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I think it might draw more attention to you.

Not sunglasses, but maybe some larger framed clear lens glasses will obscure it enough that nobody will notice.

k ty guys x

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Excuse me for the habitant typo, yes im a fag that camps /b/

>>16917014
>Was this dose too high
yes. a normal dose is bodyweight in kg * 1.5 for males and *1.3 for females

>and what risks come by?
enjoy a week of depression.

oh, by the way, you are an idiot. and since you couldn't even manage to google that shit: do the world a favor and try mixing it with ssris and maois the next time.

>>16917043
Why am I an idiot? Cause I failed to google? Yes I know tmthe average dose, my wonders were about the results of such a dose.

>>16916996
Do you watch I, Claudius, OP? I only read your long ass story because of the Livia pic.

I don't know how to tell you to get over her past. Everyone seems to see sex differently than anyone else. If you view the physical act of sex as more than just that - a physical act - and place emotional value on it where she does not, then she will never be able to understand your discomfort with her sexual history. That said, I do believe you should try to understand where she is coming from if you love her and potentially see a future with her (you said she matches you on everything. That is a very rare thing to find).

>>16916996
Calm down, buddy. You're going to make her life a drag waiting around for you, you're going to bang, she'll find it underwhelming, you'll become obsessed with her and sex, it'll all be bad, you'll start to get jealous of all her exes, she's going to look for satisfaction, and within a year or two one or both of you will cheat on the other. No need for you to write a novel about getting into this type of meme relationship.

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>>16916996

> Thing is, she had five sexual partners before me, whereas I'm a virgin, and not all were strictly boyfriends.

This is something that you suck up and move on with if you EVER want to have a functional relationship with an actual woman.

This insecurity that you young guys have about women being attracted to guys before you is stupid and childish.

You like this girl, you connect with her, you're attracted to her and she's attracted to you. That's all you need to know. The fact that she likes to have sex and has been attracted to people that weren't you is honestly none of your business because she doesn't owe you any purity or chastity, regret, or even an explanation.
I'm not telling you that you should be with a girl who doesn't respect herself or her body but this girl obviously does, and regardless of whether you're a virgin or not, she's a human being and before you came along she wasn't sitting in ivory tower waiting to give her purity to you.

Get over it. Its not important. Don't be a child and get cold feet about an obvious good thing just because you're insecure about the fact that this girl has been attracted to men that weren't you.

The fact that she's willing to be so apologetic to you about having sex with guys before you is a sad state of affairs about her mindset as it is.

You be a fucking man, swallow your pride, look her in the eyes, kiss her, tell her you don't think any less of her and that you're completely fine with it and you focus on your future with this girl, not her past.

>>16916988
Maybe its because you are dating a dolphin. Try dating someone thats your own species

>>16916988
How many girls have you met?


Anyway, you are putting too much emotion into the relationship.

Don't be so clingy, talk to some other girls as friends and it should help you feel more normal.

>>16916988
Easy as fuck senpai, you don't have enough self esteem.

Start liking yourself more. She does, isn't that convincing enough?

>>16916977
Get dick somewhere else.

>>16916989
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>>16916989
Would work if he hadn't given me goddamn herpes, pretty much removing casual sex from my life. But even if that wasn't a problem, I know it would still hurt him and thus I wouldn't do it. My libido isn't that high anyway.

Confidence trumps every single other aspect or facet of a man.

Look at Peter Dinklage for gods sake, the man is a literal midget and he's insanely famous and while his wife isn't the classic supermodel an actor dates, she's nothing to sneeze at.
And do you know why?
Because the man is CONFIDENT. He knows what the fuck he's on about. You could be the most beautiful man in the world but if you're going to be a pansy bitch about some quality of course no woman wants you.

Women are emotional trainwrecks. They look to their man as a source of stability. If you're constantly projecting this "boo hoo I'm so worthless and unlovable because I'm short!" shit then yeah, nobody is gunna be interested.
You can't change it. It doesn't matter. Get the fuck over it and if somebody doesnt like you because you're short, shove your stubby little leg straight up their ass.

>>16916974
A million times this. I have found people 10/10 when they're really 6/10's because of their confidence alone.

Listen, niglet. You have to treat her like any other person. Normal as shit. Get down from fantasy land and lower your expectations with her. Only after so will you be able to have her.

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>>16916927

>I wanted to get to know her more instead of just texting and she basically said no to both times

>do I just keep going my way

I think you have your answer. You'll learn soon enough that people like this will continue to walk all over you as long as you allow it.

She realizes that she has complete control over her relationship with you because she can deny you whenever she wants, talk to you whenever she wants, ignore you whenever she wants and she knows that you're sad and pathetic enough to come back to her like a lost puppy whenever she feels like it.

Shut this bitch down. Stand up for yourself and let everyone know, not just women, that you have some fucking dignity and establish with people that you have an expectation for how you want to be treated.

Its ok, man. I used to be like you. We all did at some point. To her you are just another person she has collected that she can treat however she wants and talk to whenever she feels like it because she knows she doesn't have to put anything into the relationship or even be nice to you for you to come crawling back.

Like I said, shut it down.

just let her go.

