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Try stocking positions.

Or if you can get a class D license, try part time security work.

This is a touchy situation my dude, did you feel like you connected better with this other lady or are you feeling residual emotions from a long term relationship/connection with someone else, because that's a real natural thing
>wall of txt
>rly sorry

>>16915231
I don't think I connected better with the ex vs the current. Its hard for me not to care about someone who I loved so much, albeit a few years ago. Our relationship crashed and burned hard at the end. I don't have any desire to get back into a relationship with her.

>>16915241
Hmmm I guess if you really believe it's plutonic and you can trust yourself not to
>g e t y o u r p e e n w e t
then contact her, even if it's behind your current girlfriend's back, there's no absolutes, things are rarely black and white so I wouldn't get caught up on morality.

Or the antithesis that you really are missing the wet peen and or you miss the feeling you had then, rather than the actual person.

I had an instance of this with an old ollld friend of mine, someone I was extremely close with years ago. We tried connecting again and it was just sad, we are two completely different people now and the friendship is long dead, we were just strangers who shared great memories 5 or 6 years ago.

Idk friend, as long as you're not slipping it to ex lady do what you like, just be discrete.

well, post what you look like so we can help you

>>16915218

By taking decision, by taking care of others.

>Short or short medium length hair.
>Facial hair (please note there's a very fine line between well kept facial hair and neckbeard basement-dweller tier).
>Dressing well.
>Having an alpha personality.

Just do it. In life we have to do a lot of things that we may not feel good about but that's life.

Plus if you don't, it gives your boss more reason to let you go.

That doesn't sound like a fairweather friend. It sounds like someone who is really uncomfortable around and unequipped to deal with personal tragedies. He's either not had a lot of them in the past or has experienced way too many. Either way, the last impression that I'd get is that this is personal.

>>16915194
That's my thoughts too. I don't think he has a grudge against us but either way i feel like I'm getting punished for having a shitty horrible year. I mean if he cared he could Google how to help your friend through tragedy.

>>16915194
This. I'm exactly the same as your friend. I feel for you, truly, but I'm not equipped to express it. Lost my best friend in college when his girlfriend died tragically and I tried to give him space while I took up doing all the house chores and his class work. I just didn't know how to verbally comfort him and we drifted apart because of it.

This entire situation is unusual. Stop looking at her Facebook. Stop thinking of contacting your ex. Stop freaking out.

I probably wouldn't unless somehow the picture is having a real negative effect on your life (like she's slandering your name in the comments). It's best to leave bad break ups in the past and move forward with your own life.

It's just because we live in a small as fuck town

>>16915181
Sounds like you need a long break from weed. Why do you think you need to keep smoking if it's not enjoyable for you anymore?

>>16915188
taking a break might make it worse once you smoke again
>>16915181
it might be the strain you have, try another and see how it makes you feel. Also take only a hit or two of your current strain and see if that makes it less intense.

>>16915181
Possibly the strain or quality of weed you are smoking. Swag, sativa, and indica all have different effects on different people... Try something else.

That does sound like just another admin job.

>>16915172
well could be, what I wouldnt give for another admin job, I tell ya.

Stop being such an insecure moron. Knew a lot of people like you, always annoying.

>>16915225
Yeah. That's why i want to stop. I just don't know how...

Take tons of photos of yourself and get same face. It's good for confidence in photos. You know how it will come out and it's not really a new photo. It's just another angle on the same take.

Is it really that bad?

>Was asked to change headline
Why are you upset with this? This is what a job is. You do stuff in exchange for money.

>>16915199
They give a headline, I update it, then they have me change it.

Then they bitch that it's 18px and they want it 16pt.

Yea, it's my job, but they're bullshit requests that stack up and become unmanageable. That's one request from one person. I have 48 email requests flagged in my inbox. All 9 of these fools don't have their shit together and run around like chicken with their heads cut off and make me deal with their fuck ups.

>>16915361
My bad, it's 16px and they want 12pt. It's practically the same fucking thing, and the last thing they should give a fuck about while I'm swamped and their MIL is dead.

Not to mention everything is coded in fucking pixels and not points on the goddamn email.

Research chemicals aren't something to fuck with senpai

>>16915135
most likely the weed unless you are on one of the others the whole time.

i should probably add that >>16915215 is only true if your list is correct and your drugs were the substances you thought. there are many substances sold as mdma that actually give you a brain damage.

No advice?

Post the conversation

My understanding is that youtube is best to do 16:9 on because you don't get black bars (top bottom). But some find that appealing. But obviously you can just add those.
3:2 and 4:3 is going to have them. I don't see the point in shooting like that. It's vine tier aspect ratio choice. It looks terrible on YouTube.

Any specifics about the project?

Also I'm uneducated, I've just played around with server-side video processing and done a few crappy youtube videos. Best video has 11k in 7 years lol.

>>16915141
I was thinking that. I tried a test video in 3:2 and it was sort of boxed in. I suppose it made people view it in wide screen to get the best experience of it.

It's just a short horror thing. I studied film a few years ago and kind of fell away from it with other stuff taking up all my time. I'm going to get back into making shorts, but I'm starting with something easy.
One location, minimum dialogue and two actors. Pretty simple stuff.

>>16915155
Ok. I think that most people who do horror mainly do narrow shots. That's the impression I have. So you want 16:9 most likely (because 4:3 is just ugly so it's not an option) but I find movies that don't follow such conventions to be much more interesting. A wider aspect ratio could be more interesting. More engaging because you're not as used to it. Might even make the impression of he world different. Should probably do some testing and consider this a bit.
I don't know any of the terminology so I can't express what I find appealing well. But my impression of most artsy educations is to teach you what works and what doesn't. It's your excursions into the unknown that are interesting.

>>16915107
12 years and you've never been to the doctors? Even for something else you could still ask what it is :|

I never complained about it, so my parents never cared about it (yeah they're not the best type of parents). I'm thinking about going to my family doctor to ask about it. But I wanted to come here and ask if someone knew the answer.

>>16915148
That's good , you should do that since it worries you. Sadly I have not seen something similar .

Where do you live where girls aged 27 look terrible?

27? Not even 30? So women still in their twenties looks terrible to you? You sure you're not a closeted pedo?

>>16915069
I think the formula is half your age plus seven, but honestly man who gives a shit. Eighteen's legal, thus regardless of how old you are eighteen is the youngest you can date.