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>>16914193
This all started three years ago, in the summer. The woman who owned the home died and her son moved in, the guy I'm talking about. Things were fine, didn't talk to him, he left me alone, I left him alone. Wasn't really interested in knowing anything about him.

One day, I was bored as hell, and went for a walk. I was walking when he was driving past and my mp3 player died. I kind of did this "what the fuck" motion in anger of it dying not even a block from the house. He saw it, slammed on the brakes and spun around in the seat and started cussing at me. I acted like I didn't hear him and he drove off.

>>16914193
Keep arms in ur house and car, and get a cc permit asap. Try to talk to the guy, but always prepare for the worst.

Can u give more background?

>>16914193
So I think he thought I was doing that motion at him. Since then he's been confrontational. It started with little things, staring, pointing and staring with his friends outside. Things that made me worry about his intentions. Trying to be the better person, I tried to ignore it, and I did. The last two years have been like that. Being really uncomfortable when I'm outside, feeling like he's going to kick my ass pretty much.

>>16914154
Up your blowjob game.

>>16914129
You're 22. Why are you fighting with your parents like you're 14? Did you never grow up and move out?

>>16914139
I'm trying to keep relations with em, my dads threatened to disown me and I'd rather that not happen

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>join the military at 22
>dad is 'concerned' that I don't have enough testosterone
>sex once = pregnant or STD
>is this girl a trap
>she's trying to get me into a relationship with this 15 year old girl and I'm 22

go the fuck to bed memelord

>>16914101
>Why does /adv/ contradicts?
/adv/ is full of different people with different backgrounds and opinions. It's simple.

>>16914101

yeah people disagree on stuff.

>>16914101
Those two threads are asking very different things.

>>16914100
Watch some Dotchi no Ryori. They go to a lot of farms in Japan.

>>16914100
Well the average age of a Japanese farmer is like 65

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There was only one person shilling in that thread, and it was definitely me. I've worked on a apple and peach orchard for some time now with a group of friends in Japan I connected with during study abroad back in college. It is probably not the 'typical' experience a foreigner will get off the bat, because most people go through services that set them up with families/farmers.

There are lots of old people farming, so the industry and communities are literally dying out. There is a significant movement by the Japanese government right now to get young people working. As such, there are a growing number of young Japanese people that are moving from the city to the countryside because the industry is getting more and more subsidized to generate demand in the job market.

There are a sponsored programs like WWOOF to bring foreigners in to work on farms, on top of study abroad opportunities in universities to do the same for a summer (albeit those are in nicer, more desirable areas). In any case these are not permanent jobs, but if you learn the language, are hard working, and are fortunate enough to get bunked up with some good farmers-- you will make connections and have a better understanding on how to hunt for a job like mine. Nagano is generally the easiest prefecture to get a job working with younger people-- because it is more developed and has good draws like hiking, snowboarding, etc. The companies will likely try to send you to Hokkaido, which is a neat place but not particularly youthful.

I was stretching the truth about tons QT 3.14 college girls working beside you. There are a few, but generally you'll be working with middle-age and up people. Try to get a job in a "U-Pick" type place-- lots of city tourist girls will come your way. The surrounding community may or may not have 3.14 QTs to flirt with, depending on where you are located. Even still, it's not hard to find one.

>>16914052

look sexy to me, but i find my own red spots to be rather annoying sooooo

maderma 8 week scar lightening cream.

>>16914078
How does it look sexy o_o

>>16914093

its not like they're pimples. any other form of markings besides some big hairy mole is considered endearing. ur face could be a little 'harder' for it, but i wouldnt worry about them at all.

at the very least they stop you from being toooo baby faced.

but ur a qt and the marks look nice imo. i wouldnt worry about them. but if you must, maderma, 8 weeks, should bleach em

>>16914023
>however I don't want to be a rebound for her.
All you can do is give her time and hope for the best.

>For the first few weeks i saw her she had a boyfriend however she would tell me she no longer had feelings for him and was attracted to me.
Red flags. Red flags everywhere.