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Six feet under

First, you want to make sure that you do nothing to get yourselves in trouble. That is primary.

Now when you say "get rid of" I'm presuming that you just want him to stop hurting your gf and you. Do you know anyone else this person has hurt? You might want to enlist their help or at least talk to them to get information. They might be able to tell you some things that could be useful. But first off don't even consider doing anything that could possibly get you in trouble.

Do you mind me asking what this person did?

>>16916880
>He is an asshole and always pushes his way into her life.
CORRECTION:
>She always allows him to enter her life.
Rape, assault, and harassment can all be stopped with the use of police, restraining orders, and self defense. For your girl to "accidentally" find herself "the victim" of her ex....? Yeah no lol. That's about as bad as:
>OOOOPS, I tripped and fell on his dick!
You've got a weak, useless woman who can't say no. Not my style, no thanks.

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>>16916868

>are my parents controlling? I'm 21 years old.

You are far too old for this to be an issue.

You are a grown man who still has a curfew and gets scolded by his parents. Its fucking sad.

When I was 18 I moved out of my house, crashed on a couch I found on craigslist until I got a shitty job at a tattoo shop and scraped and pounded the pavement every single day until I could afford a place of my own and now I own a car, my own apartment and a successful business.

The only person standing in the way of you moving out of your parents is you. You can come up with all the excuses you want but if you actually wanted to get out from underneath your parents thumb you would of.

It wouldn't be easy, but you could do it.

>They won't let me get a student loan to buy my own stuff

Like this, right here. You're a grown fucking man, dude. They don't LET you? You need to nut the fuck up and start making adult decisions about your life.

Maybe they still treat you like a child because you insist upon still acting like one.

If moving in with your girlfriend is what you have to do to move on with your life you fucking do it. No more excuses. If you don't like your life, you change it. Now.

>>16916913
Fuck, you're right. It's daunting, but it is something I have to consider. My tuition is being paid by my parents, and I'm currently missing two more years before I graduate, so that'll be rough to do. I have to be able to do it somehow, though. You're right.

It's just rough. They question everything I do. But even then, I feel like I can't let go. Fuck, this really sucks. My college has a free psych clinic, so I'm going there for advice also.

If your girlfriend is offering you a place to crash, by all means take it. If your parents 'won't let you get a student loan,' you need to disentangle yourself from them fast. At your age, they should not be involved with your finances at all.

Musician here, look at his SC bio. If he's a small thing on SC sending an email saying what you want and telling him your appreciation for the music it will just be flattering. Just do it, I'd love for something like that to happen to me

>>16916838


>How do you write such an E-Mail (short but filled with enough info so I present myself good)

You're overthinking it. Just send him your art with a short, friendly e-mail and if he doesn't answer back or isn't interested move on to the next project.

If you spend all your time analyzing every approach and every word you expend in trying to pursue your dream of art design you'll narrow your focus too much and not cover enough ground.

If you're confident in your art and your product it will speak for itself and you won't need a calculated speech and presentation to get people to notice you.

Short, to the point, link to the art. That's all.

>>16916850
he has gotten a lot of momentom lately so he's got 60K now.. But thanks, I guess I'll try it like that

>>16916817
Make it your life goal to do nothing.

Self-control.

Achieving worthwhile things is hard. Much easier to sit at home playing video games and masturbating to porn. You gotta have enough self-control to realize that short-term pain means long-term success.

>>16916763
If you don't know do nothing. She'll talk if she wants to talk

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>>16916763

>A girl I work with I'm into said she had a a really bad week and changed her Facebook photo from one with her boyfriend to just her.

Sneaking in like a hyena on a wounded buffalo at the first scent of problems in her relationship is a really shitty, creepy way to pursue a woman.

She knows you're interested but she's not in a position to start anything with you. You don't need to breath over her shoulder and remind her you exist.

She knows you're there. Leave her to deal with her problems without having to deal with you waiting in the bush, ready to pounce the second her relationship starts to fall apart. Its uncouth, my friend.

>>16916841
>>16916796

You guys are 100% right, I just needed to hear someone else say it to assure me it was the best move.

OR, talk me into being stupid.

/adv/ is best board

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>2016
>still smoking cigarettes

>>16916762
>smokes coffin nails
>feels weird

Could be involuntary glottic closure. Try tilting your head upward slightly or inhaling slower. Have you thought about quitting?

>>16916746
grab his balls, and say "Right here"

Don't mix heavy medication with alcohol maybe?

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how "much" of violence is "ok" in the relationship?

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And then she sends me this bullshit over facebook. I know you don't want inane details, /adv/ice, but she knows very well what she did. It was carefully planned and premeditated.

>>16916761
Mail her some glitter. Or a bag of sour dicks.. then punch her stupid face and give her your sexually transmitted diseases.

Dont bring attention to it. Dont spend time or talk with the person outside of any social event you both attend. When u see said person at a social event dont go out of your way to talk to them. If they try to talk with you keep responses short and hard to continue a conversation with. (Think like when u text someone "K") stay civil when you go out. Person cant just stab you in the back and then pretend like they care. Chances are (if you are self respecting) that your relationship will never be what it once was.