall it wasn't very helpful.

My sister on the other hand still has therapy and takes medication, and she's very happy with it. She has a more open personality and really likes the psychologist she meets.

What it comes down to is if you're comfortable with the person. If you decide to see someone don't be afraid to tell them everything, and if a particular person isn't working don't be afraid to switch.
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Im sorry but there is no cure for lazy
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It's worth it if you stick to your treatment and are honest with them. Also you have to make sure you find someone good - "shopping around" can be helpful to make sure your provider is compatible with you.

How do I deal with tinnitus?

I can't hear it only when I listen to music, otherwise it's always there.
I also apparently can't go to concerts anymore, because even if I use ear plugs I still feel that it's become worse the next day.

Has anyone tried Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Tinnitus? Did it work?
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Do you have trouble sleeping? A white noise machine could help.
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what is tinnitus
is it a "peeeeeep" noise that you hear?
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>>16914344
I can sleep, but because it's so loud at night I feel really anxious before sleeping. I fear it will become worse as I grow older (I'm 28).

>>16914345
something like that, it can also be a ringing or a "whooosh" sound, depending on the person

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Hey /adv/, I just need some advice on how to not fuck up an almost 3 year LDR relationship.

We've been together for almost 3 years now with almost no issues, however, earlier this night she said she doesn't know whether or not she wants to break up with me. She claims to love me and doesn't want to hurt me, but she knows fully well breaking up with me would do the worst. (Not suicide, but, severe depression.)
I know it's because of my constant pestering about who she's talking to or what she's doing, but that was only because she just closed up. She was open about this kind of thing and now it's driven a wedge between us.

I've changed and I've gotten over asking her constantly what she's doing or who she's talking to, I've given her the time away she's wanted but.. I don't think it's going to change her mind. I believe she truly does want to end it with me.

I don't want to lose her, she's my best friend and I've done so much for her. I do want to live a long life with her, but now I don't know how she feels. I try to not message her but I get upset and guilty message her.

How can I not fuck this up so I don't lose the love of my life? I don't want to be a lonely prick and lose the best thing that has ever happened to me in my sad little life.
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>>16914332
Any way of finally meeting up? Long distance relationships only work with the prospect of working towards meeting up and actually continuing the relationship together. Think to yourself, is there any possible way you could finally be together? Am I willing or prepared to make this happen? What will my future look like with her? And plenty of other questions like that. If your answer to most if not all of those are no, then break up is probably your best solution because it's a dead end relationship. If yes, pack your stuff and go (so to speak). Your call, anon.
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People change. Within three years, chances are she has changed as well. She is acting differently than she has before, which is more evidence that she has become a different person.

This doesn't necessarily end a relationship, but you did heavy damage by being controlling when she "closed up." You didn't accept her, and she mentally stepped away from you and realized she preferred it.

You can pull things back to being good, but it will take something drastic, and even then it may be too late.

Sad OP. I feel pity for you, but there are other women, it will just take you finding the next one.

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Okay, first and foremost, what I'm about to say is completely hypothetical. Secondly, I'm a little drunk. This is sort of a non-issue but I'm interested to get /adv/'s take on it. All right, here goes.
>So my "friend" met a girl on Tinder claiming to be 19.
>This "friend" of mine is 23.
>This girl looks really young even for a 19 year old.
>In a kind of flirty way, trying to compliment her, he says that she looks 16 at most.
>She responds saying she's 12.
>My "friend," not knowing if she's joking or not, immediately stops messaging her.
>She messages back shortly after saying she's joking and that she's 19.
>He continues messaging her back, but warily, asking her multiple times if she is really 19 like she says she is, and she says yes she is.
> Reluctantly, he goes to meet up with her the same night of messaging her back and forth.
>My "friend" had already had a few beers but the place wasn't far.
>She texted him saying she had a curfew and couldn't go out to meet anywhere.
>Another red flag.
>He checks the address she gave him carefully. It looks legit, like a normal house.
> It's 2 am by the way.
Cont.
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>He parks at a fire station right by her house. >He texts her to come meet him there. >She says she can't because if she tries to leave she'll wake up her parents. >This is bad. >She says to come to her window. >"And do what?" my friend is thinking. >"I'm going to get robbed or something," my friend is also thinking. >He eventually walks over and goes to the window. >Well, at least it really is a girl. >Warily, he approaches. >The girl climbs out the window. She's very short and frail. >They talk for a minute. >The girl admits she's 15. >Nope.jpg >He tells her that he could have been some crazy fucker who wanted to hurt her and that she should be more careful and he leaves. >He should've deleted her number right then and there. >She texts him shortly after, telling him she really wants to be with him, blah blah blah. >He tells her again that she's lucky he wasn't someone who wanted to hurt her and that she should stop talking to him. >She wants to see him again tomorrow. We all know what "my friend" should do, but I'm curious how you would handle this situation. I can -- I mean "MY FRIEND" can still smell her smell on him as he types this. Well, as he stands next to me I mean.
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I think you should work on your baiting game t b h w y f a m.

Pretty weak. s m d h
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If it sounds like a bad idea, it IS a bad idea.

ITT: /adv/isory screencaps, infographics, etc.