>>16914046
>Red flags. Red flags everywhere.
Concur. You like drama, OP?

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>>16914013
Go there?

no i will never do something like that, i think is a waste of time/money, inmoral and if someone discover me doing that i can get in trouble

>>16914001

Someone with testicular cancer has something like a 95-99 percent survival rate, at least that's what the Internet tells me. I've also read it's one of the easier types of cancers to treat.

Just wait for your physical.

Also, this is just a hunch, but do you think you might have obsessive thoughts? Is it just testicular cancer that's worried you over the years?

Testicles aren't supposed to be perfectly smooth you know. I'm sure you've checked it out - there's a thing called Epididymis which runs along the back side of your testicles. Right at the bottom is where the tube ends, and it sometimes can become as hard as rock. I know because I've felt it. Even when it's soft it still feels like a lump.

You could safely wait till your physical, IMHO.

>>16914086

Yeah, the doctor told me that's what it was many years ago.

I don't know on the obsessive thought front... I do have a ton of recurring thoughts about my work schedule and time and such, constantly reminding myself what day it is... But I don't obsess about much else.

>>16914001
well you should see a doctor for sure

I had one, and it turned out to just be a cyst caused by sperm escaping the teste

>>16913997
is that a picture of a young sarah silverman?

>>16913997

Do you have access to
>Kitchen?
>Transportation?
>Market?
>Restaurants?
>Friends/coworkers who'll help with food if you provide the funding?

Soylent.
DIY recipes are readily available, cheaper than the commercial version, and avoid the G/I side effects the original comes with.

It's not for everyone but I think for your scenario you should look into it. You can prepare the mix the day before, leave it in the fridge while you sleep, and then grab it on the way out etc.

>>16913979
You can't just frame these things as "right or wrong". What's your goal? If it was to have a successful relationship with this girl, then yeah you made bad decisions.

This happened a while ago and in the moment I didn't feel like that might hurt the girl I liked feeling's (which it definitely did) I was just looking for other people's opinions on the subject

I dumped the kindest, sweetest, most compatible woman I've ever known over this and it was the biggest mistake of my life.

Don't do it.

get out of the relationship. LDR is retarded, should never ever be done by anyone. Source: my own life

and if you're having these thoughts now, just imagine 3.5 years down the line and you're about to graduate. you think these feelings are gonna intensify or just go away at that point?

>>16913890
Thanks, man. You're right; I don't wanna fuck this up. I'm young, so it feels kind of like "this shit never works at this age," but things are going smoothly in the relationship. It seems... atypical of my age group, y'know?

>>16913842
Talk with your parents to make a decision to call the cops on him, or beat him up in the old fashioned way.

Well, if your parents care about the weed obviously just expose/blackmail your brother, but I assume that they either don't care or already know, so what I recommend is to try your best to convince your family to agree to kicking him out. He's a leech that only will leave if forced. it wont be easy to make him leave and there will probably be a huge fight between you all but it's a necessary action. If you're willing to be more extreme you can snitch on him to the cops so he gets arrested for possession of marijuana or something (If it's illegal where you live or he doesn't get it medically/legally) then you have him gone at least, but he'll hate you for it.

>>16913875
>>16913870

Thanks for the replies!

Both of my parents know he smokes to "relieve anxiety and hep with depression" but I'm still skeptical.

I managed to talk to them about kicking him out but they figure he'll be arrested within the week and they'd have to bail him out. He's got almost no friends who would agree to let him stay

>>16913839
i don't think i can give any advice that's that great as i'm in the same boat, but i just wanted to let you know i read it all and i feel for you and i hope it gets better pal. maybe talking to people online like this will be easier to talk about your problems because it's anonymous? could do it regularly

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>>16913901

Thanks for reading man, it's really tough letting it all out. I just feel so isolated from people. Even if I hang out with people on a regular basis, I just never feel that connection between another person and I.

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>>16913901
Wish the best for you as well pal