[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 5901. page

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

File: il_570xN-e1343154681844.jpg (44KB, 448x278px) Image search: [Google]
il_570xN-e1343154681844.jpg
44KB, 448x278px
Hey /adv/ need some late night advice.
>Girlfriend, beloved has severe depressive episodes
>Today while I was at work she had a panic attack and has slipped into a depressive episode
>This one was due to her appearance, most of which was her hair
>She freaked out while having her panic attack and started to try to cut her hair herself but ended up messing it up quite bad
>She wont even show me it
>This depression is on the worse side of the ones i've helped her with
>She isn't talking much, I can tell she's in a world of hell, and has even worse confidence issues with a bad head of hair now
>She had fairly short hair and I think it's now even shorter, like right below a pixe cut
>We are very low on money this month, and I don't know how to help
>What do /adv/?

Any general advice with helping with depression, at this point i'm a veteran at helping, but i'm having a hard time at this point too and i've lost inspiration for help. I've comforted her as much as possible but it all goes in one ear and out the other. Thanks in /adv/ance.
3 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
change of direction well end of thread, found her looking at other guys, gn /adv/ time to start a whole new adventure, fuck life.
>>
>>16914739
Where was she looking? On The phone? Maybe wasnt for romantic interest

File: 1429376231720.jpg (23KB, 429x410px) Image search: [Google]
1429376231720.jpg
23KB, 429x410px
Does anyone else come to /adv/ and just look at the pictures?
3 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
Sometimes I reply to a thread based purely on the pic used. This is an example of such.
>>
File: 1456285074205.jpg (170KB, 572x612px) Image search: [Google]
1456285074205.jpg
170KB, 572x612px
Sometimes I post them

I have made a contract with my current employer lasting until certain date. However I got offered another place, higher salary, different location abroad and generally a great opportunity. I'm not sure if I'm perfectly qualified for the job though, but however they wanna hire me. This would look good in my CV, whereas my current job isn't even related with my major.

My current boss and I have become pretty close. (I mean in a friendly way, I'm a female too.) She needs me and by leaving I'd leave her in trouble and give a bad impression.

So basically I'm asking, whether I should take the offered position leaving my boss in trouble? It would be good for me career and pay me more, but I'm not sure if I'm good enough...
9 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Well this is an interesting situation. When are you required to provide an answer by/do you think your could provide your old boss with sufficient notice and support?
>>
>>16914551
I could tell her a month beforehand, but still I'd be breaking the deal we had.
>>
Do not feel loyalty to an employer, ever. No matter what, they can kick you to the curb without warning.

File: images (65).jpg (11KB, 202x249px) Image search: [Google]
images (65).jpg
11KB, 202x249px
Is penis enlargement possible what are methods or surgery that won't take years I'm 18 and have a 3.5 inch penis erect I don't think I can live with this the rest of my life.
7 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>16914519
All you ever hear are broken penises after taking pills or stretching.
>>
>>16914519
I know nothing about pills but I heard that most are scams, stretching techniques haven't been proven safe or effective. Surgery is the best option but procedures are quite invasive, there can be risky complications and recovery can be very painful.
>>
>>16914519
Have you tried jelqing? If not then you should because you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain. Just don't death grip your shit.

File: dsa.png (3KB, 130x127px) Image search: [Google]
dsa.png
3KB, 130x127px
Can you guys give me signs on how to find out if a lady likes you (Based on your experience)
12 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>16914516
Ask her.
>>
>>16914531
She send me mixed signals that she likes me and sometimes ignoring me like i didn't exist. Also one time she asked me to answer her book and i know that she knows the answer to it when she gave me the book it has a paper on it saying "trust me, I love you" didn't know how to react that day, What do you think should i do? I'm good at talking to friends but not with the girl i like.
>>
>>16914543
>trust me, I love you
These words were written? Really?

File: khajit has wares.png (936KB, 610x813px) Image search: [Google]
khajit has wares.png
936KB, 610x813px
How do you know if you found "the one"? How do you define "the one" as? Have you ever thought you found such a person and had it work out/not work out in the end? Did it change your assessment of "the one"?

