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Thats her probplem. If she to stupid to stop giving him attemtion than u are stupid for continually chooaing to date her. Chicks gotta drop her own baggage off.

>>16916719
She doesn't know how to get rid of him... And see been trying

>>16916705
Your girl is useless fampai. Put on the boy pants and some dirty work.

You bigger n he is senpai? Tell him to fuck off and if he doesn't, beat his ass like he beat her.

But I expect you'll just piss off your girl by doing that because she likes having the attention.

So really you can't do anything.

>>16916696

>what do you do whe nyou have absolutely no direction in life

find direction

>BUT HOW

take time off, work a horrible job, and realize that being a boring forensics student is way better than working at the gulp and go.

>>16916696
Defer for a year

>>16916701
This sounds like an alright suggestion,
>>16916706
I don't exactly know what that means..

You mean he's just saying it because you do? You said it first? Not really sure what to tell you, why do you think he's loving out of obligation?

Tell him u want to fuck. After an unsatisfying sexual encounter move on with your life.

Your story is almost similar to mine except i'm a guy had a quick fling with this girl but she didn't want anything serious later she got a bf and i'm also jelly as hell. And i also fucked it up. Haven't seen her in months

>>16916678
Hes not gonna go for that tho

Since most major websites are proven to have little to no actual security (I read a hilarious story about that how a guy on Amazon kept getting his identity stolen because Amazon support kept fucking up), this depends entirely on how much you trust the different services you use around the interwebs and how much you trust them. A photo of an ID can obviously be used in some ways - but also they'd need your E-mail and/or similar data too.

It's weird that she wanted this photo, but it's not really likely that she'd go through the effort of making an OkCupid, meeting with someone in person, and then making a photo of their ID. It would be way too obvious.

>>16916652

Yes you retarded fuck. It has your ID# and your fucking address on it. Do you realize what sort of damage could be done by having those things?

This is grounds for identity theft and you should call your credit unions immediately to set your accounts on alert in case anything suspicious happens.

Tell her you really want to fuck her after a romantic evening. Then follow through after she says yes

>>16916649
Tell her you admire her body and want to see more.

>>16916737
The real problem is that op is a pussy and is afraid of sex.
Id be insecure about my body if my boyfriend hasnt tried to fuck me in over a year

>>16916631
Why just one?

>>16916631
Woah the classic meat up with a stranger from the internet. What could possibly go wrong? Easy to pick up at the bar, cheaper too

>>16916659
Its like the girl who u meet online wants to fuck. And the girl you meet at a bar probably wants to fuck

>>16916618
*questionmark

>>16916618
Study film in your part time and as a hobby.

Dont quit your day job for something as capricious and unstable as filmmaking.

Or you can go full tarantino and instead of spending money on tuition, you can budget your feature film.

The question is: are you good?

>>16916618
I dropped out of a good engineering school to pursue my interests.

Don't do it. You are paying $50k per year for a piece of paper that will make other people pay you far more than that for the rest of your life. Don't throw away that piece of paper for one that more closely follows your interests, but in a field which is hard to enter.

She probably has no desire to talk t you op

Maybe but I'm not a beta cuck where I just sit there and do nothing while I feel something for someone....

Help a solo pilot without a wingman out

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Who will be my wingman... they're all graduated and flying high.

Help me.

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>>16916589
I've started as a kid and dragged it into adulthood. I often use various tools such as twizzers, knives, razor blades, scissors etc. It sorta started to feel good but i'm ashamed afterwords.

>>16916589
I even ripped the whole nail off a few times. I do it mostly at night. I also can't stop myself from scrathing scabs.

Here's a wild suggestion: stop.

>>16916497

if something didn't work the first time it's not gonna work the second time unless some fundamental parameters changed

-einstein or vaas or someshit

>>16916509
Pretty deep.

Well, we're a little older and both of us have fooled around with other people and gotten some experience with being in a relationship.
We were both virgins had never had any romantic experiences before,

Do you think this is good enough to count as a fundamental change?

Just talk to her about her previous lack of interest. Tell her you want someone who will give you more attention. If she does that to everyone, she's probably just an introvert, but relationships need compromise and she'd have to improve.

If she doesn't wanna do that, she's probably not that into you.

get so high that you don't give a fuck what the haters say

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>>16916554
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Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me.

- John 14:6

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If any man would come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross and follow Me.

- Mark 8:34

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All people are equal in Christ. (Gal. 3:28)

>>16916451
Three options come to mind.

1. Join the chairforce and do the reserves, you'll see no combat and the military is like welfare 2.0

2. Start working out and get into landscaping or construction.

3. Try reading books on programming and learn a language or two. There's tons of resources online and you have a chance of getting a good job but keep in mind you would increase your luck with a degree.

Also, car salesman. If you're good at convincing people, you can make it big there. My uncle owns Toyota of Nashua and he started off with grunt work before getting that high.

start by spelling diploma right

If I embrace my weakness I will never get a woman or it will be hard and I'll end up "cucked" because I can't provide what a woman seeks (although I do have a big dik). Women want an active man who can protect them, lead, get stuff done, etc. I would have to be with a guy who likes me. Well I could probably be happy in a relationship with a man (I'm bi but prefer women), but a gay relationship is so foreign and I couldn't handle the stigmas. I was raised by conservative Christians and I hold those traditional values myself. I want to fill the role of man of the house, have a family, etc.

So I'm leaning toward working to be more manly. This will take A LOT of money, time, and effort. I'd be more content with myself fulfilling the traditional roles of a man. I'd make myself and my family proud and wouldn't be ashamed of myself in public. My worry is it will all be in vain. As my dad has aged he has become less manly and more of a weak, insecure, "cuck" type. I feel like that's his true self and he used to just try to hide it. What if in spite of all my efforts, being a feminine beta male is just what I'm meant to be? Then I would be best off working toward embracing it, and instead of wasting my time trying to become the man I was never meant to be, I could redirect those fruitless efforts to more meaningful pursuits.

This whole conundrum may seem silly but it's a very serious, life-changing decision. Do I try to "be myself" even if that means no women will ever love me? Or is it impossible to change who I am anyway?