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Apply for jobs as a Chinese food delivery boy. I'm sure there will be a few working at those restaurants.

Japan, Korea, China...

Those kinda places

Universities

>>16912129
That's retarded, find a new gf and a new counsellor

Is that exactly precisely the way your therapist said it? Are you sure your therapist didn't say something about not being a paranoid weirdo constantly obsessed about whether or not your girlfriend is cheating on you, which would explain why you're seeing a therapist in the first place?

>>16912179
Actually I was talking about how she interferes with study and college life in general to make me revolve around her, and on top of that I mentioned how she has a bunch of sluttty friends that gargle cum every night and that she hangs out with them and what not and my could celor says
"That none of your business what she does you need to focus on your college" then I questioned her wtf? We are in a relationship then she says she thinks ibhave depression..... Deadset this had to be some sort of femenist power trip or something

first you need to get a personality

considering how you're someone who has sadfrog shit saved on their computer i can safely assume you have none at the moment

>>16912123
I actually had to search it up before posting.
I just told you friends wont help so a personality means nothing.

I need motivation or something.
Whenever I try to leave I get pulled right back in.

>>16912109
bump

>>16912109
have those things be inside jokes from a night at the bar.

you won't be able to keep it up

>I know there isn't really shit we can do about it
Unless there's a law against it in your area (state, province, whatever). Look into it.

Also if he threatens it with an attached demand, that's immediately illegal everywhere.

>>16912111
He lives in another country atm which probably complicates things irreparably.

>>16912103
there is something you can do OP. End the relationship right now. You may think you know the whole story but you don't. There must have been a trigger for a guy out of the picture for two years to "suddenly feverishly" try to rekindle

>>16912094
being in a relationship she is going to let her guard down and be totally dependent from time to time, and probably a bitch.

Depends on how serious you are really.

>>16912097
Four years of seeing each other 3-4 times a week. We are both working professionals, shes finishing up grad school, and we're each other's best friend and share everything with each other.

Of course we're dependent on each other, but her bipolar diagnosis has seemed to throw her off the deep end recently, and shes been showing a lot of out of character behavior. New groups of friends she won't go into detail about, piercings, heavy marijuana use, etc. I know that smoking weed is likely exaggerating her bipolar symptoms, but she refuses to admit it and regularly misses her therapy sessions.

She claims she's always been so focused on her school/career that she hasn't had much fun in her youth. She says she's anxious about this being her last semester before getting her master's, that it's her last chance to get all of the typical college reckless fun b/s out of her system before becoming a serious professional. I've always made sure to do anything she's ever wanted to, from vacations to concerts to expensive meals, so I'm not sure where it's coming from unless she's just getting tired of me.

I'm hoping its just her bipolar symptoms going through a cycle.

pretend you're drinking but obviously don't have any alcohol and be the vibrant life of the party. as everyone gets wasted you'll feel good knowing you're in control and sharp thinking and witty.

>>16912093

Hey OP, alcoholic here too... that social crutch is really a big deal for me too. I'm also on a sober stint (but I don't feel as good as you do).

Something that works for me occasionally is energy drinks. I find that if I'm more hyper, I'm more chatty, and I get a little more comfortable myself in a bit.

It isn't easy to be the sober person at the bar, especially when everyone thinks you're the life of the party. I normally just play it off as the cool guy that's working out and getting in shape - funny enough, people don't seem to question vanity as much as they do "having a problem" or "I just don't want to drink."

It's probably best to come clean with your buddies, but I wouldn't bring up the awkwardness to women or new people right off the bat.

dont make the trucks too loose, but loose enough to be flexible.
watch loads of skate vids
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LBBrXDmRS5g
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9pl-f5S5zaQ
don't push mongo

Just support your local skateshop and have them put something together for you.

>>16912018
So, what exactly do you need help with?

I'd like to know this too, specially ways to not get lonely for a spergmaster.

Bump

130,000 people is nothing. not even compared to where you're coming from. you must be a real cracker to think that's so colossal.
the only new problem you're going to have is choosing which fast food chain you want to eat at.

>You're gonna hate it
>Make friends with locals to learn the city
>Homeless people can be ungrateful as fuck
>That being said, they will help you out if you befriend and frequently help out/get food for the local ones. Just be smart about which ones you talk to
>Have fun parking
>It's really pretty on rooftops/high rises
>Your bike can still get stolen even if it's locked up
>Don't leave electronics in your car
>The city air will literally shorten your lifespan
>If you're in a park or something, avoid bums/people you see camping. Train hoppers are basically impossible to track down by law enforcement and have no qualms about robbing/raping/killing you
>Bring sleeping pills; you'll need them the first few days
>Lots of drugs
>If your pet runs away, you can say goodbye to it
>Don't smoke weed in alleys; the cops on patrol make sure to look/cruise through there
>Smile. You're always on camera

No.

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>>16912088
>grabs throat and spits into face whispering into ear
>"whore"

>>16912487
Cool. Go outside today.

Hmm. I read it twice and it looks like he called you fatty. Is that your name?

>>16912000
I bet your fat

Only way to see if he wants a relationship or to fuck you is to see him again, go get a coffee or something and catch up with him

>>16912000
I think you're both fat and I want you to have short painful lives.

My advice is that you don't do it so publicly. This is best handled through word of mouth.

>>16911959
How do I do that though? I don't have any friends so I'm kinda fucked in that department

>>16911966
Make some friends.

How old are you?
Metabolism and diet and all that other stuff plays a role in your appetite.

Are you overweight, or were you actually diagnosed by a professional with an eating disorder?

Eat a tablespoon or more of vaseline daily, it should cleanse your colon (if it works for my ferret it should work for you.)

Or just get an enema, if you're really overweight you should get a gastric bypass surgery (I watched a vid about it and the obese woman said she was no longer interested in food.)

move to ethiopia. no more than 2000 calories per day. guaranteed.

>>16911933
You're going to be fine, a break is something everyone needs sometimes. especially if its causing you some serious strife.

On the other side of that, if she really was just the bee's knees and your best friend then surely she knows and its hard for her. Make it clear when you feel like circumstances would merit talking again. Missing out on great friendship is a plague.

>>16911953
>Missing out on great friendship is a plague.

Exactly. Maybe I'll get back in touch after a year off. Maybe things'll be different then.

Still talk to her or she'll move on entirely.

She probably crying to her partner now about it and he probably knows you did it because you were romantically attracted to her. So when you come back and they're still together it'll be worse.

Find a girlfriend or something or talk it out with your friend