Some guy who lives halfway across the world" - two guys, in fact - have both come out and declared that I would be "the one". I do not know these people outside of the internet. I don't know what they are basing their decision off of.
9 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>16914511
"The one " is someone who you are prepared to be with and make sacrifices for for the rest of your life.
You have to be ready at the same time and be on the same page regarding career, lifestyle choice, kids etc
I don't think any can know who" the one " is until it's already happening.
>>
File: desert-thirst.gif (82KB, 503x335px) Image search: [Google]
desert-thirst.gif
82KB, 503x335px
>>16914511
> I don't know what they are basing their decision off of
> internet
They're thirsty motherfuckers who can smell your green card.

Seriously, is this even a question?
>>
>>16914528
lel

File: flip women.jpg (407KB, 1600x1200px) Image search: [Google]
flip women.jpg
407KB, 1600x1200px
Does giving money to people to help them pay for college count as donations and can be claimed on taxes?

I like helping friends from overseas pay for college but lately I've been thinking I should probably use this on my taxes next time around.

How do I do this?
9 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
Unless your friends operate a government recognised charity, no, those do not count as "donations" and cannot be claimed as taxes. While yes theoretically you could write up on your tax returns as they are donations and do not actually have to provide proof unless and until your tax returns are being audited, I do not recommend this.

I would recommend setting some kind of arrangement up with a religious organisation you are a part of/friendly with to set up a fund for these overseas students and paying money through that fund.
>>
>>16914502
thanks this is the kind of answer I'm looking for
>>
File: fp.jpg (31KB, 500x314px) Image search: [Google]
fp.jpg
31KB, 500x314px
>>16914492
> I like helping friends from overseas pay for college
Please tell me you don't send money to some Philipino girl you found over the Internet

File: Screenshot_51.png (184KB, 442x270px) Image search: [Google]
Screenshot_51.png
184KB, 442x270px
My dick is 6-6.5 inches and I just tried Ansell regular condoms and they don't fit my dick, they are too tight? What size do I go for?
11 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>16914423
You probably put it on wrong.
>>
>>16914423
So wait - how don't they fit?

Is it too long, too short, or too tight around the girth?
>>
>>16914423
too tight or?? what's your girth.

I'm 7.5 with maybe 5in girth(pencil dick) and trojan magnums seem tight as fuck. I'm guessing that's how they are supposed to fit.

File: 1432255501244.gif (307KB, 500x275px) Image search: [Google]
1432255501244.gif
307KB, 500x275px
Should i pursue my dream even though i'm fully aware that it's very unrealistic and unlikely to happen?
9 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Probably not. You will probably fail. Better to do something you don't really want the rest of your life.

Good luck.
>>
Well what is your dream and what is the path you need to take to achieve that dream? Do you think you can compromise on the level of success or results you gather from said dream?

Say your dream is winning the lottery - I would say unless you have like, $50k to throw into buying virtually all the syndicate tickets, it is unlikely for you to have a guaranteed win at the lottery.

Say your dream is to become a member of a band - are you happy with compromising at the thought of a weekend garage band that mostly plays covers of other hits?

Say that your dream is to become a doctor or lawyer but you don't have the marks to go to med/law school. Is it reasonable or expedient for you to put your life on hold for the next 2-3 years trying to launder those marks? Or would you be happier entering into a related career like nursing?
>>
>>16914428
I want to become a world class musician but judging by how many there already are, it seems unlikely

File: 1378605826395.jpg (226KB, 700x700px) Image search: [Google]
1378605826395.jpg
226KB, 700x700px
What language is best if I want a job as a code monkey? Javascript seems to pop up a lot in job ads, but I'd like another opinion.
I'm familiar with c# (from using Unity for a few years), and bits and pieces of other minor languages.
3 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
From what I've heard there is no best language. Some programming languages will always be in demand and have more job opportunity than others. I think Javascript is a safe programming language but so is Java. I've heard Javascript being criticised for being less easier to write and correct than Java.
>>
>>16914400
Japanese

File: 1457945210296.jpg (229KB, 2512x1408px) Image search: [Google]
1457945210296.jpg
229KB, 2512x1408px
>I'll never have a girlfriend.

How do you get over this /adv/?
34 posts and 3 images submitted.
>>
>>16914388
Get a boyfriend.
>>
Date a trap. Similarish.
>>
>>16914388
Why not practice secular mindfulness?

Don't worry about what you think the future holds, because you really don't know. Just enjoy the moment and stop crying about shit.

