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>>16913837
>moving wouldn't change a thing unless I changed myself
I agree with this, that's what I ended up learning. But you're young, find out for yourself.

>>16913837
I can't help you out OP since I'm younger and more of a loser than you but that's a stupid image, living like shit or living great won't matter when you're dead but compared to other mammals humans live for a very long time.

i agree that moving wouldn't change a thing unless you change yourself.
However if you really want to move it's extremely feasible.
Personally i decided to go to college a few years ago but I purposefully chose a small far-away school where I didn't know anyone. I "reinvented" myself and tried new things. Interestingly enough i found that the me I wanted to be wasn't all that different from what i was in my hometown. my personality didn't change much but my mental health definitely improved.
If your're talking form a purely financial standpoint, i would say it's quite doable. my cousin got on a bus with 5 grand and disappeared into rural Texas for a year. when he finally contacted us again he had found a stable job that he really enjoyed at a stockyard.

>>16913832
Sl33p
T1ght
Pupp3r

>>16913832
It's more likely it's a stray or lost than some kind of pedo-trained trap puppy.

>>16913832
Thats how I train my puppies...

Why? Do you have a better idea?

>>16913770
Don't. Tell Adv why you want to kill yourself or reveal yourself to be the bait you probably are.

>>16913779

I don't know how to help people. Or myself. I get these grand ideas in my head about how I could make a difference with some complicated project, then after I start working on it with a clear mind I realize that I didn't really want to help, and just wanted to make myself feel good.

Sleep on it.

>>16913735

*HOLD. I get the urge to hold people's heads under my shitting ass.

>>16913735
You shouldn't be getting diarrhea so often that this is becoming a problem. Fix your health bro.

HELP ME YOU FUCKING YUTZES, ALL OR'LL HOLD YOUR HEADS UNDER MY SHITTING ASS

It's an easy program to use. I mean I do my own taxes by hand, but my parents use it and they, two barely computer-literate baby boomers, have no issues.

>>16913728
How is doing it by hand? I keep reading online it's time consuming and can result in screw-ups. I'd rather go that route if it's free.

Might do TurboTax this year and then do it by hand once I figure it all out.

FreeTaxUSA.com is the one I've used for the past couple yearsr and I like it a lot.

Very simple, probably really similar to Turbotax but this site only charges you $13 for state and it's free for federal.

Just get all your W-2 together from 2015 and fill out the forms. If you can read and write you can do your taxes with this site.

They'll send you reminders too for next year.

Try to initiate something. Don't wait on others to invite you, because at this point they probably just assume that you don't want to go with them (well anon would have asked if he wanted to hang out with us after work, right?).

I don't know what's appropriate after work activities in your industry, but if people usually go out for drinks after work, you could try something like "hey Billy, wanna grab a drink at Pepe's Irish Pub after work on Friday?"

Join the military, that's what I'm doing

>>16913666
you are a NEET and you need to change this, do anything nigga

>>16913857
That's probably the only thing I want to do less than get a job.

>>16913638
One or two? Pretty normal. 5? Excessive

>>16913638
I don't like it

>>16913638
makes you look like a wanna be rockstar

>>16913617
Very true its literally possible to die from a broken heart. I had similar situation to you and I felt ill whenever I thought of the issue instantly had tight chest, felt sick and didnt eat for days. Heart ache is hardest thing to overcome OP and only the strong can survive it. Times will get better and someone that will heal that wound will come into your life sooner or later, just be patient <3 x

I'm reminded of a study where they removed prairie voles from their mates. Those poor voles. Stress and pain levels were through the roof. They didn't even try to swim when put into water.

>>16913748

Thanks for the reassurance, but I don't really plan on letting anything get to this level again. I actually had a death scare a while ago, doctors thought that some bumps on my head were malignant, turned out to be benign. I convinced myself that I was going to be alone, that I was going to never find someone who loved me... And I was fine. And then someone did love me. And it just got worse from there.

Still, it's nice to know I'm not going crazy, thinking that this is because of bullshit emotions.

>>16913610
I assume you're too far away to be able to be there with her when she goes?

I'm sorry, anon. It's never easy. If it makes you feel more accepting of the Facetime thing, my grandparents died in the 90s, on the other side of the country, so I never even got that. I'd say your situation is pretty neat, actually. That's a nice use of technology.

Is there any way you can get to her side to say goodbye in person?

Don't be so hard on yourself, you just have to put yourself out there and ask a lot of girls. Makes odds better. Youre a 8/10

You're pretty good looking honestly.

Cliche as it sounds dating is a numbers game severely stacked in the woman's favor (an attractive woman gets hit on by pretty much every guy in her life and even the ugly ones get a good amount of attention). You just need to keep asking them out. You'll get a "yes" eventually.

>>16913605
My nigga!

Somebody just said you were an 8/10!

On 4chan that's fucking tough cuz these fags are stingy as hell.

But in your picture you're looking like your dog just died. Wtf?

why are you thinking about ending it?

Remember, life changes pretty fast. So do your priorities and personality. Just because you're depressed right now doesn't mean you can't/won't be happy in a few months.

If you're the history major from UK I'm not talking you down again.

Let's be honest OP you're not actually gonna kill yourself. You just like to say that because it makes you feel like you can escape your problems, and you don't ever have to commit to fixing anything in your life.

>>16913596
Adderall does that to me. Music isn't as fun kind of irritating. I just clean instead it's super fun on stims

I had no luck with 5 htp, even after my friend month swears by it made me take it for a month. Some people think it helps, but they are also seem to be the kind of person who do homeopathic medicine.

>>16914027
yeah that's kinda what I'm getting from it.

the only difference i'm really seeing is that I'm peeing more, and have massive gas... though that could also be my post workout protein shake, not sure.

I think I'll give it a fair shake, but it might be going the same way as that b-12 I bought and end up in a drawer.

although i was able to run faster and farther than I really should have today. like by a significant margin.

The best way to find out is to ask her out on a proper date, flirt with her, go in for a kiss.

Don't wait until it's "safe" to initiate, there is always some uncertainty involved, but in your case i'd say odds are in your favor.

So long as to get up and do something about it, that is.

What would be a proper date?

>>16913772
good proper date is maybe to take her to a concert, or dinner, afterwards take her back to your apartment.

idiot...

just fucking kiss her already

Some do. Some chicks like fat guys. I know some hot girls that date tubby, average looking guys. Some chicks like skinny guys. Most chicks like average dudes. Why you asking? Are you buff? I bet you're a fatty.

>>16913582
Yes.

Yes. Not hugely defined roided out muscles though. It'd best when they have that shape that muscles give you but without the actual muscles bulging through.