No strict topic, just make sure it's good.
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>>16914304

Here I found the one for women:
>just b qt
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bump for interest

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Hi /adv/
I feel more and more addicted to my bf, and it is heavy going for me. What should I do?
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Marry him.
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Tell him you love him and then kiss him.
Unless you are both male, that being the case kill yourself.
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Is he cool with you being so addicted?

My girlfriend and I are becoming more distant, things I used to tolerate now really really fucking irritate me, she's really lazy to get a job of sorts and down right refuses to even try to learn to drive (though she has already drove for 10 hours of lessons.) I feel like I'm being weighed down, in my life I want to eventually go to work in America, I want to have an adventure based life such as rock climbing, shooting, archery etc. Here's the part where I may be an asshole, she has got cystic fibrosis, now I know it's a deabilitating condition, she is very well of in terms of the illness but won't try to even walk a small mountain ( Yorkshire peaks for instance.)

What do adv? All I want is a shooting adventure type girl, though I'm sure those are very rare
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>All I want is a shooting adventure type girl, though I'm sure those are very rare

Go shoot and go on adventures more, and you will find them.
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>>16914287
Not cyctic fibrosis, cerebral palsy
Fuck it's too early if I'm making mistakes like that
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>>16914287
>What do adv?
You're not happy and you're letting her hold you back. Someone like her isn't going to improve unless they absolutely have no choice. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a woman-child?

>All I want is a shooting adventure type girl, though I'm sure those are very rare
Not so. They're out there living life.

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They're doing employee appreciation things and there's a bulletin board we've been stapling flowers with messages to. They say things like "Jane- working with you is always a pleasure!"

I wrote one to the lovable asshole we have. He jokes around constantly and is a lot of fun. So I wrote "Jeff- you mean well."

On my flower and put it up. But now I'm having second thoughts. Mine is the only snarky message up there and it sticks out maybe. Is this okay or should I take it down before anyone sees it?

Sorry if this is dumb.
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>>16914271
If you are having second thoughts take it down.
Better safe than sorry.
Or add to it - 'You mean well, and you're an overachiever'
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>>16914285
He's not an overachiever though. He's mostly an asshole. A crude asshole.

Idk man maybe I'll just take it down

Think he'd love it though desu
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>>16914298
I don't get it, are you trying to be accurate and truthful here, or are you trying to pander to the work crowd?
Why say anything about him at all? He's a crude asshole, and this is the appreciation wall..

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I am interviewing an 80 year old man and must write about his life. I need some interesting questions to ask him.
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I would avoid doing mostly historic questions OP (what was WWII like or what was the Cold War like) and shit like that. Maybe one or two if he had any interesting information on them, but otherwise, do some cultural questions. How was school life like? What are things people do today that they didn't do then? Things that you could ask someone at about any age, but at something like 80, the answers will be much more rare.

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Men of /adv/, how would you feel if your girlfriend denied you two had sex because you didn't orgasm during penetration during the 20+ times you've penetrated her? Let's say for some reason you couldn't (ex: couldn't cum into condom). She believes that 'it's only sex if both partners orgasm during penetration'.
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Pretty shitty? Is this even a question?
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What is this retarded question?
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I'd feel suicidal and kill myself for being with such a stupid fucking cunt. God I hate people. I hate men, I hate women, I hate everyone equally. The only thing I love is my dog because it isn't a stupid fucking faggot or cunt. I hope a huge asteroid destroys Earth and wipes out this cancerous species. You're all fucking idiots.

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Hey /adv/
I met my girlfriend around 5 years ago. 2 years ago she became depressed and im the only source that keeps her happy.
I love her alot but she is starting to take it as granted. Starting to ignore me and cutting me off when i speak, bingeing, talks about things that she knows i hate, expects me to help her lose weight that she gained when she got during her depression.
Im starting to get a social life and talking to people. I want her to experience it as well but she laughs and calls me stupid
Im thinking of pumping another girl and tell her about it so she will acually rely less on me and possibly help herself up
Would this work and would it be ethical?
(P.s she has barely friends and i know her enough and she isnt cheating on me)
Also pic unrelated.
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>>16914241
>Im thinking of pumping another girl and tell her about it so she will acually rely less on me and possibly help herself up

i think it's awful that you're trying to justify your desire to cheat by framing it as being the first step in helping to improve your partner's life.

if you TRULY believe that doing that would somehow help her, you're delusional.

with that having been said, i think it's fair for you to be unhappy with your partner. tell her what you just posted here. explain to her that things have changed and you're unhappy. if you're willing to work on it, tell her that you're willing to try and change things if she is too. if you're ready to leave, end the relationship.

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I'm a lonely bastard and I'm almost 22.

Today I got into habbo hotel and I was just chatting with a 16 year old girl that lives in a different country (right next to mine).

I ended up giving her my phone for whatsapp because she said she rarely plays habbo, am I fucked?

How fucked am I? I genuinely don't want to fuck her or to get her nudes, I just want a friend.
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want to suck my dick. im in for some erotic experiences on the habbo hotel
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>>16914195
chatting with teenagers isn't illegal. just don't be a dumbass and everything will be okay.

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