File: Cheating.jpg (122KB, 1024x682px) Image search: [Google]
Cheating.jpg
122KB, 1024x682px
Has there ever been mutual attraction between you and a friend's gf/bf? Did you act on it? How did you deal with it? Any advice to someone in that situation now?
13 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>16914382
Never act on those feelings, if you value your friend. It won't end well for anyone involved.
>>
I have before. Me and my mate's girlfriend had palpable chemistry. The only reason they were together was because they met first. Almost immediately his girlfriend and I decided we should be together. It took another two weeks for her to work up the courage to dump my mate, but we were able to get together after that.

He didn't take it well, but he should have been happy that I found someone that made me happy, and that made her truly happy.

So, it depends on the situation. Usually don't poke around a mate's girl, but sometimes it must be done.
>>
>>16914393
You sound like a real homewrecker.

File: hand resting.jpg (101KB, 338x507px) Image search: [Google]
hand resting.jpg
101KB, 338x507px
I was about to go to bed and was reclining on my side with my elbow on the bed and anchoring my hand on my face for some time when i noticed the side of my face fell asleep, was tingling and felt like it was sagging slightly at the cheek. This is the side of my face that i had been recllining on wiht my hand for a few minutes.my arm was also asleep. I freaked out, jumped ou of bed and puled out my phone ready to call 911 but wasnt sure if this was a stroke or not. Gradually over the next 30 seconds or so the tingling began to subside and blood was rushing back down to the rest of my bod. the tingling slowly left and i could feel my arm and move my face again. But I have no idea whether this was a mild stroke or not. I can walk around and move and everything but im not sure what that was and i cant find anything about it on the internet. I've heard of younger people suffering from mild strokes too and I'm worried to the point where I cant go to sleep now for fear of a stroke or something. I am 21 years old. Please help
15 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
Ask a doctor. I never had that happen to my face, no matter how or for how long I rested it on my hand.
>>
Could be a neurological disorder. See a doctor, maybe ask GP for a referral to neurologist.
>>
Thank you for replying. you put me at ease slightly. I'll talk to someone about it tomorrow for sure. Is it safe to go to bed though?

Hey I need a slap of reality here


>Be 210 pounds
>Not handsome
>bad hair, shitty clothes

I was chatting up a girl today and she was flirting back with me?

I'm confident by myself but physically rekt, thinning hair ect
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>16914371
she might like you, she might not.

if you think you will see her again, make sure you're wearing nicer clothes next time. also talk to your barber asap and see if you can get a more flattering cut. they may be able to make it so your hair doesn't look so thin.

File: CaraDelevingne3.jpg (125KB, 600x702px) Image search: [Google]
CaraDelevingne3.jpg
125KB, 600x702px
Sup /adv/, /fit/ reporting in.
I'm Asian, I've had a qt Asian gf for about 2 years now (I personally have never really been attracted to Asians, but from the # of guys that try to flirt with her, she's probably a 9.5, though I'd put her closer to 8). She is literally the nicest person I have ever met in my entire life, and no one has ever treated me better than she has. She's essentially ideal wife material: great cook, genuinely a good person, loyal, loves me unconditionally, and sucks dick virtually on command. But, we don't share similar hobbies, she's not very interested in what im interested in, and although she's 'smart', she's not one for intellectual conversation, and she is sometimes boring.

However, I've just recently met this Polish chick on a uni trip, and I am ridiculously attracted to her. (10/10 looks imo, smart, funny..etc) and I know she is into me as well + shes asked me to hang out a couple times now.
But, she has a boyfriend, and I have a girlfriend. I once brought up I had a gf, but since then, I have not mentioned it, and I know she isn't sure if I have one, because she keeps trying to ask me. I have deflected it many times, but I know she is going to ask again. What should I say to her? I'm not one to cheat, nor do i think she is either.
This isn't the case of gf. vs. 1 night stand.
I love my gf, but this girl is also girlfriend material.
2 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Decide what you want. You sound like you aren't into your girlfriend if you want to jump up the Polish chicks cunt.

It's okay to want to date other people. It's okay to realize that when you're abroad; lots of people do.

Not every girl you date is the girl you will spend your life with.

Pages: [First page] [Previous page] [5891] [5892] [5893] [5894] [5895] [5896] [5897] [5898] [5899] [5900] [5901] [5902] [5903] [5904] [5905] [5906] [5907] [5908] [5909] [5910] [5911] [Next page] [Last page]

[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.